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I know other single fems have similar problems when they want to meet - I could get ten meets today as long as I don't have to fancy them!
Just thought I'd share the joy - all those posts from guys complaining about no meets, here's how it is for the other half!  | |||
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"Here I am, the elusive single female looking for a meet - got lots of free time at the moment so thought I'd have some fun. And the only ones who are appealing to me can't meet till the weekend.
I know other single fems have similar problems when they want to meet - I could get ten meets today as long as I don't have to fancy them!
Just thought I'd share the joy - all those posts from guys complaining about no meets, here's how it is for the other half! "You are not alone hun  tad frustrating !! But could be worse !! | |||
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"Why thank you for opening my eyes to the plight of the under sexed horny single women! I would have never know that such a predicament would exsist. Are there many of you on this site? I'm thinking of setting up a support group on your behalf. Please mail, if you think this would help or be of interest "A support group is all well and good but it wouldn't even be local!
Mind you a chap wanted to drive up from London for a coffee... | |||
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"If you don't mind driving down here, I'll slip you a length "Picky person that I am I had hoped for a local fittie.  | |||
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"And the only ones who are appealing to me can't meet till the weekend.
I know other single fems have similar problems when they want to meet - I could get ten meets today as long as I don't have to fancy them!"I wish I could have a weekend meet. For some reason they happen at weekdays, with subsequent time restraints. | |||
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"And the only ones who are appealing to me can't meet till the weekend.
I know other single fems have similar problems when they want to meet - I could get ten meets today as long as I don't have to fancy them!
I wish I could have a weekend meet.
For some reason they happen at weekdays, with subsequent time restraints."That's often cos they have 'other commitments' on evenings and weekends. I'm beginning to suspect not all the single men on here are really single!  | |||
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"If you don't mind driving down here, I'll slip you a length
Picky person that I am I had hoped for a local fittie. "Hehe, I'm fittie juggling this week....it's a numbers game I reckon! | |||
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"If you don't mind driving down here, I'll slip you a length
Picky person that I am I had hoped for a local fittie. "Well don't say I didn't offer! | |||
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"If you don't mind driving down here, I'll slip you a length
Picky person that I am I had hoped for a local fittie.
Well don't say I didn't offer! "This is the reason for my whinge - the suitable (ie not only do I fancy them but they are also local and manage to send a coherent civil message) guys are all unable to meet today. | |||
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"And the only ones who are appealing to me can't meet till the weekend.
I know other single fems have similar problems when they want to meet - I could get ten meets today as long as I don't have to fancy them!
I wish I could have a weekend meet.
For some reason they happen at weekdays, with subsequent time restraints.
That's often cos they have 'other commitments' on evenings and weekends. I'm beginning to suspect not all the single men on here are really single! "Yes, there's that, but mainly it's more to do with long distance and their social lives being elsewhere; being a weekend father, things like that. Yes, I could have the easy meets, but I want to stay true to my preferences, which makes it harder. Ah well. | |||
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"Here I am, the elusive single female looking for a meet - got lots of free time at the moment so thought I'd have some fun. And the only ones who are appealing to me can't meet till the weekend.
I know other single fems have similar problems when they want to meet - I could get ten meets today as long as I don't have to fancy them!
Just thought I'd share the joy - all those posts from guys complaining about no meets, here's how it is for the other half! "always the way hun such a pain in the patella | |||
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"And the only ones who are appealing to me can't meet till the weekend.
I know other single fems have similar problems when they want to meet - I could get ten meets today as long as I don't have to fancy them!
I wish I could have a weekend meet.
For some reason they happen at weekdays, with subsequent time restraints.
That's often cos they have 'other commitments' on evenings and weekends. I'm beginning to suspect not all the single men on here are really single! "No !!! That can't be right !!! Don't believe it !!! They wouldn't lie just to get a shag surely !! | |||
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"And the only ones who are appealing to me can't meet till the weekend.
I know other single fems have similar problems when they want to meet - I could get ten meets today as long as I don't have to fancy them!
I wish I could have a weekend meet.
For some reason they happen at weekdays, with subsequent time restraints.
That's often cos they have 'other commitments' on evenings and weekends. I'm beginning to suspect not all the single men on here are really single!
Yes, there's that, but mainly it's more to do with long distance and their social lives being elsewhere; being a weekend father, things like that.
Yes, I could have the easy meets, but I want to stay true to my preferences, which makes it harder. Ah well."Which sums it up for most of us single ladies who are ready and willing to meet - insist on a bloke we actually fancy or just meet whoever messages. Which could explain why instead of getting glammed up and putting on sexy lingerie under a nice frock for a hopeful coffee meet I have retired to my bed with a book, a cat, some chocolate and fab. | |||
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"And the only ones who are appealing to me can't meet till the weekend.
I know other single fems have similar problems when they want to meet - I could get ten meets today as long as I don't have to fancy them!
I wish I could have a weekend meet.
For some reason they happen at weekdays, with subsequent time restraints.
That's often cos they have 'other commitments' on evenings and weekends. I'm beginning to suspect not all the single men on here are really single!
No !!! That can't be right !!! Don't believe it !!! They wouldn't lie just to get a shag surely !! "I'm starting to think that maybe one or two might be fibbing! | |||
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"Why thank you for opening my eyes to the plight of the under sexed horny single women! I would have never know that such a predicament would exsist. Are there many of you on this site? I'm thinking of setting up a support group on your behalf. Please mail, if you think this would help or be of interest
A support group is all well and good but it wouldn't even be local!
Mind you a chap wanted to drive up from London for a coffee... "Have you seen the price of coffee in London? That might have been a cost saving exercise on his behalf | |||
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"And the only ones who are appealing to me can't meet till the weekend.
I know other single fems have similar problems when they want to meet - I could get ten meets today as long as I don't have to fancy them!
I wish I could have a weekend meet.
For some reason they happen at weekdays, with subsequent time restraints.
That's often cos they have 'other commitments' on evenings and weekends. I'm beginning to suspect not all the single men on here are really single!
No !!! That can't be right !!! Don't believe it !!! They wouldn't lie just to get a shag surely !!
I'm starting to think that maybe one or two might be fibbing! "I'm shocked !! And there was me thinking I was the most beautiful women on fab too!!!!!   | |||
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"Here I am, the elusive single female looking for a meet - got lots of free time at the moment so thought I'd have some fun. And the only ones who are appealing to me can't meet till the weekend.
I know other single fems have similar problems when they want to meet - I could get ten meets today as long as I don't have to fancy them!
Just thought I'd share the joy - all those posts from guys complaining about no meets, here's how it is for the other half! "I'm in exactly the same position this week! Last weekend was the first full weekend I have had free since March and my meet fell through. Other social meets arrange for this week have also fallen through. Got a free weekend this weekend and it looks like nothings going to happen. Of course, the minute I start back at work, my guys will be available | |||
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"I'm in exactly the same position this week! Last weekend was the first full weekend I have had free since March and my meet fell through. Other social meets arrange for this week have also fallen through. Got a free weekend this weekend and it looks like nothings going to happen. Of course, the minute I start back at work, my guys will be available "Sad as that is, I am somehow heartened that I'm not the only one. I hope your weekend will be a pleasant one nevertheless  | |||
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"The first support group is now open, I'm happy to cover a fifty miles radius." Add another 250 and I might consider it. | |||
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"I'm in exactly the same position this week! Last weekend was the first full weekend I have had free since March and my meet fell through. Other social meets arrange for this week have also fallen through. Got a free weekend this weekend and it looks like nothings going to happen. Of course, the minute I start back at work, my guys will be available
Sad as that is, I am somehow heartened that I'm not the only one.
I hope your weekend will be a pleasant one nevertheless "See, it's a common occurrence! All these horny women who want to meet actually in the flesh with accurate pics, all their own teeth and who are not only intelligent enough to spell hygiene but also practice it and we can't get meets! | |||
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"The first support group is now open, I'm happy to cover a fifty miles radius. Add another 250 and I might consider it." One man many talents, perhaps I should look into cloning this may solve the problem | |||
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"I'm in exactly the same position this week! Last weekend was the first full weekend I have had free since March and my meet fell through. Other social meets arrange for this week have also fallen through. Got a free weekend this weekend and it looks like nothings going to happen. Of course, the minute I start back at work, my guys will be available
Sad as that is, I am somehow heartened that I'm not the only one.
I hope your weekend will be a pleasant one nevertheless
See, it's a common occurrence! All these horny women who want to meet actually in the flesh with accurate pics, all their own teeth and who are not only intelligent enough to spell hygiene but also practice it and we can't get meets! "Shit happens...have some patience. Or hire a stunt cock. | |||
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I like it, may I borrow that.
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"See, it's a common occurrence! All these horny women who want to meet actually in the flesh with accurate pics, all their own teeth and who are not only intelligent enough to spell hygiene but also practice it and we can't get meets! "Erm - I didn't say I couldn't get any meets, it's just that I'd prefer to have long and leisurely ones, preferably over a weekend. | |||
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"I'm in exactly the same position this week! See, it's a common occurrence! All these horny women who want to meet actually in the flesh with accurate pics, all their own teeth and who are not only intelligent enough to spell hygiene but also practice it and we can't get meets! Shit happens...have some patience. Or hire a stunt cock. "Gissa lend of yours then! | |||
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"I'm in exactly the same position this week! See, it's a common occurrence! All these horny women who want to meet actually in the flesh with accurate pics, all their own teeth and who are not only intelligent enough to spell hygiene but also practice it and we can't get meets! Shit happens...have some patience. Or hire a stunt cock.
Gissa lend of yours then! "Well there is only thing that's worse than a single male whinging they cant get meets...... | |||
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"I'm in exactly the same position this week! See, it's a common occurrence! All these horny women who want to meet actually in the flesh with accurate pics, all their own teeth and who are not only intelligent enough to spell hygiene but also practice it and we can't get meets! Shit happens...have some patience. Or hire a stunt cock.
Gissa lend of yours then! Well there is only thing that's worse than a single male whinging they cant get meets......"Meets I can get. Quality meets is the problem... I have this little thing about wanting to lust after my meets. Picky, picky, picky, that's me. | |||
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"I'm in exactly the same position this week! See, it's a common occurrence! All these horny women who want to meet actually in the flesh with accurate pics, all their own teeth and who are not only intelligent enough to spell hygiene but also practice it and we can't get meets! Shit happens...have some patience. Or hire a stunt cock.
Gissa lend of yours then! Well there is only thing that's worse than a single male whinging they cant get meets......
Meets I can get.
Quality meets is the problem... I have this little thing about wanting to lust after my meets. Picky, picky, picky, that's me. "Maybe you need to live less up to your name at times, it puts the decent ones off. | |||
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"Ooooh handbags! "Not at all.....just playing Devils Advocate.  | |||
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"I'm in exactly the same position this week! See, it's a common occurrence! All these horny women who want to meet actually in the flesh with accurate pics, all their own teeth and who are not only intelligent enough to spell hygiene but also practice it and we can't get meets! Shit happens...have some patience. Or hire a stunt cock.
Gissa lend of yours then! Well there is only thing that's worse than a single male whinging they cant get meets......
Meets I can get.
Quality meets is the problem... I have this little thing about wanting to lust after my meets. Picky, picky, picky, that's me. Maybe you need to live less up to your name at times, it puts the decent ones off."I only get bitchy if I get offensive messages or messages totally ignoring my preferences or requests. I have sent a lot of polite refusals today to very pleasant men who simply don't float my boat. | |||
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"I'm in exactly the same position this week! See, it's a common occurrence! All these horny women who want to meet actually in the flesh with accurate pics, all their own teeth and who are not only intelligent enough to spell hygiene but also practice it and we can't get meets! Shit happens...have some patience. Or hire a stunt cock.
Gissa lend of yours then! Well there is only thing that's worse than a single male whinging they cant get meets......
Meets I can get.
Quality meets is the problem... I have this little thing about wanting to lust after my meets. Picky, picky, picky, that's me. Maybe you need to live less up to your name at times, it puts the decent ones off.
I only get bitchy if I get offensive messages or messages totally ignoring my preferences or requests. I have sent a lot of polite refusals today to very pleasant men who simply don't float my boat."Well thats all good then. | |||
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"Now now Calm down. Look it will take me a while to get the cloning sorted out, may struggle with the medical permits
"Have to say, little bugbear: being told to calm down!
If I'm not calm there's generally a good reason and if I am calm then it's just plain patronizing. | |||
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"I'm in exactly the same position this week! Last weekend was the first full weekend I have had free since March and my meet fell through. Other social meets arrange for this week have also fallen through. Got a free weekend this weekend and it looks like nothings going to happen. Of course, the minute I start back at work, my guys will be available
Sad as that is, I am somehow heartened that I'm not the only one.
I hope your weekend will be a pleasant one nevertheless
See, it's a common occurrence! All these horny women who want to meet actually in the flesh with accurate pics, all their own teeth and who are not only intelligent enough to spell hygiene but also practice it and we can't get meets! " | |||
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"My Calm down was purely for comedy effect. "Yeah. Funny that. | |||
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"Have you tried "meet today"?" Considered it but have had an influx just from my status update. My do so tomorrow if the offers don't improve. | |||
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"oh dear lets turn that frown upside down "I have to give it to you on this top humour and you deal well with irritability directed at you well. | |||
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"If you don't mind driving down here, I'll slip you a length
Picky person that I am I had hoped for a local fittie.
Well don't say I didn't offer!
This is the reason for my whinge - the suitable (ie not only do I fancy them but they are also local and manage to send a coherent civil message) guys are all unable to meet today. "that whole work/life balance thing is a real shit isnt it? not that im local, or fit, but in the week i work nights, so midweek meets are out anyway, whether i was single or not, so just cuz they cant meet in the week doesnt mean it because they have a missus demanding they tile the bathroom, or give them a foot rub. some may be trying to keep a roof over their heads. | |||
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"Here I am, the elusive single female looking for a meet - got lots of free time at the moment so thought I'd have some fun. And the only ones who are appealing to me can't meet till the weekend.
I know other single fems have similar problems when they want to meet - I could get ten meets today as long as I don't have to fancy them!
Just thought I'd share the joy - all those posts from guys complaining about no meets, here's how it is for the other half! "Yes chuckling bunny I'm sorry I wasn't available
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"oh dear lets turn that frown upside down
I have to give it to you on this top humour and you deal well with irritability directed at you well. "Hate to break it to you beefy but I don't think you're his type, and he has a 50 mile limit. 
And for the record I'm not irritable I'm grumpy. And yes, sexual frustration is possibly a contributing factor. At which point I'll refer you back to my OP. | |||
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"oh dear lets turn that frown upside down
I have to give it to you on this top humour and you deal well with irritability directed at you well. "Stayed calm under fire | |||
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"oh dear lets turn that frown upside down
I have to give it to you on this top humour and you deal well with irritability directed at you well.
Hate to break it to you beefy but I don't think you're his type, and he has a 50 mile limit.
And for the record I'm not irritable I'm grumpy. And yes, sexual frustration is possibly a contributing factor. At which point I'll refer you back to my OP. "Out of interest how many guys have you sent out first contact messages to so far? Its intriguing as guys can send out 200+ with no joy. | |||
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"Hey Beefy You might not of noticed but we maybe slightly out numbered, I suggest a slow tactical approach, ill cover your six "What messerschmitts at 9 o'clock? | |||
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Sorry TBL - it's mostly work, honest!
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"Hey Beefy You might not of noticed but we maybe slightly out numbered, I suggest a slow tactical approach, ill cover your six
What messerschmitts at 9 o'clock?"Yes but they are clearly disguised as horny single women | |||
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"Hey Beefy You might not of noticed but we maybe slightly out numbered, I suggest a slow tactical approach, ill cover your six
What messerschmitts at 9 o'clock?
Yes but they are clearly disguised as horny single women "Horny is just a state of mind give me a steak pasty any day. | |||
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"oh dear lets turn that frown upside down
I have to give it to you on this top humour and you deal well with irritability directed at you well.
Hate to break it to you beefy but I don't think you're his type, and he has a 50 mile limit.
And for the record I'm not irritable I'm grumpy. And yes, sexual frustration is possibly a contributing factor. At which point I'll refer you back to my OP.
Out of interest how many guys have you sent out first contact messages to so far? Its intriguing as guys can send out 200+ with no joy."I am one of the fab users who replies to every message except the obscene and offensive. And I only get bitchy with the numpties who disregard my preferences or who say stupid things. Since I changed my status today I have had about 50 offers so far. A couple were possibles but can't meet today so have been banked for future reference. Many were not remotely my type but if the sent a pleasant message got a polite refusal. The nearlys got asked for a face pic and then got a polite no thanks. This means I have checked out nearly 50 profiles, reading them all and taken part in nearly 50 conversations, some lasting around ten messages. And I've been on here for a whittle, posted on a couple of other threads and also posted a slew of advice for a single guy asking for tips. I have messaged a couple of men out of the blue but they are both not local, I just noticed them on threads and thought phwoar and sent a message saying that - I like to perv but I also like to give credit where it's due. So no, I haven't been sending out lots of "wanna meet" messages. | |||
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"oh dear lets turn that frown upside down
I have to give it to you on this top humour and you deal well with irritability directed at you well.
Hate to break it to you beefy but I don't think you're his type, and he has a 50 mile limit.
And for the record I'm not irritable I'm grumpy. And yes, sexual frustration is possibly a contributing factor. At which point I'll refer you back to my OP.
Out of interest how many guys have you sent out first contact messages to so far? Its intriguing as guys can send out 200+ with no joy.
I am one of the fab users who replies to every message except the obscene and offensive. And I only get bitchy with the numpties who disregard my preferences or who say stupid things.
Since I changed my status today I have had about 50 offers so far. A couple were possibles but can't meet today so have been banked for future reference. Many were not remotely my type but if the sent a pleasant message got a polite refusal.
The nearlys got asked for a face pic and then got a polite no thanks.
This means I have checked out nearly 50 profiles, reading them all and taken part in nearly 50 conversations, some lasting around ten messages.
And I've been on here for a whittle, posted on a couple of other threads and also posted a slew of advice for a single guy asking for tips.
I have messaged a couple of men out of the blue but they are both not local, I just noticed them on threads and thought phwoar and sent a message saying that - I like to perv but I also like to give credit where it's due.
So no, I haven't been sending out lots of "wanna meet" messages. "Then what do you expect? If you dont ask you dont get its not hard to message guys in the first place don't tell me your one of those who doesn't reach out for a slice of cake but will nibble on the crumbs left on the plate? | |||
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" I have messaged a couple of men out of the blue but they are both not local, I just noticed them on threads and thought phwoar and sent a message saying that - I like to perv but I also like to give credit where it's due. "Oh I do that too. There is nothing nicer when you see a profile and think WOW and it puts a smile on your face big style! | |||
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" Then what do you expect? If you dont ask you dont get its not hard to message guys in the first place don't tell me your one of those who doesn't reach out for a slice of cake but will nibble on the crumbs left on the plate?" I don't think that was called for. The OP has said clearly what her position is. Nothing wrong with being fussy and knowing exactly what you want. Yes shit happens and we all deal with it, but it is good to talk to other Fabsters to get stuff off our chests. Hopefully without having to put up with snide, sarcastic remarks. | |||
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" Then what do you expect? If you dont ask you dont get its not hard to message guys in the first place don't tell me your one of those who doesn't reach out for a slice of cake but will nibble on the crumbs left on the plate? I don't think that was called for. The OP has said clearly what her position is. Nothing wrong with being fussy and knowing exactly what you want. Yes shit happens and we all deal with it, but it is good to talk to other Fabsters to get stuff off our chests. Hopefully without having to put up with snide, sarcastic remarks. "but surely, the best way to get contact from those you have a preference for, is to go looking for them. | |||
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" Then what do you expect? If you dont ask you dont get its not hard to message guys in the first place don't tell me your one of those who doesn't reach out for a slice of cake but will nibble on the crumbs left on the plate? I don't think that was called for. The OP has said clearly what her position is. Nothing wrong with being fussy and knowing exactly what you want. Yes shit happens and we all deal with it, but it is good to talk to other Fabsters to get stuff off our chests. Hopefully without having to put up with snide, sarcastic remarks. "He has got a point, lots of women never initiate contact and just wait for it to come to them. But he also didn't get the point of my previous post which was an attempt to explain that I haven't had much time to browse. I've just been for a browse and have to say I wasn't awfully inspired - on page one all the possibles I've had contact with before and either declined, blocked or they can't meet today. | |||
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" Then what do you expect? If you dont ask you dont get its not hard to message guys in the first place don't tell me your one of those who doesn't reach out for a slice of cake but will nibble on the crumbs left on the plate? I don't think that was called for. The OP has said clearly what her position is. Nothing wrong with being fussy and knowing exactly what you want. Yes shit happens and we all deal with it, but it is good to talk to other Fabsters to get stuff off our chests. Hopefully without having to put up with snide, sarcastic remarks.
but surely, the best way to get contact from those you have a preference for, is to go looking for them."I don't disagree with that at all and is a much better way of putting it! | |||
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"Looks like you'll be coming to the club on Friday then BL ......... you can play eeenie meeenie miny mo with the single guys!! (I'll lend you a bag if the body's fit but the face isn't!!)" LOL! | |||
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"I have messaged a couple of men out of the blue but they are both not local, I just noticed them on threads and thought phwoar and sent a message saying that - I like to perv but I also like to give credit where it's due. So no, I haven't been sending out lots of "wanna meet" messages. "
I tend to do that, too. When I spot a really good profile, even if I'm not within their parameters, age-, distance-, or otherwise, I send a short message to convey my appreciation of their prose. Nowt wrong with that, and it means a nice opener if/when we ever meet at a social.  | |||
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"Why thank you for opening my eyes to the plight of the under sexed horny single women! I would have never know that such a predicament would exsist. Are there many of you on this site? I'm thinking of setting up a support group on your behalf. Please mail, if you think this would help or be of interest
A support group is all well and good but it wouldn't even be local!
Mind you a chap wanted to drive up from London for a coffee...
Have you seen the price of coffee in London? That might have been a cost saving exercise on his behalf " | |||
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" Then what do you expect? If you dont ask you dont get its not hard to message guys in the first place don't tell me your one of those who doesn't reach out for a slice of cake but will nibble on the crumbs left on the plate? I don't think that was called for. The OP has said clearly what her position is. Nothing wrong with being fussy and knowing exactly what you want. Yes shit happens and we all deal with it, but it is good to talk to other Fabsters to get stuff off our chests. Hopefully without having to put up with snide, sarcastic remarks. "Actually I thought he was spot on. If this had been a single male post he'd have been told to get a life in no uncertain terms! Getting wound up for lack of a fuck is ridiculous, no matter the gender! | |||
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" Actually I thought he was spot on. If this had been a single male post he'd have been told to get a life in no uncertain terms! Getting wound up for lack of a fuck is ridiculous, no matter the gender!" | |||
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"Here I am, the elusive single female looking for a meet - got lots of free time at the moment so thought I'd have some fun. And the only ones who are appealing to me can't meet till the weekend.
I know other single fems have similar problems when they want to meet - I could get ten meets today as long as I don't have to fancy them!
Just thought I'd share the joy - all those posts from guys complaining about no meets, here's how it is for the other half! "I feel your pain I've said all along, it isn't easier for women. | |||
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"I tend to do that, too. When I spot a really good profile, even if I'm not within their parameters, age-, distance-, or otherwise, I send a short message to convey my appreciation of their prose. Nowt wrong with that, and it means a nice opener if/when we ever meet at a social. "Polite irony intended here but have you seen the almost hourly whinging threads started by the Sisterhood questioning the scandal that is the 'How Dare that Male Pond Life Scumbag' contact me when it clearly states in my profile I don't want his sort speaking to me ever ever ever, foor stamp and squeal | |||
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"Here I am, the elusive single female looking for a meet - got lots of free time at the moment so thought I'd have some fun. And the only ones who are appealing to me can't meet till the weekend.
I know other single fems have similar problems when they want to meet - I could get ten meets today as long as I don't have to fancy them!
Just thought I'd share the joy - all those posts from guys complaining about no meets, here's how it is for the other half! "I know, it's typical isn't it...Weeks of messages from guys who don't bother to read your profile or who's conversational skills consist of "how are you", "what you up to?" wanna meet bbe!". I started looking at the weekend for a meet tomorrow and am very excited to be meeting a thoroughly devious bloke tomorrow who I had infact messaged last year but due to one thing and another, we never did meet... Keep looking Librarian, I hope you find someone suitable soon! | |||
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"Here I am, the elusive single female looking for a meet - got lots of free time at the moment so thought I'd have some fun. And the only ones who are appealing to me can't meet till the weekend.
I know other single fems have similar problems when they want to meet - I could get ten meets today as long as I don't have to fancy them!
Just thought I'd share the joy - all those posts from guys complaining about no meets, here's how it is for the other half! "I know, it's typical isn't it...Weeks of messages from guys who don't bother to read your profile or who's conversational skills consist of "how are you", "what you up to?" wanna meet bbe!". I started looking at the weekend for a meet tomorrow and am very excited to be meeting a thoroughly devious bloke tomorrow who I had infact messaged last year but due to one thing and another, we never did meet... Keep looking Librarian, I hope you find someone suitable soon! | |||
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