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Whats the best way to pull in a club ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wats the best way to pull in a club?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Grab with both hands, brace yourself and heave!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually find that a lady will do it if you ask nicely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wat do you ask them iv never bin n would really live to go but dont kno wat to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be polite and introduce yourself and most important thing of all is wait to be invited to join them. You can't go wrong if you are respectful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We need a womwn to tell hw dey would like to be asked and private pal wats the best experience you hv hd in a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry fella can't tell you that what happens in the club stays in the club with me and the ladies involved

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Just be friendly and if you're unsure about anything, ask!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just be friendly and if you're unsure about anything, ask!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wana mke a pirn do u kno anyone i could ask for tips n advice or that cn point me un ryt direction

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I wana mke a pirn do u kno anyone i could ask for tips n advice or that cn point me un ryt direction"

Uh, whut?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I want to make a porn movie but dont know where to start would you kno anyone that could point me in right direction.. Sorry for the misspell lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I want to make a porn movie but dont know where to start would you kno anyone that could point me in right direction.. Sorry for the misspell lol"

Might be better to start another thread for this, or do a forum search because it came up recently.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How would like to be pulled in a club? Lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Like I said, be friendly. See what happens.

I don't much like being "pulled".

Show an interest, see if interest is returned.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hw do u show u interest bk and then what happens? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goodnight all

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

How do you "pull" anywhere?

Go along. Don't count on anything happening. Be friendly. See what happens. If you're not sure of anything, ask.

It's not rocket science.

Relax a bit and go to enjoy the night. There isn't a recipe you need to learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont use text speak never say bro ...dont look at women like there a mouse and your a boa constictor .Be engaging ...whisper in there ear that you dont want to offend but you are delicious and i would love to lick your pussy ...then walk away an d feign indifference x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"...whisper in there ear that you dont want to offend but you are delicious and i would love to lick your pussy ...then walk away and feign indifference x"

That works for you? I'd laugh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...whisper in there ear that you dont want to offend but you are delicious and i would love to lick your pussy ...then walk away and feign indifference x

That works for you? I'd laugh! "
It works astonishingly well not all the time but women do laugh and are intrigued by such confidence and cheek x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"...whisper in there ear that you dont want to offend but you are delicious and i would love to lick your pussy ...then walk away and feign indifference x

That works for you? I'd laugh! It works astonishingly well not all the time but women do laugh and are intrigued by such confidence and cheek x"

The walking away and feigning indifference bit would be the deal breaker for me. Flirting is one thing but I'm not into game playing.

I'd rather people were straight with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...whisper in there ear that you dont want to offend but you are delicious and i would love to lick your pussy ...then walk away and feign indifference x

That works for you? I'd laugh! It works astonishingly well not all the time but women do laugh and are intrigued by such confidence and cheek x

The walking away and feigning indifference bit would be the deal breaker for me. Flirting is one thing but I'm not into game playing.

I have a face like a plastereres radio but have astonishing success at this ...trust me i know what im doing

I'd rather people were straight with me."

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I have a face like a plastereres radio but have astonishing success at this ...trust me i know what im doing"

I don't doubt you but I'd still, personally, prefer people to be more direct.

lol @ plasterer's radio though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a face like a plastereres radio but have astonishing success at this ...trust me i know what im doing

I don't doubt you but I'd still, personally, prefer people to be more direct.

lol @ plasterer's radio though"
People seldom are ...most tell you what they expect you want to hearx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Direct approach is good but sometimes it can still get you a slap

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Their expectations of what I want to hear may not be correct though.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Direct approach is good but sometimes it can still get you a slap "

Depends how direct.

Hi, you're really pretty, would you like to have a drink with me?

or

Hi, you have lovely eyes/legs/ankles/knees/ears/clavicles etc and I'd really like to play with you.

are one thing. "Hi. Do you take it up the bum?" can offend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Direct approach is good but sometimes it can still get you a slap

Depends how direct.

Hi, you're really pretty, would you like to have a drink with me?

or

Hi, you have lovely eyes/legs/ankles/knees/ears/clavicles etc and I'd really like to play with you.

are one thing. "Hi. Do you take it up the bum?" can offend.

"

I think I'd wait for the invite on the third one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Direct approach is good but sometimes it can still get you a slap "
Not been slapped yet ...been swinging for 7 years ...had multiple plays though adopting this approach ...having said that and hope i dont sound too up my own hole ..it needs a certain je ne se quo to pull it off

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Direct approach is good but sometimes it can still get you a slap Not been slapped yet ...been swinging for 7 years ...had multiple plays though adopting this approach ...having said that and hope i dont sound too up my own hole ..it needs a certain je ne se quo to pull it off "

Hey, if it works for you, I wouldn't dream of knocking it.

A "je ne se quo" huh? Well, you clearly must have one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Direct approach is good but sometimes it can still get you a slap Not been slapped yet ...been swinging for 7 years ...had multiple plays though adopting this approach ...having said that and hope i dont sound too up my own hole ..it needs a certain je ne se quo to pull it off

Hey, if it works for you, I wouldn't dream of knocking it.

Y

A "je ne se quo" huh? Well, you clearly must have one! "
Ecuse my polish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excuse

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over a year ago

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Excuse "

You're excused

(PS: Je ne sais quoi )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Excuse

You're excused

(PS: Je ne sais quoi )"
You sound so sexy ...never was very bi fungal x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

As long as you ain't bifurcated. That looks painful. And a bit freaky.

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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago

oldham

My advice to any single guy going to a club is -

Don't go expecting you will have sex, as it doesn't always happen. There is never a guarantee of sex in any club.

Try going with the intention of socializing and just enjoying the night out, and if sex happens it's a bonus.

A lot of people in clubs, like the social side as well as having fun, and when some people can sense you've only got sex on the brain, it can put them off.

I'm not saying everyone would be put off by not wanting to get stuck in, as I've seen lots of people who don't mind if there hasn't been any conversation, but I see the opposite so much more.

I myself have been put off when I see single guys, walking around from room to room highly frustrated, popping there head through the door and never saying a word to anyone. Give me a look as if to say, ' are you playing yet or what '. And then when I do go to play, I'm followed, and some will ask or just assume I want to play with them. I give them a polite no thanks.

The men who show themselves to be friendly, respectful and join in talking to couples and singles, do get asked a lot more to play. You must remember a swinging club is not a brothel, and any lady who is playing, does so by her own choice.

Always ask before you touch and respect people's wishes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My advice to any single guy going to a club is -

Don't go expecting you will have sex, as it doesn't always happen. There is never a guarantee of sex in any club.

Try going with the intention of socializing and just enjoying the night out, and if sex happens it's a bonus.

A lot of people in clubs, like the social side as well as having fun, and when some people can sense you've only got sex on the brain, it can put them off.

I'm not saying everyone would be put off by not wanting to get stuck in, as I've seen lots of people who don't mind if there hasn't been any conversation, but I see the opposite so much more.

I myself have been put off when I see single guys, walking around from room to room highly frustrated, popping there head through the door and never saying a word to anyone. Give me a look as if to say, ' are you playing yet or what '. And then when I do go to play, I'm followed, and some will ask or just assume I want to play with them. I give them a polite no thanks.

The men who show themselves to be friendly, respectful and join in talking to couples and singles, do get asked a lot more to play. You must remember a swinging club is not a brothel, and any lady who is playing, does so by her own choice.

Always ask before you touch and respect people's wishes.

"

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