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"I love the tea and cake " I never got any tea at the Kent social | |||
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"I love the tea and cake I never got any tea at the Kent social " Was there cake though ? | |||
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"I love the tea and cake I never got any tea at the Kent social " You need to try a Scottish one | |||
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"I love the tea and cake I never got any tea at the Kent social " Obi made me a coffee in the morning... Does that count? did you not have one at breakfast club? OP I think social sums it up perfectly for me, it was an event put on for people to meet each other with no pressure to play. Having met some of the forumites in this way they are now on my 'to do' list. Lol. The same way I would ask for a social meet even if it were a one on one situation which could well be tea and cake as I do love a latte and a muffin in costa xA lot of socials aren't even at clubs, some are pubs etc so wouldn't involve any play at all unless people chose to take it elsewhere. I think if you gave it a more 'sexual' name it might put off some nervous newbies. | |||
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"I love the tea and cake I never got any tea at the Kent social Was there cake though ? " There was pie!! X | |||
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"I love the tea and cake I never got any tea at the Kent social Obi made me a coffee in the morning... Does that count? did you not have one at breakfast club? OP I think social sums it up perfectly for me, it was an event put on for people to meet each other with no pressure to play. Having met some of the forumites in this way they are now on my 'to do' list. Lol. The same way I would ask for a social meet even if it were a one on one situation which could well be tea and cake as I do love a latte and a muffin in costa xA lot of socials aren't even at clubs, some are pubs etc so wouldn't involve any play at all unless people chose to take it elsewhere. I think if you gave it a more 'sexual' name it might put off some nervous newbies. " | |||
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"I love the tea and cake I never got any tea at the Kent social Was there cake though ? There was pie!! X" And a fair bit of muffin! | |||
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"I love the tea and cake I never got any tea at the Kent social Was there cake though ? There was pie!! X And a fair bit of muffin! " | |||
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"I love the tea and cake I never got any tea at the Kent social Was there cake though ? There was pie!! X" What sort of Pie ?? | |||
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"I love the tea and cake I never got any tea at the Kent social Was there cake though ? There was pie!! XWhat sort of Pie ?? " Lemon meringue! Was yummy. | |||
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"I hate any form of social and am not attending anymore ever ever again , shut it you lot " Shurrup you! You loved it! That reminds me.. Expect a text any sec xx | |||
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"I love the tea and cake I never got any tea at the Kent social Obi made me a coffee in the morning... Does that count? did you not have one at breakfast club? OP I think social sums it up perfectly for me, it was an event put on for people to meet each other with no pressure to play. Having met some of the forumites in this way they are now on my 'to do' list. Lol. The same way I would ask for a social meet even if it were a one on one situation which could well be tea and cake as I do love a latte and a muffin in costa xA lot of socials aren't even at clubs, some are pubs etc so wouldn't involve any play at all unless people chose to take it elsewhere. I think if you gave it a more 'sexual' name it might put off some nervous newbies. " Wasn't referring to an individual meet socially, just organised ones. Doesn't have to be 'sexual' just more relevant to how groups meet in the 21st century | |||
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" and as long as its not an orgy in the social areas, its all cool." Oh oops! | |||
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"I love the tea and cake I never got any tea at the Kent social " Didnt you have a cupcake fox? | |||
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"I love the tea and cake I never got any tea at the Kent social Was there cake though ? " Yep cupcakes, I had one xx | |||
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"I love the tea and cake I never got any tea at the Kent social Was there cake though ? There was pie!! X" Bladdy hell didnt see any pie. I had cupcake though xx | |||
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"The sheffield pub social will have cake and a prize draw! I believe the venue does offer an afternoon tea option as well. And OMG have we got a great prize for the raffle! We got a donation from LoveHoney and being a curious soul I peeped - and I wish I hadn't cos they've been ever so generous and as the organiser I can't really enter. " Ill enter and if I win it, you can have it with pleasure. I have an over-abundance of paraphernalia as it is and no-one to use them on/with. | |||
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" and as long as its not an orgy in the social areas, its all cool. Oh oops! " What did ya do ben? Come on spill xx | |||
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"I hate any form of social and am not attending anymore ever ever again , shut it you lot " First kent social moody when we all got kicked out hotel room xx | |||
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"I love the tea and cake I never got any tea at the Kent social Was there cake though ? There was pie!! XWhat sort of Pie ?? Lemon meringue! Was yummy. " O yeh bambers pie. I gad some of that too. Does that make me a greedy girl xx | |||
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"I love the tea and cake I never got any tea at the Kent social Was there cake though ? There was pie!! X And a fair bit of muffin! " Lol xx | |||
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"I hate any form of social and am not attending anymore ever ever again , shut it you lot First kent social moody when we all got kicked out hotel room xx " Wasn't me | |||
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"I love the tea and cake I never got any tea at the Kent social Was there cake though ? There was pie!! XWhat sort of Pie ?? Lemon meringue! Was yummy. " It was very nice There were cupcakes too | |||
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"The sheffield pub social will have cake and a prize draw! I believe the venue does offer an afternoon tea option as well. And OMG have we got a great prize for the raffle! We got a donation from LoveHoney and being a curious soul I peeped - and I wish I hadn't cos they've been ever so generous and as the organiser I can't really enter. " Sounds brilliant! Let's hope lots and lots of Money gets raised x | |||
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"Help. See im confused now. I always thought socials (not that I have gone to any or will do), were as the poster described. Ok now. Ive had one to one socials, which were just coffee. So is there coffee and/or cake/pie and then people disappear off to hotel or wherever for fun/sex etc? Im so out of the loop I think " Some are organised at clubs like the Kent one at Eureka's. ... The Sheffield one is in a city pub, so no shenanigans in there .... But what you do afterwards | |||
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"I hate any form of social and am not attending anymore ever ever again , shut it you lot First kent social moody when we all got kicked out hotel room xx Wasn't me " bloody was !!! | |||
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"I don't really get it OP? What would you call them?" Well if nothing else the thread has allowed many forumites to relive their social escapades! Just get the feeling, I might be wrong though, there is a certain amount of defensiveness in many posts. It's not socials themselves, I'm sure they are great fun, and allow people to meet other fab members in a relaxed environment..it's the name I find twee and boring. You might not agree, but can't see what you don't get. As for what would I call them, probably go with something that identifies with the area concerned, I'm sure the Manchester, Edinburgh, Kent, fabsters could come up with something. | |||
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"I don't really get it OP? What would you call them? Well if nothing else the thread has allowed many forumites to relive their social escapades! Just get the feeling, I might be wrong though, there is a certain amount of defensiveness in many posts. It's not socials themselves, I'm sure they are great fun, and allow people to meet other fab members in a relaxed environment..it's the name I find twee and boring. You might not agree, but can't see what you don't get. As for what would I call them, probably go with something that identifies with the area concerned, I'm sure the Manchester, Edinburgh, Kent, fabsters could come up with something. " I get your point about 'social' sounding a little dull - but at the end of the day it's a label that suits the events! I, for one, was no more than social with any other fab member in kent, with the exception of my 'date' for the night. If the cap fits....... | |||
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"I think the name "social" is fine, whether it's an organized social on a club or a pub... Not really sure what else we can call them. " How about a fun filled night consisting of vodka shots LMP dancing spanking chatting laughing popping candy tricks and sometimes after a bit of sex for good measure | |||
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"What about something super exciting like: "The FAB Swingers Meet and Greet!" " Or the "Fab Flanter-thon" | |||
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"I love the tea and cake I never got any tea at the Kent social Was there cake though ? " Probably Navy cake Lol | |||
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"I think the name "social" is fine, whether it's an organized social on a club or a pub... Not really sure what else we can call them. How about a fun filled night consisting of vodka shots LMP dancing spanking chatting laughing popping candy tricks and sometimes after a bit of sex for good measure " Wow That's a mouthful | |||
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"What about something super exciting like: "The FAB Swingers Meet and Greet!" " I think 'that bunch of reprobates' is more honest myself. | |||
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"What about something super exciting like: "The FAB Swingers Meet and Greet!" Or the "Fab Flanter-thon" " ***googles flanterthon*** | |||
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"What about something super exciting like: "The FAB Swingers Meet and Greet!" I think 'that bunch of reprobates' is more honest myself." Dictionary definition of "Reprobate": rep·ro·bate (rpr-bt) n. 1. A morally unprincipled person. 2. One who is predestined to damnation. adj. 1. Morally unprincipled; shameless. 2. Rejected by God and without hope of salvation. | |||
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"Id rather it be called a social than some other cheesy carry on type name " Heeeeeeeres Floro | |||
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"Id rather it be called a social than some other cheesy carry on type name " How about cheeeeeese n WHINE party | |||
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"Id rather it be called a social than some other cheesy carry on type name " And 'social' isn't cheesy?....it's as cheesy as cheese and tinned pineapple on cocktail sticks | |||
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"Id rather it be called a social than some other cheesy carry on type name And 'social' isn't cheesy?....it's as cheesy as cheese and tinned pineapple on cocktail sticks" *whispers 'I love those' | |||
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"Id rather it be called a social than some other cheesy carry on type name And 'social' isn't cheesy?....it's as cheesy as cheese and tinned pineapple on cocktail sticks *whispers 'I love those' " We should have them at the next social | |||
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"I've been to a few at vanilla venues and I can't think of another suitable name either. I think once you've been to one, the word 'social' can only conjure up images of drinking, dancing, people dressed to impress and generally a damn good night I've also hosted a couple of smaller shindigs at my house which I called 'Antisocials'. These did involve cakes, pass the parcel, and quite a lot of booze " Antisocials I like that..sharp, funny. | |||
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"Id rather it be called a social than some other cheesy carry on type name And 'social' isn't cheesy?....it's as cheesy as cheese and tinned pineapple on cocktail sticks *whispers 'I love those' " Me too..... Especially if the sticks are pushed into one of those ball things wrapped in tin foil | |||
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"Id rather it be called a social than some other cheesy carry on type name And 'social' isn't cheesy?....it's as cheesy as cheese and tinned pineapple on cocktail sticks *whispers 'I love those' " Pssssst! DON'T ever speak it above a whisper - people will get the wrong impression n think you're a MUNTER ! :- D ps - could u quietly n unobtrusively slip that other full plate of em over to me - yummy shhhhsh | |||
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"I hate any form of social and am not attending anymore ever ever again , shut it you lot First kent social moody when we all got kicked out hotel room xx Wasn't me bloody was !!! " Was us all xx | |||
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"I hate any form of social and am not attending anymore ever ever again , shut it you lot First kent social moody when we all got kicked out hotel room xx Wasn't me bloody was !!! Was us all xx" If you had all played the "cup" game properly we would have all been fine | |||
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"I hate any form of social and am not attending anymore ever ever again , shut it you lot First kent social moody when we all got kicked out hotel room xx Wasn't me bloody was !!! Was us all xx If you had all played the "cup" game properly we would have all been fine " I'm hoping there were more than two girls present? | |||
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"I hate any form of social and am not attending anymore ever ever again , shut it you lot First kent social moody when we all got kicked out hotel room xx Wasn't me bloody was !!! Was us all xx If you had all played the "cup" game properly we would have all been fine " Surely not two girls one cup ????? | |||
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"I hate any form of social and am not attending anymore ever ever again , shut it you lot First kent social moody when we all got kicked out hotel room xx Wasn't me bloody was !!! Was us all xx If you had all played the "cup" game properly we would have all been fine I'm hoping there were more than two girls present? " Dunno cos I'm sat here scratching me head over the cup game I'm never drinking wine again | |||
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"The sheffield pub social will have cake and a prize draw! I believe the venue does offer an afternoon tea option as well. And OMG have we got a great prize for the raffle! We got a donation from LoveHoney and being a curious soul I peeped - and I wish I hadn't cos they've been ever so generous and as the organiser I can't really enter. Sounds brilliant! Let's hope lots and lots of Money gets raised x " looking forward to this ... Wondering what to donate? | |||
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"as i said in another thread a copy of days ago, I think there is an issue here some people think that the word "social" is some sort of codename for "orgy"... so they go with that expectation....... some of the best socials I have been to have been the scottish and welsh socials... they treat them like a damn good night out" Well I for one wouldn't regard a 'social' as a codename for an orgy I fully understand the function of a ' social'.. it's the name..outdated, conservative, | |||
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"I hate any form of social and am not attending anymore ever ever again , shut it you lot First kent social moody when we all got kicked out hotel room xx Wasn't me bloody was !!! Was us all xx If you had all played the "cup" game properly we would have all been fine I'm hoping there were more than two girls present? Dunno cos I'm sat here scratching me head over the cup game I'm never drinking wine again " Oh my days.... You were only allowed to speak of you were holding the cup....in an attempt to keep the noise down!! Were you that d*unked?? | |||
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"I hate any form of social and am not attending anymore ever ever again , shut it you lot First kent social moody when we all got kicked out hotel room xx Wasn't me bloody was !!! Was us all xx If you had all played the "cup" game properly we would have all been fine I'm hoping there were more than two girls present? Dunno cos I'm sat here scratching me head over the cup game I'm never drinking wine again Oh my days.... You were only allowed to speak of you were holding the cup....in an attempt to keep the noise down!! Were you that d*unked?? " I never got to hold the cup that's probably why I don't remember and also why it wasn't me making all the noise | |||
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"I hate any form of social and am not attending anymore ever ever again , shut it you lot First kent social moody when we all got kicked out hotel room xx Wasn't me bloody was !!! Was us all xx If you had all played the "cup" game properly we would have all been fine I'm hoping there were more than two girls present? Dunno cos I'm sat here scratching me head over the cup game I'm never drinking wine again Oh my days.... You were only allowed to speak of you were holding the cup....in an attempt to keep the noise down!! Were you that d*unked?? I never got to hold the cup that's probably why I don't remember and also why it wasn't me making all the noise " I remember someone hogging the "cup" lol and then it got thrown round the room lol | |||
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"I went to the Peterboro social which someone kindly arranged n hostessed. It was my first social so was rather apprehensive what to expect n I was probably the oldest there (poor old sod lol) Anyway I needn't have worried it was just chats n d*unky poos in a pub bar. All very 'naice'. A few people where a bit cliquey but ya get that at any group gathering. They were MUCH more cliquey at my ME meeting Saturday!! I met plenty of nice peeps including some regular forumites n some new playmates. As for a more suitable name how about er............nope I can't come up wiv anything " this sort of social I would like | |||
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"Weren't socials called 'munches' in the past? Or was a munch something else altogether? " They certainly were, the idea coming from BDSM munches. | |||
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"I think the name "social" is fine, whether it's an organized social on a club or a pub... Not really sure what else we can call them. How about a fun filled night consisting of vodka shots LMP dancing spanking chatting laughing popping candy tricks and sometimes after a bit of sex for good measure Wow That's a mouthful " But what a mouth!! | |||
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"I think the name "social" is fine, whether it's an organized social on a club or a pub... Not really sure what else we can call them. How about a fun filled night consisting of vodka shots LMP dancing spanking chatting laughing popping candy tricks and sometimes after a bit of sex for good measure Wow That's a mouthful But what a mouth!! " And sooooo full | |||
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"The sheffield pub social will have cake and a prize draw! I believe the venue does offer an afternoon tea option as well. And OMG have we got a great prize for the raffle! We got a donation from LoveHoney and being a curious soul I peeped - and I wish I hadn't cos they've been ever so generous and as the organiser I can't really enter. Sounds brilliant! Let's hope lots and lots of Money gets raised x looking forward to this ... Wondering what to donate? " So far we have a huge gift box from LH, various alcohol, some smellies - chocs might be a nice addition. | |||
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"I wish Sheffield were nearer/I was nearer Sheffield. " I AM Sheffield Oops sorry no I am Spartacus | |||
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"I wish Sheffield were nearer/I was nearer Sheffield. I AM Sheffield Oops sorry no I am Spartacus " Don't believe you. Show us your sword! | |||
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"I wish Sheffield were nearer/I was nearer Sheffield. " Is anyone close to you interested in going? Some people are travelling a fair distance and sharing costs/accom. Post on the thread asking for a buddy and perhaps put it on your update so locals can see... | |||
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"I wish Sheffield were nearer/I was nearer Sheffield. Is anyone close to you interested in going? Some people are travelling a fair distance and sharing costs/accom. Post on the thread asking for a buddy and perhaps put it on your update so locals can see..." I'd also need a cat sitter. I'll try and work something out though. | |||
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"I wish Sheffield were nearer/I was nearer Sheffield. Is anyone close to you interested in going? Some people are travelling a fair distance and sharing costs/accom. Post on the thread asking for a buddy and perhaps put it on your update so locals can see... I'd also need a cat sitter. I'll try and work something out though." Would be lovely to see you. Take a look at the thread and you'll see who has expressed an interest and will hopefully be there. | |||
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"I hate any form of social and am not attending anymore ever ever again , shut it you lot First kent social moody when we all got kicked out hotel room xx Wasn't me bloody was !!! Was us all xx If you had all played the "cup" game properly we would have all been fine I'm hoping there were more than two girls present? Dunno cos I'm sat here scratching me head over the cup game I'm never drinking wine again Oh my days.... You were only allowed to speak of you were holding the cup....in an attempt to keep the noise down!! Were you that d*unked?? " ha ha i love the cup game | |||
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"I wish Sheffield were nearer/I was nearer Sheffield. I AM Sheffield Oops sorry no I am Spartacus Don't believe you. Show us your sword! " Oops! How forward Lol | |||
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"I hate any form of social and am not attending anymore ever ever again , shut it you lot First kent social moody when we all got kicked out hotel room xx Wasn't me bloody was !!! Was us all xx If you had all played the "cup" game properly we would have all been fine I'm hoping there were more than two girls present? Dunno cos I'm sat here scratching me head over the cup game I'm never drinking wine again Oh my days.... You were only allowed to speak of you were holding the cup....in an attempt to keep the noise down!! Were you that d*unked?? ha ha i love the cup game " Can we do the cup game at the next social next year??? pleaaaaase it sounds a lot of d*unken fun | |||
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"The sheffield pub social will have cake and a prize draw! I believe the venue does offer an afternoon tea option as well. And OMG have we got a great prize for the raffle! We got a donation from LoveHoney and being a curious soul I peeped - and I wish I hadn't cos they've been ever so generous and as the organiser I can't really enter. Sounds brilliant! Let's hope lots and lots of Money gets raised x looking forward to this ... Wondering what to donate? So far we have a huge gift box from LH, various alcohol, some smellies - chocs might be a nice addition." Ok done I'm sure something can be rustled up | |||
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