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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's the one tool you would be happy to lose from site?

Mine would be the who's looked at me as I forget it's there and I research in stealth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no I love that lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh no I love that lol xxx"

Lol so come on what would you lose ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would get rid of winks I don't even look I just delete as I prefer a message as long as they have read profile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would get rid of winks I don't even look I just delete as I prefer a message as long as they have read profile lol "

we like winks.

its a subtle 'heya' when you arent sure a message would be welcome.

personally, would get rid of the clubs feedback section.

dont use it, dont read it, there are enough posts on the forum to know which are decent and which arent.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I don't ever look at who's looked at me, winks, who's near lol. Ooh and the sent message bit where it says 'deleted, read' etc

If u could invent something for the site it would be so that instead of a 'warning you have messaged this person before and didn't recieve a reply do you want to message again? warning.. A little box would open on the front of the phone and a hand would come out and smack em round the side of the head, lol, or an electric shock! I'm flexible

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't ever look at who's looked at me, winks, who's near lol. Ooh and the sent message bit where it says 'deleted, read' etc

If u could invent something for the site it would be so that instead of a 'warning you have messaged this person before and didn't recieve a reply do you want to message again? warning.. A little box would open on the front of the phone and a hand would come out and smack em round the side of the head, lol, or an electric shock! I'm flexible "

you daft mare

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

There are several tools I'd like to get rid of but as we're not allowed to name other forumites......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't ever look at who's looked at me, winks, who's near lol. Ooh and the sent message bit where it says 'deleted, read' etc

If u could invent something for the site it would be so that instead of a 'warning you have messaged this person before and didn't recieve a reply do you want to message again? warning.. A little box would open on the front of the phone and a hand would come out and smack em round the side of the head, lol, or an electric shock! I'm flexible "

What about the same thing for "have you bothered reading the profile you ignoramus"?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are several tools I'd like to get rid of but as we're not allowed to name other forumites...... "

Ummmmm you can't say that

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"There are several tools I'd like to get rid of but as we're not allowed to name other forumites......

Ummmmm you can't say that "

He just did...

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I don't know ......maybe winks as we don't use or check them that often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 'Block' facility.

Just for the shits, giggles and chaos!

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

You make me laugh Moody (in a good way) so you're not on the list

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You make me laugh Moody (in a good way) so you're not on the list"

Dam I'm not living up to my name again. Must try harder

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By *ranthamThroatMan
over a year ago

Grantham.

Friend invites, what a bane and pain they are!

Usually from people hundreds of miles away who don't meet you preferences nor have even one picture on their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are several tools I'd like to get rid of but as we're not allowed to name other forumites......

Ummmmm you can't say that

He just did... "

(sterotypical overwight american black lady)

Oh no he Didd'nt!! *finger snap whilst waving her hand across her front*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does Ryan count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pms on monday and friday......well mine at least,they're nearly always random completely bonkers desparate messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does Ryan count? "

Noooooooo that's wicked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This'll probably win me no friends.

I'd get rid of the forum moderators!

We're all adults on an adult site, we should be allowed to discuss any number of subjects in any way we see fit. I understand that sometimes things can get heated when peoples views and opinions are challenged but the thread limit is only 175ish posts so does it matter if someone says something that rubs someone else the wrong way, as we can all block people from contacting us privately?

Maybe I'm too much of an idealist...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pms on monday and friday......well mine at least,they're nearly always random completely bonkers desparate messages "

My random messages tend to be Sunday or Monday mornings lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This'll probably win me no friends.

I'd get rid of the forum moderators!

We're all adults on an adult site, we should be allowed to discuss any number of subjects in any way we see fit. I understand that sometimes things can get heated when peoples views and opinions are challenged but the thread limit is only 175ish posts so does it matter if someone says something that rubs someone else the wrong way, as we can all block people from contacting us privately?

Maybe I'm too much of an idealist..."

I do see where you are coming from however after seeing how some people "discuss" things I think I prefer to keep the mods just as they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This'll probably win me no friends.

I'd get rid of the forum moderators!

We're all adults on an adult site, we should be allowed to discuss any number of subjects in any way we see fit. I understand that sometimes things can get heated when peoples views and opinions are challenged but the thread limit is only 175ish posts so does it matter if someone says something that rubs someone else the wrong way, as we can all block people from contacting us privately?

Maybe I'm too much of an idealist..."

...or an Agent of Chaos!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Pms on monday and friday......well mine at least,they're nearly always random completely bonkers desparate messages "

Mine arenormally there waiting on a sat and sun morning, and usually UNLOS before I've even read them!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Who is near .. for me I dont need that facility..

I do sometimes open who has looked at me but I forget usually.

I would love lots more emoticons and be able to use them in private message tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id go for looked at me too

its pointless, what does it matter whos looked at you

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


" I'd get rid of the forum moderators!

"

Oi watch who you are calling a tool pal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I'd get rid of the forum moderators!

Oi watch who you are calling a tool pal! "

Sorry miss....

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Winks....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This'll probably win me no friends.

I'd get rid of the forum moderators!

We're all adults on an adult site, we should be allowed to discuss any number of subjects in any way we see fit. I understand that sometimes things can get heated when peoples views and opinions are challenged but the thread limit is only 175ish posts so does it matter if someone says something that rubs someone else the wrong way, as we can all block people from contacting us privately?

Maybe I'm too much of an idealist...

I do see where you are coming from however after seeing how some people "discuss" things I think I prefer to keep the mods just as they are. "

Maybe its just me then, but sometimes I find things to be over moderated and the restrictions for posting links are a little narrow. For instance I can post a link of my band playing a song from my personal YouTube account but can't post one from Soundcloud account.

Obviously some of the restrictions are there to protect both the site and its members and I agree with those but sometimes I find it a bit petty. This isn't the fault of the moderators though, they have a (difficult) job to do and they do it for free, its down to admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This'll probably win me no friends.

I'd get rid of the forum moderators!

We're all adults on an adult site, we should be allowed to discuss any number of subjects in any way we see fit. I understand that sometimes things can get heated when peoples views and opinions are challenged but the thread limit is only 175ish posts so does it matter if someone says something that rubs someone else the wrong way, as we can all block people from contacting us privately?

Maybe I'm too much of an idealist...

I do see where you are coming from however after seeing how some people "discuss" things I think I prefer to keep the mods just as they are.

Maybe its just me then, but sometimes I find things to be over moderated and the restrictions for posting links are a little narrow. For instance I can post a link of my band playing a song from my personal YouTube account but can't post one from Soundcloud account.

Obviously some of the restrictions are there to protect both the site and its members and I agree with those but sometimes I find it a bit petty. This isn't the fault of the moderators though, they have a (difficult) job to do and they do it for free, its down to admin."

some comments can get a little out of hand, and get very personal and nasty, but i dislike when some mods post up 'i have deleted posts that arent relevant' as these posts still do add something to the thread and some are conversed about further down, but the conversation is then taken out of context, so leaves me a little baffled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The tools who keep putting fake profiles up can do without them tools on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wink should be kept, with an explanation...

Click if you want to see if they are interested...they will wink back.

If they are, then you can send a meaningful and personal message and who knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This'll probably win me no friends.

I'd get rid of the forum moderators!

We're all adults on an adult site, we should be allowed to discuss any number of subjects in any way we see fit. I understand that sometimes things can get heated when peoples views and opinions are challenged but the thread limit is only 175ish posts so does it matter if someone says something that rubs someone else the wrong way, as we can all block people from contacting us privately?

Maybe I'm too much of an idealist...

I do see where you are coming from however after seeing how some people "discuss" things I think I prefer to keep the mods just as they are.

Maybe its just me then, but sometimes I find things to be over moderated and the restrictions for posting links are a little narrow. For instance I can post a link of my band playing a song from my personal YouTube account but can't post one from Soundcloud account.

Obviously some of the restrictions are there to protect both the site and its members and I agree with those but sometimes I find it a bit petty. This isn't the fault of the moderators though, they have a (difficult) job to do and they do it for free, its down to admin.

some comments can get a little out of hand, and get very personal and nasty, but i dislike when some mods post up 'i have deleted posts that arent relevant' as these posts still do add something to the thread and some are conversed about further down, but the conversation is then taken out of context, so leaves me a little baffled."

Yes, sometimes a comment can be nasty or out of hand but as adults on an adult site can we not moderate ourselves sometimes? The other problem is sometimes comments are taken out of context because of the difficulties of expressing humour, sarcasm and emotion through written text, I'm sure plenty of people have had time-outs for something they've posted innocently...

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I would get rid of the ability to check sent messages. Too many people become obsessed with when their message was read.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

The Fab thing,,

if I liked a photo enough I d let the ownrr know with a message,

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Does Ryan count? "

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I can't think of a tool I want to lose so I choose Bendy Roos knickers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Multi-room chat as I seldom go into chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are several tools I'd like to get rid of but as we're not allowed to name other forumites...... "
I had the same thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know about losing anything, but how about a tool to show who you have winked at so you don't resend one if they don't wink back. Not that I send loads out and get none back. No not me. All mine wink back. Honestly. Just for a mate of mine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't know about losing anything, but how about a tool to show who you have winked at so you don't resend one if they don't wink back. Not that I send loads out and get none back. No not me. All mine wink back. Honestly. Just for a mate of mine. "

That should be on the add a tool thread

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I can't think of a tool I want to lose so I choose Bendy Roos knickers. "

You just want to add them to your Ryanna collection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...the no asian filter lol oh wait...thats a preference. Ah crap.

Hmmm maybe the age filter. Because im nothing like my age.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I can't think of a tool I want to lose so I choose Bendy Roos knickers.

You just want to add them to your Ryanna collection. "

Send them recorded delivery please. I don't want postie nicking them

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I can't think of a tool I want to lose so I choose Bendy Roos knickers.

You just want to add them to your Ryanna collection.

Send them recorded delivery please. I don't want postie nicking them "

Airlock bag is an optional extra

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