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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I recently joined a dating site, one with questions rather than fish, and have been very honest about what I'm looking for in a man and relationship.

So last night I was sitting on said questions site and messaging a guy who I thought was all kinds of nommy! We got talking and then the unthinkable happened....He sent me the "I know you" message, and I sent him the same in return.

We were at school together, although he's a few years older than me. We are going for a drink on Saturday.

But yeah, that awkward, "I know you" message made my heart drop! Haha

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I joined one earlier in the year, and my best match.......? My ex wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined one earlier in the year, and my best match.......? My ex wife "

Exactly the same happened to me on POF, I messaged her about it and we had the best laugh we'd had in years....

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By *obbobeanMan
over a year ago

dagenham


"I recently joined a dating site, one with questions rather than fish, and have been very honest about what I'm looking for in a man and relationship.

So last night I was sitting on said questions site and messaging a guy who I thought was all kinds of nommy! We got talking and then the unthinkable happened....He sent me the "I know you" message, and I sent him the same in return.

We were at school together, although he's a few years older than me. We are going for a drink on Saturday.

But yeah, that awkward, "I know you" message made my heart drop! Haha"

I had that happen to me on here. A woman I was messaging was only living down the road and a friend of my ex, and also had kids in same school as mine and we had chatted in playground picking up kids hundreds of times. Agreed to meet as we were both on here for the same thing, and she turned into a FB for a while

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I did Soulmates a long time ago and my ex contacted me, just to say he thought it was a good ad. No-one else did.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Personally I am dreading seeing close family members, or even in a couple of years time, my kids

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm on POF but rarely log on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined a dating site about 8 months after I had split from my ex husband. I got a call off him 3 weeks later saying he had received and email from the site saying "there is a new hottie in your area" and it was me. ha ha, i was flattered

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

You're not going all vanilla on us are ya rubes???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're not going all vanilla on us are ya rubes???"

I would never be vanilla. But I am looking for a relationship, hoping to join you as a OMW!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're not going all vanilla on us are ya rubes???

I would never be vanilla. But I am looking for a relationship, hoping to join you as a OMW!"

What's a OMW?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

One Magic Wanker

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're not going all vanilla on us are ya rubes???

I would never be vanilla. But I am looking for a relationship, hoping to join you as a OMW!

What's a OMW?"

One Man Woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen countless work colleagues on POF. At first I'd get awkward then figured "pfft we both on it for the same reason" now I send a quick hey wont mention it message to calm a potential situation.

Once you see their profile, they know you've seen it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're not going all vanilla on us are ya rubes???

I would never be vanilla. But I am looking for a relationship, hoping to join you as a OMW!

What's a OMW?

One Man Woman"

I thought it was Old Married Woman!....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ran into an old mate the other day and he said he was dating the manager of a Weatherspoons.

He said it like it was a fucking job.

I've seen her and she is fit.

I guess my point is, shit could be worse for him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're not going all vanilla on us are ya rubes???

I would never be vanilla. But I am looking for a relationship, hoping to join you as a OMW!

What's a OMW?

One Man Woman

I thought it was Old Married Woman!.... "

haha - does 27 class as old?

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

a friend on POF received a message from her friend's boyfiend... awkward!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All kinds of nommy. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined one earlier in the year, and my best match.......? My ex wife "

What site is that? I think "match" is all wrong. They should say a sentence saying why they are a match.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see finding people on dating sites is arkward but having a random message from an old classmate on here

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"You're not going all vanilla on us are ya rubes???

I would never be vanilla. But I am looking for a relationship, hoping to join you as a OMW!

What's a OMW?

One Man Woman"

Wish you the very bst of luck my friend, and might just give it a go myself!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're not going all vanilla on us are ya rubes???

I would never be vanilla. But I am looking for a relationship, hoping to join you as a OMW!

What's a OMW?

One Man Woman

Wish you the very bst of luck my friend, and might just give it a go myself!!!!"

aww thanks lovely! I'm not going anywhere fast though. We are still doing xtasia no matter what! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"see finding people on dating sites is arkward but having a random message from an old classmate on here "

I've had it from an old neighbour!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All kinds of nommy. ? "

All kinds of nommy! Like yummy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All kinds of nommy. ? "

All kinds of nommy! Like yummy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined one earlier in the year, and my best match.......? My ex wife

Exactly the same happened to me on POF, I messaged her about it and we had the best laugh we'd had in years...."

Maybe it's meant to be not to late lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined one earlier in the year, and my best match.......? My ex wife

Exactly the same happened to me on POF, I messaged her about it and we had the best laugh we'd had in years....

Maybe it's meant to be not to late lol."

Oh I highly doubt that...

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well kind of got together on POF. We knew each other firstly from being neighbours a long time ago, then both our ex's started seeing each other and split up and we both got back with then (then split up again).

We both always thought we wernt each other's type and also if we did hook up it would just look like we were doing it to piss our ex's off. Anyway, we just got chatting in POF, ended up just getting together as mates for a few drinks and a laugh, realised we actually got on a fancied each other, the rest is history.

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"I ran into an old mate the other day and he said he was dating the manager of a Weatherspoons.

He said it like it was a fucking job.

I've seen her and she is fit.

I guess my point is, shit could be worse for him. "

Some men still feel threatened by woman in authority, we're not far off from the old sexist days but better off for it. Woman have a lot to offer in the workplace, when they stop chatting that is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All kinds of nommy. ?

All kinds of nommy! Like yummy!"

You speak a different language up there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ran into an old mate the other day and he said he was dating the manager of a Weatherspoons.

He said it like it was a fucking job.

I've seen her and she is fit.

I guess my point is, shit could be worse for him.

Some men still feel threatened by woman in authority, we're not far off from the old sexist days but better off for it. Woman have a lot to offer in the workplace, when they stop chatting that is! "

eh?...

Whoosh..you missed my point.

And I'll be fucked if I'm explaining it.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"You're not going all vanilla on us are ya rubes???

I would never be vanilla. But I am looking for a relationship, hoping to join you as a OMW!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy I went out with at school on Badoo. He became a FB for a while, introduced me to Fab. Still text him now and again.

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"Well kind of got together on POF. We knew each other firstly from being neighbours a long time ago, then both our ex's started seeing each other and split up and we both got back with then (then split up again).

We both always thought we wernt each other's type and also if we did hook up it would just look like we were doing it to piss our ex's off. Anyway, we just got chatting in POF, ended up just getting together as mates for a few drinks and a laugh, realised we actually got on a fancied each other, the rest is history."

i like this.... good for you

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