FabSwingers.com forum: 1st message asking for face pics ??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just had a message,a couple asking how we were then asking for face pics.none in their pics or didn't send one.I replied saying we fine,how are you.then another message asking,told them no.

Surely etiquete dictates,if you contact someone,you send face pics

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

Does it? Not with us, is that a unwritten rule that we do not know about?

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

I won't continue a conversation with someone if they aren't willing to show me a face pic. I will always show mine if they do and I'm interested. How do I know if I'm attracted to them if I can't see what they look like?

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

I always want face pics from couples asap.

Reason being, I'm not interested in couples unless they're special. Lady is fit, guy looks like he is friendly and not going to get stroppy.

Don't like chatting for ages for a couple who I may or may not be attracted to.

Just me though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if someone is messaging you asking for face pics, then they should attach a face pic themselves.

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

But etiquette does surely dictate that if some 1 messages you and asks for pics then surely they should send you pics with there request to prove that they might be real and not some saddo sniffing for pics lol. We get it all the time. Was caught out a few times when we first joined not any more. Gut feeling gets used a lot pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think if someone is messaging you asking for face pics, then they should attach a face pic themselves. "

Its best to exhange piccys fairly early on yes...or alot of time can be lost

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Surely etiquete dictates,if you contact someone,you send face pics "

That's the way I work on here... If I make contact with someone, I send a face pic.

If someone initiates contact with me I would expect them to either send one or have one on their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think if someone is messaging you asking for face pics, then they should attach a face pic themselves. "

I would expect this although I have face photos on display anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have always taken the principal that its the person that instigates contact that should send face pics first.

we would always send ours in return anyway, its just something we have always done to avoid pic collectors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely etiquete dictates,if you contact someone,you send face pics

That's the way I work on here... If I make contact with someone, I send a face pic.

If someone initiates contact with me I would expect them to either send one or have one on their profile

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

If I send a first message I attach a face pic and I expect (indeed I state it in my profile) that all first messages should be accompanied by face pics. Those that don't send pics will get a reminder if the message catches my eye, otherwise they'll just go on the block list. Anyone that won't send pics, exchange numbers so we can talk, cam or otherwise confirm their identity won't get any further

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Surely etiquete dictates,if you contact someone,you send face pics

That's the way I work on here... If I make contact with someone, I send a face pic.

If someone initiates contact with me I would expect them to either send one or have one on their profile

Same here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won't continue a conversation with someone if they aren't willing to show me a face pic. I will always show mine if they do and I'm interested. How do I know if I'm attracted to them if I can't see what they look like?"

Just tried to msg and send you as face pic but couples are blocked

damn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we send the message to make contact we always attach a face pic so they can see what we look like, if someone sends us a contact message we dont send a pic till they send us one of them

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

We are more than happy to swap face pic after the lady of the other couple and Jen have had a phone chat. But low and be hold when you ask this it all goes quiet the other end, or it turns out the wife does not like chatting on the phone but was more than willing to do all kinds of things to us five minutes earlier with her mouth but having a girl to girl phone chat seems to be not one of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My rule of face pics are, if I mail someone first I send them a face pic, if they mail me first I expect them to send me one first, I think its just common sense to send a fact pic with first message and to reply sending yours so you know straight away if there's an attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think if someone is messaging you asking for face pics, then they should attach a face pic themselves. "

I agree but you'd be amazed how many people ask but then get stroppy when asked to send one first. I stand my ground, if they ask for a pic then I insist they send one first.

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By *ickie dave 69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

we like to see who we are talking to so yes face pics essential in first couple of messages

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

If I send the first message I include a face pic. If someone messages me first then I expect a face pic attached. Simples. If they don't want to then that is entirely their choice. Just as my choice is not to respond to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think if someone is messaging you asking for face pics, then they should attach a face pic themselves.

Its best to exhange piccys fairly early on yes...or alot of time can be lost

Agreed. And I'm happy to send mine - which I tend to after first message - but when you get the messages - like just now of "oh didn't I attach it?" It just ends up with too many messages for nothing. And really does appear arrogant. Something I'm not looking for in a meet at all

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"My rule of face pics are, if I mail someone first I send them a face pic, if they mail me first I expect them to send me one first, I think its just common sense to send a fact pic with first message and to reply sending yours so you know straight away if there's an attraction"

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