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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't get it, why are guys so obsessed with making women squirt!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe because it cant be faked, and shows how good a guy is, just about ego.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"maybe because it cant be faked, and shows how good a guy is, just about ego."

But it doesn't actually feel that good... It's not an orgasmic feeling

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"maybe because it cant be faked, and shows how good a guy is, just about ego.

But it doesn't actually feel that good... It's not an orgasmic feeling "

I always feel like ive wet myself!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't suppose they cover squirting in sex education, yet

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By *ames blackMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"maybe because it cant be faked, and shows how good a guy is, just about ego.

But it doesn't actually feel that good... It's not an orgasmic feeling

I always feel like ive wet myself!!"

Maybe you have lol

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By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

I think it's because a guy's ejaculation means that he's had an orgasm.any guys mistakenly believe that women can only have had an orgasm if they've squirted.

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By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

*many not any

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"maybe because it cant be faked, and shows how good a guy is, just about ego.

But it doesn't actually feel that good... It's not an orgasmic feeling

I always feel like ive wet myself!!"

Exactly!!!! And because guys are so obsessed with making us squirt we miss out the effort they would usually make to give actual pleasure... Well in my experience anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe because it cant be faked, and shows how good a guy is, just about ego.

But it doesn't actually feel that good... It's not an orgasmic feeling

I always feel like ive wet myself!!

Exactly!!!! And because guys are so obsessed with making us squirt we miss out the effort they would usually make to give actual pleasure... Well in my experience anyway "

Its because pressure is applied to the urethral sponge in the upper front wall of the vagina just behind the gspot.

Directly above the sponge is the bladder, thats why you get the feeling of peeing.

What a lot of guys dont understand is to get a woman to properly squirt she has to be incredibly turned on and properly stimulated but importantly, NOT had an orgasm. The pressure of denying an orgasm will cause a fluid backwash into the urethral sponge, then if pressure is applied, a proper squirt will occur and that is the orgasmic feeling one.

For the record, i prefer to concentrate in giving the woman pleasure, if she squirts naturally great but i dont artificially try to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe because it cant be faked, and shows how good a guy is, just about ego.

But it doesn't actually feel that good... It's not an orgasmic feeling

I always feel like ive wet myself!!

Exactly!!!! And because guys are so obsessed with making us squirt we miss out the effort they would usually make to give actual pleasure... Well in my experience anyway "

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"maybe because it cant be faked, and shows how good a guy is, just about ego.

But it doesn't actually feel that good... It's not an orgasmic feeling "

Every time it's happened for me it's accompanied a very intense orgasm. Really difficult to describe the feeling but those times are the only ones where I've felt completely satisfied and have not wanted more 5 minutes later.

Unfortunately it's something I've only ever achieved by myself. Either nobody has been able to do it for me or I've held back and not let them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Unfortunately it's something I've only ever achieved by myself. Either nobody has been able to do it for me or I've held back and not let them."

This is obviously something that is for you an intensly private and personal moment and you dont want to surrender that to another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It feels amazing each and every time ... love it but only a few guys have made me that satisfied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe because it cant be faked, and shows how good a guy is, just about ego.

But it doesn't actually feel that good... It's not an orgasmic feeling "

I think it's due to the porn that squirting is popular. I personally don't enjoy it. I find some men can be too rough and it simply makes me feel like I need a piss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never knew I could until my first meet told me, in fact, I'd never heard of gushing and squirting still waiting for the elusive orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

V squirts very easily, with the correct stimulus.

we find it very easy between ourselves, but others seem to take a while, and yes, once its done some have stopped being interested (including once they have cum, they have only stopped short of grabbing their stuff and heading for the exit)

would be nice for people to make sure everyone is happy and fulfilled before getting dressed and making for the door lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never knew I could until my first meet told me, in fact, I'd never heard of gushing and squirting still waiting for the elusive orgasm "

V has an orgasm every time we have sex, but its never through the act.

its always her rubbing herself off, against my leg, while i tell her stories of me having sex with other people.

she is a very strange woman lol, but what im saying is, maybe you are one of those women that cant orgasm through sex, but instead it requires a different stimulation

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I don't get it, why are guys so obsessed with making women squirt!? "

Porn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a new trick to add to the magic box is the reason why I learned how to do it ....sex evolves and I guess the squirting thing as of recent is becoming more mainstream ...especially in porn but also so many women brag about it on fabs too so therein lies another reason why guys are keen to learn this stuff ! I don't always implement it during my play sessions as much now but in the early days of learning it I would always try use it but now rarely do now , so would agree it's becoming overkilled in usage and fab profile brags etc....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't squirt or gush nor want to I'm happy cumming lots instead lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never knew I could until my first meet told me, in fact, I'd never heard of gushing and squirting still waiting for the elusive orgasm

V has an orgasm every time we have sex, but its never through the act.

its always her rubbing herself off, against my leg, while i tell her stories of me having sex with other people.

she is a very strange woman lol, but what im saying is, maybe you are one of those women that cant orgasm through sex, but instead it requires a different stimulation"
sex, foreplay = nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe because it cant be faked, and shows how good a guy is, just about ego.

But it doesn't actually feel that good... It's not an orgasmic feeling "

If that's the response you have ...he ain't doing it right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They've been watching too much porn

It's the new "big" thing and they think they can't be any good at sex without being able to reproduce what they see on the Internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh, I am learning something everyday, I never realised women had orgasms, I thought the squirt was just a weak bladder from childbirth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get it, why are guys so obsessed with making women squirt!? "

I don't get it either. Big turn off for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

puts me off, meeting men like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get it, why are guys so obsessed with making women squirt!? "

because they think its an orgasm

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I hate squirting, in fact, I know exactly when a guy tries to do it deliberately and it will put me off totally.

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