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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i have sent loads of messages to cpls and singles but never get much back i must be putting the wrong thing in them althou im never pushy etc any hints on what catches someones eye please help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just take time for them 2 get read

be patience you will get their

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea.......

Sorry lol..

patients.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single males are in abundance on here. Patience is a virtue lol! Don't worry you will get there, there are some great people on here. Us single chaps just have to work harder!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Maybe you should spend some time putting a little more into your profile...It does'nt really have any detail on it,some people will look at the profile before they read the message and if there is nothing that catches their eye then they will just ignore the message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn't a dig at any single guy, but why do most insist on sending hundreds of emails in the first place?

Why not just place an add on the correct part of the forum, or wait until they contact them?

Some do seem to think that having a profile, or being online means your looking to shag anyone 24/7

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it makes you feel any better you have done alot better than the vast majority of single guys on here. In three months you have had a meet AND made a few friends; i've been on here for seven months and not met anyone and 99.9999% of all my emails have been ignored. Therefore count yourself one of the lucky ones.

If you came as a couple or were a single girl you'd have alot better chance and sadly there are loads of single guys on here who are looking for nsa sex, thus making the competition extremely fierce. I have seen men join, become disillusioned and leave within a month without getting any meets and some guys join and in less than a month have had 10+ meets and a friends list as long as your arm. From what i've seen it helps being a jack the lad type really.

You can keep trying for as long as it takes and hope you manage to arrange meets, you can join other sites which may work out better for you or you can give up on getting meets and use this site for the forums like i have.

All i can say is good luck to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kick....ooops sorry wrong thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aaagggghhhh fussys stalking me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"aaagggghhhh fussys stalking me"

nah you are just easy bait sweetpea lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm not even gonna comment on this thread,

no reply bla bla bla bla bla bla yawnnnnnnnnnnnnn

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'm not even gonna comment on this thread,

no reply bla bla bla bla bla bla yawnnnnnnnnnnnnn

lol

"

It must be so nice being a single woman and have the luxury to just sit back and not have to do anything to get a meet as people will contact them. I'm sure if some people had had the same troubles and experiences as single guys then they might not be so quick to make disparaging remarks about certain threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'm not even gonna comment on this thread,

no reply bla bla bla bla bla bla yawnnnnnnnnnnnnn

lol

It must be so nice being a single woman and have the luxury to just sit back and not have to do anything to get a meet as people will contact them. I'm sure if some people had had the same troubles and experiences as single guys then they might not be so quick to make disparaging remarks about certain threads. "

its heaven being a single lass.... wouldnt swap it for the world..... this thread has been discussed sooooo many times,

we dont have to reply to anything . its cyber world. dont take it to heart....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'm not even gonna comment on this thread,

no reply bla bla bla bla bla bla yawnnnnnnnnnnnnn

lol

It must be so nice being a single woman and have the luxury to just sit back and not have to do anything to get a meet as people will contact them. I'm sure if some people had had the same troubles and experiences as single guys then they might not be so quick to make disparaging remarks about certain threads.

its heaven being a single lass.... wouldnt swap it for the world..... this thread has been discussed sooooo many times,

we dont have to reply to anything . its cyber world. dont take it to heart.... "

I'm taking nothing to heart and and i do enjoy a good debate. And i'm sure it is great being a single woman who can have sex at the drop of a hat without much effort; wish i had that power myself!

I know this thread has been done to death but i still think if someone posts a similar or identical thread then we should either answer them or direct them to a previous post and allow them to seek answers from what has been discussed therein. What no one needs are disparaging remarks.

I could also say that alot of the threads that single women and couples post have been covered time and time again, or seem nothing more than trivial moans but no one seems mind them or leave a comment to make it sound old hat or a boring topic...i don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh dear, some ones had a bad day lol

fancy a bottle of wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

red or white!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oooooh good choice...yum ok im on my way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've got 5 bottles to get thru lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5...now thats just greedy...you can't possibly drink all that yourself. Mind you i bet you'll give it a go lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i wasnt working tomor i wud easily drink it all, might be a bit messy mind, lol but i'd do it

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

now see wot u done gothica.... u have took over that poor guys thread lol

pmsfl

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

grrrr so i have, though i was defending him AND trying to get some wine! Well no one else is commenting so we may as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats prob cuz we r the only saddos in on a sat night

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i can understand me being in but after seeing your profile i'm surprised you are. Maybe that rose wine seems good after all....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i did have a meet, but another one cancelled, 3rd one this week,.... so u see i cud open a forum n moan about that ?? lol

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By *entscotscplCouple
over a year ago

falkirk ish

we reconn the biggest problem some people have is they dont read profiles

ours says we aint looking for single guys

but we still get loads of messages from singles

so our advice is to read the whole profile

r n l xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we reconn the biggest problem some people have is they dont read profiles

ours says we aint looking for single guys

but we still get loads of messages from singles

so our advice is to read the whole profile

r n l xx"

how rude interupting mine n gothica's chat lol

only kidding xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has been done to death that one *wink*. Wish i had had a meet even if they had cancelled lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"has been done to death that one *wink*. Wish i had had a meet even if they had cancelled lol."

pmsfl

sorry that made me chuckle lol

bless , why cant u get one, have ya got a face like a bag of spanners lol

( im off now hehehehe))

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i,m in on this lovely sat night ,, lol in work at 4am ,,, up at 2.30 ,, so no fun for me tonight ,,, reading the treads i guess i,m megga lucky ,,, ,, dont know what the answer is my profiles pretty crap ,, i aint got a big todger and i aint looaded ,,, i,m just me ,, by the way ,, the copyright had been registered ,,, lol ps i got 4 wite and 6 red in my car ,, it was a pressie for some one ,, but they aint gonna collect now

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

What a shame in not a wine drinker lol

Im a vodka monster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do u have a willy like a tent?? in shape or size ?? lol

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope just avarage lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a shame in not a wine drinker lol

Im a vodka monster "

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm vodka, white russian ok for ya???? xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

come back gothica all is forgiven

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"What a shame in not a wine drinker lol

Im a vodka monster

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm vodka, white russian ok for ya???? xxx"

oooh go on then xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the messages are as poor as the profile, it's hardly surprising.

And I'm guessing that as you send loads of messages they are just copied and pasted or individual to the profile?

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By *teve_SoleilCouple
over a year ago

Malaysia

Huhu...we though the thread is about receiving same exact same message from same people two or more times...:D...like replay of messages...:D

Single guys who doesn't get a reply should really realized that even couples and single girls sometimes don't get replies also. We know we have....some even show interest but suddenly went quiet...some even were the one who messaged us first..for us...it's a way to show no interest in going further...just our guess but I think there must be at least some single guys here who get so many messages from guys, girls and couples that they decided not to reply as a way to say "no, thanks"...:D

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

I got a message yesterday addressed to Lou.

I replied that if he was going to copy and paste that he should at least remember to change the name to who he was adressing it to.

He reckoned it wasnt a copy and paste and that he just got my name a bit wrong.

A BIT????

Pah, delete!!!!

God i love that button!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I got a message yesterday addressed to Lou.

I replied that if he was going to copy and paste that he should at least remember to change the name to who he was adressing it to.

He reckoned it wasnt a copy and paste and that he just got my name a bit wrong.

A BIT????

Pah, delete!!!!

God i love that button!!!"

Im sorry but that is fooking funny...I want one like that

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"I got a message yesterday addressed to Lou.

I replied that if he was going to copy and paste that he should at least remember to change the name to who he was adressing it to.

He reckoned it wasnt a copy and paste and that he just got my name a bit wrong.

A BIT????

Pah, delete!!!!

God i love that button!!!

Im sorry but that is fooking funny...I want one like that "

I dont know why but your reaction had put me in fits of laughter!!!

Think next door will be thinking i am watching one hell of a comedy!!!

Think you have made me laugh cos at the time i just thought "idiot" and deleted.

Its more like Eeeeeeejit!!!!

Wonder how many got a Lou message before i mailed him back....? LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I love eeeeejits lol they put a smile on my face

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

They all a kip now!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

except me and you.....fancy a shag?

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"except me and you.....fancy a shag?"

Are you the last man earth...???

(come on then!!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have to be for you to want to shag me I know...but hey!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok. Single male here. We've all been there, although i hope i'm very selective about who i message (i.e. Within a 2 hour drive, looking for single guys and posting a looking today ad), but even i'm losing sympathy for guys that are posting the old, "what's wrong with people here" or such like in the forums here. If you want to get laid that bad just go to your local shitty night club. If you can't pull there, it's you, not the people here. This is not just a "losers get laid" site, so get a clue, show the genuine swinging couples some respect and stop treating it like a free knocking shop.

That said, the guys who come here as couples, and who's partners have no interest in swinging, and so they have one pic of a couple and a load of a guy on his own. Stop trying to make yourself look better by having a pop at single guys who at least have the guts to be honest about their circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for the lack of a paragraphs in that rant.

I've just had a night at a local shitty night club.

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By *areassetsukMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

have to say, it doesnt really matter what you put in your profile, if they dont like face, then thats one hurdle, you can put in lots of wants, experience, details, or nothing at all, there are lots of cpls that are looking for fems, so forget them, cpls looking for cpls, for get them, and sgl ladies lookngi for other fems and cpls, so forget them

pure luck, if someone take a fancy to you, and then you have to work at it a little bit longer, even when you tick all the boxes, and its gets deleted and no reply or sits in the in box for weeks , and still no reply, you wonder what its all about

think a lot of ppl forget, it is swinging, if guys wants no strings sex, then go out into the real world and get a shag at the weekend lol, or even try a swingers club. there are lots of ways to have fun.

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"Sorry for the lack of a paragraphs in that rant.

I've just had a night at a local shitty night club. "

ya didnt pull then!!!

i would lol - but ya might slap me....;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for the lack of a paragraphs in that rant.

I've just had a night at a local shitty night club.

ya didnt pull then!!!

"

Well i got her phone number and a picture of her flashing so that's a start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think a lot of ppl forget, it is swinging, if guys wants no strings sex, then go out into the real world"

Well swinging and those who do it are part of the real world...aren't they?

Not all the people who are looking for nsa sex on a 1-2-1 basis are men, and surely swinging is all about having NSA sex with other people or have i got that completely wrong. So why differenciate and make out swinging and nsa sex are completely different?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"think a lot of ppl forget, it is swinging, if guys wants no strings sex, then go out into the real world

Well swinging and those who do it are part of the real world...aren't they?

Not all the people who are looking for nsa sex on a 1-2-1 basis are men, and surely swinging is all about having NSA sex with other people or have i got that completely wrong. So why differenciate and make out swinging and nsa sex are completely different?"

Ive got to say that I did'nt understand that quote either lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad it wasn't just me then lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have sent loads of messages to cpls and singles but never get much back i must be putting the wrong thing in them althou im never pushy etc any hints on what catches someones eye please help"

Well, I always attach my current CV plus my pics, never fails

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