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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am I the only one finding it hard to find true submissive spirits that want to bond and connect with a master.

Several have tried but don't get the trust and connection that allows a Dom to push the boundaries and give pleasure through control

Slim pickings around who want to invest rather than just get off,

Any thoughts ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Very nicely put, I switch and have been having great fun on FS

My note didn't say that

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough

Perhaps the fact your a switch is the problem.

Many submissives want somebody who is Dom and does not switch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to be honest I would never trust a guy I met on here to allow him to put me in situations where I was vulnerable, before I put myself in that kind of situation it would have to be with someone who saw me as more than a fuck off fab, I would have to trust them totally and you cant gain that type of trust with someone just after sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps the fact your a switch is the problem.

Many submissives want somebody who is Dom and does not switch.

Absolutely true. I am a true submissive and would only be so to a true Dom. A switch just wouldn't work for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Valid points and feedback, appreciate the discussion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to agree with other posters. As I am submissive and there is no switch in me I would find it very difficult to submit to someone who switcehes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looks like I need to focus on what I really want and that's a Dom I have switched to keep others happy, time to focus on me,

Thanks again

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Am I the only one finding it hard to find true submissive spirits that want to bond and connect with a master.

Several have tried but don't get the trust and connection that allows a Dom to push the boundaries and give pleasure through control

Slim pickings around who want to invest rather than just get off,

Any thoughts ?"

You seek a twue sub yet are not a twue Dom.....Get yourself out into the real community and meet real people. That is how you will find a sub twue or otherwise...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be true to yourself. If you're a switch that's fine. Just find someone happy with a switch- or even better, another switch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only one finding it hard to find true submissive spirits that want to bond and connect with a master.

Several have tried but don't get the trust and connection that allows a Dom to push the boundaries and give pleasure through control

Slim pickings around who want to invest rather than just get off,

Any thoughts ?

You seek a twue sub yet are not a twue Dom.....Get yourself out into the real community and meet real people. That is how you will find a sub twue or otherwise..."

Or an equally radical suggestion, maybe put something on your profile so people have an indication that that is what you are looking for?

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