FabSwingers.com forum: What happens at parties?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so I realise this will make me look like a right muppet but hey ho. I don't know... so I'm asking.

Say it's a party for mostly couples with a few singles. Everyone mingles then eventually things get 'interesting'....

What's the etiquette? What if I get chatting to a guy that I didn't realise is there with his partner... I don't want to offend her.

And do couples usually stick together or is it ok to go off separately and play with other people?

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Your host/ ess will normally give first time attendees the low down on who's OK about what etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends what the organisers ahve set out.

if its a freeforall, then i suppose anything goes.

our parties and soft play group fun, so there is no fucking anyone that isnt your partner

no one splits off around the house, we all play together, so means no one gets cornered or forced into anything, or indeed feels pressure to do anything they dont want to.

we have had all sorts, from a couple where the gent was a voyeur, and he just watched his missus get involved while having a wank, to full swappers, that got d*unk and wanted more, but the bloke took her home lol.

takes all sorts to make a good party.

just find out with whoever is running it as each one will be different

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I normally just go in, wave my cock and say 'jump on bitches and be ruined for all other men'.

I always finish up giving soft furnishing advice to the host/hostess

guarantees a reinvite

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

All parties can be different, all have some specific rules, some are left to the individuals, and what they are happy with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pass the parcel and sleeping statues always goes down well

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and if I can, I rearrange the furniture

give the room a lighter airy feel...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jellies, trifles, drinks, ice cream, popcorn, sausages on sticks, pineapple and chees on sticks, fairy cakes, did I mention jellies, and sausages on sticks, some older birds usually do vol u vents.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All parties can be different, all have some specific rules, some are left to the individuals, and what they are happy with."

Is it fair to say that if they don't mention rules... then there are no rules?

I think I tend to worry too much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I normally just go in, wave my cock and say 'jump on bitches and be ruined for all other men'.

I always finish up giving soft furnishing advice to the host/hostess

guarantees a reinvite

Nice one. I'll whip my knickers off and point seductively at my crotch.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"All parties can be different, all have some specific rules, some are left to the individuals, and what they are happy with.

Is it fair to say that if they don't mention rules... then there are no rules?

I think I tend to worry too much.

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If they don't mention anything specific, then its left to the individuals usually xx

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"All parties can be different, all have some specific rules, some are left to the individuals, and what they are happy with.

Is it fair to say that if they don't mention rules... then there are no rules?

I think I tend to worry too much.

To be on the safe side Id ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

regardless of which party you attend, there is NEVER any pressure to play or fuck...everyone goes at their own pace...having said that, I like to just...batter in!

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