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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What’s it like? feels a bit like Monty Python nudge, nudge sketch.

I love you all and no disrespect to anyone.

Ladies: you put yourselves on here and regardless of if you even put any pictures on your profile get loads messages from pussy hungry cocks.

What’s it like? How aware are you that it could only happen in the hyper-real world of cyberspace? And please be honest do you ever let it go to your head at all?

Just wondering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't only happen in the "hyper cyberspace" world though.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Annoying

Tiring

Off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it only happens in cyber world. In RL I look like a

And no it dosnt go to my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not sure I understand what your asking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very aware that it would only happen on here some men will say anything and as my profile states I may smile at the bullshit but it goes in one ear and out the other .

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

When I first joined, it was a bit scary to be honest, then as in real life, my instincts kicked in and you very quickly suss out the genuine from the idiots. I'm not here to shag my way round the site, I'm here to make friends across the board and find a select few special guys to have lots of fun with. The fact that men find me attractive is very flattering of course, and does the power of good for one's confidence too, but I don't think I let it go to my head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok ok!

No it doesn't go to my head! I am realistic and know that some guys will say anything to get into your knickers...but that happens in real life too!

It doesn't bother me one little bit as I ways take anything a strange guy says to me with a pinch of salt!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

No it doesn't go to my head but knowing that so many men use the scattergun approach makes me question whether men will shag anything, given the chance. That makes me more dubious of their genuine interest and less trusting in general. It's easy to become suspicious and jaded on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get that many messages from the sort of men i like so im not likely to let it go to my head. i feel flattered that some men like my pictures of course.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"No it doesn't go to my head but knowing that so many men use the scattergun approach makes me question whether men will shag anything, given the chance. That makes me more dubious of their genuine interest and less trusting in general. It's easy to become suspicious and jaded on here."
I don't actually blame the guys that take that approach, they have to cast their nets far n wide, I don't think it equates to them shagging anything though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get any mail because I don't show up in searches. I don't have pics because I don't want to be anyone's wank fodder. (not that I would be!)

I am well aware that a lot of blokes will just mail anyone female and talk shit just to get a shag.... I don't like that so I prefer to go looking for people.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

I am a realist. I am not some ninny who doesn't understand how horniness disengages standards and clear thinking.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I don't get any mail because I don't show up in searches. I don't have pics because I don't want to be anyone's wank fodder. (not that I would be!)

I am well aware that a lot of blokes will just mail anyone female and talk shit just to get a shag.... I don't like that so I prefer to go looking for people. "
Thats the best way to get what you want!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I don't get any mail because I don't show up in searches. I don't have pics because I don't want to be anyone's wank fodder. (not that I would be!)

I am well aware that a lot of blokes will just mail anyone female and talk shit just to get a shag.... I don't like that so I prefer to go looking for people. Thats the best way to get what you want! "

I find chloroform is better but this is still a good approach and is the one I am currently using.

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"I'm very aware that it would only happen on here some men will say anything and as my profile states I may smile at the bullshit but it goes in one ear and out the other . "

Only some men ?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I'm very aware that it would only happen on here some men will say anything and as my profile states I may smile at the bullshit but it goes in one ear and out the other .

Only some men ?"
Yes only some men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting. Thank you all for your replies which I haven't had chance to read properly at all. Work 2.30 - 10 and now must dash to spend the nite with my 'regular friend' met on here some time ago. She's got man flu she's told me in a text (awwwwwww) so not sure how much fun tonight/ I've got her a bottle of Lucozade.

Reason for my OP? I am genuinely interested in walking mile in another (wo)man's moccasins. Maybe I need a similar post to the men who wear the aftershave for the man who doesn't have to try too hard too?

Thanks for your replies which I'm looking forward to reading properly. Don't know exactly when coz fishing with my youngest tomorrow coz of the strike.

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn


"I am not sure I understand what your asking! "

In a not so subtle way he is saying in real life most men would not look at the some of the women on here twice. So based on that how does it make you feel to come on fab and have all the men lusting after you. He is saying women get attention on here but in real life they wouldn't.

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

No never goes to my head at all, I joined here with an open mind for fun, not desperate to go with every guy that shows interest!!!

Of course it's flattering but in my experience most horny guys would fuck any wet hole given the chance lol

X

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I know exactly what I want so when (very rarely and only when I am bored) I open my profile to single men and get inundated with the usual ignorant messages I have a rejection rate of 99.99%. I do not know how you sexy ladies who do not block single men cope with it though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A copied and pasted message in text speak isn't really my cup of chablis....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ok!

No it doesn't go to my head! I am realistic and know that some guys will say anything to get into your knickers...but that happens in real life too!

It doesn't bother me one little bit as I ways take anything a strange guy says to me with a pinch of salt! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's alittle off putting, and rude, it's never flattering to hear or see... "Let me see your wet pussy" unless it's dirty talk that's asked for or during the act itself

Guys don't realize how much of a turn off it is for some women... Totally my opinion here

There's a time and place for it, I think the problem is them figuring out when that is lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am not sure I understand what your asking!

In a not so subtle way he is saying in real life most men would not look at the some of the women on here twice. So based on that how does it make you feel to come on fab and have all the men lusting after you. He is saying women get attention on here but in real life they wouldn't. "

Others reinterpreting what someone has said (myself in this instance) as if they know more about it than the OP happens quite often on these forums, doesn't it? And some girls seem to have a knack of doing it in a way that always casts men in bad light. We could ask: in 'real (pre meeting for sex via the Internet) life' how often did one think about sex? Speaking only for myself, never really off my mind.

I'm talking it's more a case of the Internet allowing NSA sex to actually happen much more often. I'm not talking how much of a super model each individual woman is really. I know I wouldn't have the pleasure of meeting nice girls for sex with no strings if it wasn't for the Internet so for me it's bloody marvellous! And how many more I'd meet if I didn't have two young children living with me much of the time will always remain a hypothetical question. Just that I have to work quite hard for it. But I get there as opposed to it coming to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A copied and pasted message in text speak isn't really my cup of chablis...."

Why do people assume all men send copy and paste messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ok!

No it doesn't go to my head! I am realistic and know that some guys will say anything to get into your knickers...but that happens in real life too!

It doesn't bother me one little bit as I ways take anything a strange guy says to me with a pinch of salt! "

This, with bells on.

Although it does get a bit off putting. I dislike receiving endless picture of battered sea creatures and broken starfish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A copied and pasted message in text speak isn't really my cup of chablis....

Why do people assume all men send copy and paste messages? "

Not all men. But it does happen, yesterday we received a 3rd c&p'd message from a guy, I questioned him on it and he swore it wasn't c&p'd and that he had sent it 3 times in total to 'remind' me.. How does that work? They were identical and I had received the first one 2 weeks ago, it's pretty clear to me he had been sending it to all and sundry and forgot that he'd already sent it to me.

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By *ubberdollieWoman
over a year ago

Stoke

Does all this male attention go to my head ? Now listen minions , I wouldn't normally lower myself to talk to you but I have a few spare moments before the maid returns with the canapés.

Of course it doesn't , but it does give me a very smug feeling when I look down from my ivory tower at all those hopeful chaps trying to scramble up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does all this male attention go to my head ? Now listen minions , I wouldn't normally lower myself to talk to you but I have a few spare moments before the maid returns with the canapés.

Of course it doesn't , but it does give me a very smug feeling when I look down from my ivory tower at all those hopeful chaps trying to scramble up..."

Rapunzel! Rapunzel! Chuck down your knickers!

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

so those of us with active filters on and not sifting through emails that get approached by men in the flesh????

Homebase is the best place to pull if you ask me, and there's no wondering if his pics are pucker either as woooocher drool and all that

Anyone paying a compliment is nice, on here though the question is do they mean it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A copied and pasted message in text speak isn't really my cup of chablis....

Why do people assume all men send copy and paste messages? "

Why assume that I suggested all single men do? Fact is before I found the message filters we got a LOT of messages that quite obviously were cut and pasted and where the sender had clearly just looked at our pictures and fired it off.

And it isn't just single men that do this.

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By *ubberdollieWoman
over a year ago

Stoke

I think if I went about my business in my Dollie persona i'd get few offers but they wouldn't be particularly pleasant!

'Normal' me is usually in jeans and trainers, paint splattered and more concerned with what to cook for tea, than trying to attract you fellas!

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