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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

recently i recieved an indecent proposal... one night at a top hotel and £2000... i was a bit taken aback lol x advice plz x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on wot they want u to for that amount of money its a fair bit to say no to xx

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

Do it......

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Depends who it is, what responsibilities and control you'd have. Sounds a bit like that thread that just got closed though

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"recently i recieved an indecent proposal... one night at a top hotel and £2000... i was a bit taken aback lol x advice plz x"

go for it

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By *heffmMan
over a year ago

sheffield

If you don't find the person offering offensive,, why not

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

My advice is to do it if you want to and not do it if you don't want to. When you think of the direction you want your life to go in is this it?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

What do you have to do in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long have they given for you to decide if you want to or not?

Is it just you or both of you as a couple? If just you then have a serious chat with the other half before making any hurried decisions. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes it was my thread but no-one was offering anything for sale and still arent, it was just a question x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask to see the money first. That will help you decide. If they actually have it or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its playing tiddlywinks do it but on a serious note would you feel comfortable with yourself afterwards

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Is this from a complete stranger? If so I would say don't do it. Your safety is far more precious then 2k.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

errmmm... i think he wants me to read him bedtime stories.. sing lullabies to him... what do u think he wants lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

your a shrewd business woman... do u want to be my agent lol x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"yes it was my thread but no-one was offering anything for sale and still arent, it was just a question x"

What is the question though? Do it or not? I would say don't do it but I'm not you, the only person who can make the decision is you really. It is prostitution basically though unless the person just wants you to do their ironing or appear in their arm at a function or something.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

surely its a wind up .. or are you that good .. what have you got to do . two grand is a lot of money .. how about a box of chocolates and some flowers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he wants you to do stuff you'd do to fun anyway then it's a no brainer. If it's other stuff then think carefully.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

to be honest with you i know i wouldnt do it, we do ok financially but would be hard one to say no too if we fell on hard times x

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

If you would do it for free, then yes. If you wouldn't consider it, then no... The money could add a buzz... and pay for a holiday etc...

If you are only thinking about it because of the money. Think long and hard about how you would feel after.... The safety aspect also needs to be considered...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

your an old romantic x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if he was fanciable i would do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds nice, but depends who it is and how they treat you and what they expect from you.

i would like to stay in nice hotel, but i prefer to meet men at my house who havnt traveled to far so i can ask them to leave when i want them to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you do it can you tell us all about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fantasy world we might play this scenario but a real offer is a different thing. Not sure how we would feel after and as we are into swinging just for fun would that be ruined too? I would question the motives of the guy, hidden cameras maybe for posting the event on the net or serious terminal sexual disease he wants to pass on? On balance we would steer clear but would never judge someone for taking up the offer as it does have a certain erotic feel to it x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"errmmm... i think he wants me to read him bedtime stories.. sing lullabies to him... what do u think he wants lol x"

Unless you know, hey go to a hotel room, take 2000 and do everything he wants for his money

Seems fair

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

my hubby said no f*****g way are u doing that..... for anything less than £5000 lol im not doing it, i was just wondering what others would suggest i do x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

u naughty girl x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"recently i recieved an indecent proposal... one night at a top hotel and £2000... i was a bit taken aback lol x advice plz x"

This sounds oddly familiar.....does he want you to wear a blond wig take you shopping and let you drive his lotus?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol my hubby would do that for 2 grand, he has no shame lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you on here for money? only its the second thread about prostitution you have started and you have a status up about used knickers

Call me cynical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol my hubby would do that for 2 grand, he has no shame lol "

Mine said he would do it for free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Kin hell.... I'll sing Soft Kitty to him for a couple of grand...

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"recently i recieved an indecent proposal... one night at a top hotel and £2000... i was a bit taken aback lol x advice plz x"

Oops forgot to ask,

Direct debit or standing order.

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By *heffmMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"recently i recieved an indecent proposal... one night at a top hotel and £2000... i was a bit taken aback lol x advice plz x

Oops forgot to ask,

Direct debit or standing order. "
tesco club points. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no certainly not, my hubby put that on the status, he likes used knickers lol the last post was not about prostitution either im sorry you took it that way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"recently i recieved an indecent proposal... one night at a top hotel and £2000... i was a bit taken aback lol x advice plz x"

How badly do you need the cash?

Alternatively, how hot is he?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

whatever its called its not what we believe this aspect is about..

seems to be far too much blurring of the lines for some folk recently..

surely anyone with that sort of money to spend would use an escort agency where they would be guaranteed to have what they want..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that plus VAT

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

as i said earlier i would never dream of doing it, it was other peoples thoughts and what theyd do that i wasinterested in hearing, he was ok looking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your hubby's there then yeah why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not do it. I am not for sale. I wouldn't be comfortable and I would be ashamed of it. I am not in such a dire financial situation that I would have to.

I don't agree with making any kind of profit from swinging, be that taking money, asking and receiving gifts or selling used knickers etc. Swinging is a hobby to me, one that I'm in control of and I do what I please. Accepting some kind of payment for it would make me feel cheap and it would become a transaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"recently i recieved an indecent proposal... one night at a top hotel and £2000... i was a bit taken aback lol x advice plz x"

My last post was prob a bit negative, can see the erotic side of this scenario and if it came about what the hell, but think it only works if you both get a kick out of it, the sum of money iS, to my mind, irrelevant x

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