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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have seen a few male profiles where they say they are a straight male but will meet TV, how does that work then? Lol

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Always wondered that myself....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesnt lol, they arent straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand it either. I read somebody else saying they considered them as women and I guess that is how some like to be considered.

Personally not for me, but I think the whole sexuality thing is complex and with no fixed rules.

I am gutted when I discover a sexy woman isn't a woman though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own, what ever floats your boat is good in my book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Personally not for me, but I think the whole sexuality thing is complex and with no fixed rules.

("

Totally agree! Although sometimes on here you'd think there were absolute rules although there's one set for each person

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

The label 'TV' covers a wide spread of girlys.

A chap may be happy to meet a well turned out attractive girly, but may pass on meeting someone who is 22 stone miner who has a huge beard and likes to wear frillies.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Its always seamed strange to me but as already said each to there own guess is somthing iv no need to understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its always seamed strange to me but as already said each to there own guess is somthing iv no need to understand "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Each to their own, what ever floats your boat is good in my book "

I agree but a TV isn't a woman so surely the man must be bi not straight lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The label 'TV' covers a wide spread of girlys.

A chap may be happy to meet a well turned out attractive girly, but may pass on meeting someone who is 22 stone miner who has a huge beard and likes to wear frillies. "

love your name by the way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen a few male profiles where they say they are a straight male but will meet TV, how does that work then? Lol"

They're the confused ones.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


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love your name by the way x"

Thanks, I aim to please. TBH I quite like having a pornstar name. Everyone remembers it when I meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The label 'TV' covers a wide spread of girlys.

A chap may be happy to meet a well turned out attractive girly, but may pass on meeting someone who is 22 stone miner who has a huge beard and likes to wear frillies. "

Can't see the problem Aslong as they leave there whippet at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once chatted to a man who would meet TV s . He said because they dressed up he see them as woman . He was not bi ... I told him start he was bi and he hated it but was the truth .. when on his profile and saying he was not bi. Some just cant face up to it being bi.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

This is like saying, a woman who meets another woman is straight, because the other women is wearing trousers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can never understand either and I dont meet bi guys or guys who go with TVs x each to their own and all that but they are not for me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is like saying, a woman who meets another woman is straight, because the other women is wearing trousers. "
sure is ..... x

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By * and K coupleTV/TS
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"I have seen a few male profiles where they say they are a straight male but will meet TV, how does that work then? Lol"

Most blokes on here are a bit confused .com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet women who wont meet bi guys ... or do I

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

TG/TS are different to TV though.

Just thought I'd add to the confusion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesnt lol, they arent straight."

They aren't straight they are confused/insecure

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"TG/TS are different to TV though.

Just thought I'd add to the confusion! "

Yes they are that's why I said TV

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i meet my tv friend every day,i turn her on with the remote.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met some really nice tv/ts's and to them they are girls and want to be treated that way so what if they have man bits its whats inside that counts and almost all of them want them bits gone..... so to say there not girls is rude in my opinion and I know im going to get shit for this lol but there are lots of straight guys on here that would love to ass fuck you girls so are they bi too????? But at the end of the day sex is sex straight, bi or gay its still only sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i meet my tv friend every day,i turn her on with the remote.

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I like it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen a few male profiles where they say they are a straight male but will meet TV, how does that work then? Lol"

I think some put it as they only occasionally put it and don't want guys coming on to them all the time. The reality is we try to compartmentalise people far too often.

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

They're usually bi-furious. This is the clinical name for someone who thinks they aren't Bisexualist but are but has yet to admit to it but thinks that seeing a "woman" person doesn't 'count'. So they're still 'straight'. And it doesn't count as an endorsement on their heterosexual history!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I can see the confusion here but to me it seems pretty straightforward.

Being straight or gay isn't, in my _iew, much to do with liking a cock to play with.

Straight men are attracted to women and some are also attracted to people who look and present like women. However, if a man doesn't fancy other men who look like men then he isn't, to me, gay or bi. Enjoying anal is down to how it feels and I don't really see much difference between enjoying a strap-on or a cock.

To me, for a man to be gay or bi he has to be sexually attracted to men who look like men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see the confusion here but to me it seems pretty straightforward.

Being straight or gay isn't, in my _iew, much to do with liking a cock to play with.

Straight men are attracted to women and some are also attracted to people who look and present like women. However, if a man doesn't fancy other men who look like men then he isn't, to me, gay or bi. Enjoying anal is down to how it feels and I don't really see much difference between enjoying a strap-on or a cock.

To me, for a man to be gay or bi he has to be sexually attracted to men who look like men."

Good point, so if I like women, only ever been with women but dabbled with a guy once and want a guy and a tv also....am I just greedy lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'm not sure a guy who meets TV's but doesn't meet men is bi. Some TV's are absolutely stunning. With respect some are more attractive than woman I have met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met some really nice tv/ts's and to them they are girls and want to be treated that way so what if they have man bits its whats inside that counts and almost all of them want them bits gone..... so to say there not girls is rude in my opinion and I know im going to get shit for this lol but there are lots of straight guys on here that would love to ass fuck you girls so are they bi too????? But at the end of the day sex is sex straight, bi or gay its still only sex lol "

For some TV's it is not just about sex but the whole lifestyle. As you say they want to be treated like ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always wondered that myself...."

that's makes 3

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I can see the confusion here but to me it seems pretty straightforward.

Being straight or gay isn't, in my _iew, much to do with liking a cock to play with.

Straight men are attracted to women and some are also attracted to people who look and present like women. However, if a man doesn't fancy other men who look like men then he isn't, to me, gay or bi. Enjoying anal is down to how it feels and I don't really see much difference between enjoying a strap-on or a cock.

To me, for a man to be gay or bi he has to be sexually attracted to men who look like men.

Good point, so if I like women, only ever been with women but dabbled with a guy once and want a guy and a tv also....am I just greedy lol x"

Do you find women attractive sexually?

Do you find men attractive sexually?

Those to me are the crux of whether someone is gay/bi/straight.

I've also heard the term playfully bi, which means able to enjoy play (to whatever extent) with both of a couple but is not sexually attracted to the man (or woman in the opposite scenario) and wouldn't play with just a man (or woman).

I'm not too fussed about exact labels. Do what you want to do as long as it's consensual and harms nobody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't fancy guys but list myself as I play bi. Sometimes you get in the moment. I suspect that some may not understand it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see the confusion here but to me it seems pretty straightforward.

Being straight or gay isn't, in my _iew, much to do with liking a cock to play with.

Straight men are attracted to women and some are also attracted to people who look and present like women. However, if a man doesn't fancy other men who look like men then he isn't, to me, gay or bi. Enjoying anal is down to how it feels and I don't really see much difference between enjoying a strap-on or a cock.

To me, for a man to be gay or bi he has to be sexually attracted to men who look like men.

Good point, so if I like women, only ever been with women but dabbled with a guy once and want a guy and a tv also....am I just greedy lol x

Do you find women attractive sexually?

Do you find men attractive sexually?

Those to me are the crux of whether someone is gay/bi/straight.

I've also heard the term playfully bi, which means able to enjoy play (to whatever extent) with both of a couple but is not sexually attracted to the man (or woman in the opposite scenario) and wouldn't play with just a man (or woman).

I'm not too fussed about exact labels. Do what you want to do as long as it's consensual and harms nobody.

"

Essentially I'm bi I think...but like u say, if both ppl happy it's all good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a question I ask many straight men looking for a meet, most common answer "if I have bi, or bi curious on my profile less women will be attracted to me, so I put straight"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"It doesnt lol, they arent straight."

...simply!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I can see the confusion here but to me it seems pretty straightforward.

Being straight or gay isn't, in my _iew, much to do with liking a cock to play with.

Straight men are attracted to women and some are also attracted to people who look and present like women. However, if a man doesn't fancy other men who look like men then he isn't, to me, gay or bi. Enjoying anal is down to how it feels and I don't really see much difference between enjoying a strap-on or a cock.

To me, for a man to be gay or bi he has to be sexually attracted to men who look like men."

Sounds like a whole load of who shot John to me. If someone really thinks a woman using a strap on makes the man bi then it's official: I've heard it all now!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yeah, a man who is shagging the arse off or sticking his cock into the mouth of a man wearing a lovely dress, wig and make up is straight, straight,straight, straight I say....

keep saying, you will convince yourself

but hey, what's a label

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"yeah, a man who is shagging the arse off or sticking his cock into the mouth of a man wearing a lovely dress, wig and make up is straight, straight,straight, straight I say....

keep saying, you will convince yourself

but hey, what's a label

"

Be fair, the man in the pretty frock and Maybeline looks better than the chav in trackie bottoms so give em a break!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"yeah, a man who is shagging the arse off or sticking his cock into the mouth of a man wearing a lovely dress, wig and make up is straight, straight,straight, straight I say....

keep saying, you will convince yourself

but hey, what's a label

Be fair, the man in the pretty frock and Maybeline looks better than the chav in trackie bottoms so give em a break! "

true, but when they both squat

there is a knob and 2 danglers

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"yeah, a man who is shagging the arse off or sticking his cock into the mouth of a man wearing a lovely dress, wig and make up is straight, straight,straight, straight I say....

keep saying, you will convince yourself

but hey, what's a label

Be fair, the man in the pretty frock and Maybeline looks better than the chav in trackie bottoms so give em a break!

true, but when they both squat

there is a knob and 2 danglers"

@ danglers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see the confusion here but to me it seems pretty straightforward.

Being straight or gay isn't, in my _iew, much to do with liking a cock to play with.

Straight men are attracted to women and some are also attracted to people who look and present like women. However, if a man doesn't fancy other men who look like men then he isn't, to me, gay or bi. Enjoying anal is down to how it feels and I don't really see much difference between enjoying a strap-on or a cock.

To me, for a man to be gay or bi he has to be sexually attracted to men who look like men.

Sounds like a whole load of who shot John to me. If someone really thinks a woman using a strap on makes the man bi then it's official: I've heard it all now! "

Who shot John lol a fan of the judge I think

But really if the person your having sex with has a penis and you have a penis them your at least bi me thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah, a man who is shagging the arse off or sticking his cock into the mouth of a man wearing a lovely dress, wig and make up is straight, straight,straight, straight I say....

keep saying, you will convince yourself

but hey, what's a label

Be fair, the man in the pretty frock and Maybeline looks better than the chav in trackie bottoms so give em a break!

true, but when they both squat

there is a knob and 2 danglers"

Pmsl

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"yeah, a man who is shagging the arse off or sticking his cock into the mouth of a man wearing a lovely dress, wig and make up is straight, straight,straight, straight I say....

keep saying, you will convince yourself

but hey, what's a label

Be fair, the man in the pretty frock and Maybeline looks better than the chav in trackie bottoms so give em a break!

true, but when they both squat

there is a knob and 2 danglers"

I just burst out laughing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yeah, a man who is shagging the arse off or sticking his cock into the mouth of a man wearing a lovely dress, wig and make up is straight, straight,straight, straight I say....

keep saying, you will convince yourself

but hey, what's a label

Be fair, the man in the pretty frock and Maybeline looks better than the chav in trackie bottoms so give em a break!

true, but when they both squat

there is a knob and 2 danglers

I just burst out laughing! "

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've met some really nice tv/ts's and to them they are girls and want to be treated that way so what if they have man bits its whats inside that counts and almost all of them want them bits gone..... so to say there not girls is rude in my opinion and I know im going to get shit for this lol but there are lots of straight guys on here that would love to ass fuck you girls so are they bi too????? But at the end of the day sex is sex straight, bi or gay its still only sex lol "

I have seen pics of TVs on here who look stunning and I am not saying anything negative about them or being rude but they have a penis so if another man meets them and oral sex takes place for both parties , does that not make the ' straight ' man bi ?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


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I have seen pics of TVs on here who look stunning and I am not saying anything negative about them or being rude but they have a penis so if another man meets them and oral sex takes place for both parties , does that not make the ' straight ' man bi ?"

I've found that a lot of girlys, myself included, prefer to perform with the other party and can gladly have a meet without our danglies being touched at all.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I've met some really nice tv/ts's and to them they are girls and want to be treated that way so what if they have man bits its whats inside that counts and almost all of them want them bits gone..... so to say there not girls is rude in my opinion and I know im going to get shit for this lol but there are lots of straight guys on here that would love to ass fuck you girls so are they bi too????? But at the end of the day sex is sex straight, bi or gay its still only sex lol

I have seen pics of TVs on here who look stunning and I am not saying anything negative about them or being rude but they have a penis so if another man meets them and oral sex takes place for both parties , does that not make the ' straight ' man bi ?"

I'd give up if I were you pet. You won't get the men that convince themselves bumming a man wearing Victoria Secrets lingerie and full slap to admit they're bi, so leave them to enjoy what they will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met some really nice tv/ts's and to them they are girls and want to be treated that way so what if they have man bits its whats inside that counts and almost all of them want them bits gone..... so to say there not girls is rude in my opinion and I know im going to get shit for this lol but there are lots of straight guys on here that would love to ass fuck you girls so are they bi too????? But at the end of the day sex is sex straight, bi or gay its still only sex lol

I have seen pics of TVs on here who look stunning and I am not saying anything negative about them or being rude but they have a penis so if another man meets them and oral sex takes place for both parties , does that not make the ' straight ' management bi ?"

Yes that is quite true but in my case it was only one way oral and one way anal as thats all they wanted off me

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I can see the confusion here but to me it seems pretty straightforward.

Being straight or gay isn't, in my _iew, much to do with liking a cock to play with.

Straight men are attracted to women and some are also attracted to people who look and present like women. However, if a man doesn't fancy other men who look like men then he isn't, to me, gay or bi. Enjoying anal is down to how it feels and I don't really see much difference between enjoying a strap-on or a cock.

To me, for a man to be gay or bi he has to be sexually attracted to men who look like men.

Sounds like a whole load of who shot John to me. If someone really thinks a woman using a strap on makes the man bi then it's official: I've heard it all now! "

Some of the men themselves worry that's what people think.

I've been asked for that type of play a fair bit before and a big proportion, certainly more than half say something along the lines of "I'm not gay but..."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've met some really nice tv/ts's and to them they are girls and want to be treated that way so what if they have man bits its whats inside that counts and almost all of them want them bits gone..... so to say there not girls is rude in my opinion and I know im going to get shit for this lol but there are lots of straight guys on here that would love to ass fuck you girls so are they bi too????? But at the end of the day sex is sex straight, bi or gay its still only sex lol

I have seen pics of TVs on here who look stunning and I am not saying anything negative about them or being rude but they have a penis so if another man meets them and oral sex takes place for both parties , does that not make the ' straight ' man bi ?

I'd give up if I were you pet. You won't get the men that convince themselves bumming a man wearing Victoria Secrets lingerie and full slap to admit they're bi, so leave them to enjoy what they will. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've met some really nice tv/ts's and to them they are girls and want to be treated that way so what if they have man bits its whats inside that counts and almost all of them want them bits gone..... so to say there not girls is rude in my opinion and I know im going to get shit for this lol but there are lots of straight guys on here that would love to ass fuck you girls so are they bi too????? But at the end of the day sex is sex straight, bi or gay its still only sex lol

I have seen pics of TVs on here who look stunning and I am not saying anything negative about them or being rude but they have a penis so if another man meets them and oral sex takes place for both parties , does that not make the ' straight ' management bi ?

Yes that is quite true but in my case it was only one way oral and one way anal as thats all they wanted off me "

But you still had sexual activity with a

male , whether she looked or acted like a female, so that to me means you're bi

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I can see the confusion here but to me it seems pretty straightforward.

Being straight or gay isn't, in my _iew, much to do with liking a cock to play with.

Straight men are attracted to women and some are also attracted to people who look and present like women. However, if a man doesn't fancy other men who look like men then he isn't, to me, gay or bi. Enjoying anal is down to how it feels and I don't really see much difference between enjoying a strap-on or a cock.

To me, for a man to be gay or bi he has to be sexually attracted to men who look like men.

Sounds like a whole load of who shot John to me. If someone really thinks a woman using a strap on makes the man bi then it's official: I've heard it all now!

Some of the men themselves worry that's what people think.

I've been asked for that type of play a fair bit before and a big proportion, certainly more than half say something along the lines of "I'm not gay but...""

I'm a Domme that only meets straight men: never had one defend his sexuality yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More confusion to be added...

Gay girl goes up to a gorgeous woman at the bar, they get on, make out, love each others boobs and soft curves, but the next morning she finds out the gorgeous girl at the bar is a pre-op TS.

Does that make her straight?

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By *hris148Man
over a year ago

.


"This is like saying, a woman who meets another woman is straight, because the other women is wearing trousers. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They mean that they are straight, and want to meet a woman who doesn't mind him sitting in front of News at Ten in his undepants, moaning at everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a tad confused on why it matters?

I'm straight, don't find men or TVs turn me on at all so have no urge in that direction, but for some it seems to be very important that if I had met a TV then they would want to play with us.

A few people women and couples say on profiles and at least one further up say they won't meet men who've been with or have verifications from TVs. This is lost on me, why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They aren't straight. If they are going to meet a man dressed as a woman for sex then they can't be straight. It doesn't matter how you dress it up they are bi.

When we did meet single men We wouldn't meet a "straight" bloke that meets tv's or bi men as mr is straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The label 'TV' covers a wide spread of girlys.

A chap may be happy to meet a well turned out attractive girly, but may pass on meeting someone who is 22 stone miner who has a huge beard and likes to wear frillies. "

Have such a wonderful mental image of the miner- bless him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a tad confused on why it matters?

I'm straight, don't find men or TVs turn me on at all so have no urge in that direction, but for some it seems to be very important that if I had met a TV then they would want to play with us.

A few people women and couples say on profiles and at least one further up say they won't meet men who've been with or have verifications from TVs. This is lost on me, why?"

Because they don't like the thought of man on man. It just puts them off so they don't want to meet a guy that's been with a guy.

If they didn't know they'd be happily oblivious. But if they do know and they don't like the thought then they won't meet him.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I can see the confusion here but to me it seems pretty straightforward.

Being straight or gay isn't, in my _iew, much to do with liking a cock to play with.

Straight men are attracted to women and some are also attracted to people who look and present like women. However, if a man doesn't fancy other men who look like men then he isn't, to me, gay or bi. Enjoying anal is down to how it feels and I don't really see much difference between enjoying a strap-on or a cock.

To me, for a man to be gay or bi he has to be sexually attracted to men who look like men.

Sounds like a whole load of who shot John to me. If someone really thinks a woman using a strap on makes the man bi then it's official: I've heard it all now!

Some of the men themselves worry that's what people think.

I've been asked for that type of play a fair bit before and a big proportion, certainly more than half say something along the lines of "I'm not gay but..."

I'm a Domme that only meets straight men: never had one defend his sexuality yet."

Perhaps there's a difference between men who want to submit and men who just want anal play without any D/s.

I've played with subs. I'm trying to think whether any of them have mentioned it or if it's more the guys who don't identify as sub. I'm not sure but I'm curious about it now.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I can see the confusion here but to me it seems pretty straightforward.

Being straight or gay isn't, in my _iew, much to do with liking a cock to play with.

Straight men are attracted to women and some are also attracted to people who look and present like women. However, if a man doesn't fancy other men who look like men then he isn't, to me, gay or bi. Enjoying anal is down to how it feels and I don't really see much difference between enjoying a strap-on or a cock.

To me, for a man to be gay or bi he has to be sexually attracted to men who look like men.

Sounds like a whole load of who shot John to me. If someone really thinks a woman using a strap on makes the man bi then it's official: I've heard it all now!

Some of the men themselves worry that's what people think.

I've been asked for that type of play a fair bit before and a big proportion, certainly more than half say something along the lines of "I'm not gay but..."

I'm a Domme that only meets straight men: never had one defend his sexuality yet.

Perhaps there's a difference between men who want to submit and men who just want anal play without any D/s.

I've played with subs. I'm trying to think whether any of them have mentioned it or if it's more the guys who don't identify as sub. I'm not sure but I'm curious about it now."

In my experience, straight men I've played with outside of D/s haven't allowed me anywhere near their arses: sub men hand over their bodies for me to use as I wish. Anal play is expected!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a tad confused on why it matters?

I'm straight, don't find men or TVs turn me on at all so have no urge in that direction, but for some it seems to be very important that if I had met a TV then they would want to play with us.

A few people women and couples say on profiles and at least one further up say they won't meet men who've been with or have verifications from TVs. This is lost on me, why?

Because they don't like the thought of man on man. It just puts them off so they don't want to meet a guy that's been with a guy.

If they didn't know they'd be happily oblivious. But if they do know and they don't like the thought then they won't meet him."

It's an odd one that. If we start deciding on who we should have sex with based on who they've had sex with nobody would get laid

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I can see the confusion here but to me it seems pretty straightforward.

Being straight or gay isn't, in my _iew, much to do with liking a cock to play with.

Straight men are attracted to women and some are also attracted to people who look and present like women. However, if a man doesn't fancy other men who look like men then he isn't, to me, gay or bi. Enjoying anal is down to how it feels and I don't really see much difference between enjoying a strap-on or a cock.

To me, for a man to be gay or bi he has to be sexually attracted to men who look like men.

Sounds like a whole load of who shot John to me. If someone really thinks a woman using a strap on makes the man bi then it's official: I've heard it all now!

Some of the men themselves worry that's what people think.

I've been asked for that type of play a fair bit before and a big proportion, certainly more than half say something along the lines of "I'm not gay but..."

I'm a Domme that only meets straight men: never had one defend his sexuality yet.

Perhaps there's a difference between men who want to submit and men who just want anal play without any D/s.

I've played with subs. I'm trying to think whether any of them have mentioned it or if it's more the guys who don't identify as sub. I'm not sure but I'm curious about it now.

In my experience, straight men I've played with outside of D/s haven't allowed me anywhere near their arses: sub men hand over their bodies for me to use as I wish. Anal play is expected! "

Now that's weird because I'm asked about strap-on and anal play regularly by straight guys who either don't know anything about D/s or aren't interested in subbing, (and if they think I am subbing they can forget about it!!!)

It's particularly strange, to me, that men seem to have this holy grail thing about women who'll allow anal but in my actual experience, behind closed doors they are far more interested in me giving than taking.

Maybe Sydney University would sponsor a psychology research fund.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen a few male profiles where they say they are a straight male but will meet TV, how does that work then? Lol"

Guys can't make their mind up if they want a relationship or not never mind if they want to play with a tv or not. The ones I have chatted to have said they see a tv as feminine so go figure but I can see how its not totally black or white on this subject.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some TV's are very convincing but others are simply just bad cross dressing wannabes

It's not surprising some guys find them attractive.

To be honest some are better turned out than a lot of women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a bloke meets someone else with a cock they are bi quite simple genetics cocks mean male.

The blokes aint confused just not honest. I get quite a few straight blokes after my cock i dont meet them as i prefer folk to be upfront about things perhaps i am old school but hey ho tally ho.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We all meet people according to our own preferences, that's a given. How we label and refer to others demands some respect, as we've seen from history and the terrible insults and injustices and injuries that have resulted.

In many cultures, gender hasn't simply been thought of as solely two genders, and this does make some sense. Someone's gender is what they perceive it to be. At a minute level, genetic, chromosome and other influences affect gender, and ultimately it should be solely the individual person themselves that decides their own gender.

Most people think, for example, that it's either XX or XY chromosome sets that determine gender but even this isn't correct, as there are more combinations that occur than just these. At a genetic level, I don't believe that we really know all there is to be understood about gender either, and when it comes to human minds, we're only just scratching the surface.

So, you may encounter someone who has differing genetic, chromosome or other makeup to you. In western culture, it seems that we're determined to want things to be either a or b, and not to be particularly comfortable with other options. This despite the fact that most of those same individuals want to be able to choose their own destinies, and to be proclaim their own uniqueness and differences from others.

Transgender people are protected by law, and it is illegal to harrass us. Think carefully about what you may say or do with regards to a person like myself. (I don't take offence, of course, if someone chooses not to have sex with me - I only have sex with people where there is mutual interest). But I do take offence where people try to intimidate, harrass or offend me. I have thick skin, though I'm also human and have my own sensitivities, and my gender is something that I cherish and I do not expect to be bullied, put down or referred to in a disrespectful manner etc.

So, coming back to gender. If someone plays with someone else's breasts at a swinging club, kisses an apparently female person but only does such soft swing play - does it make them bi, bicurious or even gay, if - for some reason - that person also has some aspects of a less feminine form, even though they didn't get to enjoy the benefits of it? It would seem somewhat silly to conceive of things this way. It's such a person's right to be in a club, or anywhere else, and consent to play, isn't it? Should such a person be expected to detail any genetic information that they may be aware of, their status regarding passport, birth certificate gender etc?

Being born a somewhat self-perceived tomboy female, assuming that masculine gender for a while, and then reassuming the primary gender as female, which I conclude makes for a transgender person, what the hell would someone expect to be told, if they're looking for casual no strings sex? Very few swingers, or casual shaggers outside of the swinging world, want detailed personal histories before or during some sex from anyone, where there's no thought of an ongoing emotional involvement. You've kind of got to take things at face value. You play with my breasts, I only am interested in you finding me attractive, and how attractive I find you, and what sexual pleasures we can have.

I use Fab as a component of my social and sexual life. I'm not just here for sex and I don't just befriend people who want to shag me. My experience has been that there are some great people in the swinging world, and I really enjoy my time at clubs, and haven't felt _iewed in a somewhat 'less than' way, compared to others. I find it great when Fab works this way too.

It helps when we remember that not everyone fits into just one or two simple pieces of a mold, as much as we might try to cram them into it. People who've got a profile that includes trans people, I don't assume that they're looking for cock, pussy or anything specifically sexually, even if they have a long list of sexual interests also listed: these won't relate to every sexual partner, nor for every meet that they have - some won't be fully sexual.

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