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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't see what people get out of messing people around puzzles me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes peeps do have a legitimate reason not to show up, but if they are half decent they will call you or let you know.

you are gonna get timewasters mate. the only thing to do is try to limit your chances of picking one.

make sure you can talk to them by phone or verifiy they are genuine by cam the night before.

Dont go long distances, set a limit as to how far you will travel and stick to it.

tell them when you are about to set off, and if you dont get a response, dont go.

get a working mobile number from them and test it. noone should not have a mobile now, infact some get a disposable just for meets and fab life only.

general rule of thumb mate, dont over reach. if it looks to good to be true, it often is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never understood the term timewaster,

we are all here for different reasons, some use the site to have an orgasm, without ever meeting anyone, they get of on the fantasy of meeting someone, and get their knee trembler by chatting, so they are certainly not wasting time.

As for being let down re a meet, usually that is your own fault, for not taking the right steps in arranging a meet.

Also remember not to expect anything, or you will usually be disappointed, when you have full balls you have an empty head, morals, and logic go out the window.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Define "timewaster".

Someone who made an arrangement to meet and didn't show up without letting you know?

Someone who made an arrangement to meet and cancelled an hour or two before?

Someone who made an arrangement to meet and cancelled a day or two before?

Someone who made an arrangement to meet and cancelled with several days or more notice?

Someone who you want to meet but who seems to want to exchange some messages and get to know you a bit first?

Someone who is insisting on a social meet first?

Someone who originally seemed interested or said they were interested and then changed their mind?

Someone who didn't reply to the message you took the time to send them?

Someone with a profile on a sex site but dared to say no thanks?

Someone who said maybe but not right now?

I've heard all of these described as "timewasting", so which do you mean?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Define "timewaster".

Someone who made an arrangement to meet and didn't show up without letting you know?

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This....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people allow themselfs to be messed about then sound off when plans dont go well then go on talking to them.

Its fab for me its a one chance saloon type of place...i only arrange meets with people ive got to know a bit and if it was called off for a valid reason then all is good it cant be helped.....but if someone didnt confirm a meet before i got ready i wouldnt be getting ready i wouldnt allow my time to be wasted

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Define "timewaster".

Someone who made an arrangement to meet and didn't show up without letting you know?

Someone who made an arrangement to meet and cancelled an hour or two before?

Someone who made an arrangement to meet and cancelled a day or two before?

Someone who made an arrangement to meet and cancelled with several days or more notice?

Someone who you want to meet but who seems to want to exchange some messages and get to know you a bit first?

Someone who is insisting on a social meet first?

Someone who originally seemed interested or said they were interested and then changed their mind?

Someone who didn't reply to the message you took the time to send them?

Someone with a profile on a sex site but dared to say no thanks?

Someone who said maybe but not right now?

I've heard all of these described as "timewasting", so which do you mean?"

brilliant response...

the only one that is applicable in my eyes is the first one....

Someone who made an arrangement to meet and didn't show up without letting you know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One person's timewaster is another person's undertaker!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Some people allow themselfs to be messed about then sound off when plans dont go well then go on talking to them.

Its fab for me its a one chance saloon type of place...i only arrange meets with people ive got to know a bit and if it was called off for a valid reason then all is good it cant be helped.....but if someone didnt confirm a meet before i got ready i wouldnt be getting ready i wouldnt allow my time to be wasted "

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