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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does it bother you if a potential partner (and by that I mean someone you would like to be in a relationship with) has had sex with alot people and what number would you class as 'alot' xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all... I would be planning on adding a fair few more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Er?!

Well my actual partner has sex with a lot of people. Was kind of the point of being here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes no difference to me at all thats in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The past is the past and you can't change it so why worry

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

If they had had more than me... Yes.

I like to win

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Personally I would rather not be with someone who felt the need to tell me how many....

I sure as hell wouldnt be telling him, and I wouldnt be happy if he asked....

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"Does it bother you if a potential partner (and by that I mean someone you would like to be in a relationship with) has had sex with alot people and what number would you class as 'alot' xx"

It would bother me,yes. I'd not feel comfortable if the woman had had more partners than me. I guess its just some sort of insecurity on my part though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope, not at all, why would it

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

nope

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"Er?!

Well my actual partner has sex with a lot of people. Was kind of the point of being here."

That's similar to what I was thinking, and as long as I'm present then it's all great fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know if there is an equation for "a lot" but I guess time scale has to come into it. 200 partners over 40 years is what 5 a year is that worse or better than 100 in 10 years or 50 in 5 months? Personally I think there are a lot more important issues in a relationship than the no of times your genitals have been in contact with someone else's but thats me.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

past is past, as long as I was only person he was with now

p.s my bf is a flirt but I trust him 100% and that's the main thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I would rather not be with someone who felt the need to tell me how many....

I sure as hell wouldnt be telling him, and I wouldnt be happy if he asked....

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This ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Er?!

Well my actual partner has sex with a lot of people. Was kind of the point of being here.

That's similar to what I was thinking, and as long as I'm present then it's all great fun!"

This is one of those moments when I wonder if I've stumbled into the wrong place.

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

I often feel like in twilight zone on this site

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"I often feel like in twilight zone on this site

"

"You unlock this door with the key of imagination. Beyond it is another dimension - a dimension of sound, a dimension of sight, a dimension of mind. You're moving into a land of both shadow and substance, of things and ideas. You've just crossed over into the......FAB FORUMS"!!!!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

What's with all the number threads? Do people count the number of encounters they have had on Fab, in clubs at parties?

I don't care and wouldn't be with someone who does care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as you start getting worried about someone's swinging past it's time to get out of swinging - or as a minimum take a beak from it

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I never read this as it being someone from here....

Last place I would be looking for a potential partner....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it bother you if a potential partner (and by that I mean someone you would like to be in a relationship with) has had sex with alot people and what number would you class as 'alot' xx"

No, because I know I will be the best he's had

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Makes no difference to me at all thats in the past "

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I never read this as it being someone from here....

Last place I would be looking for a potential partner....

"

I wasn't thinking of the potential relationship coming from here necessarily but I hate the idea that anyone on here would be bothered about an 'acceptable' number.

I have had men in the past tell me that because I had had sex with more than 20 men (over 12 years) they couldn't continue the relationship as that was too many. Only one had a number lower than mine.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"

I wasn't thinking of the potential relationship coming from here necessarily but I hate the idea that anyone on here would be bothered about an 'acceptable' number.

"

Think they would have a bloody cheek if it they did.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as she ain't fucked as many as me

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

If I ever meet a man who's had more than me I'll be flabbergasted!

But it's about attitude: why so many partners? Some people sleep around because they have no respect or consideration for the opposite sex. Others (like most of us) as a voyage of discovery, new experience and mutual pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately I've found to my cost in the past that it is better to be dishonest about the amount of sexual partners you have had. It only gets thrown back in your face. Men seem to be very insecure about it. All from my personal experience obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it bother you if a potential partner (and by that I mean someone you would like to be in a relationship with) has had sex with alot people and what number would you class as 'alot' xx"

Not at all. There was a quite big difference between us when we got together. Not that we knew till much later on. It's not an issue for us at all x

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

I only date virgins

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