FabSwingers.com forum: meeting again

By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

if you met someone and they got in touch about having a repeat performance but you really didn't want to see them ever again what excuse would you give?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Well you could be brutally honest and say you didn't enjoy x y or z, that in retrospect you're not that attracted to them, or whatever the reason is.

Or you could say you don't do repeat meets?

Or just be very very busy till they give up asking?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

apologies sent

No thanks, wish you all the best

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Well you could be brutally honest and say you didn't enjoy x y or z, that in retrospect you're not that attracted to them, or whatever the reason is.

Or you could say you don't do repeat meets?

Or just be very very busy till they give up asking?"

the last one could work just don't want them thinking they were crap in bed

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Were they crap in bed though?

I've tried the being busy thing and some still persist after many months so may be better to be more brutal lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you would say thanks but your not really my type, couldnt very well say what you really thought could you.

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Were they crap in bed though?

I've tried the being busy thing and some still persist after many months so may be better to be more brutal lol"

not always lol I either click with them or I dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them you have herpes, but as soon as it clears up you are available to meet... it should scare them off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the reason.

If they were a total dick, lied, were selfish etc... I may well be brutally honest.

If they were basically a nice person but just didn't do it for me I would be delicately honest.

Either way I would be honest as, from my experience, people tend not to get the message if you leave them with even a tad of hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a regular sort of boyfriend now always works for me x x

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Tell them you have herpes, but as soon as it clears up you are available to meet... it should scare them off!

lol that could backfire if he spread that around here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell them you have herpes, but as soon as it clears up you are available to meet... it should scare them off!

lol that could backfire if he spread that around here lol"

Maybe. I tell people I have green fly

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