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Regrets in life.?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There is no such thing as a life without any regrets. However regrets can become either burdens that interfere with your present happiness and restrict your future or motivation to move forward. Have you found yourself overcome by regrets how did you deal with it ?? I know we can't live in the past and looking back don't always help, But we do live and lean. Now have that song in my head My way , lolol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i regret not leaving my ex all those years ago when i really should have

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"There is no such thing as a life without any regrets. However regrets can become either burdens that interfere with your present happiness and restrict your future or motivation to move forward. Have you found yourself overcome by regrets how did you deal with it ?? I know we can't live in the past and looking back don't always help, But we do live and lean. Now have that song in my head My way , lolol"

I am trying to live my life so that I only regret what I haven't done rather than what I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you do of course live and learn, it makes us the people we are today. But you should never regret anything you have done, you could never alter/change the past and it should stay firmly there or else you will dwell on it and it will become all consuming.

The current and future are far more important to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but then the question begs

do you class your mistakes as mistakes or lessons learnt or experiences ?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I've made some huge ass mistakes over the yrs an there's lots id do different with the nollage iv gained but if I not made the mistakes I'd not have the nollage so in all honesty I can't say I regret any of them they all tort me something good and bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've made some huge ass mistakes over the yrs an there's lots id do different with the nollage iv gained but if I not made the mistakes I'd not have the nollage so in all honesty I can't say I regret any of them they all tort me something good and bad"
yes that's a good positive way of looking at things. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no such thing as a life without any regrets. However regrets can become either burdens that interfere with your present happiness and restrict your future or motivation to move forward. Have you found yourself overcome by regrets how did you deal with it ?? I know we can't live in the past and looking back don't always help, But we do live and lean. Now have that song in my head My way , lolol

I am trying to live my life so that I only regret what I haven't done rather than what I have"

+1

I have been offered 3 jobs in the USA over the years and for one reason or another, never took them. They are one of my few regrets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regetted divorcing my ex wife because the grass wasn't green on the other side.she was the best thing that happened in my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i was a teenager i met a man from nigeria, and when my parents found out they were shocked so i told him i didnt want to see him again, i thought maybe they were right, people would stare at us and he was shorter than me, only afterwards my mum said she didnt mind me seeing him, maybe he was a nice man its just that she was surprised to see me with him as where we live i only knew of two black people.

Years later i regreted it because he seemed so nice.

just little things like that i regret sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any regrets.... Life's to short!

I just learn from my mistakes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I regetted divorcing my ex wife because the grass wasn't green on the other side.she was the best thing that happened in my life."
That's very sad you never knew until it was too late. x Really hope you told her even if it was over .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

game,the funny thing was that we were only married for 9 years,but remain best mate for the next 30 odd years.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"I don't have any regrets.... Life's to short!

I just learn from my mistakes!

"

Pretty much this

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I don't have any regrets.... Life's to short!

I just learn from my mistakes!

"

would you care to make me another mistake ? he he

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a rollercoaster of a life and made many bad choices but I never hold on to feelings of regret or guilt for long, it's very damaging to do so. Just live, learn and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but then the question begs

do you class your mistakes as mistakes or lessons learnt or experiences ?"

Lessons learned defo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a rollercoaster of a life and made many bad choices but I never hold on to feelings of regret or guilt for long, it's very damaging to do so. Just live, learn and move on"

Thats sooo true!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"game,the funny thing was that we were only married for 9 years,but remain best mate for the next 30 odd years."
And I really hope you told her how you felt .. as it sounds like you loved her and still do. xx

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

Biggest regret i have is listening to so called 'family' who try to control my life for their own gain and not let me be me.

It's cost me a lot in life but hopefully working towards my own happiness now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had a few...... far too mention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had a few...... far many too mention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have any regrets.... Life's to short!

I just learn from my mistakes!

"

live in the present, look forward to the future and learn from the past.

"What's done is done and what's won is won, and what's lost is lost and gone forever" Phil Coulter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only 1 main regret really and thats playing the hockey match that led to my med discharge from the army.... then again i've seen some of the women a few days later and thats also led to regret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Game I told her all the time,how much I loved her,i told her till her dying day in 27 February 2008

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regret how I've let some people treat me and how they have made me feel but some lessons have taken me longer to learn than others but I'm getting there

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I regret wasting years on someone and ruining my life

I regret meeting him again but that helped me realise I didn't want him anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regret picking up a tube of DeepHeat instead of lube from the bedside table

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I regret never falling in love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I regret picking up a tube of DeepHeat instead of lube from the bedside table "

Ouch. That'll teach you to play with an anal speculum

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"There is no such thing as a life without any regrets. However regrets can become either burdens that interfere with your present happiness and restrict your future or motivation to move forward. Have you found yourself overcome by regrets how did you deal with it ?? I know we can't live in the past and looking back don't always help, But we do live and lean. Now have that song in my head My way , lolol"

Actually you can live without regrets. I do. What is past is past - you learn from your mistakes and they make you a better or wiser person. Therefore, there is nothing to regret. Each experience, however unpleasant it may be, is important and teaches you something.

Non, je ne regrette rien.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything in life that gives me data is not a regret. If I got Data it's feedback!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I think in reality I should have started a new life after the kids left home.

I cant complain really Im lucky in many ways but have missed out on life for 20 years. Dont know how I would have managed alone though.

Now too late to rectify.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no such thing as a life without any regrets. However regrets can become either burdens that interfere with your present happiness and restrict your future or motivation to move forward. Have you found yourself overcome by regrets how did you deal with it ?? I know we can't live in the past and looking back don't always help, But we do live and lean. Now have that song in my head My way , lolol"

Regrets on how my life turn out no.... regrets over past loves and lovers no .

I prefer to move forward looking back only to remember a lesson learned you can't regret any think in life as life's to short to regret any part of living .

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By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

I regretted going out drinking on Sunday when I woke up on Monday morning

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I regret never falling in love "
Well there still time .. xx Never say Never it come calling when your not looking. xxx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I regret never falling in love Well there still time .. xx Never say Never it come calling when your not looking. xxx"

I meant when I was younger, I have zero desire for it now: I am truly happy single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive never regreted joinin fab best thing since sliced bread

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not knocking on my first loves door. We'd split due to external circumstances but I ended up back living where he was n passing by his door. Have since discovered he was also single at the time n would've loved to see me. Both since married I'm divorced.

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By *yphoon1Man
over a year ago

if I regretted even one thing or chose to change the past in any way even if i could then I most likely wouldnt b where I am now with my wonderful partner.

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

Missed chances with females when i was young and naive

Not having ex done in as i was offered but i chose not to deny my daughter her mother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes you do of course live and learn, it makes us the people we are today. But you should never regret anything you have done, you could never alter/change the past and it should stay firmly there or else you will dwell on it and it will become all consuming.

The current and future are far more important to me.

"

My thoughts exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regret posting dumb things sometimes.

In life, got to learn from mistakes and keep smiling. Things have an odd way of turning out ok in the end.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Everyday I live with one regret....However everyday it becomes easier to deal with...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is one big ol' learning curve, I don't have any regrets, just experiences that have shaped me, it's all part of me and makes me who I am today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could (& nearly did!!) list all the times I'd like to go back to and have a little word with myself!! But if I changed anything I wouldn't be where I am here & now. And its a pretty cool place.

The past is history, the future a mystery, but now is a gift... that's why its called the present.

(Yes I did just quote Kung Fu Panda!!)

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By *yphoon1Man
over a year ago

experience is the test first and lesson after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leaving the RAF when I could have signed on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not finding this site sooner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here......here jane we like minded

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Life is one big ol' learning curve, I don't have any regrets, just experiences that have shaped me, it's all part of me and makes me who I am today."
Yes you're right in saying that .. I have one very big one .. My dad was taken into hospital They was going to let us take him home but had him stay in a side room .. 2 nd day I go into see him he is sitting on end of the bed saying joanne you coming to take me home I say I can't Dad your not well ............ next morning mum had a call he was dead had an aneurysm. I just wish I had taken him home to die in his own bed .. as he always said when he was going to go he wished to be at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but then the question begs

do you class your mistakes as mistakes or lessons learnt or experiences ?"

Lessons lernt id say never to be done again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes you do of course live and learn, it makes us the people we are today. But you should never regret anything you have done, you could never alter/change the past and it should stay firmly there or else you will dwell on it and it will become all consuming.

The current and future are far more important to me.

My thoughts exactly! "

Mine too julie summed it up pretty well really xx

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