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How many of you have caught an std off anyone in here.?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Without making this to deep a subject ..what was it ,did you let them know and has or did it change your swinging ways .?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never.. In fact never had one in my life.

I have the depo pill every 3 months so tested for the usual STI's and every 6 months recommended via the GUM staff for all tests!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^^^^ with or without playing I have the tests out of habit now. Better to be safe than sorry!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After catching worts from a girl I'd been with i make sure I get checked out after each partner,

I'd hate to have something like that again.

She wasn't to pleased to find out she had passed them in to me,but knew who she got them from.

Very careful now ,there's lots of nasty bugs out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never understand why people DON'T get checked out when they are actively seeking fun and getting it.. Very selfish and careless of them if you ask me!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Caught crabs of a woman I was seeing in 1991, pesky little critters they are

It was fun shaving each other though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never understand why people DON'T get checked out when they are actively seeking fun and getting it.. Very selfish and careless of them if you ask me! "

Very true.

It's great to have the fun part,but you do have to be sensible with it.

Unfortunately for me worts is a thing that has a long incubation time, so if your highly active could be passed on to a few people before you know .

They certainly open your eyes in these clinics when they sit you down and chat about what's what lol

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

*off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Caught crabs of a woman I was seeing in 1991, pesky little critters they are

It was fun shaving each other though "

Same year I had them , caught them off a bloody nurse of all people ,you would have thought she'd have known ay lol

I was so embarrassed an old guy went in the shop for me to get the cream, burns like Fook lol

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Never had an itching like it before and have no desire to repeat the experience.

Most rappers don't touch their balls as much as I did back then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never had an itching like it before and have no desire to repeat the experience.

Most rappers don't touch their balls as much as I did back then "

Wasn't something I'd be rushing to sainsbury's to get lol

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By *ebsCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Orpington/london


"^^^^ with or without playing I have the tests out of habit now. Better to be safe than sorry!! "

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By *ebsCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Orpington/london


"I never understand why people DON'T get checked out when they are actively seeking fun and getting it.. Very selfish and careless of them if you ask me! "

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By *lubcouple2Couple
over a year ago

newport


"After catching worts from a girl I'd been with i make sure I get checked out after each partner,

I'd hate to have something like that again.

She wasn't to pleased to find out she had passed them in to me,but knew who she got them from.

Very careful now ,there's lots of nasty bugs out there.

"

You say you no you caught warts off this 1 imparticular person how would you know this as warts can stay dormant for many years without you haveing a single wart and once you have had an 'episode'you may never have 1 again but you will always carry the virus and most people have them come up again when run down (yes waiting times in my gum clinic r a joke n reading leaflets tends 2 pass time)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After catching worts from a girl I'd been with i make sure I get checked out after each partner,

I'd hate to have something like that again.

She wasn't to pleased to find out she had passed them in to me,but knew who she got them from.

Very careful now ,there's lots of nasty bugs out there.

You say you no you caught warts off this 1 imparticular person how would you know this as warts can stay dormant for many years without you haveing a single wart and once you have had an 'episode'you may never have 1 again but you will always carry the virus and most people have them come up again when run down (yes waiting times in my gum clinic r a joke n reading leaflets tends 2 pass time)"

All very true , she was the only person I'd slept within three years,so very unlikely to be anyone else .

It was over a year before I dated someone else , as it had put me off.

The clinic adviser warned me that they could re occur.

Luckily I've not had any instances since which has been over 12 years

Even buy wearing condoms it doesn't stop them spreading, they can be transmitted by any kind of contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been very very lucky.. never caught anything, but after a recent incident with someone I knew my play partner and I changed how we played with others.

Due to being a greedy girl I used to go every month... I tend to still go every 4 to 6 weeks regardless.. due to incubation periods etc..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been very very lucky.. never caught anything, but after a recent incident with someone I knew my play partner and I changed how we played with others.

Due to being a greedy girl I used to go every month... I tend to still go every 4 to 6 weeks regardless.. due to incubation periods etc.. "

The incubation periods of some infections can be long, I've seen a few profiles in here of people meeting week in week out, some several times in one week,

It only takes one mistake,broken condom , creating a Pyramid effect .

Looking at some profile pictures ,there seems to be more and bareback pictures ,which is one of the reasons for this post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago my bf said he thought I had warts. I was absolutely mortified. I went to the gum clinic and saw a very young dr who said I had them. Gave me cream etc. My relationship ended because of that. I decided to go back a few weeks later as I didn't think the cream was working as the "warts" were still there. I was lucky enough that day to see the head clinician and he apologised profusely to me and told me I didn't have warts at all. The "funny shaped" things were actually just what he called "vaginal remnants", just the shape of my internal bits. To say I was pissed off was an understatement!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

The incubation periods of some infections can be long, I've seen a few profiles in here of people meeting week in week out, some several times in one week,

It only takes one mistake,broken condom , creating a Pyramid effect .

Looking at some profile pictures ,there seems to be more and bareback pictures ,which is one of the reasons for this post "

Oh I meet most weeks and actually till this year triple numbers in a month weren't unheard of.. but I did mostly play safe.. before I started swinging properly though, condoms were not used by me... As I said I was lucky. My first test I was terrified..

But now I play with someone regular I'm super careful by my standards... Won't swallow, rarely take cum in mouth etc... And to be honest full sex is normally with my play partner..

If we do a gangbang they just cum over me.... But despite the change in how I play I still get tested often.. not least for my peace of mind. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Years ago my bf said he thought I had warts. I was absolutely mortified. I went to the gum clinic and saw a very young dr who said I had them. Gave me cream etc. My relationship ended because of that. I decided to go back a few weeks later as I didn't think the cream was working as the "warts" were still there. I was lucky enough that day to see the head clinician and he apologised profusely to me and told me I didn't have warts at all. The "funny shaped" things were actually just what he called "vaginal remnants", just the shape of my internal bits. To say I was pissed off was an understatement!!!!"

Oh I had that 5 years ago.. I thought I had warts... Turned out to be same as yours. I also have some scar tissue from being stitched after an incident near my bottom... And that I thought was one too.. they offered to remove that but I don't fancy more messing about.

But that's awful that you had to go through that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure you will get many honest answers on a swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I bet you were.

God that's bad, I think half the time they don't even know.

I'm guessing they push young nurses through different departments like they do at any company to give them the experience.

If they have only seen certain things in books ,pictures etc ,It's hardly surprising they get things wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not sure you will get many honest answers on a swinging site."

Very true,that's why I said try and keep it light ,were all responsible adults.

Everyone has a duty of care to themselves and others.

I was hoping for some funny stories as well lol

Touchy subject I know but swingers are of a mind set which can make a joke of it

No excuse not to play safe though

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


"Caught crabs of a woman I was seeing in 1991, pesky little critters they are

It was fun shaving each other though "

Did she happen to come from Cornwall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have trouble with crabs just spread syrup on your bits. Doesn't kill the crabs but rots their teeth so they cant bite anymore

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Caught crabs of a woman I was seeing in 1991, pesky little critters they are

It was fun shaving each other though

Did she happen to come from Cornwall.

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TAXI

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had an itching like it before and have no desire to repeat the experience.

Most rappers don't touch their balls as much as I did back then "
I am sure this is why people in the 80/90 s started to shave there bits ........ you don't here so much about crabs now do you . ? and thank god ,

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By *r appyMan
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

nsu from one night stand a few years ago,i passed it onto three girlfriends in three months. so getting tested every 3 months isn't a guarantee that you are free from infection , you could catch something the same day as your test and not know for three months!

Always safe sex rubber up!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

no, but never say never

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"nsu from one night stand a few years ago,i passed it onto three girlfriends in three months. so getting tested every 3 months isn't a guarantee that you are free from infection , you could catch something the same day as your test and not know for three months!

Always safe sex rubber up!"

Sounds like you had some explaining to do lol

But when you think that if the three girls were sleeping with more than one guy and the guys they were with to , what a knock on effect that could have

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Even a simple blow job could get you something more than you started with , It's all quite scary ,and surprising that any of us have sex at all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bet loads are queuing up to admit to having something currently or having caught something off here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bet loads are queuing up to admit to having something currently or having caught something off here "

That's true, seen a few people having so called breaks from here ..lol

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

the only true safe sex is NO sex butt that would be boring condoms

thing is to remember that if the person you are with has multiple partners you are sleeping with all them too

if they don't want to wear a condon that shows they prob didn't with them leaving you at risk

im lucky ive never had anything

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


"Never had an itching like it before and have no desire to repeat the experience.

Most rappers don't touch their balls as much as I did back then I am sure this is why people in the 80/90 s started to shave there bits ........ you don't here so much about crabs now do you . ? and thank god , "

Probably depends if you live by the coast Jo, from my experience.

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By *ibanditMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I go to the GUM every few months for the full check-up. Thankfully they've stopped the swab down the cock - unless you've a discharge - and rely on the urine test.

It's always a relief when the phone hasn't rung after the fortnights wait!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I caught chlamydia off a regular FB from another well known swinging site about 5 years ago. I used condoms with him for about 6 weeks then I was persuaded to forgo those as he'd had a recent check, or so he said!(never trust a man!).

I now have a full screen every 6-12 weeks depending on how many partners I've had. I just go to family planning and they take one bottle of blood for HIV and syphilis and then I do my own self swab. Easy peasy. Don't even have to get my floo out

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