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By *exxifun5 OP   Couple
over a year ago

NORWICH

Ok after another night of no sleep ..as tom is tossing and turning beside me... we have decided its time for a new bed. As tom has a bad back we really need a good supportive mattress . But after my initial browse on t internet, I am confused. so my question is what is the best supportive mattress for a bad back ... but not memory foam as I sleep on my front and my my big boobs make sinking in curve my back ...

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Best thing to do is go into somewhere like Dreams or another mattress shop and talk to them and try out a few mattresses by having a lie down.

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By *exxifun5 OP   Couple
over a year ago

NORWICH


"Best thing to do is go into somewhere like Dreams or another mattress shop and talk to them and try out a few mattresses by having a lie down."

Thats what I have been thinking its just getting time to go together round toms shifts xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Get separate mattresses.

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"Best thing to do is go into somewhere like Dreams or another mattress shop and talk to them and try out a few mattresses by having a lie down.

Thats what I have been thinking its just getting time to go together round toms shifts xx "

Just don't ever buy a mattress online without trying it out first in a shop.

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By *exxifun5 OP   Couple
over a year ago

NORWICH


"Get separate mattresses. "

Not quite ready for separate beds yet lol

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By *exxifun5 OP   Couple
over a year ago

NORWICH


"Best thing to do is go into somewhere like Dreams or another mattress shop and talk to them and try out a few mattresses by having a lie down.

Thats what I have been thinking its just getting time to go together round toms shifts xx

Just don't ever buy a mattress online without trying it out first in a shop."

Think we might be spending our weekend laying on beds in public then as I need some sleep !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a look at Vi Spring mattresses

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I have a mattress called a Weymouth.. its fab and very comfortable.

bensons also very helpful and have a practice mattress and they ask questions on weight etc for both of you..dont think it a good idea to buy on internet.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

oops .. I got it from dreams. its really deep I love it.

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By *exxifun5 OP   Couple
over a year ago

NORWICH


"oops .. I got it from dreams. its really deep I love it."

Wow the Weymouth looks amazing but at over 1000 pound just for mattress bit beyond our budget definitely think we need to go try them out to get the best for us ... but thanks everyone for the advice x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

But word of warning, I have a bad back and bought a memory foam one, has been great for 1 year, nwt getting pains again, so very interested in responses

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By *exxifun5 OP   Couple
over a year ago

NORWICH


"But word of warning, I have a bad back and bought a memory foam one, has been great for 1 year, nwt getting pains again, so very interested in responses "

I had a memory foam once and it gace me terrible back pain , as I sleep on my tummy it killed my back . I just couldnt get on with it ... but others swear by them x

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Get separate mattresses. "

That's not so daft. People often sleep better when they sleep alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get separate mattresses.

Not quite ready for separate beds yet lol "

No but I am sure you can get a double bed with separate mattresses; that way you could have a nice soft mattress to encompass your boobs and he can have a firm one for his back but you still get to sleep together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But word of warning, I have a bad back and bought a memory foam one, has been great for 1 year, nwt getting pains again, so very interested in responses

I had a memory foam once and it gace me terrible back pain , as I sleep on my tummy it killed my back . I just couldnt get on with it ... but others swear by them x "

I'm a side sleeper and hate my memory foam mattress, total waste of money

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By *roquoisMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I have suffered with my back for years....I bought a memory foam mattress but one with 3500 pocket springs too....So whilst the foam gives a little flexability the pocket springs give you the support....It wasn't cheap but can honestly say it was the best purchase I ever made....Oh...and the more pocket springs you have in the mattress the better the support.

Hope this is of some help.

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By *exxifun5 OP   Couple
over a year ago

NORWICH


"Get separate mattresses.

Not quite ready for separate beds yet lol

No but I am sure you can get a double bed with separate mattresses; that way you could have a nice soft mattress to encompass your boobs and he can have a firm one for his back but you still get to sleep together "

Mmm another option to look into .... would love one of those electric beds so I can sit up and read and he can sleep x

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By *exxifun5 OP   Couple
over a year ago

NORWICH


"Get separate mattresses.

That's not so daft. People often sleep better when they sleep alone."

Not for us I like me cuddles before I go to sleep x

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By *exxifun5 OP   Couple
over a year ago

NORWICH


"I have suffered with my back for years....I bought a memory foam mattress but one with 3500 pocket springs too....So whilst the foam gives a little flexability the pocket springs give you the support....It wasn't cheap but can honestly say it was the best purchase I ever made....Oh...and the more pocket springs you have in the mattress the better the support.

Hope this is of some help."

Hi this was a great help I have looked at pocket springs and definitely seem the best option ... what is a good number of springs to make it good quality ? X

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

We've got one the ones that is memory foam on top of springs. I suffer from a bad back but this mattress has improved it massively. Plus I have a firm shaped pillow. It's getting on for10 years old now but by far the best £1000 we ever spent...

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Be careful of memory foam if you are like me and get really hot at night. Memory foam retains heat so if you get really hot in bed they aren't so great.

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By *exxifun5 OP   Couple
over a year ago

NORWICH

Im thinking from advice given ... we need to rethink our budget x

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset


"I have suffered with my back for years....I bought a memory foam mattress but one with 3500 pocket springs too....So whilst the foam gives a little flexability the pocket springs give you the support....It wasn't cheap but can honestly say it was the best purchase I ever made....Oh...and the more pocket springs you have in the mattress the better the support.

Hope this is of some help."

This

Bought online from Mattressman. Sure a web search will find them.

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By *exxifun5 OP   Couple
over a year ago

NORWICH


"I have suffered with my back for years....I bought a memory foam mattress but one with 3500 pocket springs too....So whilst the foam gives a little flexability the pocket springs give you the support....It wasn't cheap but can honestly say it was the best purchase I ever made....Oh...and the more pocket springs you have in the mattress the better the support.

Hope this is of some help.

This

Bought online from Mattressman. Sure a web search will find them."

Thanks will have a look we have mattressman close by so will pay them a visit xx

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Get separate mattresses.

Not quite ready for separate beds yet lol "

There are single mattresses of varying firmness that you can zip together thus creating a double. My next door neighbors had them and love them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have suffered with my back for years....I bought a memory foam mattress but one with 3500 pocket springs too....So whilst the foam gives a little flexability the pocket springs give you the support....It wasn't cheap but can honestly say it was the best purchase I ever made....Oh...and the more pocket springs you have in the mattress the better the support.

Hope this is of some help.

This

Bought online from Mattressman. Sure a web search will find them."

snap. My bed was ridiculously expensive. A 16" deep pocket sprung memory foam, that cost £2500 in the sale 3 years ago. But I can safely say it was the best investment every. It's like sleeping on a cloud.

I agree with previous post about heat tho, it does get incredibly warm sometimes. X

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Spending money on a decent mattress is an investment. Work out the cost per night for the 10 years of its life plus the fact of a decent sleep and it's nothing. Well, it's about 25p a night. Yes, you have to invest but good pain free sleep is so important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or just ask Tom to stop tossing beside you and go to sleep?

(I'm so sorry... I tried to resist but just couldn't and I had nothing to add to the mattress advice.)

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"A 16" deep pocket sprung memory foam, that cost £2500 in the sale 3 years ago."

I take it you're not up for camping then

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By *exxifun5 OP   Couple
over a year ago

NORWICH


"Or just ask Tom to stop tossing beside you and go to sleep?

(I'm so sorry... I tried to resist but just couldn't and I had nothing to add to the mattress advice.)"

Hahaha

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By *exxifun5 OP   Couple
over a year ago

NORWICH


"Spending money on a decent mattress is an investment. Work out the cost per night for the 10 years of its life plus the fact of a decent sleep and it's nothing. Well, it's about 25p a night. Yes, you have to invest but good pain free sleep is so important."

After looking into this and advice on here .... I think you are right a few more sleepless nights while we save a bit more x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never skimp on your mattress. we spend on average a 1/3 of our lives in bed, some of it asleep.

rule of thumb, the more pockets, the better, also useful is the no roll together.

but must try it in the shop first, cos one might need the support and another not so much.

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By *unlovers70Couple
over a year ago

Overseas

We had the orchid pocket sprung mattress from dreams, think it's down to under £500 now. Was the best bed and comfiest sleep I've had. Now moved abroad and hoping they do the same or similar here

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

I have a kingsdown Body 4 mattress its 6 years old and has taken a lot of abuse and is still like new!

Expensive when I bought it but well worth the price!

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Cracking thread, thanks all

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Cracking thread, thanks all"

No it isn't - its costing me a bloody fortune!

Inspired by this thread Ive started looking for a new mattress and because Ive been looking at mattresses Ive found out Im probably using the wrong pillows so Ive just this minute come back from buying new ones...

Im not looking at these 'ere threads any more

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By *exxifun5 OP   Couple
over a year ago

NORWICH


"Cracking thread, thanks all

No it isn't - its costing me a bloody fortune!

Inspired by this thread Ive started looking for a new mattress and because Ive been looking at mattresses Ive found out Im probably using the wrong pillows so Ive just this minute come back from buying new ones...

Im not looking at these 'ere threads any more "

I started this thread and have now increased our budget by another 500 pound and now spending Saturday laying horizontal in public lol . Also have decided we need kingsize bed to accomodate our extra guests so need all new linen and bedding xx

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Cracking thread, thanks all

No it isn't - its costing me a bloody fortune!

Inspired by this thread Ive started looking for a new mattress and because Ive been looking at mattresses Ive found out Im probably using the wrong pillows so Ive just this minute come back from buying new ones...

Im not looking at these 'ere threads any more

I started this thread and have now increased our budget by another 500 pound and now spending Saturday laying horizontal in public lol . Also have decided we need kingsize bed to accomodate our extra guests so need all new linen and bedding xx "

Id love to hear you explaining to the mattress salesman why you need a mattress that supports 4 people comfortably without any roll-over

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By *exxifun5 OP   Couple
over a year ago

NORWICH


"Cracking thread, thanks all

No it isn't - its costing me a bloody fortune!

Inspired by this thread Ive started looking for a new mattress and because Ive been looking at mattresses Ive found out Im probably using the wrong pillows so Ive just this minute come back from buying new ones...

Im not looking at these 'ere threads any more

I started this thread and have now increased our budget by another 500 pound and now spending Saturday laying horizontal in public lol . Also have decided we need kingsize bed to accomodate our extra guests so need all new linen and bedding xx

Id love to hear you explaining to the mattress salesman why you need a mattress that supports 4 people comfortably without any roll-over "

Oh yes but would be fun to see his reaction as we tell him. Mmm u never know we might end up having a meet sat night or him to give his professional opinion hehe

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By *exxifun5 OP   Couple
over a year ago

NORWICH


"Cracking thread, thanks all

No it isn't - its costing me a bloody fortune!

Inspired by this thread Ive started looking for a new mattress and because Ive been looking at mattresses Ive found out Im probably using the wrong pillows so Ive just this minute come back from buying new ones...

Im not looking at these 'ere threads any more

I started this thread and have now increased our budget by another 500 pound and now spending Saturday laying horizontal in public lol . Also have decided we need kingsize bed to accomodate our extra guests so need all new linen and bedding xx

Id love to hear you explaining to the mattress salesman why you need a mattress that supports 4 people comfortably without any roll-over

Oh yes but would be fun to see his reaction as we tell him. Mmm u never know we might end up having a meet sat night or him to give his professional opinion hehe "

*with*

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston


"I started this thread and have now increased our budget by another 500 pound and now spending Saturday laying horizontal in public lol . Also have decided we need kingsize bed to accomodate our extra guests so need all new linen and bedding xx "
May I suggest that you buy a super king size mattress and do a little DIY to knock up a base with heavy pine (the money you save on the base will allow you buy an even better mattress). That's what I did and I have a bed that's nearly as wide as long and the base will never collapse no matter how I abuse it!

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