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By *imandher5909 OP   Couple
over a year ago

west Monroe

Needless to say...things didn't go very well. it was our first time and we did full swap but neither of us were pleased while the other couple wanted to meet again. So since then my husband has been looking for another female or couple but IM just scared we will meet another couple who will lie like the last couple did. They told us they were married. They weren't. Said she was 32..she was 40 and he is married to someone other than her but plays with he's when he's in town....we did not find any of this out until after...so IM kind of put off right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you meet socially first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far from being an expert ...

But how long did you take to get to know this other couple first ?

What boundaries or rules did you agree to between yourselves and the other couple ?

Full swap may also not have been the best for a first meet .. .

But don't let it put you off ..

Slowly, gradually work your way into the lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you not ask questions first?

Were you forced to play with them?

Did you take you time to get to know them?

It's all down to how you select your potential meets!

And why did you go ahead with full swap if they wasn't what you expected?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't blame yourselves for other people lying to you.

No matter how well you think you plan you still have to trust the other people.

If they lie to you it's not your fault

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm slightly intrigued how you found out all that about them after the meet?

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Was her age an issue? Even though she pulled your pisser she was still in your age range.

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By *imandher5909 OP   Couple
over a year ago

west Monroe

Her age was not an issue for me. My husband was a little iffy but he said her age was no big deal. We talked and texted and Skyped for about 3 months. We did full swap because we new that's what we wanted from the get go so the fact that we swapped was not a problem. they came clean about their lies before we left the hotel that night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats swinging am afraid.

Try being a bloke on his own No shows. Lairs. Blokes pretending their wife's a bit poorly so couldn't make it. The worst has to be smelling a women who hasn't bothered to wash after a meet the nite before.

Horrid. Its all part of the wonderful world of swinging

Hope it all works out for you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats swinging am afraid.

Try being a bloke on his own No shows. Lairs. Blokes pretending their wife's a bit poorly so couldn't make it. The worst has to be smelling a women who hasn't bothered to wash after a meet the nite before.

Horrid. Its all part of the wonderful world of swinging

Hope it all works out for you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 months before meeting!!! Jesus!!!

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

It's no gaurantee that's for sure but that is why we like to meet in clubs.

If we had, had any suspicions like that at all we would have walked.

I know you have had a bad experience as we have had but I will say when you find the right couple it makes the bad experience's worth it and you will learn from then and not make them again

Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just out of interest why does it bother you that they werent married and swinging as a couple?

or was it just because they lied?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


" The worst has to be smelling a women who hasn't bothered to wash after a meet the nite before.

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Is anybody really that rank?!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


" The worst has to be smelling a women who hasn't bothered to wash after a meet the nite before.

Is anybody really that rank?!! "

a couple of swipes with a wet wipe, spray of chunnel no5 and back to the cock at hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" The worst has to be smelling a women who hasn't bothered to wash after a meet the nite before.

Is anybody really that rank?!! "

One or two

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By *imandher5909 OP   Couple
over a year ago

west Monroe


"just out of interest why does it bother you that they werent married and swinging as a couple?

or was it just because they lied?"
I suppose I feel if IM being honest you should to. I don't agree with cheating and cheating and are two very different things and the mans wife was clueless in another state

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By *imandher5909 OP   Couple
over a year ago

west Monroe

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By *imandher5909 OP   Couple
over a year ago

west Monroe

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By *imandher5909 OP   Couple
over a year ago

west Monroe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unfortunately there are some on here that bend the rules to suit themselves and dupe others , ask more questions and maybe read their veris if they have any , if your not sure then ask more questions try to catch them out or drop them completely , have fun guys

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Personally speaking we,d have been annoyed at them for lieing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has a bad meet at some point. Don't let it put you off, just learn from it. The next one should be better.

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