FabSwingers.com forum: Double verifications...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What is the etiquette ?

You've verified someone as genuine

And you meet them again ...

The interval might be from one month to a year or maybe more ...

Do you verify again ?

Does someone become more genuine ?

Is it just politeness to verify again ?

I know it's down to the recipient to show a veri ....

But what are your opinions ?

Mr Confused

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

do what you feel is right for your situation. some people see it as 'pissing up the gate post' but i don't care

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have a friend I've been seeing seven years. I reverify him once a year

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Just do what you think is right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the etiquette ?

You've verified someone as genuine

And you meet them again ...

The interval might be from one month to a year or maybe more ...

Do you verify again ?

Does someone become more genuine ?

Is it just politeness to verify again ?

I know it's down to the recipient to show a veri ....

But what are your opinions ?

Mr Confused

i verify a social meet.if we both decide to play next time,i will leave another veri to let other ppl know how the playtime went.this just shows how much nawty fun i had.lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"do what you feel is right for your situation. some people see it as 'pissing up the gate post' but i don't care

Is pissing up a gatepost a new fetish ?

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

If a guy's grown a second cock, it's maybe worth a mention.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I hate when there are like 3 verifications in a week how many times can they say it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I met someone socially first, and then met them to play, I would do 2 verifications. but after that, even if I met them again, I wouldn't do another.

Meeting socially is great, obviously a real person and turns up. But verifying after a play meet shows they don't bottle out, as sometimes, especially with newbies, this can be daunting and sometimes people do chicken out when this is on the cards. That is my opinion on multiple verifications.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If a guy's grown a second cock, it's maybe worth a mention."

all depends if it's called Colin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If something exceptionally good or very different happened I might verify again. I got a lot of grief from a man I didn't verify once. He asked if we should verify each other, I said no need, as he had 8 and I had 3. He messaged me after moaning that I'd verified others after him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you meet a lot I think every time may be overkill but I think more than once is fine. If nothing else it does give that person the option of showing they like to meet someone regularly rather than just for one offs. And like you say... It is up to the individual to display or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a guy's grown a second cock, it's maybe worth a mention.

all depends if it's called Colin "

you can't call a cock Colin

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I have verified my club buddy 4 times in the space of 12 months. I got a message saying I was marking my territory. He doesn't see it that way, so has kept my veri's on show.

I have double veri's, mainly social ones tho.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If a guy's grown a second cock, it's maybe worth a mention.

all depends if it's called Colin

you can't call a cock Colin "

Why not ?

Colin was very popular last night

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"If a guy's grown a second cock, it's maybe worth a mention.

all depends if it's called Colin

you can't call a cock Colin

Why not ?

Colin was very popular last night

He was the hussy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a guy's grown a second cock, it's maybe worth a mention.

all depends if it's called Colin

you can't call a cock Colin

Why not ?

Colin was very popular last night

you actually HAVE a second cock called Colin??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I meet a guy for a social with no playing I will verify for that then if I meet him again I will verify him again but thats it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a guy's grown a second cock, it's maybe worth a mention.

all depends if it's called Colin

you can't call a cock Colin

Why not ?

Colin was very popular last night

He was the hussy...

Is that a chicken down your bra?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"If a guy's grown a second cock, it's maybe worth a mention.

all depends if it's called Colin

you can't call a cock Colin

Why not ?

Colin was very popular last night

He was the hussy...

Is that a chicken down your bra?

It's Colin...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We discuss this often and if we receive any repeat verification we remove the previous from display. Would be good if fab gave you the option to delete verifications. Agree with others saying a fresh verification a few (8 or more) months later is fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a guy's grown a second cock, it's maybe worth a mention.

all depends if it's called Colin

you can't call a cock Colin

Why not ?

Colin was very popular last night

He was the hussy...

Is that a chicken down your bra?

It's Colin..."

ohhh...well hello Colin

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

do what suits you best

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I tend not to verify a second time for a play meet but for those I have met at organised socials or as friends I do send a second verification.

Today I decided to become one of those that show the long list. The only ones missing as those that use my first name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the etiquette ?

You've verified someone as genuine

And you meet them again ...

The interval might be from one month to a year or maybe more ...

Do you verify again ?

Does someone become more genuine ?

Is it just politeness to verify again ?

I know it's down to the recipient to show a veri ....

But what are your opinions ?

Mr Confused

i verify a social meet.if we both decide to play next time,i will leave another veri to let other ppl know how the playtime went.this just shows how much nawty fun i had.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I don't like to see too many verifications from the same person/couple in a profile, however, that's just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the etiquette ?

You've verified someone as genuine

And you meet them again ...

The interval might be from one month to a year or maybe more ...

Do you verify again ?

Does someone become more genuine ?

Is it just politeness to verify again ?

I know it's down to the recipient to show a veri ....

But what are your opinions ?

Mr Confused

You do what you wish you can always send someone a new one and tell them they can show it or not or hide earlier ones if they choose. Its more the person who receives it who chooses to show or not and as long as they don't feel pressurised to display it and choose themselves who cares what other people say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have several from different get togethers by the same person, i think its lovely they thought enough to do a veri.

It really is what ever you feel like doing

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

from the "giving" end I will only do it if there is a fair amount of time between them.. I have just gotten round to doing another for friends i have known for 5 years...lol

from the "showing" end, I will only show the latest one....... no one needs to know how many times i meet people....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I verify playtimes mainly and sometimes will verify a 2nd time in future if sumat different,always when seen one on one socially because ive spent alot time with them

Im a lazy bitch when it comes to seeing socially a load of people, because mite have just chatted couple mins or ten mins ,however if given one i do give back im not that selfish lol i find its up to the indivual

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I have multiple veris from people. It doesn't stop me getting meets. If it puts people off that's their problem. I do what I like with my profile.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Personally, I don't like to see too many verifications from the same person/couple in a profile, however, that's just me.

I think just the latest one should be on show or its just plain showing off!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to say something appreciative about somebody, then why shouldn't you?

You are completely free to do so.

And equally, they are completely free to judge for themselves which verifications they chose to show on their profile or not....

Where's the problem?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

If its been a while since they had a verification, I would maybe update it for them....and maybe ask them to hide my previous one??

If they have recent verifications...I wouldnt bother....

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We have some multiple veris, and because we state on our profile that we like to make friends, we show the multiples, it demonstrates that we do meet more than once, as well as the usual one-off meets. Another point is that often, the diferent veris can be for diferent situations, socials, parties, vanilla meets etc. We believe it gives the reader a more "three dimensional" _iew of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

JUST DO WHAT YOU FEEL IS RIGHT ...ANY NICE COMMENT ABOUT YOURSELF IS WICKED EVEN IF IT IS FROM THE SAME PERSON X 50 LOL

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"If you want to say something appreciative about somebody, then why shouldn't you?

You are completely free to do so.

And equally, they are completely free to judge for themselves which verifications they chose to show on their profile or not....

Where's the problem?

Exactly. Why people are sniffy about it I will never understand. 'Marking territory' seems to be a common phrase. Well that's your problem if you feel like that not mine. So why should I change my behaviour?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have heard and read on here that there are some that see lots of verifications as a reason not to meet someone. It's a perverse _iew that what some seek is someone who will meet so selectively that they have proved themselves maybe just once or twice but then only meet them, yet not so selectively that they are a time waster. You may not know how many they haven't displayed. I'm selective (i.e. fussy) and just need to see the tick. Anything else is a bonus.

You can't please everyone. Now that I'm showing so many verifications, especially from women, it may change the sorts of messages I get or it may not.

I like giving and receiving, what happens to the gift after that is up to the recipient.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone

The question is really about when you verify someone

I'd like to think I would verify anyone who I might have been so lucky as to meet, in whatever context, play or social

I'd double verify someone who I might have met in a different context to our original meet, as it might show a different side to their personality, and also if I might not have met them for some time

Again I would then display a veri in the same context

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