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Would you meet anyone without seeing a face picture first?

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Just looking at all the body parts on here and wondering if anyone actually would?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope! I like the sum of the parts xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no fuckin chance!!!!

there nothin worse than thinkin hmmmm fit!! then u see a face pic!!!

and its a no go!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have done and always a mistake

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By *hristalCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"no fuckin chance!!!!

there nothin worse than thinkin hmmmm fit!! then u see a face pic!!!

and its a no go!! xx"

No way!!!!

Have found that there are couples that wont even show via msn etc and then are not happy bunnies when you wont meet them!

Christal x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no,never.......what if it turned out to be a brother,cousin,uncle,etc......

and we find that guys that dont send face pics are normally married n cheating on their spouses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO WE NEVER HAVE AND WE NEVER WILL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont have...or send pics! and meet on a no play basis first to see if compatible!! but i have to admit....i have to see pic first!! lol

call me a hypocrite! but it works for me....and have only not had any further contact from one person.....so far so good!!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Good grief no!

But theres always those that load up pics of any old Tom Dick or Harry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had loads of single guys who refuse to send face pics just body pics but I'd never meet unless I saw what the person looked like

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

No, and we won't even enter into any additional message exchanges after first contact until we've seen a face pic of BOTH parties... there seems to be a tendency among some couples to show the female pics, but reluctance to do the same for the male partner. We send ours early on, cos we'd rather know if someone thinks we're unsuitable before wasting much time on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends i think , if i been chatting for a while and am 100% sure they a women , and we get on i would consider it , however given the choice would much rather see a face pic first .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't do blind dates full stop.

Never ceases to amaze us at the amount of mails we get from people who say they liked our pictures and would like to meet up but have no pictures themselves, do they honestly think we would meet up without seeing pictures when they themselves use pictures to make thier selections ?

No pictures of the male but lots of the female - same thing, non-starter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we never have and never will

and even if they send pics with their faces blured out its still a no no

believe me we have had a few of them in our time lol

the last thing we wont to do is walk into a pub a look for the single guy/cpl with a fuzzy or blacked out face lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

No.although we don't send or ask for pics, we cam to show face instead.

We did have one man on another site once who wasn't amused that we wouldn't meet him without seeing his first.........and he said he couldn't do that as he is well know where he lived.......what would he have done if we had said yes to a meet? Maybe turn up with a brown bag over his head with holes cut out for eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

defo no no

even though my pictures are hiding for a reason

i be glad to show at a later date before we meet

you need to who you are talking then go on cam etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definately have to have a face pic to meet...lots say that they just have cock shots...well, it isn't their cock that will be knocking on my door...would like to see who I am to be expecting...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"definately have to have a face pic to meet...lots say that they just have cock shots...well, it isn't their cock that will be knocking on my door...would like to see who I am to be expecting...lol"

It may be their cock knocking on the door

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

well we wont send pics and we have had no problem with meets.nice pics dont always mean nice people.we like to meet and then decide if its going any further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did once but wont do it again, I had to make my excuses and leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a single girl that has a profile on here with no pics, no veriications yet gets loads of messages asking to meet..............

WHY?

lol

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no way ever,we happily show face pictures on here,would dream of meeting some one without seeing who we are meeting first,plus how would you know who you are meeting.you can't really say drop ya trousers lets make sure it is you!!!!!!

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By *exeteraWoman
over a year ago

Bridgend

I prefer to see what I'm letting myself in for. I have met a couple of guys with pics that must have been at least 15 yrs old and they'd shrung about 6 inches in height too. Why lie if you're actually going out there to meet people lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn’t think of meeting if someone wont send a picture then we won’t meet. If your going to meet you will see them anyway so there is no real reason we can think of not sending a normal face picture.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Got to see pics - need to see who I'm running away from!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kate and I met on a blind date, and after 29yrs together, meeting people "blind" for swinging doesn't phase us in the least. We rarley play on first meet so we dont see it as a big problem. In saying that though, I dont think we would travel too far for a blind date.

We have met 3 couples blind, and have been pleasantly surprised on each occaision. We went on to play with 2 of the couples.

It's nice to receive pics, and of course, we do prefer to see them before a meet, but we all know that some peoples pics are way out of date and some dont even look remotely like the profile pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some right dodgy looking birds on here so no way!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Nope....... never again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Just looking at all the body parts on here and wondering if anyone actually would?

"

Well I have seen you so no...

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

No we would never meet with out seeing face pic's

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

no, face pic but do prefer a face2face camchat b4 committing

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been in that position but no I wouldn't.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Social meet ... yes,

Play meet ... no.

We tend to meet socially first anyway, so it isnt really an issue.

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By *ountrypairCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

nope have done n it was a mistake lol we have both our face pics in our private album and expect same xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why potentially waste a few hours with someone you just do not fancy? Sorry but this is a swinging site not personalities are us and lets face it you have to physically fancy someone to play with them. If they don’t have a picture and let’s face it every one can with camera phones these days then they are hiding something and that’s usually an ugly face or a partner so me I would never meet without a picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.although we don't send or ask for pics, we cam to show face instead.

We did have one man on another site once who wasn't amused that we wouldn't meet him without seeing his first.........and he said he couldn't do that as he is well know where he lived.......what would he have done if we had said yes to a meet? Maybe turn up with a brown bag over his head with holes cut out for eyes.

"

Well that's my fancy dress idea fucked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do just a shame was not pleasantly surprised both times think i will ask to see a picture next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good grief no chance of that!!

No one likes a minger

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Nope... but I did meet a guy once without seeing 'his' face pic... as I found out when he turned up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, even if I may like everything else on his body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooooo way,we're not that desperate!

We won't meet anyone who doesn't have a face pic somewhere in their galleries.

As Savanna said,why waste time meeting someone you might not fancy?

O.K,personality does come into it but we have to fancy them too and will never do blind dates.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some right dodgy looking birds on here so no way!"

And plenty of dodgy looking fellas too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nooooo way,we're not that desperate!

We won't meet anyone who doesn't have a face pic somewhere in their galleries.

As Savanna said,why waste time meeting someone you might not fancy?

O.K,personality does come into it but we have to fancy them too and will never do blind dates.

XXXX"

Spot on if someone can't put a pic up or send me a picture message or by email i won't venture out now. I have had 2 now playing games. Turned up to see one and asked if her daughter was in. Then got accused of being rude when i said she had been economical with the truth. I guess men do it as well but i am not having sex with someone that thinks because i turned up i should. I won't meet now without a picture and a recent one. I always send one or cam out of courtesy if i want to meet so fair is fair.

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

i personally would never meet anyone who hadnt got a face picture to show, me i would be highly suspicious tbh......imagine getting there and theyre a minger!!!! ok so im shallow, ok so shoot me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to cam chat just to verify they are who they say they are. It just makes sense if I am travelling or worse them travelling to me. Saves upsetting someone when meeting if they aren’t your type physically.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I know a single girl that has a profile on here with no pics, no veriications yet gets loads of messages asking to meet..............

WHY?

lol

Steve"

Because she is female and some (not all) men will shag anything.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I know a single girl that has a profile on here with no pics, no veriications yet gets loads of messages asking to meet..............

WHY?

lol

Steve

Because she is female and some (not all) men will shag anything."

was just gonna say that lol

and i have met people without seeing a face pic and on the whole they have been ok

having said that i do prefer to chat on msn etc to get to know people so often get to see what they are like on there

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