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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

before i met J i had never even thought about swinging......I LOVE it now!!

But if we split up i don't think i would swing as a single fem and if i got into another relationship i could give or take swinging.

so my question is if your circumstances changed would you still swing??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was in a loving relationship I would not have sex with anyone else, its called monogamy, and is what I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no ... depends on the dynamics of the relationship. I'd be happy either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was in a loving relationship I would not have sex with anyone else, its called monogamy, and is what I want."

Yet you on swingers site would you not have more success on dating site not a criticism just an observation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes and no ... depends on the dynamics of the relationship. I'd be happy either way "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

If we split, yes I would still do it as a single....

Wouldnt do it with another man though (as a couple)...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes and no ... depends on the dynamics of the relationship. I'd be happy either way "

I agree as well. Although I can't imagine having another relationship as open, honest & trusting as we have now, and without all of that swinging isn't possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was in a loving relationship I would not have sex with anyone else, its called monogamy, and is what I want.

Yet you on swingers site would you not have more success on dating site not a criticism just an observation."

I am not looking for a relationship at the present time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single female I'm not really a swinger

If I met someone I would give it up in a heartbeat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't do it as a single guy, I'm not confident enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was part of a couple on here for overfive years now here as a single fem it is a bit daunting at first as you havr always had someone to protect you x if I met someone I would give it up immediately

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


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so my question is if your circumstances changed would you still swing?? "

I honestly don't know....

If I did, it wouldn't be until after I had sorted myself out and got my head straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't do it as a single guy, I'm not confident enough. "

As above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"before i met J i had never even thought about swinging......I LOVE it now!!

But if we split up i don't think i would swing as a single fem and if i got into another relationship i could give or take swinging.

so my question is if your circumstances changed would you still swing?? "

No I wouldn't on my own. It is something we started together and would stop if neither of us were happy doing swinging.

If I was on my own, I probably would still post but definitely not actively swing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not looking for anyone but if someone cane along and it was serious I would give fabs up but I've been single a long time so can't ever see it happening lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Although I can't imagine having another relationship as open, honest & trusting as we have now, and without all of that swinging isn't possible."

This plus I know from my own experience that I would never have the same sexual/intimate relationship with anyone else regardless of swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't do it as a single guy, I'm not confident enough. "

I don't class myself as being very confident but I do have a great sense of adventure!

I have swung as a couple in two long term relationships and it just seemed natural to stay on as a single. Interestingly I have made lot more friends as a single than i ever did as a couple. Maybe it's because I have to try a bit harder than I did as a couple or maybe I'm just a nicer guy without those partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no, neither of us would, we have both discussed it.

its something we do together or not at all.

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