FabSwingers.com forum: Why do most couples profiles only show the female and not the guy?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey we are quite new here and wondered why couples don't always seem to show the male side of the couple? What are u hiding?!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It is a bit unbalanced. If you are pondering meeting a couple, it's nice to know what they both look like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think in a lot of cases it's the male who pushes the female intro swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would guess if they are trying to attract a straight male for mmf then they want to show the attractive part of the group.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey we are quite new here and wondered why couples don't always seem to show the male side of the couple? What are u hiding?!

We have also wondered why this happens so much.

Wayne

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By *lash and BunsCouple
over a year ago

Inverclyde

"I think in a lot of cases it's the male who pushes the female intro swinging?"

Lol fem hear was me that got hubby in to it and pics of us both are on friends only

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Maybe cos the average woman looks better naked than the average man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think in a lot of cases it's the male who pushes the female intro swinging?

Lol fem hear was me that got hubby in to it and pics of us both are on friends only

If I were your hubby I wouldn't share you with anyone, your a princess xx

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By *lash and BunsCouple
over a year ago

Inverclyde

"I think in a lot of cases it's the male who pushes the female intro swinging?

Lol fem hear was me that got hubby in to it and pics of us both are on friends only

If I were your hubby I wouldn't share you with anyone, your a princess xx"
thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think in a lot of cases it's the male who pushes the female intro swinging?

Lol fem hear was me that got hubby in to it and pics of us both are on friends only

If I were your hubby I wouldn't share you with anyone, your a princess xxthanks xx

You are more than welcome beautiful, just can't believe your a million miles away xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are pics of both on our profile and started swinging at ladies idea xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey we are quite new here and wondered why couples don't always seem to show the male side of the couple? What are u hiding?!

If you have a car lot you put the BMW or the Jaguar at the front of the lot. The rusty ford Transit you park up behind the office.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So what you are all saying is that some couples just use the women as the bait?

Makes us more weary knowing that they are hiding the guy, we would rather see the guy and judge ourselves rather than having to guess before contact,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what you are all saying is that some couples just use the women as the bait?

Makes us more weary knowing that they are hiding the guy, we would rather see the guy and judge ourselves rather than having to guess before contact,

As the fairer sex women in general are the more aesthetically appealing so people with use a womans picture as a lure and in reality there is nothing wrong with this. A woman can wear stockings, thongs basques to help with the visual appearance, what can a guy wear? Hmmmm elephant briefs with the cock down the trunk?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly because it's men 'running' the profile and they're not so keen to share photos of themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey we are quite new here and wondered why couples don't always seem to show the male side of the couple? What are u hiding?!

Once a man becomes married or partnered, he lets himself go, he has attracted a mate, so doesn't need to keep attractive, so he eats pies, drinks beer and sits watching the telly, so he wont be very photogenic, will he?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Mostly because it's men 'running' the profile and they're not so keen to share photos of themselves."

This is nearer the truth. This and the fact that women have always been 'prostituted' since the dawn of time ...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

hence the acceptance of the one sidedness I mean ....not that the women are prozzies.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Maybe cos the average woman looks better naked than the average man? "

Cos boobies look better than bollox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what you are all saying is that some couples just use the women as the bait?

Makes us more weary knowing that they are hiding the guy, we would rather see the guy and judge ourselves rather than having to guess before contact,

Certainly seems that way, and it often does seem like the men are driving it. I avoid those ones, I just can't see the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey we are quite new here and wondered why couples don't always seem to show the male side of the couple? What are u hiding?!

Lol funny x

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By *lash and BunsCouple
over a year ago

Inverclyde

"So what you are all saying is that some couples just use the women as the bait?

Makes us more weary knowing that they are hiding the guy, we would rather see the guy and judge ourselves rather than having to guess before contact,

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that's what social meets are for to see if they is actraction in both parts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mostly because it's men 'running' the profile and they're not so keen to share photos of themselves.

This is nearer the truth. This and the fact that women have always been 'prostituted' since the dawn of time ...

Again factually incorrect profiles on websites are a recent thing and not present at the dawn of time. Men runni_g couples profiles? Well if you poll couples who post in the forums as we are in the forums right now you will most likley fins its the women who are the most active on the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe cos the average woman looks better naked than the average man?

Cos boobies look better than bollox

Or to convince us to accept the bollocks tthat they are really a couple, not just a guy getting his rocks off

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By *lash and BunsCouple
over a year ago

Inverclyde

Oops sorry ment attraction x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I can only answer for ourselves and it isn't any of the replies already given.

I am an exhibitionist. I like taking photographs of myself. I enjoy creativity. My OH wouldn't pose how I wanted him too, in fact he's not keen on posing at all.

Obviously we have pics of the two of us in our private pics. These pics are exchanged with people we have an interest in meeting.

My profile is how we personally like it. I wouldn't ever change my profile to reflect what others want or expect to see. I don't care that some people wouldn't message us because of this. It is not going to change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mostly because it's men 'running' the profile and they're not so keen to share photos of themselves.

This is nearer the truth. This and the fact that women have always been 'prostituted' since the dawn of time ...

And it's mostly men that believe them when they say that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am an exhibitionist. I like taking photographs of myself. I enjoy creativity. My OH wouldn't pose how I wanted him too, in fact he's not keen on posing at all. "

That's true for us too. But 98% of profiles on here don't seem too hung up on the creativity part so not sure how widely it applies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mostly because it's men 'running' the profile and they're not so keen to share photos of themselves.

This is nearer the truth. This and the fact that women have always been 'prostituted' since the dawn of time ...

Yup. Bait.

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By *lash and BunsCouple
over a year ago

Inverclyde

"Well I can only answer for ourselves and it isn't any of the replies already given.

I am an exhibitionist. I like taking photographs of myself. I enjoy creativity. My OH wouldn't pose how I wanted him too, in fact he's not keen on posing at all.

Obviously we have pics of the two of us in our private pics. These pics are exchanged with people we have an interest in meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There have been a few posts which allude to the reality of the reasons we have .

But the main reason is that I get off to seeing my wife having fun with men and women .

Although I may occasionally join in , more often than not I don't , so why would we use my pics on our profile ?

Some points raised may be true of other couples such as the man running the profile etc.... But not so in our case .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you'd said you never joined in that could be understandable, but I'm surprised women would be happy to meet with you without having seen you if you occasionally join in.

The question is still why have you chosen not to display them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what you are all saying is that some couples just use the women as the bait?

Makes us more weary knowing that they are hiding the guy, we would rather see the guy and judge ourselves rather than having to guess before contact,

If it's a couple just wanting to meet straight guys then fair enough. If it's a couple wanting to meet couples then .....

I always ask for face pics of both pretty early on. No point chatting if we don't all like each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I am in three of the public pics ... Tattooed arm , and show more of my face than Sabrina !

If we are gonna meet and arrange it beforehand on here I happily send clear face pics of us both. Most of our play happens at clubs though , so it's not always relevant .

Fortunately we seem to do ok so I guess the reality is that we are not really hiding anything

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By *lash and BunsCouple
over a year ago

Inverclyde

"So what you are all saying is that some couples just use the women as the bait?

Makes us more weary knowing that they are hiding the guy, we would rather see the guy and judge ourselves rather than having to guess before contact,

Male half here

Well if you are weary then you dont get involved, everyone has choice as it should be, we have pics of both of us privately, if we want to get to know you can see us both, you can meet us socially beforehand, if it don't suit then fair enough, as others have said, the females are more "aesthetically pleasing", human nature dictates, that's just the way it is, look through the majority of profiles to see that statistically this is the norm. No offence like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair I am in three of the public pics ... Tattooed arm , and show more of my face than Sabrina !

If we are gonna meet and arrange it beforehand on here I happily send clear face pics of us both. Most of our play happens at clubs though , so it's not always relevant .

Fortunately we seem to do ok so I guess the reality is that we are not really hiding anything

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By *rivate auditionsMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

i think basically they are the most appealing half of the couple?,just my personal opinion mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey we are quite new here and wondered why couples don't always seem to show the male side of the couple? What are u hiding?!

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

"So what you are all saying is that some couples just use the women as the bait?

Makes us more weary knowing that they are hiding the guy, we would rather see the guy and judge ourselves rather than having to guess before contact,

If it's a couple just wanting to meet straight guys then fair enough. If it's a couple wanting to meet couples then .....

I always ask for face pics of both pretty early on. No point chatting if we don't all like each other. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think in a lot of cases it's the male who pushes the female intro swinging?"

utter tripe

mrs is a lot more photogenic than mr, and he hates having his pic taken.

these are the only reasons why there are few of him on profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos j plays and I don't.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Hey we are quite new here and wondered why couples don't always seem to show the male side of the couple? What are u hiding?!

If you have a car lot you put the BMW or the Jaguar at the front of the lot. The rusty ford Transit you park up behind the office. "

All well and good, but if you're a couple seeking to play with other couples how come only the husbands get to see what they're getting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im Not sure Why me i always look for the gut First to See if my wife will fined him attraktive but. You are right Our Profile has loads More of her but i am guessing women like the camra More. Lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"So what you are all saying is that some couples just use the women as the bait?

Makes us more weary knowing that they are hiding the guy, we would rather see the guy and judge ourselves rather than having to guess before contact,

Personally, if I met couples I'd avoid such profiles like the plague as I'd be wondering if the woman was being coerced: unlikely to lead to a fun meet.

If a straight couple only meet single men then I can understand why only the pic of the female half is needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think in a lot of cases it's the male who pushes the female intro swinging?

utter tripe

mrs is a lot more photogenic than mr, and he hates having his pic taken.

these are the only reasons why there are few of him on profile."

This,

I Mr detest having my picture taken you won't see pictures of me anywhere, also I'm not very photogenic I mean I'm not an ugly man but on every picture I ever have taken I end up looking like shrek, if we did put a picture of me public fab would close our account down in seconds lol

We do have face pics in private which we are happy to share, but the fact is nobody likes to see pictures of men on profiles the woman is the most appealing form to look at,

Also if your looking for straight men then the man doesn't matter, if your looking for bi fems for girly fun again does the man really matter? The only time I should see it been an issue is if your meeting a couple for full swap them you need both,

As for the man running the profile I can say in our case it's not, the Mrs uploads the pictures she likes, replies to all messages, the only thing I do is come in here and go on cam when asked so they know what I look like

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By *ustyBrunette35Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

"Hey we are quite new here and wondered why couples don't always seem to show the male side of the couple? What are u hiding?!

Because it's their profile and it works that way for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have an arse pic of me and donna on public and equal amount of us both in friends only

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Mostly because it's men 'running' the profile and they're not so keen to share photos of themselves.

This is nearer the truth. This and the fact that women have always been 'prostituted' since the dawn of time ...

No incorrect facts. The age of profiles wasn't mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think in a lot of cases it's the male who pushes the female intro swinging?"

Not in this case

To the OP, We are not looking for couples so have no need to show my OHs pics,they are there if any of the men we make arrangements with wants to see,not one has ever asked though

When we played with couples we had a couple of him on show as the same thing used to irritate me too with only pics of the female half on display

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Angel runs our profile and i tend to be more snap happy with my camera, which is why there are more pics of her than me. Couple bashing thread, gives the single men a day off i spose

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Angel runs our profile and i tend to be more snap happy with my camera, which is why there are more pics of her than me. Couple bashing thread, gives the single men a day off i spose

Couples bashing other couples!!!

Blimey, what is Fab coming to?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

F3males are always far better looking

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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol, Thornbury

With us we are mainly looking for single guy's so I am the star of the pictures x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

People can run their profiles how they like.

No one is questioning anyone else or telling them what to put on their profiles.

The O.P. asked ( in good humour I thought ) WHY so few couples show pics of a COUPLE.

To me it's a very valid point for the following reason/s.

Fab say that pics should match the profile. So profiles with pics of women only DON'T match the profile. Tho this is better than profiles with no pics.

Couples who want to meet couples for foursomes will want to see the male SO ( pics of male needed )

Couples willing to be watched by couples or the male part of a couple will want to have an idea of how he looks ( e.g. sanitary ? insane ? ancient ? battle scarred ? just plain fugly ? Jimmy Saville's brother or the staring eyes of an axe murderer ? ) so .... Pics of the male are needed.

I won't mention profiles without pics for obvious reasons.

Those with MOSTLY women because the woman likes flouncing , being provocative , suggestive, adored or just downright dirty are fine ..as long as there is just ONE of the male. Preferably a good face pic for me. Body later.

Those here that have said there is both of us on here made me smile there are fifty zillion of the woman and a solo pic of the blokes arse disappearing up a fajina or just his ears protruding from between her knees.

Blokes who say - 'I just don't like having my pic taken' How old are you? You're trying to attract others for sex and yet bleat like three year olds?

Might I suggest to the blokes who claim that they are simply NOT photogenic that there clear simple reasons for that.

Okay .... on the point of profiles with NO pics...... ahem. I face cam for people I want to meet. That's me as I look on the day ...not five years ago as some of the most creative and attractive pics on here are.

Really ....... the pics are not reliable. For me it's message , voice, cam and decide. Best to meet people not celluloid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey we are quite new here and wondered why couples don't always seem to show the male side of the couple? What are u hiding?!

Good question!

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

More pictures of me than Scott because I'm a poser and he's not. There are pics if him however. Some comments on here would relate well to another thread I commented on recently

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By *heCrowAndButterflyCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

We are there for all of fab to see, probably explains the lack of messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's is the misses that runs this profile. Although we both have it on ours phone and each check messages etc. There is a simple message on why there are more pictures of me than him, and that because I am hotter. Lol. Plus how many pics can you actually take of a man that will get people's attention? Lol.

Even with our profile like that we still have meets most weekends. :D xx

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

"Maybe cos the average woman looks better naked than the average man?

Cos boobies look better than bollox

Or to convince us to accept the bollocks tthat they are really a couple, not just a guy getting his rocks off

this is what I think sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey we are quite new here and wondered why couples don't always seem to show the male side of the couple? What are u hiding?!

Not read all the thread but the majority of pictures on our couple profile are of me, because it is easier to take firstly and secondly we only really meet single guys.

Thirdly on our private gallery there are pictures of both of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say on many couples profiles there are pics of both of them, albeit I'm the private section.

I can understand if couples want to meet other couples that they want to see face pics of all. And certainly with the meets we have then we exchange both of our face pics to the other couple.

But what we won't do is put up a pic of him in public. Reason, as I've stated, is because he doesn't want to.

I am an exhibitionist and there aren't many exhibitionists who don't like to be looked at. I have no interest or need to sell myself to anyone on here so therefore the profile is how I want it and not to fit other peoples standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have 1 pic of me, and i think its horrific, V thinks its sexy (strange woman) whereas all of hers are tasteful, sexy and she gets to wear sexy outfits, which would look stupid on me.

yes, the male runs our profile, simply because, with 4 kids running around, V doesnt get as much chance to get on as i do, however, i have a set list of pics to use and change them every now and then as i feel a change os merited.

and no, she isnt coerced into anything.

everything we have, and will do, is part of a conversational process during which we both convey our desires and wishes and how we want to take things forward.

and, im almost certain, this is how the vast majority of profiles are run/meets are carried out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are there for all of fab to see, probably explains the lack of messages

You're both hot.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

... because cameras are so complicated - the poor dears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe cos the average woman looks better naked than the average man? "

Think that depends on who you ask!

OP - Personally, I want to see both members of a couple because I want to play with both the male and the female and so I have to find them both attractive. I don't meet a couple to put on a show for the hubby with his wife and think there are a lot of women on here that feel the same. I can't stand pics of myself either (hence the limited pics on my profile) but they are there for people to see and be able to make some kind of decision before they contact me...I want the same in return so will not contact any profile where all I can see is her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems it's mostly men explaining why they haven't pictures of themselves - which kind of validates earlier points.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

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"Hey we are quite new here and wondered why couples don't always seem to show the male side of the couple? What are u hiding?!

Thats obvious!

Him

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Got to laugh at the ones claiming it is because HE is in charge! HE talked her into doing it! HE is using her as bait...blah blah blah....

When in fact, 99% of the time, it is SHE who is in control of messages and who they meet....

As long as a pic is available on request....does it really matter?

And yes, we have body pics of us both on our couples profile....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

90% of women on here are men

78% of straight men on here are bi

82% of couples on here aren't real

0.005% of topics on here are new

100% of stats are made up to suit people's own arguments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i would guess if they are trying to attract a straight male for mmf then they want to show the attractive part of the group."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not vein but i love to show my pics its a bit of a turn on when people like them and honesty is always the best option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"90% of women on here are men

78% of straight men on here are bi

82% of couples on here aren't real

0.005% of topics on here are new

100% of stats are made up to suit people's own arguments"

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Angel runs our profile and i tend to be more snap happy with my camera, which is why there are more pics of her than me. Couple bashing thread, gives the single men a day off i spose

Couples bashing other couples!!!

Blimey, what is Fab coming to?!!

I have a vision of 100's of single men sat on their sofas, feet up, eating snacks and chuckling like hyenas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have photos of both on our couples profile but Lee only has his face photos in private or friends only.

This is his choice.. I choose to have mine on display... We have more of me on public display but about equal in friends only.

I don't think it matters as long as you get to see them.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I like to see both parts of a couple.

One of these days I'll end up having a meet having only seen pics of the female as there are no pics of her husband. The female will be gorgeous and I'll be thinking even if the meet is bad, I will have met this great looking girl. In fact, she's so gorgeous, we'll call her Esmeralda.

I shall then turn up, she will say, 'I'm glad you've come. You can have a play with my other half, whilst I have a night out with my friends. Quasi, come on through, babe....'

It's not happened yet, but I'm sure it would be just my luck

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"People can run their profiles how they like.

No one is questioning anyone else or telling them what to put on their profiles.

The O.P. asked ( in good humour I thought ) WHY so few couples show pics of a COUPLE.

To me it's a very valid point for the following reason/s.

Fab say that pics should match the profile. So profiles with pics of women only DON'T match the profile. Tho this is better than profiles with no pics.

Couples who want to meet couples for foursomes will want to see the male SO ( pics of male needed )

I won't mention profiles without pics for obvious reasons.

Blokes who say - 'I just don't like having my pic taken' How old are you? You're trying to attract others for sex and yet bleat like three year olds?

Might I suggest to the blokes who claim that they are simply NOT photogenic that there clear simple reasons for that.

Really ....... the pics are not reliable. For me it's message , voice, cam and decide. Best to meet people not celluloid. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say for us, most are action shots etc.... these are taken primarily by Paul so he doesn't end up in them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have photos of both of us... Not sure why...... Seems like the right thing to do....

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By *heCrowAndButterflyCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"We are there for all of fab to see, probably explains the lack of messages

You're both hot. "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a sneaky peak at both for public and do have face pics in private if asked.

Would say 99% of private are of me(fem) simply because Mr hates his pic taken and cannot be arsed lol.

Frankly if the Mr wanted to pose for pics every other day and spend more time infront of the mirror than me i would be worried lol.x

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

Not hiding anything, its only ju who plays so only photos of ju on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we always show BOTH of us ..... dont see the point otherwise

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

We only look for straight men to have a straight MFM....I can't see why any straight man would need to see if they fancy the OH before they would play so we don't have the males pic up.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

because we are only interested in meeting single guys so its of no consequence what my fella looks like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We only look for straight men to have a straight MFM....I can't see why any straight man would need to see if they fancy the OH before they would play so we don't have the males pic up.

Obviously you wouldn't expect 'sexy' photos of a man on a profile that isn't seeking invitations to play for the man. But they might like to know he doesn't look like a head case if he's going to be there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Might I suggest to the blokes who claim that they are simply NOT photogenic that there clear simple reasons for that."

There are loads of profiles full of unflattering photos of women and yet seemingly they don't have the same hang ups about how photogenic they are!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"We only look for straight men to have a straight MFM....I can't see why any straight man would need to see if they fancy the OH before they would play so we don't have the males pic up.

Can you tell by a face wether someone is a head case or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you tell by a face wether someone is a head case or not?

If they look like one they probably are. If they don't look like one they probably may be.

There's also the issue of checking you're not inadvertently meeting your Dad

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Can you tell by a face wether someone is a head case or not?

If they look like one they probably are. If they don't look like one they probably may be.

There's also the issue of checking you're not inadvertently meeting your Dad

lol yeah that wouldn't be good.

We don't have face pics anyway so it doesn't apply as we only show face on cam and although there has only been one person ever ask to see the OH, he is normally with me when I cam to show face with someone we are thinking of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder how many times the accidental Dad meet has happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you tell by a face wether someone is a head case or not?

If they look like one they probably are. If they don't look like one they probably may be.

---- They look like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our case, the pictures that are the most Fabbed are of her, not him. Those that Get Fabbed more with him in them stay on the site. We base what pictures are up solely on the reaction to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We ignore profiles like this.

We have also noticed a lot of couples have got fit women and fat ugly men.both on here and in clubs.must be frustrating for the female half of the couple.knowing that couples pass them by because of the make half.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We ignore profiles like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have pictures of both of us up. We have more of L simply because she enjoys me taking pictures of her and it is something we do quite often.

But you are right. There are an awful lot of profiles with no guy shown. We always ask.for pictures if we are contacted but even then some people will only send a picture that is dark, blurred or doesn't show the face well. We don't bother asking twice anymore. We don't think if people want to meet us we should have to beg for a decent picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simples..PIES and beer......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We ignore profiles like this.

ah we are used to it, so doesnt bother us anymore.

wouldnt want to do anything with people that are obsessed with the outside of someone anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wouldnt want to do anything with people that are obsessed with the outside of someone anyway"

Even though you're quite specific about the physical specifications you require?

On another note - nice bike!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wouldnt want to do anything with people that are obsessed with the outside of someone anyway

Even though you're quite specific about the physical specifications you require?

On another note - nice bike!

thats just the type of bloke V likes.

its not saying we wont meet with those different, and have, its just an ideal.

and, thanks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm ever in a couple on here, there would be pictures of both of us. I look at couple profiles if they have looked at me and it's disappointing not to see the male, not that I meet couples but should that change I'd want to see both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey we are quite new here and wondered why couples don't always seem to show the male side of the couple? What are u hiding?!

An ugly man?

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