FabSwingers.com forum: To young

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is every woman on here doesn't let people my age message them. It's annoying. Can't get a meet

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By *ibanditMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's someone for everyone.

Sometimes you have to just dig deeper

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Because people have preferences and yes, you would be far to young for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because people have preferences and yes, you would be far to young for me."

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Why is every woman on here doesn't let people my age message them. It's annoying. Can't get a meet

So let me get this right: YOU have an upper age limit, not wanting to play with someone your mums age, but you're annoyed older women don't want to play with someone their kids age?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is every woman on here doesn't let people my age message them. It's annoying. Can't get a meet

dude keep chipping away at it , and try not to post to many trads bout complaining as it wont really help you.

but really, keep at it and people will get to know you from forums etc , and it will be easier , imo anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unfortunately you've just emphasised your immaturity by your tantrumesque post. Lots of reasons why women dont want to meet a 20 year old but it is up to us I'm afraid. Good luck x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

have you really tried to sell yourself, do you take time to craft a great profile and message to introduce yourself.

it all plays part of getting yourself known.. there are socials in Scotland, a social lunch in Fife is coming up soon.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stopping moanin about it would help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is every woman on here doesn't let people my age message them. It's annoying. Can't get a meet

I'm not really sure I understand the sentence? I get the "Can't get a meet" bit.

The things that might be an issue besides age

1) profile is cock heavy - might work for BI/Gay men but not many women

2) Not much on profile

3) language of profile that is there isn't to everyone's taste

4) You're Bi and that puts some off

5) Lastly you're young and that puts others off

Having said all of that, it won't put everyone off, you just have to keep searching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As your profile starts with the words

'Horny teen looking for fun'

your lucky you get any meets at all.

Plus you have an upper age limit of 45!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is every woman on here doesn't let people my age message them. It's annoying. Can't get a meet

So according to you, 'every' woman on here has thier filters set to stop people of your age messaging them! Think that might be just a bit of an over generalisation.

Why would you want to message 'every' woman on here when it says on you're profile 'cannot accommodate or travel far. must be close to town' I have a feeling you're making things hard for yourself and posting in the forums whinging about it won't help a great deal I'm afraid.

Take a look for socials that are being arranged localish to you and get along to one or more, than get chatting to people there and maybe get some verifications from people that you have chatted to, as so far all your verifications are from men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The words grow the fuck up spring to mind but really can't think why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On to the next one fella. Think most of us have experienced it one way or anther (either too old or too young)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"too" young !! Tut tut tut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets be honest is it your age or your profile ?

Cannot accom for a single will put most off straight away. Then you cannot travel far will also not help. Virtually no profile text. Oh and an upper age limit. Take a look at some other guys profiles that are getting veris and see how yours matches up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""too" young !! Tut tut tut

I so wanted to write that.

Give the lad a break, he only asked a question.

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh

Why not go out clubbing and pull that way like most your age?

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

OP... why not try and adjust your expectations of this hobby to something less than the reality, then things will look so much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps trolling wasn't the right word!

I felt you were trying to be the 'big man' and bullied the young fellow.

I think these ladies are politely saying tske your own advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well from one single lad to another. In my experience, mass sending messages to women rarely works. I barely send messages and yet I'm pm'ing a few women on here from posting on the forums. You can't express who you are over a single message, it's better if you interact on the forums or chat rooms so people can get to know you better, then you'll probably find that women may message you despite being out there age range

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Perhaps trolling wasn't the right word!

I felt you were trying to be the 'big man' and bullied the young fellow.

I think these ladies are politely saying tske your own advice."

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Perhaps trolling wasn't the right word!

I felt you were trying to be the 'big man' and bullied the young fellow.

I think these ladies are politely saying tske your own advice."

ok fair point an if that's how I come across then im man engh to apologise to the op as that was far from my meaning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps trolling wasn't the right word!

I felt you were trying to be the 'big man' and bullied the young fellow.

I think these ladies are politely saying tske your own advice.

ok fair point an if that's how I come across then im man engh to apologise to the op as that was far from my meaning. "

Fair dos - now can we all shut the *^#$ up and have a kiss and make up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well from one single lad to another. In my experience, mass sending messages to women rarely works. I barely send messages and yet I'm pm'ing a few women on here from posting on the forums. You can't express who you are over a single message, it's better if you interact on the forums or chat rooms so people can get to know you better, then you'll probably find that women may message you despite being out there age range"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like this thread......ANOTHER!!!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It gets easier as you get older

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Being 'too young' may have its disadvantages, but at least you will get older; and that opens up a whole new set of people and possibilities.

Try being 'too old' and see what happens then.

However there are people for everyone on Fab, keep trying, try a social or a club and above all don't get into slanging matches in forums or chat rooms.

As for your profile, do it how you like its your profile, if it works leave it, if it doesn't try taking some of the advice from the 'experienced' forumites; many of them are you 'target audience'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile's header is 'Horny teen looking for fun.' You're not a teen if you're twenty plus that heading may put people off due to the teen part.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

anyway: who wants a bit of young cock

message the OP

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I like younger men, but there has to be something there for me to like. If being a 'hot young stud' is how you define yourself, your profile better reflect that!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The advantage of being younger is that there's lots to look forward too, a disadvantage is not having a fully developed sense of delayed gratification. Like Jim Morrison sang "we want the world and we want it....NOW!"

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