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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right so you meet the person of your dreams, they make you laugh, smile, give you butterflies ....

You fall for them, what to spend time with them , miss them when your apart.. But.... You can not imagine being intimate with them or they sexually don't do it for you.

Would you start or stay in a relationship?

How important is the sexual side of a relationship to you?

Fire away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think sexual chemistry is important as without that you can only be friends.

I know of men who cheat because the sexual chemistry isn't their with their partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its very important to me. I dont see how you can fall for someone if you dont want sex with them, they would just be a friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right so you meet the person of your dreams, they make you laugh, smile, give you butterflies ....

You fall for them, what to spend time with them , miss them when your apart.. But.... You can not imagine being intimate with them or they sexually don't do it for you.

Would you start or stay in a relationship?

How important is the sexual side of a relationship to you?

Fire away "

Depends if they could learn, that sounds bad but sexually they would need to be compatible as in all the other aspects of the relationship

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Right so you meet the person of your dreams, they make you laugh, smile, give you butterflies ....

You fall for them, what to spend time with them , miss them when your apart.. But.... You can not imagine being intimate with them or they sexually don't do it for you.

Would you start or stay in a relationship?

How important is the sexual side of a relationship to you?

Fire away "

Keep them as a very good friend,

If no spark sex wise I wouldn't turn it into a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me earlier this year, met a guy who was fantastic in every way, but I really could not see myself having sex with him at all. I chose to walk away. He was very keen and I felt I would have been hurting him for longer if I had just been friends with him.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Right so you meet the person of your dreams, they make you laugh, smile, give you butterflies ....

You fall for them, what to spend time with them , miss them when your apart.. But.... You can not imagine being intimate with them or they sexually don't do it for you.

Would you start or stay in a relationship?

How important is the sexual side of a relationship to you?

Fire away "

That's friendship and is quite difficut to maintain if you do meet someone that you want to have all that and a sexual relationship too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If found someone that I really liked I would spark up a friendship first and then move on to sex once we were both very comfortable with each other.

Also sex can ruin long lasting friendships as I found in the past!!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Nope it won't work iv tride it an wasted about 3 yrs of my life I think but I couldn't not give it my best try an by fook I tride. It was my doughters mum. It was a massive mistake an shouldn't of ever happened but if I could go back id still do it again. If I didn't id not have the boggest an most important thing in my life my doughter and if im honest I couldn't have picked a better mum apart we are best mates together we grate each others bones it really is very strange

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By *ickedxxxCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

You can in my apinion love a friend and there are many relationships that are sexless for many reasons, it's not really a question for others to answer only you can make that choice and being as though your on a swingers site then sex must mean a lot to you so you've sort of answered the question before you wrote it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right so you meet the person of your dreams, they make you laugh, smile, give you butterflies ....

You fall for them, what to spend time with them , miss them when your apart.. But.... You can not imagine being intimate with them or they sexually don't do it for you.

Would you start or stay in a relationship?

How important is the sexual side of a relationship to you?

Fire away "

I would not get all of the above eg fall for someone without a sexual attraction or intimacy.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Not sure they would be giving me butterflies or if I would be missing them that much when they were away if I wasnt sexually attracted to them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have met men on here, i didnt fancy them that much and the sex wasnt that good either but i just liked their company.

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