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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What is the kindest way of saying no to men, who don't attract you?

Or don't read your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for your message, have a great day,

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the kindest way of saying no to men, who don't attract you?

Or don't read your profile?

Even men in elstree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at the moment we just delete, because its on our profile that we will, however, when we are messaged and we have to turn people down, its just a sorry, not right now, or not our type kind of message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just say thank you for taking the time to read my profile but I don't think your my type and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say it how you think it. I don't read profiles if their too long so maybe yours is, or your so sexy they can't wait to chat with you!

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By *et_me_take_controlMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Just delete!

We r men - we can take it! (sob sob!)

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Don't bother surely you've better things to do. No matter what from what you read on here you won't please every1.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am a kind person, and don't want to hurt someone's feelings?

But need to have a connection not a hi, what time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sounds fine to me.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Thanks for the message but I am not interested. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seems I will have to toughen up!!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

" Thanks for the message but I am not interested. Good luck "

hang on you told me to feck off you ugly old barstool. Last time I ask you for the time

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

" Thanks for the message but I am not interested. Good luck

hang on you told me to feck off you ugly old barstool. Last time I ask you for the time

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Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Thanks for the message but I am not interested. Good luck

hang on you told me to feck off you ugly old barstool. Last time I ask you for the time

I got told she was going to suck my like a Dyson while dressed as snow white and then shove the 7 dwarves up my arse

You got off lightly

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

" Thanks for the message but I am not interested. Good luck

hang on you told me to feck off you ugly old barstool. Last time I ask you for the time

I got told she was going to suck my like a Dyson while dressed as snow white and then shove the 7 dwarves up my arse

You got off lightly

hey that sounded great right up to them fecking dwarves sticking there bit in till then I'd have been well up for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just reply with the answer "Thanks for the offer........but no thanks.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"What is the kindest way of saying no to men, who don't attract you?

Or don't read your profile?

Considering you're not in the UK, make it clear you're only here to chat, ignore them they won't notice you've not replied anyway!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I am a kind person, and don't want to hurt someone's feelings?

But need to have a connection not a hi, what time?"

Personally don't see the point of this thread. Your profile is crystal clear, if you're being contacted by numbnuts why are you bothering yourself?

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

" Thanks for the message but I am not interested. Good luck "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but I'm the best you'll have!! Please meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but I'm the best you'll have!! Please meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but I'm the best you'll have!! Please meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but I'm the best you'll have!! Please meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but I'm the best you'll have!! Please meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but I'm the best you'll have!! Please meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but I'm the best you'll have!! Please meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I'm not pushy so fancy a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah but I'm the best you'll have!! Please meet me

Don't recall you having a stutter Russ!

Or are you talking into a large fahina ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Echo echo echo echhhhooooo

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

"Just say it how you think it. I don't read profiles if their too long so maybe yours is, or your so sexy they can't wait to chat with you!"

If you can't take the time to read someones profile, should you be contacting them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Thanks for the message but I am not interested. Good luck

that would do it for me

however i wouldn't see the point in contacting someone in Malaysia...

how many buses would be to get to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, when these pathetic losers attempt to contact you it provides a great opportunity to kick them in the balls and destroy their self confidence thereby giving you a great laugh! Ha Ha!

Use the power being a single woman on Fab gives you! Remember every time you have been rejected by a man you desired. Don't just delete and block because the joy of inflicting pain and humiliation will be lost to you.

Tell them that you have no interest in their pathetic advances, their face pic looks like Quasimodo and that if they were the last man on earth you would not even let your dog fuck them.

DISCLAIMER: The above is a joke. However, all those who found themselves agreeing with it, please reflect on your humanity.

I think it is very kind of the OP to seek a way to address this issue with kindness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a kind person, and don't want to hurt someone's feelings?

But need to have a connection not a hi, what time?"

its impossible to keep everyone happy and no matter what you do you will offend someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a kind person, and don't want to hurt someone's feelings?

But need to have a connection not a hi, what time?

Personally don't see the point of this thread. Your profile is crystal clear, if you're being contacted by numbnuts why are you bothering yourself?

Subtle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always send this :-

'thank you for making the effort to contact me. I've read your profile n can see that you are pretty much perfect for me - in fact I'd go as far as to say 'perfect' for virtually any and every woman. The fly in the ointment that makes it impossible for us to meet is that I am a mere woman and as you know we, the weaker sex, are renowned for our dithering so I don't know, I just don't know! I'm going to decline because - well that's the sort of flake I am. YES I KNOW I shall regret it the rest of my life. I've now upset myself so much by declining your offer that I beg you not to distress me further with your attentions. I've now got the vapours and must immediately lie down in a darkened room! '

Most men won't take offence at the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankyou for the message but no thankyou..

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

People who clearly haven't read my profile - delete

People who clearly have but are not for me - Thanks for your message but no thanks. Good luck on Fab.

(PS if you're really not looking you can adjust your 'looking for' preferences on edit profile and your messages from casual cruisers will diminish massively)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My most used response is "your profile says your straight mate"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Yes, when these pathetic losers attempt to contact you it provides a great opportunity to kick them in the balls and destroy their self confidence thereby giving you a great laugh! Ha Ha!

Tell them that you have no interest in their pathetic advances, their face pic looks like Quasimodo and that if they were the last man on earth you would not even let your dog fuck them.

DISCLAIMER: The above is a joke. However, all those who found themselves agreeing with it, please reflect on your humanity.

I think it is very kind of the OP to seek a way to address this issue with kindness.

The OP is in MALAYSIA! She has naturally, cannot accommodate or travel. She's also added to that in case it's missed

she's only here to chat.

Now I ask you: what idiot would ask for a meet, and what idiot would waste time wondering how to say thanks but no thanks to an idiot?!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I am a kind person, and don't want to hurt someone's feelings?

But need to have a connection not a hi, what time?

Personally don't see the point of this thread. Your profile is crystal clear, if you're being contacted by numbnuts why are you bothering yourself?

Subtle.

Well...there's enough stress in life without looking for me. If only all of lifes troubles could be solved so easily!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"My most used response is "your profile says your straight mate" "

lmfao. Im with ya mate fecking strate my arse.....least if id let em eeeew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always delete messages with no face pic attached immediately. I used to reply to messages with face pics attached saying "thank you for taking the time to message me but your not the guy for me". However, the guys who then replied abusively or questioning my reasons have made me just delete anyone I'm not interested in meeting now without a response from me x

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I would rather be told straight. Especially with someone you've been chatting to,who's tone suddenly changes after seeing your pic.

It's better to have thanks but no thanks, rather than feel them cringe behind their keyboard lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would rather be told straight. "

That^

Or delete it.

Personally, I'd prefer it gets deleted rather than any further dialogue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the kindest way of saying no to men, who don't attract you?

Or don't read your profile?

No.

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By *uckknowsMan
over a year ago

here

"I am a kind person, and don't want to hurt someone's feelings?

But need to have a connection not a hi, what time?

Personally don't see the point of this thread. Your profile is crystal clear, if you're being contacted by numbnuts why are you bothering yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the kindest way of saying no to men, who don't attract you?

Or don't read your profile?

No thank you, however if you stick a bag on your head I may suck your cock..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the kindest way of saying no to men, who don't attract you?

Or don't read your profile?

would like to say FUCK OFF ,but would get reported for that.

but it really is a joke when you can get over a 100 messages a day and not one person has read your profile.we are are not shallow and looks are not what important to us but if someone cannot ever be bothered to read about you .and the things you are looking for why would you even message them back .1000s of emails in two years and only met a hand full of single men .

that says it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say anything ... I'd rather a 'fuck off' than to get nothing

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"What is the kindest way of saying no to men, who don't attract you?

Or don't read your profile?

would like to say FUCK OFF ,but would get reported for that.

that says it all.

Have you considered the fact you may be putting the 'decent' males off?

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By *anyoufeelmeMan
over a year ago

near you

As a man - any response as long as its polite ..

i do get its way easier just to delete though ... and im sure the vast majority of woman must just get fed up

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

"Just delete!

We r men - we can take it! (sob sob!)"

Some can't though, and feel the need to be abusive if they get a no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the kindest way of saying no to men, who don't attract you?

Or don't read your profile?

would like to say FUCK OFF ,but would get reported for that.

that says it all.

Ranty profiles attract ranty people. Go figure......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just delete!

We r men - we can take it! (sob sob!)

Some can't though, and feel the need to be abusive if they get a no."

Yep. I always say no thanks. But already had 2 abusive ones tonight when I did. Hey ho. They make me laugh. Clearly not having fun

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

"What is the kindest way of saying no to men, who don't attract you?

Or don't read your profile?

would like to say FUCK OFF ,but would get reported for that.

that says it all.

Ranty profiles attract ranty people. Go figure......

Perhaps they adapted their profile due to the males who were messaging them.

After all, if someone can't be bothered reading your profile why should you bother with them.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

It's a simple 'No thank you' from me and I never answer if they ask why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Thanks for the message but I am not interested. Good luck "

having been blown out more times than candle in a whore house i agree with femmes reply

knowing they don't want you is better than not knowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just say thank you for taking the time to read my profile but I don't think your my type and good luck "

THIS.

Manners cost nothing if it's a nice email .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the kindest way of saying no to men, who don't attract you?

Or don't read your profile?

would like to say FUCK OFF ,but would get reported for that.

that says it all.

Have you considered the fact you may be putting the 'decent' males off?"

well its like this you do a profile saying you are looking for couples single girls and men .and the things you are into .then lets say 1000 emails later its don't working so you change it a little then a little more and so on .just like anything in life then you get to the pion like today and get really pissed of when you change again then get about 60 email doing the thing you ask them not to.SO YOU THEN ASK YOUR SELF IF THEY ARE DOING THIS AND WE ASKED NOT TO ARE THEY REALLY THE PEOPLE TO MET UP WITH AND SWING.WE ARE NOW AT THE POINT OF BLOCKING ALL SINGLE MEN we will just meet them at clubs and most couples are going the same way .can people not see that .over the last two years more single men asking for meet and less couples .and that's the way it is not what we think.single men really need to sell themselves more .

one liners will never work as most couple get 100s of emails a week .THEY MEN WE HAVE MEET ARE THE ONES WITH THE IDEAS not the ones that ask us if we are having a good day and that's it.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"What is the kindest way of saying no to men, who don't attract you?

Or don't read your profile?

would like to say FUCK OFF ,but would get reported for that.

that says it all.

Have you considered the fact you may be putting the 'decent' males off?

one liners will never work as most couple get 100s of emails a week .THEY MEN WE HAVE MEET ARE THE ONES WITH THE IDEAS not the ones that ask us if we are having a good day and that's it.

Simple fix then. Apply your filters, then pick who you want to contact. Jobs a good un

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the kindest way of saying no to men, who don't attract you?

Or don't read your profile?

would like to say FUCK OFF ,but would get reported for that.

that says it all.

Have you considered the fact you may be putting the 'decent' males off?

one liners will never work as most couple get 100s of emails a week .THEY MEN WE HAVE MEET ARE THE ONES WITH THE IDEAS not the ones that ask us if we are having a good day and that's it.

Simple fix then. Apply your filters, then pick who you want to contact. Jobs a good un

so you saying block all single men.is that right .so we would not meet the great hand full on single men .we have meet and them not meet us .because 99%

of the sad single men cannot read a profile.THINK YOUR RIGHT WE ARE GOING TO DO THAT BUT IF EVERY COUPLE DOES THE SAME SINGLE MEN OR FUCKED .well not fucked if all couple block them .why not single men start sending more then one liners

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"What is the kindest way of saying no to men, who don't attract you?

Or don't read your profile?

would like to say FUCK OFF ,but would get reported for that.

that says it all.

Have you considered the fact you may be putting the 'decent' males off?

one liners will never work as most couple get 100s of emails a week .THEY MEN WE HAVE MEET ARE THE ONES WITH THE IDEAS not the ones that ask us if we are having a good day and that's it.

Simple fix then. Apply your filters, then pick who you want to contact. Jobs a good un

so you saying block all single men.is that right .so we would not meet the great hand full on single men .we have meet and them not meet us .because 99%

Whatever you do. I think your doomed

I'm out, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep think your right.its not we we do its the single men and the emails they send.good luck

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