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"no offense but honestly not got a clue what that's about I got same i.q. as a house brick but can dig a big hole fast " None taken. It's really what I'm kinda talking about. I'm passionate and honest but I don't get a look in next to rude people on here it seems. And both scenes (Swing + BDSM) seem to me very clicky... | |||
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"no offense but honestly not got a clue what that's about I got same i.q. as a house brick but can dig a big hole fast " not quite as big a hole as i am guessing he has just dug for himself... the thing we say to everyone is patience, patience, patience... I'm sorry... this kind of rant after only 7 weeks doesn't show a great deal of patience..... no one is owed anything just for being here..... | |||
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"no offense but honestly not got a clue what that's about I got same i.q. as a house brick but can dig a big hole fast not quite as big a hole as i am guessing he has just dug for himself... I the thing we say to everyone is patience, patience, patience... I'm sorry... this kind of rant after only 7 weeks doesn't show a great deal of patience..... no one is owed anything just for being here..... " Fabio bro...cut him some slack on this one. Autism and aspergers are at best ...difficult things to live with. | |||
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" not quite as big a hole as i am guessing he has just dug for himself... " Then I'm prepared to sit in it. This is an pipebomb like post. And it isn't really about the site, it's about those I have observed in the site. "the thing we say to everyone is patience, patience, patience... I'm sorry... this kind of rant after only 7 weeks doesn't show a great deal of patience..... no one is owed anything just for being here..... " As mentioned I'm not just talking about here. I'm talking about the OTHER site and both scenes. I feel like because I am an break from the norm, I'm almost automatically bastardized. I'm not going to sit here anymore and pretend to hide my world views. And I shall not be ignored either. NO ONE OWES ME NOTHING. I WANT TO DEMAND PEOPLE'S ATTENTION. WANTING IS NOT THE SAME AS BEING OWNED SOMETHING. | |||
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"V's son has aspergers and i love him for it. he is so straight forward, has no compassion, doesnt understand people caring about things, yet wont let us throw his pokemon of yu-gi-ho crap out from when he was a kid (infact, still gets the pokemon games now, and he is 21 next year.) made me laugh when, last year, he got a taste of how annoyingly frank he can be. one of V#'s friends came round with her autistic child and the kid went exploring. he walked into V's sons room, crossed his arms, looked at all the 'hello kitty' things he has collected, and said 'well, what do we have here? the room of an 8 year old girl?' lol. we all just looked at him for his reaction. he told us to get the kid out of his fcuking room lol" Give that man an high five and also tell him my story is looking to sell toys, books and video games for such markets... I don't want this to be deleted so I won't go into detail. | |||
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"Fabio bro...cut him some slack on this one. Autism and aspergers are at best ...difficult things to live with. " | |||
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"I took a deep breath and read your profile and have to say I found it both aggressive and contradictory. For instance you say you are straight and yet both your verifications are from tv's. " I'm not being funny but for goodness sake, TV/TG doesn't mean they are men; THEY ARE WOMEN. You are not disrespecting me but those who are transgender who want to be known AS women. Exactly what I was talking about before. | |||
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" not quite as big a hole as i am guessing he has just dug for himself... Then I'm prepared to sit in it. This is an pipebomb like post. And it isn't really about the site, it's about those I have observed in the site. the thing we say to everyone is patience, patience, patience... I'm sorry... this kind of rant after only 7 weeks doesn't show a great deal of patience..... no one is owed anything just for being here..... As mentioned I'm not just talking about here. I'm talking about the OTHER site and both scenes. I feel like because I am an break from the norm, I'm almost automatically bastardized. I'm not going to sit here anymore and pretend to hide my world views. And I shall not be ignored either. NO ONE OWES ME NOTHING. I WANT TO DEMAND PEOPLE'S ATTENTION. WANTING IS NOT THE SAME AS BEING OWNED SOMETHING." Why do you want to demand people's attention ? | |||
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" Fabio bro...cut him some slack on this one. Autism and aspergers are at best ...difficult things to live with. " high 5 ! | |||
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" no one is owed anything just for being here..... Fabio bro...cut him some slack on this one. Autism and aspergers are at best ...difficult things to live with. " they may well be difficult things to live with, but sometimes it is something as simple as just taking 5 seconds out to think before time to hit the send button.... it may be an inpediment and yes it may make things harder.... but it doesn't give a person impunity... I would have said the same thing to anyone.. which is patience... if a person doesn't have patience then I would suggest this place will do more harm than good regardless of who they are..... | |||
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"Fabio bro...cut him some slack on this one. Autism and aspergers are at best ...difficult things to live with. " this x | |||
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"Fabio bro...cut him some slack on this one. Autism and aspergers are at best ...difficult things to live with. this x" Damn! I was hoping for a laugh at my joke. It wears thin, I guess. | |||
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"And if you don't have patience, you won't make a very good doctor. BAZINGA! " Interesting point: I have only ever seen ONE episode of BBT. Oddly I can't feel myself getting into it. I'm quite baffed How I Met Your Mother has lasted so long. HE ironically strikes me as needy. I'm 30 plus and I've never been married. I don't believe in marriage. No offense to those married. How many times should I type the word married? Married. | |||
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"And if you don't have patience, you won't make a very good doctor. BAZINGA! Interesting point: I have only ever seen ONE episode of BBT. Oddly I can't feel myself getting into it. I'm quite baffed How I Met Your Mother has lasted so long. HE ironically strikes me as needy. I'm 30 plus and I've never been married. I don't believe in marriage. No offense to those married. How many times should I type the word married? Married." funny you should mention BBT because we reckon Sheldon IS V's son. all the same personality traits, everything. | |||
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"well, i only called you tony due to your username, if incorrect then i apologise. " Quick side note: My real name isn't Tony... No offensive taken. :D | |||
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"Have you considered that these scenes, or at least the socials that you are so critical of simply aren't for you? They aren't for everyone, clubs aren't for everyone. If you are going to events, not enjoying them and they are leaving you feeling angry, isolated and upset then is it really worth it? " I don't go to as many as I used to. I'll go once in an blue moon if people go who KNOW ME and hang out with them. The events themself don't make me angry, sometimes the clickies makes me who really made an effect to go to such events feel like an total outsider. No naming and shaming but looking back at an recent event it was difficult to chat to some. More so as it was my first swing munch, so to speak. It's not like in normal KINK munches where you can feel like you can chat to anyone... These are people's spouts. And some can be extremely protective of them if an invader approaches. I ended up on an table with other single people afraid to mingle. It wasn't till I noticed someone from the fab chat room that I relaxed an little but my point is still the same. If not more tricky than 'normal' events. | |||
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"Token, you are you and we,d imagine you would be great company on a night out if you were able to chill, laugh at things including yourself. The world doesn't centre around you or your condition as hard as that may seem at any certain time. In terms of playing with people you would need to try and realise not to give a running commentary on what you were doing. This experience of aspergers we have seen with someone we have witnessed. If we,re wrong, apologies due. Just trying to understand and give a little help if we may." In my vanilla life I'd like to think I get paid to laugh at myself. Admittedly I knew I was opening an can of worms for being so honest. I know that. But on my profile, you can't see my face (apart from in the chatroom), you don't know my real name and other than I live in manchester, I don't feel like I'm exposing an huge part of myself here. Salvador Dali said he is drugs... Think of me as Blue Magic. And you all just got another free sample. | |||
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"But on my profile, you can't see my face (apart from in the chatroom)" You'd best check that | |||
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"But on my profile, you can't see my face (apart from in the chatroom) You'd best check that " Crikey! less face, more cock | |||
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"But on my profile, you can't see my face (apart from in the chatroom) You'd best check that " You can see half my face and my whole face with me wearing sunglasses. The eyes are the window into an soul, my friend... My cock pictures are in private! :p | |||
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"But on my profile, you can't see my face (apart from in the chatroom) You'd best check that You can see half my face and my whole face with me wearing sunglasses. The eyes are the window into an soul, my friend... My cock pictures are in private! :p" It's nice to see a-soul kept private for a change | |||
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" This is why you're having trouble, you're yet another single guy. It has little to do with your syndrome. " Have to say thats was one of my thoughts too. OP your description of feeling excluded at socials is one we see on here regularly. Might not actually be anything to do with you specifically. But I also agree with the poster who said that if you find that certain situations (socials etc) are frustrating you then maybe they are not the right situations to put yourself in. Good luck finding something that works for you x | |||
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