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Any hairdressers in ?? Have you every cried over a hair cut ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I feel murderous... my hair has been short feathered by a senior stylist in a good dressers in L'pool.

What is it I do wrong ?? I've just spent four months growing out the last bad cut ( good cut but not how I wanted it ) just to have another bad ( very good but not what i CLEARLY explained )

I grew out my hair so that it could be cut properly and she's bloody well fearthered it !!

For christ's sake. I do feel murderous. I feel like someone else! I've got NO hair!!

I asked to have my layers in .. gentle layers..... She's done a bloody hatchet punk feather job ... I could KILL.

Haidressers... what's the diff between layers and feathering ... I never bloody asked for feathering!!!

I do feel stupid being upset at my age.... but it's horrendous it's like iv'e been assaulted.

Okay I know it will grow but DON'T say that... Goooooooood !!

Anyone else ever felt like this after a cut ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't look any different in your picture Granny.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You don't look any different in your picture Granny."

Awwwwww bless you you total sweetie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

iv had a few haircuts that iv cried over!!! i think hairdressers have very selective hearing at times!! ie inch of ends ended up with the shortest cut ever!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh granny I do know what you mean.... I would rather go to a dentist than a hairdressers ( cut my own hair last month by tying in a ponytail and cutting it off )

I went to one once who not only cut my shoulder length hair, I had taken ages to grow, shorter than I wanted but persuaded me to have a perm in naturally curly hair. I stayed in and cried for two days till a good friend brought another hairdresser to my home to sort out the mess.

My condolences on your loss. xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so what did you say o the hairdresser and did you pay for something that you didn't ask for..

There's a great hairdresses in Bold street near the top on the left Minsky's

really hope it aint as bad as you say !!!!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I feel murderous... my hair has been short feathered by a senior stylist in a good dressers in L'pool.

What is it I do wrong ?? I've just spent four months growing out the last bad cut ( good cut but not how I wanted it ) just to have another bad ( very good but not what i CLEARLY explained )

I grew out my hair so that it could be cut properly and she's bloody well fearthered it !!

For christ's sake. I do feel murderous. I feel like someone else! I've got NO hair!!

I asked to have my layers in .. gentle layers..... She's done a bloody hatchet punk feather job ... I could KILL.

Haidressers... what's the diff between layers and feathering ... I never bloody asked for feathering!!!

I do feel stupid being upset at my age.... but it's horrendous it's like iv'e been assaulted.

Okay I know it will grow but DON'T say that... Goooooooood !!

Anyone else ever felt like this after a cut ???

"
i hope you didnt pay for the cut if it wasnt something you wanted granny?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"iv had a few haircuts that iv cried over!!! i think hairdressers have very selective hearing at times!! ie inch of ends ended up with the shortest cut ever!! xx"

Exactly!! She said ... about an inch .... N I said ...... yeah no more than an inch ... She's done fuggin Martian inches !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ooh granny I do know what you mean.... I would rather go to a dentist than a hairdressers ( cut my own hair last month by tying in a ponytail and cutting it off )

I went to one once who not only cut my shoulder length hair, I had taken ages to grow, shorter than I wanted but persuaded me to have a perm in naturally curly hair. I stayed in and cried for two days till a good friend brought another hairdresser to my home to sort out the mess.

My condolences on your loss. xxxx "

awwwwww Laine. See ..someone who knows that a bad hair cut is like a cut in your personality ..... Kisses on the bottom for ya xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have at last found a good hairdresser and its a guy and he brilliant.

I dont go to "women" hairdressers .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel murderous... my hair has been short feathered by a senior stylist in a good dressers in L'pool.

What is it I do wrong ?? I've just spent four months growing out the last bad cut ( good cut but not how I wanted it ) just to have another bad ( very good but not what i CLEARLY explained )

I grew out my hair so that it could be cut properly and she's bloody well fearthered it !!

For christ's sake. I do feel murderous. I feel like someone else! I've got NO hair!!

I asked to have my layers in .. gentle layers..... She's done a bloody hatchet punk feather job ... I could KILL.

Haidressers... what's the diff between layers and feathering ... I never bloody asked for feathering!!!

I do feel stupid being upset at my age.... but it's horrendous it's like iv'e been assaulted.

Okay I know it will grow but DON'T say that... Goooooooood !!

Anyone else ever felt like this after a cut ???

i hope you didnt pay for the cut if it wasnt something you wanted granny?"

I'm scared to answer you Femme

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Think we;ve all been there at some time granny, and more than once too! I have now let my hair grow and only have it trimmed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im growin out a hair disaster just now!! cpuldnt get my usual stylist so went to another one...

she put layers in and made the top spikey

i now have a semi mullet like rod stewart in the 70's.

was so bad when i went home child asked me why i had my hair cut like the dogs (yorkshire terrier)!

worst bit is i actually tipped her on way out i think it was shock!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for this thread Granny, I knew I wasnt abnormal about my hairdresser

I hated going for soooo many years I cut my own hair (just a trim even tho I dont like my hair long) cos I couldnt find a good hairdresser where I used to live.

Finally found a great one who did exactly what I wanted - even tho I just sat there and said "I want something short and easy to manage that I can just wash and not have to straighten" but the hairdresser has now closed and I have no idea where she went so yesterday I resorted to hacking my fringe again myself, and even tho everyone says my hair looks good I know it looks a mess!!!

Everytime Im out I look thru all the hairdressers windows to see if she works there now, but havent found her yet hope I do soon cos I really need a trim, cos I look like Im growing my hair long again.

Shona

x x x

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I feel murderous... my hair has been short feathered by a senior stylist in a good dressers in L'pool.

What is it I do wrong ?? I've just spent four months growing out the last bad cut ( good cut but not how I wanted it ) just to have another bad ( very good but not what i CLEARLY explained )

I grew out my hair so that it could be cut properly and she's bloody well fearthered it !!

For christ's sake. I do feel murderous. I feel like someone else! I've got NO hair!!

I asked to have my layers in .. gentle layers..... She's done a bloody hatchet punk feather job ... I could KILL.

Haidressers... what's the diff between layers and feathering ... I never bloody asked for feathering!!!

I do feel stupid being upset at my age.... but it's horrendous it's like iv'e been assaulted.

Okay I know it will grow but DON'T say that... Goooooooood !!

Anyone else ever felt like this after a cut ???

i hope you didnt pay for the cut if it wasnt something you wanted granny?

I'm scared to answer you Femme "
you paid for it!! Be jaysus Granny, ya shouldnt of...anything like hair, nails, waxing etc..if ya aint satisfied dont pay and kick up such a stink .......... contact the hairdressers on monday and tell them you aint at all happy with ya cut, you want it rectified etc.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel murderous... my hair has been short feathered by a senior stylist in a good dressers in L'pool.

What is it I do wrong ?? I've just spent four months growing out the last bad cut ( good cut but not how I wanted it ) just to have another bad ( very good but not what i CLEARLY explained )

I grew out my hair so that it could be cut properly and she's bloody well fearthered it !!

For christ's sake. I do feel murderous. I feel like someone else! I've got NO hair!!

I asked to have my layers in .. gentle layers..... She's done a bloody hatchet punk feather job ... I could KILL.

Haidressers... what's the diff between layers and feathering ... I never bloody asked for feathering!!!

I do feel stupid being upset at my age.... but it's horrendous it's like iv'e been assaulted.

Okay I know it will grow but DON'T say that... Goooooooood !!

Anyone else ever felt like this after a cut ???

i hope you didnt pay for the cut if it wasnt something you wanted granny?

I'm scared to answer you Femme you paid for it!! Be jaysus Granny, ya shouldnt of...anything like hair, nails, waxing etc..if ya aint satisfied dont pay and kick up such a stink .......... contact the hairdressers on monday and tell them you aint at all happy with ya cut, you want it rectified etc..... "

I know you are right but they can't glue my hair back on.

Quote from male 'mate' - Wear a hat

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I feel murderous... my hair has been short feathered by a senior stylist in a good dressers in L'pool.

What is it I do wrong ?? I've just spent four months growing out the last bad cut ( good cut but not how I wanted it ) just to have another bad ( very good but not what i CLEARLY explained )

I grew out my hair so that it could be cut properly and she's bloody well fearthered it !!

For christ's sake. I do feel murderous. I feel like someone else! I've got NO hair!!

I asked to have my layers in .. gentle layers..... She's done a bloody hatchet punk feather job ... I could KILL.

Haidressers... what's the diff between layers and feathering ... I never bloody asked for feathering!!!

I do feel stupid being upset at my age.... but it's horrendous it's like iv'e been assaulted.

Okay I know it will grow but DON'T say that... Goooooooood !!

Anyone else ever felt like this after a cut ???

i hope you didnt pay for the cut if it wasnt something you wanted granny?

I'm scared to answer you Femme you paid for it!! Be jaysus Granny, ya shouldnt of...anything like hair, nails, waxing etc..if ya aint satisfied dont pay and kick up such a stink .......... contact the hairdressers on monday and tell them you aint at all happy with ya cut, you want it rectified etc.....

I know you are right but they can't glue my hair back on.

Quote from male 'mate' - Wear a hat "
nooooooooooooo go back and kick up a fuss......if you aint happy !! I know they cant glue the fucker back on but hell ya can get some sort of compensation ffs darlin!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bad hair cut can do so much to one's self esteem, so you have every reason to feel this way!

The good thing is that hair will grow and you should be able to have another hair cut soon.

In the mean time, you could hide beneath a pretty head scarf!

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you for this thread Granny, I knew I wasnt abnormal about my hairdresser

I hated going for soooo many years I cut my own hair (just a trim even tho I dont like my hair long) cos I couldnt find a good hairdresser where I used to live.

Finally found a great one who did exactly what I wanted - even tho I just sat there and said "I want something short and easy to manage that I can just wash and not have to straighten" but the hairdresser has now closed and I have no idea where she went so yesterday I resorted to hacking my fringe again myself, and even tho everyone says my hair looks good I know it looks a mess!!!

Everytime Im out I look thru all the hairdressers windows to see if she works there now, but havent found her yet hope I do soon cos I really need a trim, cos I look like Im growing my hair long again.

Shona

x x x "

You looked lush last night hun and your hair looked fine to me... I cut mine too and now just tonight... I lit my gas fire it blew back and set fire to my hair.... my fringe and one side is all melted

Wanna go buy a hat with me Granny?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"buy a hat" reminds me of some really stupid thing I did to myself a few years ago

I decided years ago I hated my mousey brown (its naturally that non descript brown) and I have been dying my hair since I found highlight kits when I was 12.

Normally I go dark, purple, deep red, black those sort of colours. So one day hubby went to work oldest was at school and I thought now or never and bought a pre highlighting kit. DONT DO IT if your naturally dark and have been dying your hair every 4 weeks for years its really not a good thing.

It wasnt even on my head for the proper time (much much less) but I felt my head nipping (never had that before or since) washed it off the roots were WHITE and the ends carrot orange all the bits in the middle all different shades of ginger

Went to the school to collect my then 6 year old she took one look at me and said (in the tone I use to make them listen) "for gods sake mum hurry up I dont want anyone to see you ohh and tomorrow wear a hat cos thats really really bad" she even refused to be seen out with me later that day when I went to get another hair dye!!!

The worst thing was hubby never even noticed til the kids said to him!!!!

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohh and Laine hun at least it was tonight and not yesterday!!! but Im sure your not as bad as you think.

I always have a hat for when I have a really bad hair day, laast night it was bad cos I got to the hotel to discover I had no hairbrush or comb so had to get Steven to hold the hairdrier while I hand combed my hair

Worst hair do I had (ever) was a do it yourself - I got really bored with long hair so grabbed Stevens hair clippers and hacked the whole lot off - did you know the longest setting on Nicky Clark hair clippers still only gives you about 2 inches all over I looked like a man in drag

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care bout my hair so much now, I've had really long hair (used to sit on it) really short hair (a rub over with a wet flannel and it was washed) And no hair! so titch drew a lovely big flower over my whole head, with its stem twining down my neck with body art gel pens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

AWWWW Laine thats sooo sweet.

My kids got a kit each at Christmas (how to colour in your sister with body art pens in one easy move lol) so far we have had musical notes, guitars (in bright purple) bright green roses, ohh and some really funny coloured bath water afterwards

But I seriously doubt my girls would do something so lovely to me - they would prob find the marker pens first

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah poor granny. i think the secret is finding someone to do it u like and then sticking to them. they get to know you and your hair then, your likes and dislikes. ah poor u

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ah poor granny. i think the secret is finding someone to do it u like and then sticking to them. they get to know you and your hair then, your likes and dislikes. ah poor u "

Thanks Patrick,

I used to do that but my hairdresser retired. Like me she's an old cluck so the last three times my hair has been cut by someone else.

The only time I got a good cut was in manchester. I'd go back but shit it's a long way to go for a cut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely and we've all felt like that at one time, i hate mine short but it grows on me cos i can gel it occasionally but i did once have a cut as i volunteered to be a model for trainees, ended up looking like i had one of them hats those soldiers wear at Buckingham Palace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have really long hair and find that most hairdressers are scissors happy I have to explain what I want then explain again and watch the whole time to make sure they don't hack it all off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have really long hair and find that most hairdressers are scissors happy I have to explain what I want then explain again and watch the whole time to make sure they don't hack it all off "

Ddeudaist ddyhea gwallt acha amcana? Woman! fi m yn cerdded at ca chri awron. Falai chloddia chan ddyhea at scraggy! Eiddo ydy lovely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully i'm a bloke. All the layers and feathers talk confuses me.

Number one sides and back with a three at the top. Done in 5 mins.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thankfully i'm a bloke. All the layers and feathers talk confuses me.

Number one sides and back with a three at the top. Done in 5 mins.

"

a 3 at the top ? I've seen some funny things cut into hair .... why a 3 ? Is it swinger advertising for FMF ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are never happy with our hair - was whinging at my barber the other day about it all sticking up in the middle and he turned and said at least you arent balding like me - someone else is always worse off granny be happy with what you have xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thankfully i'm a bloke. All the layers and feathers talk confuses me.

Number one sides and back with a three at the top. Done in 5 mins.

a 3 at the top ? I've seen some funny things cut into hair .... why a 3 ? Is it swinger advertising for FMF ?"

Haha i see what you done there.

Ohhh my brains not functioning properly this morning!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we are never happy with our hair - was whinging at my barber the other day about it all sticking up in the middle and he turned and said at least you arent balding like me - someone else is always worse off granny be happy with what you have xxx"

No. Complacency is a lesson learned in church... and won't get me a better hair cut .....pfffffft !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was younger, I had rather very long hair, it was my life, really looked after it and the comments from many a woman about what lovely hair I had, the questions on hot to keep it so good etc.

To answer the OP, yes I have been there when the cut is nothing to what I expected and hoped for, no matter how many people said they liked my hair that way, it just wasn't good enough, it wasn't what I wanted.

Anyway, now I never get a bad cut, because I do it myself and have no choice in the style.

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over a year ago

I let someone else cut my hair after my usual hairdresser was off

Big mistake.......I looked like I had a fecking crash helmet on my head

I was going out that night and there was no way I was going out with my hair how it was

There was also no way I was going back to the same hairdressers,they messed it up once,was'nt going to let them have another go at messing it up

So phoned another one,went it holding it up pleading for them to make me look normal/trendy/less like I had a crash helmet on............they did a beautiful job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am on my 4th hair dresser in 21y.

My hair is a nightmare to cut, being very strong and straight, with a double crown. Only very experienced cutters can handle my hair.

I have had less experienced cutter cut my hair on the odd occasions with dire results.

So I tend to book my appointments 2 months in advance in order to make sure my normal hairdresser will be able to cut mine.

If she goes on holiday, I would ask her to recommend me a replacement.

One of the girls at the salon dreads the thought of cutting my hair, bless her! I watched her progressed up the ladder from the bottom, and from being a young girl to a confident young lady, to be the competent stylist she is today.

Yet, she still dreads having to cut my hair, bless her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have really long hair and find that most hairdressers are scissors happy I have to explain what I want then explain again and watch the whole time to make sure they don't hack it all off

Ddeudaist ddyhea gwallt acha amcana? Woman! fi m yn cerdded at ca chri awron. Falai chloddia chan ddyhea at scraggy! Eiddo ydy lovely x

"

Just saw this lol ... don't know what language that is gran but apart from one or two words, it's not welsh lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my hair cut on Monday and absolutely hate it.

From the front it's how I wanted it but the hairdresser has cut it far to short and cropped into my neck which I HATE.

It's my own fault though, I forgot to say that although I have the back shorter than the front, I don't like it to be TOO SHORT at the back

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I had my hair cut on Monday and absolutely hate it.

From the front it's how I wanted it but the hairdresser has cut it far to short and cropped into my neck which I HATE.

It's my own fault though, I forgot to say that although I have the back shorter than the front, I don't like it to be TOO SHORT at the back "
did u tell em you didnt like it?

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