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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

with the news of a poor womans body along side a bag with restraints in being found in ireland. which from what i have heard so far is suspected to be linked with someone she was meant to be meeting from a "dating" site.....is this going to change the way that you meet or make you think twice?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

poor lady.

no changes here but stay safe all x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

nope! I wouldn't let someone I didn't know well and trust restrain me and one murder wouldn't make me change the way I do things, we try and take as many sensible precautions as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman with a long bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God that's terrible ! I always think very carefully !! I have a close freind who knows what I'm upto with fab etc , her rule ... I must always tell her when I

Meeting where and times x

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"with the news of a poor womans body along side a bag with restraints in being found in ireland. which from what i have heard so far is suspected to be linked with someone she was meant to be meeting from a "dating" site.....is this going to change the way that you meet or make you think twice?"

Her body was found in a forest in the Dublin mountains, a year after she went missing, but the restraints (handcuffs, apparently) were found at a location about ten miles away, close to a keyring that belonged to her, and there may be a connection, but nothing is certain as yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive said it before on here, someone should always know when you're on a meet - even if you keep you lifestyle secret from your friends and family, someone should always know and you should have a contact system.

I floated the idea a while back of running a buddy system through this site (for those who need it) to ensure that all us singles are safe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"with the news of a poor womans body along side a bag with restraints in being found in ireland. which from what i have heard so far is suspected to be linked with someone she was meant to be meeting from a "dating" site.....is this going to change the way that you meet or make you think twice?

Her body was found in a forest in the Dublin mountains, a year after she went missing, but the restraints (handcuffs, apparently) were found at a location about ten miles away, close to a keyring that belonged to her, and there may be a connection, but nothing is certain as yet. "

thanks for that. i read it quick and didn't realize that.

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester

Some of the women on here scare the shit out of me ...............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"with the news of a poor womans body along side a bag with restraints in being found in ireland. which from what i have heard so far is suspected to be linked with someone she was meant to be meeting from a "dating" site.....is this going to change the way that you meet or make you think twice?"

To be totally fucking honest, I would expect the presence of common sense to exist BEFORE something like this has to happen, BEFORE people think "doh...better make sure this fooker ain't nuts".

$0.02

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Ive said it before on here, someone should always know when you're on a meet - even if you keep you lifestyle secret from your friends and family, someone should always know and you should have a contact system.

I floated the idea a while back of running a buddy system through this site (for those who need it) to ensure that all us singles are safe"

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

[Removed by poster at 18/09/13 23:02:14]

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"with the news of a poor womans body along side a bag with restraints in being found in ireland. which from what i have heard so far is suspected to be linked with someone she was meant to be meeting from a "dating" site.....is this going to change the way that you meet or make you think twice?"

Nothing new, so no. If you think about it, stranger murder is rare. I'm more likely to be killed by my ex-husband than one of my meets!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"with the news of a poor womans body along side a bag with restraints in being found in ireland. which from what i have heard so far is suspected to be linked with someone she was meant to be meeting from a "dating" site.....is this going to change the way that you meet or make you think twice?

To be totally fucking honest, I would expect the presence of common sense to exist BEFORE something like this has to happen, BEFORE people think "doh...better make sure this fooker ain't nuts".

$0.02 "

No way you can ever be sure really, we are all taking risks.

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By *upitersmileCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Safety should always come first, and as Greedy said common sense!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I floated the idea a while back of running a buddy system through this site (for those who need it) to ensure that all us singles are safe"

Good idea. Did it ever take off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great rule to have, I'm the friend for someone.. does leave me frustrated when she tells me about the date every now and then...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"with the news of a poor womans body along side a bag with restraints in being found in ireland. which from what i have heard so far is suspected to be linked with someone she was meant to be meeting from a "dating" site.....is this going to change the way that you meet or make you think twice?

To be totally fucking honest, I would expect the presence of common sense to exist BEFORE something like this has to happen, BEFORE people think "doh...better make sure this fooker ain't nuts".

$0.02 "

You read the forums right?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm people are murdered and attacked all the time, do we stop walking the streets or going on nights out because it MIGHT happen.

Just take usual precautions and common sense..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"with the news of a poor womans body along side a bag with restraints in being found in ireland. which from what i have heard so far is suspected to be linked with someone she was meant to be meeting from a "dating" site.....is this going to change the way that you meet or make you think twice?

To be totally fucking honest, I would expect the presence of common sense to exist BEFORE something like this has to happen, BEFORE people think "doh...better make sure this fooker ain't nuts".

$0.02 "

That greedy bloke is a right nutter, avoid him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spend ages getting to know someone first before I even have a social meet. Even then my best friend knows where I am, who with and I text her to let her know I'm ok within the first five mins. Might not work for everyone, but upto now its been perfect. Touch wood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I floated the idea a while back of running a buddy system through this site (for those who need it) to ensure that all us singles are safe

Good idea. Did it ever take off?"

No, it was a suggestion on a forum thread months ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"with the news of a poor womans body along side a bag with restraints in being found in ireland. which from what i have heard so far is suspected to be linked with someone she was meant to be meeting from a "dating" site.....is this going to change the way that you meet or make you think twice?

To be totally fucking honest, I would expect the presence of common sense to exist BEFORE something like this has to happen, BEFORE people think "doh...better make sure this fooker ain't nuts".

$0.02

That greedy bloke is a right nutter, avoid him "

Tut fucking tut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats very sad but common sense should prevail when meeting anyone,whether its from a site or someone you've met elsewhere

Even one of my male friends has a buddy he lets know where he is if hes gone to a meet incase anything happens

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester


"I spend ages getting to know someone first before I even have a social meet. Even then my best friend knows where I am, who with and I text her to let her know I'm ok within the first five mins. Might not work for everyone, but upto now its been perfect. Touch wood "

Till you meet me .......................

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God that's terrible ! I always think very carefully !! I have a close freind who knows what I'm upto with fab etc , her rule ... I must always tell her when I

Meeting where and times x"
i have a good friend on here aswell we text each other when and where we r going on a meet and thepersons reg plate number x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

That greedy bloke is a right nutter, avoid him

Tut fucking tut. "

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could happen at any time eg meeting in a bar eg and as said stranger murder is quite uncommon.

Always have a back up plan and a method of a quick escape.

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester


"Could happen at any time eg meeting in a bar eg and as said stranger murder is quite uncommon.

Always have a back up plan and a method of a quick escape. "

I do .................

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

..especially for women. They have to be really careful who they meet and not let their guard down. Any stranger can be a nutter, even if you have spoken to him for a while.

If anything he does makes you uncomfortable, then you should just tell him to stop or inform someone he is making you uncomfortable and try ending the meet.

Yes. I am a sensitive caring bugger. These things bother me greatly. Many on fab have told me some stories. And you just go

...we may all be strangers on fab. But let's look out for each other shall we?

Okay. Now that was an awkward and random reply.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton


"Some of the women on here scare the shit out of me ............... "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I will be booking in for a course of Houdini lessons just to be safe.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"..especially for women. They have to be really careful who they meet and not let their guard down. Any stranger can be a nutter, even if you have spoken to him for a while.

If anything he does makes you uncomfortable, then you should just tell him to stop or inform someone he is making you uncomfortable and try ending the meet.

Yes. I am a sensitive caring bugger. These things bother me greatly. Many on fab have told me some stories. And you just go

...we may all be strangers on fab. But let's look out for each other shall we?

Okay. Now that was an awkward and random reply. "

Not just women! Men have to be careful too but for some, they relish the thought of meeting strangers in hotels for sex.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the written word of some scares me, let alone being close enough to hear the spoken word....

not if the full moon was out

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"the written word of some scares me, let alone being close enough to hear the spoken word....

not if the full moon was out"
How true!

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"..especially for women. They have to be really careful who they meet and not let their guard down. Any stranger can be a nutter, even if you have spoken to him for a while.

If anything he does makes you uncomfortable, then you should just tell him to stop or inform someone he is making you uncomfortable and try ending the meet.

Yes. I am a sensitive caring bugger. These things bother me greatly. Many on fab have told me some stories. And you just go

...we may all be strangers on fab. But let's look out for each other shall we?

Okay. Now that was an awkward and random reply.

Not just women! Men have to be careful too but for some, they relish the thought of meeting strangers in hotels for sex. "

Then there's those who meet complete strangers ........ in the dead of night ......... in the middle of nowhere.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Letting someone know where you're going is a great idea. At least there's a better chance of your killer getting convicted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always let someone know when I'm on a meet (my friendly).. If the person I meet isnt happy with me contacting my "friendly" then I leave or end the meet. Simple as that!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"the written word of some scares me, let alone being close enough to hear the spoken word....

not if the full moon was out"

Pussy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Letting someone know where you're going is a great idea. At least there's a better chance of your killer getting convicted."

Not a very cheery thought! It is rare, not a regular occurrence.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Letting someone know where you're going is a great idea. At least there's a better chance of your killer getting convicted.

Not a very cheery thought! It is rare, not a regular occurrence. "

Yes, I'm well aware of that. My point is telling a confidante what you are up to doesn't make you safe, it only means if something did happen there's more of a chance that your attacker will get caught.

Telling the person you are meeting that you have given a third party details of the meet and of them would be advisable.

Of course staying at home and not meeting strangers for sex is probably the safest option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wont be meeting in ireland

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester

This post is giving me ideas.................................for a new fantasy of mine ........................

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. I am a sensitive caring bugger. These things bother me greatly. Many on fab have told me some stories. And you just go

...we may all be strangers on fab. But let's look out for each other shall we?

Okay. Now that was an awkward and random reply. "

I thought it was very thoughtful. And nice. *appreciative hug from The Sticks*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was in the Royal Navy in the late eighties there was a case of a Royal Marine that went to a womans flat and was more than happy to oblige as she asked could I cuff and tie you face down on the bed? Thinking all his Christmas's had come at once he agreed . Then she left the room with him blindfolded to only to be buggered by some bloke !!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Letting someone know where you're going is a great idea. At least there's a better chance of your killer getting convicted."

Yep, I always tell a text buddy who I'm meeting and leave my lappy/iPad open on profile with a yellow sticky saying "It was him/her/them" just in case

My text buddy bollocked me last weekend cos I didn't text til the next morning on both the Saturday and Sunday - I said to her that she'd have murdered me if I'd texted her so late at night so I left it til first thing in morning

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"

Not just women! Men have to be careful too but for some, they relish the thought of meeting strangers in hotels for sex. "

I like meeting strangers in hotels for sex too! My safety procedure is mentioned in my previous post

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

This thread should be shown to every plonker who comes into the lounge moaning they cannot get a meet.

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