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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

starting my new course at college tonight, and I'm feeling a bit nervous about it. had a few rough weeks just lately, and it's knocked my confidence a little bit....

anybody have any words of wisdom to help calm my nerves??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There will be other people there just as nervous as you. You'll soon make new friends and be enjoying it before you know it. Enjoy it! x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Everyone else will be feeling the same. My advice is to arrive early enough to park and find the classroom, take notebook and pen, small change for a drink at break time and say hello to every person who walks into the room, speak to the people who sit next to you and enjoy it. What course are you doing?

I hope you thoroughly enjoy it. Good luck.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

First days can be great: a whole new part of your life just waiting to begin!

Remember that you'll have something in common with everyone there since it's college so you'll all be studying the same subject by choice.

I was going to wish you good luck but I don't think you'll need it so I'll just say enjoy.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"First days can be great: a whole new part of your life just waiting to begin!

Remember that you'll have something in common with everyone there since it's college so you'll all be studying the same subject by choice.

I was going to wish you good luck but I don't think you'll need it so I'll just say enjoy. "

This is all true, education of any kind is a wonderful thing. As a lecturer once told me "be a sponge and let my knowledge wash over you:

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

The best thing will be new friends. I'm a little jealous and hope it goes well. I'm sure it will.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for the advice, notebook and pen already in my bag, lol and when I'm nervous my big mouth goes into overdrive and I don't shut up, so by the end of the evening everyone will know my name lol

i'm doing my level 1 in British sign language but have to complete an introductory course first as this is part of the course. I will be ok, once I'm there, just the waiting for it that's making me nervous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Embrace your new course with enthusiasm , everybody will be in The same boat , don't be standoffish , make friends , ask questions , don't be affraid to make a fool of yourself ....and enjoy The first step in something new that will change your life for The better ...Very best of wishes X

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By *aughty PedroMan
over a year ago

London


"thanks for the advice, notebook and pen already in my bag, lol and when I'm nervous my big mouth goes into overdrive and I don't shut up, so by the end of the evening everyone will know my name lol

i'm doing my level 1 in British sign language but have to complete an introductory course first as this is part of the course. I will be ok, once I'm there, just the waiting for it that's making me nervous.

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As with all the quotes above you be fine.

I work for a University and all the first years are arriving all feeling like you.

Once you get in to it you really enjoy it and do really well

Keep smiling

we are all with you and wishing you well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will be fine once there. A new venture makes most of us feel nervous but once there you will relax.

I did it last year and I was worried I'd be the oldest there. Thankfully I wasn't and people from all walks of life enjoying going on courses.

Have a great time

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

good luck with your studies.... lets us know in a month how you are getting on: I bet it will be like you have been doing it for a lot longer. Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooooooooo I am starting a new course there as well .... perhaps we can sit next to each other ... nothing bad will happen ...

actually all that above is not true but it should have made you smile ... and just remember as long as I am not in the same room, normality should reign ... have a really good time and enjoy ... and don't forget to learn something too - good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oooooooooo I am starting a new course there as well .... perhaps we can sit next to each other ... nothing bad will happen ...

actually all that above is not true but it should have made you smile ... and just remember as long as I am not in the same room, normality should reign ... have a really good time and enjoy ... and don't forget to learn something too - good luck "

thanks, it did make me smile xx

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Turn up with some love eggs inserted. You won't be feeling nervous and if you get energetic in signing, you may end up adding a few words to their lexicon....

Failing that, have an early tea, get there, have a great time.

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

Arrive naked, and you will get loads of attention that will put you at ease immediately.

Failing that, remember that things are almost never as bad as we fear.

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By *aughty PedroMan
over a year ago

London


"Oooooooooo I am starting a new course there as well .... perhaps we can sit next to each other ... nothing bad will happen ...

actually all that above is not true but it should have made you smile ... and just remember as long as I am not in the same room, normality should reign ... have a really good time and enjoy ... and don't forget to learn something too - good luck

thanks, it did make me smile xx "

How did your class go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did'nt see this thread yesterday,I hope it went really well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oooooooooo I am starting a new course there as well .... perhaps we can sit next to each other ... nothing bad will happen ...

actually all that above is not true but it should have made you smile ... and just remember as long as I am not in the same room, normality should reign ... have a really good time and enjoy ... and don't forget to learn something too - good luck

thanks, it did make me smile xx

How did your class go "

it went really well, but I know next week is going to be harder because we've been told we can't talk.... I haven't been silent for more than a minute since my a levels.... don't think I'm going to last 2 and a half hours without talking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I did'nt see this thread yesterday,I hope it went really well "

it went really well, thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"starting my new course at college tonight, and I'm feeling a bit nervous about it. had a few rough weeks just lately, and it's knocked my confidence a little bit....

anybody have any words of wisdom to help calm my nerves??"

I start my masters degree in 2 weeks and although I know I can do it I'm petrified, I just take a step back and think I can only do my best.Will be found at 3 am with a bottle of wine sat over the computer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"starting my new course at college tonight, and I'm feeling a bit nervous about it. had a few rough weeks just lately, and it's knocked my confidence a little bit....

anybody have any words of wisdom to help calm my nerves??"

think of them all sat there...nekid

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I start my masters degree in 2 weeks and although I know I can do it I'm petrified, I just take a step back and think I can only do my best.Will be found at 3 am with a bottle of wine sat over the computer "

good luck with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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think of them all sat there...nekid "

I tried that.... but I got myself more worked up because most of them were very young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its normal to feel like this with new things as its all very different to you ........ give it time and you will be ok . xx

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