FabSwingers.com forum: wife's a question for guys

By *aughtywifeandhim OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

Do you think us husbands are mad to let other guys fuck our wife's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if she ends up running away with the other guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No , she is a person in her own right with desires and wants and does not belong to me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. Sound like a great bloke.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Do you think us husbands are mad to let other guys fuck our wife's "

Personally I would award you a medal, God bless you and all the husbands like you who share your wifes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think us husbands are mad to let other guys fuck our wife's "

Each to there own. I wouldn't like to watch my other half get fucked by someone else

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By *aughtywifeandhim OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

I had the same opinion as you for many years .but chanhe'd as I got older .we wanted to try new things in life before we kicked the bucket .we now have fun swinging along with other things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they are generous and sharers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I love to let my husband fuck other women what ever floats your boat really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife has sex with other men because she wants to not me I just play along

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

More importantly if the singles get hitched will they indulge as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I love to let my husband fuck other women what ever floats your boat really

How refreshing. Just seen your veris and a few from the same couple. So many people here only seem to want one offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think us husbands are mad to let other guys fuck our wife's

Each to there own. I wouldn't like to watch my other half get fucked by someone else"

I have to agree I would do a threesome ect with a fwb but not my partner by hey that could just be my own insicurities about performance ect

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By *aughtywifeandhim OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

We go to the same club mainly and we do sometimes enjoy having fun with people we have played with before .especially if wife enjoys it .but we spread our meets out a bit .we also have some friends who have left site that we have fun with .its all about having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on how safe and secure the couple is and how they view the whole thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think us husbands are mad to let other guys fuck our wife's

Each to there own. I wouldn't like to watch my other half get fucked by someone else

I have to agree I would do a threesome ect with a fwb but not my partner by hey that could just be my own insicurities about performance ect "

Wouldn't say its because of my insecurities. When I'm in a relationship I'd like it to just be me and her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I agree. I was discussing this with my ex one day. He's played in a ffm and I just don't think when I was with him I could watch him fuck another girl just how I feel

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Intersting responses, I think it highlights the two types of people on this site

The singles for NSA sex and the couples for old style swinging

We all use it for the purposes we want, problem is in the forums people forget the two differences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first fucked another mans wife (with his permission) I thought WTF how can you let another man bang your wife. But after doing it a couple times more I stopped thinking like that and could see the fetish side to it

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

"Do you think us husbands are mad to let other guys fuck our wife's "

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Intersting responses, I think it highlights the two types of people on this site

The singles for NSA sex and the couples for old style swinging

We all use it for the purposes we want, problem is in the forums people forget the two differences"

Agree 100%. I would never judge anyone on here and we all use fab for what we want / can get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, he can play as well fairs fair after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think us husbands are mad to let other guys fuck our wife's "

I'd question any couple that thinks swinging is mad or feels that one party lets the other play. Doesn't seem a particularly healthy mindset to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have swung as part of a couple and as a single, I enjoy both. In fact I preferred it as part of a couple, so maybe in the future I will do again. I dont often have one on one meets anyway, and prefer the club and party scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All down to how strong that relationship/marriage is.

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By *aughtywifeandhim OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

The answer is yes I also play sometimes .we have been together 26 years and trust another totally..before we started we talked .both not virgins so we had previous .so we thought heck what's the difference lets have fun while married no cheating .so we enjoy club scene and odd party .and every now and. Again .a solo

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By *ublincouple bi femaleCouple
over a year ago

Anywhere

No if thats what you.both are into I am part of a couple we are not into other blokes but we.meet younger and.older women I.love to.watch him.fuck other.girls and I love to join.in and.pleasure and get pleasured myself I know people would think why would u.let him.fuck other girls but we are both into and we both trust each other we are just dirty kinky couple and we.love it once u want her to do.it its.kool but if ure only doing it to keep her happy thats never going to.work. You.need to.make šure.ure.also enjoying it as much as she.is and.if.are not than STOP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something that excites me hugely...but I do seem to be reading alot of " my ex" comments which does little to reinforce my thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think us husbands are mad to let other guys fuck our wife's "

Nope!

As a single guy I'll give my single guy's perspective.

Be warned, it is Ben's viewpoint and should be treated as such! muha!

But...

It is and/or should be a mutual agreement between man and wife, the way I see it, the only way it could be a problem is when it is not a mutual agreement and/or more one sided "sloping" to one side and not the other.

$0.02

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends on how safe and secure the couple is and how they view the whole thing"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More importantly if the singles get hitched will they indulge as well."

yes i would if that's what we both are into

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No , she is a person in her own right with desires and wants and does not belong to me ."

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By *aughtywifeandhim OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

We do it because I enjoy way bing her with other guys wi sometimes play when couples are involved and wife also enjoys the fem touch too mainly started the topic to find out the

thoughts going through some of the blokes minds on here .if either of us wanted to stop we would both stop .just want to have fun before grand children come along lol

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

"When I first fucked another mans wife (with his permission) I thought WTF how can you let another man bang your wife."

The last couple I met as a MMF were married and when I was fucking his wife, the very same thought crossed my mind. After the meet, they told me they would like to meet again and that the husband felt OK about it all but they have subsequently deleted their account. I texted them to ask why and was told that he had changed his mind and didn't like sharing her. I understood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think us husbands are mad to let other guys fuck our wife's

I'd question any couple that thinks swinging is mad or feels that one party lets the other play. Doesn't seem a particularly healthy mindset to me. "
not fair to keep that sexy ass all to yourself it's like quality street made for shareing lol(hope u don't mind me saying that) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think us husbands are mad to let other guys fuck our wife's "

Only if the wife won't let the husband fuck other women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think us husbands are mad to let other guys fuck our wife's

Each to there own. I wouldn't like to watch my other half get fucked by someone else"

What do you think of people who do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No .

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

As I love bi women I know this is duble standerd an fully expect the flack for it but yes I think they are mad its somthing I know I wouldn't let happen but she can have all the women she want

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

If you can seduce and fuck mine. Yes

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By *aughtywifeandhim OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

No she is ok with me fucking other women .as she normally joins in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think us husbands are mad to let other guys fuck our wife's

Each to there own. I wouldn't like to watch my other half get fucked by someone else

What do you think of people who do?"

Nothing against them what so ever, as long as everyone knows and agrees with what is going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think not, it demonstrates an ultimate trust between couples and at the end of the day if it is a shared fantasy then there is nothing wrong with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think us husbands are mad to let other guys fuck our wife's "

Our wife's what?

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"Do you think us husbands are mad to let other guys fuck our wife's

Nope!

As a single guy I'll give my single guy's perspective.

Be warned, it is Ben's viewpoint and should be treated as such! muha!

But...

$0.02"

This. And I'm unsure why but I've always had a problem with the word 'let'. Scott doesn't 'let' me, I don't 'let' him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think us husbands are mad to let other guys fuck our wife's

Each to there own. I wouldn't like to watch my other half get fucked by someone else"

But you wouldn't say no if it was on offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think us husbands are mad to let other guys fuck our wife's

Nope!

As a single guy I'll give my single guy's perspective.

Be warned, it is Ben's viewpoint and should be treated as such! muha!

But...

$0.02

This. And I'm unsure why but I've always had a problem with the word 'let'. Scott doesn't 'let' me, I don't 'let' him. "

Exactly, I am not "let" - it is a mutual decision and if we are both not happy then no play would occur.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think us husbands are mad to let other guys fuck our wife's

Each to there own. I wouldn't like to watch my other half get fucked by someone else

But you wouldn't say no if it was on offer

That's completely different, I'm a single guy so if I want to sleep with someone then I will, if she has a partner and they say its ok then thats fine, its their choice.

If I'm in a relationship then I wouldn't sleep with anyone but my girlfriend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she fucks other guys for sexual pleasure (with me there) and then comes back to me for love making then I have no problems. Since that is exactly what she does I am very happy to see her enjoy other men's attentions!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a single guy so if I want to sleep with someone then I will, if she has a partner and they say its ok then thats fine, its their choice.

If I'm in a relationship then I wouldn't sleep with anyone but my girlfriend"

Something about this doesn't sit right but I can't figure out what it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think us husbands are mad to let other guys fuck our wife's

Each to there own. I wouldn't like to watch my other half get fucked by someone else

But you wouldn't say no if it was on offer

That's completely different, I'm a single guy so if I want to sleep with someone then I will, if she has a partner and they say its ok then thats fine, its their choice.

If I'm in a relationship then I wouldn't sleep with anyone but my girlfriend"

I understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a single guy so if I want to sleep with someone then I will, if she has a partner and they say its ok then thats fine, its their choice.

If I'm in a relationship then I wouldn't sleep with anyone but my girlfriend

Something about this doesn't sit right but I can't figure out what it is! "

honestly couldn't care less, that's how I feel about the whole situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think us husbands are mad to let other guys fuck our wife's

Each to there own. I wouldn't like to watch my other half get fucked by someone else

But you wouldn't say no if it was on offer

That's completely different, I'm a single guy so if I want to sleep with someone then I will, if she has a partner and they say its ok then thats fine, its their choice.

If I'm in a relationship then I wouldn't sleep with anyone but my girlfriend

I understand.

Thank you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Do you think us husbands are mad to let other guys fuck our wife's "

Nope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a single guy so if I want to sleep with someone then I will, if she has a partner and they say its ok then thats fine, its their choice.

If I'm in a relationship then I wouldn't sleep with anyone but my girlfriend

Something about this doesn't sit right but I can't figure out what it is!

honestly couldn't care less, that's how I feel about the whole situation"

Still can't figure it out - possibly the thought you'd be judging couples that swing as beneath your own ideals, or maybe that it's just about you and what you want. Dunno, but like you say who cares, it's not like you're bothered enough to post your views.. oh but you did..

I hope you meet that special person soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh ok - just noticed the other discussion about this and it's making a little more sense now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh ok - just noticed the other discussion about this and it's making a little more sense now!"

good for you

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By *uckknowsMan
over a year ago

here

Whatever turns you on!

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By *eonlylive1seCouple
over a year ago

Atherstone

"I personally think not, it demonstrates an ultimate trust between couples and at the end of the day if it is a shared fantasy then there is nothing wrong with it.

We quite often invite single men to join us for threesome fun, it is a huge turn on for both of us. We are a very happy couple and enjoy seeing each other have fun, we see it as a sexy extention to our sex lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally i dont let my other half do anything with anyone else.

we have decided between us what we do.

im happy to enjoy what she does, and in turn, she is happy to enjoy what i do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have huge urges to let another man share my wife and I'm as sure as can be that I have no problem with this

( shame my wife does lol ) but what does concern me is where does it end?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

from a couples point of view and properly most once the meet has finished

with us we get that horny we end up back in the bedroom when he meet has left but is it just us or does it feel more hornier

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By *aughtywifeandhim OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

Yes we feel Fournier once the guy has gone and carry on having fun longer into the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some marraiges benefit, some end

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By *aughtywifeandhim OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

A lot more end because .they cheat on their partners by having affairs .we have met so many nice couples while swinging .its good to be honest and open with your partner. We have great sex life swinging and non swinging. This is for fun .wi play about four times a year and enjoy other hobbies together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"from a couples point of view and properly most once the meet has finished

with us we get that horny we end up back in the bedroom when he meet has left but is it just us or does it feel more hornier "

not for us as we are incredibly horny for each other anyway.

only once after a meet have we felt that WOW factor when we have played, otherwise we just enjoy sex on our own after the meet is over as we did when they were there

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By *ane_andrew69Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

There is nothing better than watching the woman you love having an orgasm and in the throws of passion with someone. She can have fun and excitement without being unfaithful. I think it's a good thing!

Andrew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think us husbands are mad to let other guys fuck our wife's "

You do what you want to do its not mad its not genius its a choice between partners.

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