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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think we should have a Christmas party!

all chip in,higher a nice venue and just have one big social party for everyone to introduce them selves in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not a bad idea tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes because I'm gutted I'm missing meeting some lovely new faces at Kent!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not a bad idea "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

would be great to make this happen as a one off just to give everyone plenty of notice and the chance to meet everyone in one place at the same time

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

where would it be held ?

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By *utty_JiggleCouple
over a year ago

Black Country


"I think we should have a Christmas party!

all chip in,higher a nice venue and just have one big social party for everyone to introduce them selves in person "

Fab idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love christmas parties

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

that would take some research and would need enough peope to make it happen off here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think we should have a Christmas party!

all chip in,higher a nice venue and just have one big social party for everyone to introduce them selves in person "

Yeah..everyone chip in.

I'll be the treasure and organise the party. .I won't run off with the money I promise!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Someone with time and patience set it up and it will happen.

It might be easier to go for a club somewhere central pubs and bars will be booked solid already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a party

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

id happly look into finding the venue but wouldn't be a pub or a club,i was thinking somewhere classier than that

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Someone with time and patience set it up and it will happen.

It might be easier to go for a club somewhere central pubs and bars will be booked solid already.

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dont clubs have dress codes, that puts me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"id happly look into finding the venue but wouldn't be a pub or a club,i was thinking somewhere classier than that "

Book a whole hotel just for fab

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"id happly look into finding the venue but wouldn't be a pub or a club,i was thinking somewhere classier than that

Book a whole hotel just for fab "

Now THAT would be interesting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"id happly look into finding the venue but wouldn't be a pub or a club,i was thinking somewhere classier than that

Book a whole hotel just for fab "

Great idea

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Yes because I'm gutted I'm missing meeting some lovely new faces at Kent! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

good thinking,then maybe a large venue not to far away from hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"where would it be held ?"

Liverpool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"good thinking,then maybe a large venue not to far away from hotel "

The hotel is the venue, in their private rooms! not far to slip off either

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Someone with time and patience set it up and it will happen.

It might be easier to go for a club somewhere central pubs and bars will be booked solid already.

dont clubs have dress codes, that puts me off"

Not all clubs are towels only.

One of the reasons I love going to Vanilla Alternative is that it's like a country pub with sofas and a bar, a bit of younger pub with the music and pole at the other end and if you want to strip off and play then that is beyond the pub bit. Plus I get to dress up in a frock and heels. I don't strut around in a towel.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Shut up and take my money

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Someone with time and patience set it up and it will happen.

It might be easier to go for a club somewhere central pubs and bars will be booked solid already.

dont clubs have dress codes, that puts me off

Not all clubs are towels only.

One of the reasons I love going to Vanilla Alternative is that it's like a country pub with sofas and a bar, a bit of younger pub with the music and pole at the other end and if you want to strip off and play then that is beyond the pub bit. Plus I get to dress up in a frock and heels. I don't strut around in a towel.

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cool, choice is the best

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

nooo I was thinking one large function room where everyone could mingle with drinks and so on,do it propyl not play knock a door run lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes because I'm gutted I'm missing meeting some lovely new faces at Kent! "

Yes agreed, would be a great idea if we can sort it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Already a chrismas social being organised in Newcastle, plenty of fun but no playing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nooo I was thinking one large function room where everyone could mingle with drinks and so on,do it propyl not play knock a door run lol"

haha I was under the impression hotels had function rooms and bars these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes because I'm gutted I'm missing meeting some lovely new faces at Kent!

"

I know, you were one of the ones I was looking forward to meeting as well!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ill see what I can find out tomorrow after work but needs to be central so everyone can attend and not to far for others to reach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As lovely an idea as it seems there have been some horror stories from previously organised events outside of swinging venues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A marquee! In the middle of nowhere.. A second marquee with sleeping bags in... and perhaps a 3rd for other things!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

then lets all behave have a good night and behave our selves

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"As lovely an idea as it seems there have been some horror stories from previously organised events outside of swinging venues"

That would be my worry. Any hint that it's a bunch of people who engage in sex with others and venues panic.

If it's a works do where everyone gets d*unk, acts foolishly and then spends all night shagging from room to room it seems to ok.

We'd need to make it a sales conference type thing to get past the censors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And i bet its miles and miles away from my area

they normally are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A marquee! In the middle of nowhere.. A second marquee with sleeping bags in... and perhaps a 3rd for other things!"

Lots of other things to keep warm

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"then lets all behave have a good night and behave our selves "

It's not about misbehaving. There are stories of events being cancelled last minute because the press have found out about them (easy enough if they just read the forum) and hotels panicking after accepting the booking. No hanky panky, let alone a bit of inebriated snogging had even taken place at that point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was thinking more of the opportunity for everyone to meet each other than the sex side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell them its an 18 to 30 party and they will expect the worst. lmao

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I was thinking more of the opportunity for everyone to meet each other than the sex side"

I know. I think the ball in Scotland last year was only going to be social too but it was cancelled.

I think it's a good idea but it's not entirely simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been to a few socials at pubs....one near b,ham airport and one in walsall....the myvod.

everyone knew who we were but nothing untoward ever really happened.

we had some good nights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a party - count me in, as long as it's not too far from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about renting a large barn and having a barn dance...

Everyone brings some food and a drink and get someone to do the music.

yeehawwwww

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"What about renting a large barn and having a barn dance...

Everyone brings some food and a drink and get someone to do the music.

yeehawwwww "

I like this idea. As long as it's somewhere with hotels nearby and good motorway connections. It probably needs to be in the North Midlands/low North like Manchesterish to allow for the Scottish to come down and the rest of the world to come from all other points.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

had a good look at map and id say Leeds is looking pretty central from Scotland down and London up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well being in the middle of a bloody great field, we shouldnt disturb many , only a few cows

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

What we need now is a Fab member with a big, well appointed barn and space for parking near Leeds.

I'll make a pasta salad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

barn? lol no chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What we need now is a Fab member with a big, well appointed barn and space for parking near Leeds.

I'll make a pasta salad."

make an add for it

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"What we need now is a Fab member with a big, well appointed barn and space for parking near Leeds.

I'll make a pasta salad.

make an add for it "

I don't want to sell the pasta salad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not eh...

a few bales of hay and a cpl of fiddlers and its a big ho down and a yehawwww all nite

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol pasta sounds good but somewhere warm clean and comfy sounds better to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What we need now is a Fab member with a big, well appointed barn and space for parking near Leeds.

I'll make a pasta salad.

make an add for it

I don't want to sell the pasta salad."

barn, the pasta salad is too precious

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"lol pasta sounds good but somewhere warm clean and comfy sounds better to me"

You're in charge but a ceilidh at Christmas is fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love this idea, although I fear any venue would welcome a large group of swingers about as much as a big fat gypsy wedding...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

who says we swingers its my birthaday

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cant make a call to find prices until we know who and how many are in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever you do don't put any money down that you may not get back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who says we swingers its my birthaday "

how about a in the new year party be my birthday then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cant really do anything till we get some numbers

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"where would it be held ?"

CENTRAL SCOTLAND purleeze (that way I don't have to hire a private ambulance and Minxie can share mine)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count me in xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Wonderful ....

Liverpool it is then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

that place was just an idea to see what people thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"google weetwood hall leeds see what you think to that

Might be best not to name the place on the forum? Isn't that why the Scottish Ball event fell through?

No, the Ball venue was never publicly named. Some sad fucker paid their deposit and received details privately and maliciously phoned the hotel asking if they provided condoms for the swingers ball that was being held."

That sucks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you want me to help with this ?

They wouldn't need to know its a swingers party. People book venue's for Birthdays all the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no but would be nice if you could attend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes because I'm gutted I'm missing meeting some lovely new faces at Kent!

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And us.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"google weetwood hall leeds see what you think to that

Might be best not to name the place on the forum? Isn't that why the Scottish Ball event fell through?

No, the Ball venue was never publicly named. Some sad fucker paid their deposit and received details privately and maliciously phoned the hotel asking if they provided condoms for the swingers ball that was being held.

That sucks. "

Yep, a lot of people went to a lot of expense for that one night only for it to be ruined and subsequently splashed all over the papers.

However, we did get the last laugh, as a last minute "Non Ball Ball" was arranged and can honestly say it was one of the best social nights I have attended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no but would be nice if you could attend "

We shall see. I'm miles away now and too close to crimbo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We organised a ball with rooms at our local Village Hotel. The more rooms you book, the more discount you get. Its got a health club for people staying over, jacuzzi, sauna swimming pool, and function rooms, they can provide the room the food, or there is a pub bar and a restaurant.

I assume all the Villages are the same.

Dudley is quite laid back, but I cant see their events coordinator providing condoms

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset

Not volunteering, wrong end of the country and all, but if you avoid Christmas and New Year, an out of season seaside hotel would be keen to do business.

If there was sufficient demand you could have the whole hotel to yourselves, with bars and function rooms thrown in.

Good idea but would need a dedicated committee.

Forget Forum Challenges using avatars, I can see a themed fancy dress comp with judging panel!

Shame we couldn't pretend to be sex therapists having a conference LoveHuny and others would pay for sales areas I'm sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the way TBL is holding a social 2nd Nov in Sheffield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By the way TBL is holding a social 2nd Nov in Sheffield "

I have already pointed him there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

iT IS HARD ENOUGH TO CO ORDINATE A MEET OF 4 PEOPLE LET ALONE A COUPLE OF HUNDRED,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not an easy task,money will need to be paid as deposits,paypal accounts will be needed,people are notoriously bad at commitimg to anything or then changing their minds

Its a truly massive undertaking and unless you're willing to put hrs of time and effort into putting it all together then it will fall apart at the seams,its not like organising a works night out

Seriously think long and hard especially learn from what happened at the glasgow ball,if the press or the venue get any sort of inkling of a sex scandal the whole night will be ruined and you can't trust that people will keep their mouths closed

Not everyone is as open minded as you may think even on here

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire


"no but would be nice if you could attend "

Any chance of a proper chat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By the way TBL is holding a social 2nd Nov in Sheffield

I have already pointed him there "

It wasn't for him all the people that can't make kent x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By the way TBL is holding a social 2nd Nov in Sheffield

I have already pointed him there

It wasn't for him all the people that can't make kent x "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

don't tell proky pies dear we know it was

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed some posts naming venues/commercial stuff.

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By *tolen MomentCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

How about several parties in different venues seeing as everyone far and wide.....im sure certain swinging clubs would jump at the chance to host and get people through the doors.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Its not an easy task,money will need to be paid as deposits,paypal accounts will be needed,people are notoriously bad at commitimg to anything or then changing their minds

Its a truly massive undertaking and unless you're willing to put hrs of time and effort into putting it all together then it will fall apart at the seams,its not like organising a works night out

Seriously think long and hard especially learn from what happened at the glasgow ball,if the press or the venue get any sort of inkling of a sex scandal the whole night will be ruined and you can't trust that people will keep their mouths closed

Not everyone is as open minded as you may think even on here "

Sorry to be pedantic, but it was Edinburgh. xxx

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I think its a top idea, a possible fly in the ointment though, most venues will have been booked already for Christmas parties,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone with time and patience set it up and it will happen.

It might be easier to go for a club somewhere central pubs and bars will be booked solid already.

"

Or maybe a village hall? Come on 'SPITATMELIPS' -500 baps - you split, I'll butter lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can someOne please pm me the details for the social in Sheffield???

Would love a Christmas do - I agree it will be hard, but def fun x

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over a year ago

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford


"Someone with time and patience set it up and it will happen.

It might be easier to go for a club somewhere central pubs and bars will be booked solid already.

Or maybe a village hall? Come on 'SPITATMELIPS' -500 baps - you split, I'll butter lol "

I can butter baps

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I like this idea

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

If we had it at an exciting club at a night it was closed it would be fine, they have the licence and the facilities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone with time and patience set it up and it will happen.

It might be easier to go for a club somewhere central pubs and bars will be booked solid already.

Or maybe a village hall? Come on 'SPITATMELIPS' -500 baps - you split, I'll butter lol

I can butter baps "

Er my little Texas rose! Are u sure YOU are singing from same hymn sheet as me re baps? I'm referring to a flour, water, yeast mixture are you?

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