FabSwingers.com forum: Asian Males

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just hope fellow fabbers dont class all asian guys in the same bracket seems like alot avoid I consider myself as one of the good ones (so Do rest of them lol) but seriously hope to get a chance to prove people wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately some others may have ruined it for the gen guys

You just gotta keep plodding on, there are some really gorgeous lady's on that do meet Asians, and some that don't.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

It's not just Asian, some people only want to meet black guys, won't meet black guys etc.

Best thing to do is get along to clubs and socials, get chatting, then people can judge you as individuals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just gotta keep plodding on, there are some really gorgeous lady's on that do meet Asians, and some that don't. "

Where?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

You just gotta keep plodding on, there are some really gorgeous lady's on that do meet Asians, and some that don't.

Where? "

I've seen Asian guys profiles with veris so they must exist!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not just Asian, some people only want to meet black guys, won't meet black guys etc.

Best thing to do is get along to clubs and socials, get chatting, then people can judge you as individuals. "

I know it's down to personal preference who you want to meet... But a few ladies have replied to my messages "no Asians.. Bad experience previously"

Also I've read on here someone stating that Asian guys are very passive and lazy... Again this is not all of us...(i love liking pussy)

Im sure there is loads of guys out there who are similar to this regardless of the colour of there skin...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen Asian guys profiles with veris so they must exist! "

I can't get verified because no one wants to meet me because i have no veris....

One big circle

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Oh please! Why do people concern themselves with people NOT interested in them instead of those that are?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh please! Why do people concern themselves with people NOT interested in them instead of those that are?!!

Why don't you come with something constructive to say instead of just talking rubbish...

Is the forum not here for info and other people's views rather than people talking crap

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"It's not just Asian, some people only want to meet black guys, won't meet black guys etc.

Best thing to do is get along to clubs and socials, get chatting, then people can judge you as individuals.

I know it's down to personal preference who you want to meet... But a few ladies have replied to my messages "no Asians.. Bad experience previously"

Also I've read on here someone stating that Asian guys are very passive and lazy... Again this is not all of us...(i love liking pussy)

Im sure there is loads of guys out there who are similar to this regardless of the colour of there skin... "

Do you think it's just Asian guys that are excluded?!!

There are a zillion threads from people on site who feel marginalised for being black/fat/married/bi/short/tall/Tottenham supporter...variations on a dull, boring theme!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Oh please! Why do people concern themselves with people NOT interested in them instead of those that are?!!

Why don't you come with something constructive to say instead of just talking rubbish...

Is the forum not here for info and other people's views rather than people talking crap"

Well at least you've given an insight into why people don't want to meet you and it has nothing to do with your ethnicity!

Oh...the irony!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I've seen Asian guys profiles with veris so they must exist!

I can't get verified because no one wants to meet me because i have no veris....

One big circle"

So like I said go to socials, you don't have to play but people will verify you as being a decent, friendly etc bloke and that should help get you started!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"Oh please! Why do people concern themselves with people NOT interested in them instead of those that are?!!

Why don't you come with something constructive to say instead of just talking rubbish...

Is the forum not here for info and other people's views rather than people talking crap"

Focus on people who have no problems meeting Asian men, or better yet, are specifically looking for that. They exist. I've seen them.

Small caveat: might involve you doing some actual legwork on and off here. Revolutionary concept i know. And before you get defensive, there are just as many people who have no interest in meeting black men. They are none of my cocncern. I focus on those that don't exclude me via their preferences.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think it's just Asian guys that are excluded?!!

There are a zillion threads from people on site who feel marginalised for being black/fat/married/bi/short/tall/Tottenham supporter...variations on a dull, boring theme!

Don't reply if it's boring and of no interest to you.... Simples

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

"I just hope fellow fabbers dont class all asian guys in the same bracket seems like alot avoid I consider myself as one of the good ones (so Do rest of them lol) but seriously hope to get a chance to prove people wrong

Just wondering why you felt the need to post this in the Swingers Advice section as well. Are things really that bad ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen Asian guys profiles with veris so they must exist!

I can't get verified because no one wants to meet me because i have no veris....

One big circle

So like I said go to socials, you don't have to play but people will verify you as being a decent, friendly etc bloke and that should help get you started! "

Ok cool.. Thanks

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Do you think it's just Asian guys that are excluded?!!

There are a zillion threads from people on site who feel marginalised for being black/fat/married/bi/short/tall/Tottenham supporter...variations on a dull, boring theme!

Don't reply if it's boring and of no interest to you.... Simples

"Is the forum not here for info and other people's views rather than people talking crap"

Simples back at ya!

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

"Oh please! Why do people concern themselves with people NOT interested in them instead of those that are?!!

Why don't you come with something constructive to say instead of just talking rubbish...

Is the forum not here for info and other people's views rather than people talking crap

Well at least you've given an insight into why people don't want to meet you and it has nothing to do with your ethnicity!

Oh...the irony!

That's exactly what I thought miss. I think he needs to have a word with himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh please! Why do people concern themselves with people NOT interested in them instead of those that are?!!

Why don't you come with something constructive to say instead of just talking rubbish...

Is the forum not here for info and other people's views rather than people talking crap

Focus on people who have no problems meeting Asian men, or better yet, are specifically looking for that. They exist. I've seen them.

Good luck."

Ok cheers for the advice

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Oh please! Why do people concern themselves with people NOT interested in them instead of those that are?!!

Why don't you come with something constructive to say instead of just talking rubbish...

Is the forum not here for info and other people's views rather than people talking crap"

tend to agree with miss tress tbh, why worry about that which you have no control over..

concentrate on what you can influence..

btw this is an open forum, people will respond as they deem appropriate..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh please! Why do people concern themselves with people NOT interested in them instead of those that are?!!

Why don't you come with something constructive to say instead of just talking rubbish...

Is the forum not here for info and other people's views rather than people talking crap

Well at least you've given an insight into why people don't want to meet you and it has nothing to do with your ethnicity!

Oh...the irony!

That's exactly what I thought miss. I think he needs to have a word with himself"

Why do I need to have a word with myself... If something is boring or dull ... Don't read it... You don't have to reply "this is boring"

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

"Oh please! Why do people concern themselves with people NOT interested in them instead of those that are?!!

Why don't you come with something constructive to say instead of just talking rubbish...

Is the forum not here for info and other people's views rather than people talking crap

Well at least you've given an insight into why people don't want to meet you and it has nothing to do with your ethnicity!

Oh...the irony!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh please! Why do people concern themselves with people NOT interested in them instead of those that are?!!

Why don't you come with something constructive to say instead of just talking rubbish...

Is the forum not here for info and other people's views rather than people talking crap

tend to agree with miss tress tbh, why worry about that which you have no control over..

concentrate on what you can influence..

btw this is an open forum, people will respond as they deem appropriate..

I know its an open forum but why reply saying oh boring....

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Oh please! Why do people concern themselves with people NOT interested in them instead of those that are?!!

Why don't you come with something constructive to say instead of just talking rubbish...

Is the forum not here for info and other people's views rather than people talking crap

tend to agree with miss tress tbh, why worry about that which you have no control over..

concentrate on what you can influence..

btw this is an open forum, people will respond as they deem appropriate..

I know its an open forum but why reply saying oh boring.... "

Err..cos that's their perception perhaps..?

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"I know its an open forum but why reply saying oh boring.... "

People aren't saying it is boring. They are saying you need an attitude adjustment. Most here are trying to help you. Maybe not the responses you expected.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

" I know its an open forum but why reply saying oh boring.... "

Maybe same reason as you started off saying other people post rubbish?

Ive removed posts and Im closing this now

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