FabSwingers.com forum: Sometimes its very difficult.

By *abulous cleavage OP Woman
over a year ago

Central

I hope it's not just me. When chatting to someone and you seem to be getting on. They say something that makes you think that you don't want to continue. In a respectful way you tell them you will stop chatting. You then get sworn at etc. It's human nature I suppose to retaliate but I find it difficult sometimes not to. I don't say anything back and glad I don't as five minutes later I've usually forgotten about it but it's difficult to ignore the initial impulse.

By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Just stop chatting. You're not obliged to reply to any pm even if you've been chatting for a while.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had that too although it is rare as most if the guys here are respectful

But you do get the odd one or two

I do hope you are reporting the profile ?

By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I hope it's not just me. When chatting to someone and you seem to be getting on. They say something that makes you think that you don't want to continue. In a respectful way you tell them you will stop chatting. You then get sworn at etc. It's human nature I suppose to retaliate but I find it difficult sometimes not to. I don't say anything back and glad I don't as five minutes later I've usually forgotten about it but it's difficult to ignore the initial impulse."

I know exactly what you mean but retaliation is a waste of my time and finger tips. I don't usually do it.

Next time , don't say you no longer want to chat. Just say .... Got to go spuds are boiling. Then never come back ( not literally ) just block em half an hour later.