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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How long should I wait (after it has been read) to pursue, harass, stalk the recipient ???

5, 15, 30 or 60 ?????

Oh yeah, those were seconds by the way lol

It's Friday !!!!!!!!! Yaaaaaaay

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By *hocksandmissusCouple
over a year ago

Chester-ish

we would wait about 20 seconds befor we start to send messages demanding they reply to us pmsl xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say don't message them again unless they reply.. You may come across as desperate and that may scare them away :P If they don't reply back.. It's their loss :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we would wait about 20 seconds befor we start to send messages demanding they reply to us pmsl xxxx"

Bugger waiting 20 seconds I demand a reply in first message. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play hard to get, give it the full minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play really hard to get dont send. one

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

It depends how much you managed to offend them with the first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends how much you managed to offend them with the first message "

Coz if you bet blocked there will be no

chance to send another

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"It depends how much you managed to offend them with the first message

Coz if you bet blocked there will be no

chance to send another "

Of course you never do that Julie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends how much you managed to offend them with the first message

Coz if you bet blocked there will be no

chance to send another

Of course you never do that Julie "

Not sure what it is you are referring to that I do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always wait 3 hours as a rule of thumb, kids may need changing, hamster feeding, wife or husband talking, lots of reasons, any less than 3 hours you sound needy and as if fab is your main addiction...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unless guy is in car outside with a hard on, then 5 seconds, to change ur pants and have a quick spray with Dettol .....

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"It depends how much you managed to offend them with the first message

Coz if you bet blocked there will be no

chance to send another

Of course you never do that Julie

Not sure what it is you are referring to that I do? "

The block button

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Just do what a guy did to me recently - send 4 messages in less than 10 minutes demanding to know why I hadn't yet replied to his first message when he could see that I had read it, and the other 3

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

Start typing the follow-up as soon as you sent the first one. The time taken to compose the second message should be more than adequate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Start typing the follow-up as soon as you sent the first one. The time taken to compose the second message should be more than adequate"

Ha ha ha

But if I'm a slow typer should I have a 'copy paste' message at the ready ??

Ready to accuse them of being stuck up ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume this is why you choose to block all single gentlemen from engaging in conversation with you Olivia? A shame but understandable that you need to punish the few for the crimes of the many

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"I assume this is why you choose to block all single gentlemen from engaging in conversation with you Olivia? A shame but understandable that you need to punish the few for the crimes of the many "

Huh? I'm not punishing anyone! If you read my profile you will see that I say I turn my filters on and off so that I get messages when I want to receive messages and I turn on my filters when I don't want to receive them...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I assume this is why you choose to block all single gentlemen from engaging in conversation with you Olivia? A shame but understandable that you need to punish the few for the crimes of the many

Huh? I'm not punishing anyone! If you read my profile you will see that I say I turn my filters on and off so that I get messages when I want to receive messages and I turn on my filters when I don't want to receive them..."

Get a room you two, stop hijacking my engrossing thread grrrrrrrr

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

Message from www Adultdate com

Your dating ad has been on our website

for nine years now without any reply.

Do you want us to try one week without a picture?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you not followed up with the second message yet?

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By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Write out 4 separate messages in word and then paste and send them as quick as you can! See if you can beat 10 seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I useally send the 2nd abusive message with the 1st nice message . Saves waiting me thinks ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In that case, my mistake! I'll stay patient for an imminent "message window"


"I assume this is why you choose to block all single gentlemen from engaging in conversation with you Olivia? A shame but understandable that you need to punish the few for the crimes of the many

Huh? I'm not punishing anyone! If you read my profile you will see that I say I turn my filters on and off so that I get messages when I want to receive messages and I turn on my filters when I don't want to receive them..."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Write out 4 separate messages in word and then paste and send them as quick as you can! See if you can beat 10 seconds "

I have a poor Internet connection so cant even attempt that

Also I'm generally happy if I manage more than 10 secs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they didn't reply to the first "fancy a fuck" message within 10 seconds its because they know you can see and are waiting for the second message with just a cock photo attached

If they then don't respond they are awaiting abuse and belittlement so you establish yourself as alpha male....take charge and tell them to reply!

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