FabSwingers.com forum: what messages

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

what do you look for in messages when chatting to people?

we tend not to get overtly flirty in messaging people, further than the usual

lovely pics

lovely profile

you look great

and so on

very rarely do we go into what we would like to do with people or how horny we are for them, preferring to actually meet and get horny WITH people, yet it seems that this MAY be the wrong way to go about things, as conversation doesnt seem to go on for very long.

should we be being crude over messages?

instigate some kind of 'online sexual behaviour' as a prelude to meeting in reality?

how do you tend to go about things?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always found it a fine line between message sex and getting an understanding of what will happen/be expected,

Particularly with me in sub role always wanted a bit of an idea of what to expect but not asking for too much info as to keep the imagination active