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What’s your definition of a “Lover”?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its often used but by different people in different ways so what does someone have to be/do to be a your lover in your eyes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He has to be special. I think of my FWB as my Lover

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I think the word that's in the word is a clue, for me personally it involves a certain amount of feelings.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He has to be special. I think of my FWB as my Lover "

How long after meeting did the way you thought of him change?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think the word that's in the word is a clue, for me personally it involves a certain amount of feelings. "

Do you thin you have to have an emotional attachment to call someone a lover?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lover would be someone I was emotionally involved with. I would never call someone a lover if it was no strings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He has to be special. I think of my FWB as my Lover

How long after meeting did the way you thought of him change? "

About six months.. Its wierd actually because it was him that started to call me it.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

In the old days a lover would be an extramarital sexual partner.

I use it when I think of someone who has moved beyond just a sexual meet and with whom I have 'made love'. These have been people that remain no attachment (except one person who went beyond lover description). The sex is more intimate and satisfying with those people but they don't clutter up my home or life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the old days a lover would be an extramarital sexual partner.

I use it when I think of someone who has moved beyond just a sexual meet and with whom I have 'made love'. These have been people that remain no attachment (except one person who went beyond lover description). The sex is more intimate and satisfying with those people but they don't clutter up my home or life.

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By *amesDeeMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"I think the word that's in the word is a clue, for me personally it involves a certain amount of feelings. "

Yup. I'd add that whilst there is a feeling there, it needn't be an "attachment". A lover without attachment is a delicate and fine creature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my husbands my lover because we both have feeling for each other.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I think the word that's in the word is a clue, for me personally it involves a certain amount of feelings.

Do you thin you have to have an emotional attachment to call someone a lover?"
I think so....otherwise they are FWB, shags or the odd fuck or meet. IMHO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the old days a lover would be an extramarital sexual partner.

I use it when I think of someone who has moved beyond just a sexual meet and with whom I have 'made love'. These have been people that remain no attachment (except one person who went beyond lover description). The sex is more intimate and satisfying with those people but they don't clutter up my home or life.

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The key words here for me are 'intimacy and satisfying'. Those, to me, are descriptions of behaviour rather than the feelings associated with a lover. You can have intimacy and satisfaction with someone with whom you 'click' as you are on a common wavelength, but that doesn't mean (to me) that they are a 'lover'.

ted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be emotion and strong emotion above the raw passionate sex that you just get in a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say you have an ongoing relationship with a lover that is not just sex based. There also has to be a level of intimacy above pure sex.

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

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