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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now the nights are drawing in (especially when it's been pissing down all day) how safe do you feel walking out in your local area??

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro

it's ok in our village, but you have to dodge the horse poo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't go out at night here don't feel safe at all.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I'm never out past about 4.30 coz I get home to do my little boys dinner for 5ish.

My local area isn't bad. Sadly I know most of the nutters round here so I'm pretty safe. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit I.do hate walking anywhere at night even in well lit areas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfectly safe..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about it. Only difference dark nights make to me is that I change my running routes and am a little more vulnerable on a bike, by safety I assume you mean crime and it doesn't worry me at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel safe enough, live in a small village and only once had a problem at the local park but if I am out and about after dark I am not on my own normally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very safe, have to take a torch though because hardly any street lights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't go out at night here don't feel safe at all."
thats my home town lol x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Safe enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live in a pit village in county Durham, the place is as rough as hell. Even the dogs pair up as it's that rough.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

I do not enjoy the dark nights, the sounds seems to bounce around a lot more, so sometimes make it hard to know where things are coming from. Not a fan of hi vis wear as I think it makes me a target. So if I can avoid it I do not go out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bad they mostly in the nick

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By *atcherofmyballsMan
over a year ago

hereford

Not safe at all, what with all the vampires and warewolves about. It's rough out in the sticks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel safe where I live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live in a out village in Doncaster, made the news a few times for violent crimes, but I know everyone here so I feel safe. Walked home pissed up early hours of the morning a few times and nothings happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its rough where I live ... but you can't let others stop you leading a life

I would never put myself in danger though

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

well safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel perfectly safe and take the dog out for a walk round the estate at 12-1 at night of a weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a well built 6 ft 2 man with a shaved head. It has it's advantages and disadvantages. I feel perfectly safe not sure some of the passes by do

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I get home at 7 dont go out at night .

my area is safe enough tho there are car break ins and theft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel real safe, grew up in this town & know too many people. X

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Never felt unsafe walking around York or my village.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Live in a out village in Doncaster, made the news a few times for violent crimes, but I know everyone here so I feel safe. Walked home pissed up early hours of the morning a few times and nothings happened "

So it was you singing bloody delila at 3 in the morning. Next time you might not be so.lucky lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Live in a out village in Doncaster, made the news a few times for violent crimes, but I know everyone here so I feel safe. Walked home pissed up early hours of the morning a few times and nothings happened

So it was you singing bloody delila at 3 in the morning. Next time you might not be so.lucky lol"

Tough words from a big man eh?.......sorry wont happen again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's ok in our village, but you have to dodge the horse poo "

Least you can see it, we have sheep poo

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Never had a problem in Arse End

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Stephen King moment-

My wild imagination can't help but ponder that those of you who say they feel perfectly safe ....

... Well

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I live somewhere that looks rough but I never feel unsafe walking home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being I'm 6 foot and not a small lad I'm good lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


" Now the nights are drawing in (especially when it's been pissing down all day) how safe do you feel walking out in your local area??"

Very safe.

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

i feel very safe, i go out wearing a ski mask and carry a baseball bat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a good reason to learn a martial art

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as safe as houses were we live no 1 can find us lol plus 5 dogs bring it on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live on a council estate and feel perfectly safe walking home at 10 and 11 pm

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have two 5 stone Alsations. .oh quite safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

safe enough.

you can run into the wrong person or persons anytime anywhere. wouldnt stop me going out at night but would exercise a bit of added caution. im street smart so know something dodgy when i see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Now the nights are drawing in (especially when it's been pissing down all day) how safe do you feel walking out in your local area??"

Always feel safe the dark has never bothered me at all.

Im one who will randomly go off for walks around my work place in the small hours to check on things.

Yet the other women here wont do it alone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I live in a pretty rough council estate although its not as bad as it was a couple of years ago . I sometimes feel

a bit scared when out in the evening alone but I don't want to feel

Like a prisoner so ile push myself if I need to.

My adult daughters will get a taxi if they need to go out

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"safe enough.

you can run into the wrong person or persons anytime anywhere. wouldnt stop me going out at night but would exercise a bit of added caution. im street smart so know something dodgy when i see it"

Very true. The attacks I have experienced, many years ago now, were on the way to work at 8am on a sunny day and at work at 8.30am when the cleaner attacked me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"safe enough.

you can run into the wrong person or persons anytime anywhere. wouldnt stop me going out at night but would exercise a bit of added caution. im street smart so know something dodgy when i see it

Very true. The attacks I have experienced, many years ago now, were on the way to work at 8am on a sunny day and at work at 8.30am when the cleaner attacked me.

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The cleaner did you not ripe your feet upon entering the building

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"safe enough.

you can run into the wrong person or persons anytime anywhere. wouldnt stop me going out at night but would exercise a bit of added caution. im street smart so know something dodgy when i see it

Very true. The attacks I have experienced, many years ago now, were on the way to work at 8am on a sunny day and at work at 8.30am when the cleaner attacked me.

The cleaner did you not ripe your feet upon entering the building "

Wipe*

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have never been picked on when out and about...I guess I have always been street wise I think living in inner city London taught me that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Now the nights are drawing in (especially when it's been pissing down all day) how safe do you feel walking out in your local area??

Always feel safe the dark has never bothered me at all."

Your a ninja that's why!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"safe enough.

you can run into the wrong person or persons anytime anywhere. wouldnt stop me going out at night but would exercise a bit of added caution. im street smart so know something dodgy when i see it

Very true. The attacks I have experienced, many years ago now, were on the way to work at 8am on a sunny day and at work at 8.30am when the cleaner attacked me.

The cleaner did you not ripe your feet upon entering the building "

It was a long time ago. 23 stitches in my head, a lot of blood and bald for my 21st birthday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel safe walking the dog at 23:00h in the neighbourhood, and it is a great time to say hello to the neighbourhood cats.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"i feel very safe, i go out wearing a ski mask and carry a baseball bat! "

Normal clothing for a dark night in West Brom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very safe, almost zero crime round here. But not so happy about the cold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont feel unsafe but if i go out alone its by car and have always locked my doors day or night. Got attacked whilst in work, so had to come off nights x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newly single, so can't say I am looking forward to dark nights. I'm sure this area is reasonably safe though and they have just changed our street lighting, can't sleep now cause its so bright but better light to my front door.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I am thinking of doing some self defence...used to do kick boxing really enjoyed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crime is minimal where I live, and no anti-social behaviour. The vigilantes put paid to that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"safe enough.

you can run into the wrong person or persons anytime anywhere. wouldnt stop me going out at night but would exercise a bit of added caution. im street smart so know something dodgy when i see it

Very true. The attacks I have experienced, many years ago now, were on the way to work at 8am on a sunny day and at work at 8.30am when the cleaner attacked me.

The cleaner did you not ripe your feet upon entering the building

It was a long time ago. 23 stitches in my head, a lot of blood and bald for my 21st birthday."

Good god

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

very safe, even when without the dogs..

just a case of being a bit savvy, street wise etc..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im street smart so know something dodgy when i see it"

This exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im scared of the dark - dont even like looking outside if its not daylight - complete wuss

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

Not brilliantly safe but safe enough. I will have to get used to it now while walking puppy at night he's no good as a guard dog he just wants to lick you and nip occasionally. But I normally. Get taxi back from station and don't wait around for one. It's not that rough but can sometimes feel a little,etc intimidating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not very

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

There are parts of London I don't feel safe in at noon midsummer's day! I chose this area as the girls were 11 and 15 when I moved here 10 years ago: nothing has changed I feel safe even though my journey takes me through/past three council estates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

round here fine I would have to go 10 miles or more before I would become conscious of my surroundings and people in it.

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

An ex-brother-in-law of mine told a story from when he was walking home from work late one night through a council estate... 'I realised there was a group of teenage lads following me. I'm so glad I kept up with my karate'

So what did you do? Lay them all out?

'No... being a black belt in karate and keeping up with my training meant... I was fit enough to run much faster than they could!'

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I am thinking of doing some self defence...used to do kick boxing really enjoyed it "

Take up running. It'll stand you in better stead.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Perfectly safe........

Walk here any time of day or night.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Very...

Think nothing of walking to my local asda in middle of the night....

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Completely safe.

I was born and brought up here. I went to school with most of the 'faces' or their dads. Snogged some of their sisters. Went to their weddings and christenings.

Completely safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel fully safe cause I know the nutters in my small town I live in, I know the alleys to avoid at nights and know short cuts everywhere. Cant not be safe here haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

perfectly safe here even though i was mugged at knife point not to long back... but then again i work nights security so have no choice but to be out in the dark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe on foot but not on the bike the local drivers are half blind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

where venus lives, she will happily walk the streets at any time of night, small village and nosey neighbours.

where i am, you really need to drive to go to the local shops, so no point going out walking after dark anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel perfectly safe if I'm in Doncaster or London. Bit crazy maybe x

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