FabSwingers.com forum: neutral ground

By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

do you always do first meets on neutral ground or do you meet at your home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had many women who have came to mine for first meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had many women who have came to mine for first meet x"

and me, but hen it no problem meet in apub for a drink first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have done both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one comes to my house

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Neutral or hers. It's not fair to put a woman who doesn't really know you in a position of deciding whether to come to your place.

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

We always accommodate due to young kids but haven't had anyone new (only our FB) for ages.

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

im always getting told I take risks having them in my home

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I've done both (sometimes the horn takes over

) but generally social first in public place

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Always neutral ground for me, a drink and chat in a quiet pub. Then if we are both compatible we may meet a second time for something more initiate.

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By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Always neutral ground, unless it's a party.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"im always getting told I take risks having them in my home"

Most things in life are risks - it's how you mitigate against that particular risk. I make sure my text buddy has the person's profile name regardless of whether I'm meeting at home or in a public place...if I'm leaving the house I leave my lappie open on the profile and a yellow stickie on the screen saying "it was him" just in case I don't make it home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most have been on neutral ground, the rest in their places and occasionally mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always meet in public first, no if's no but's, if guys arnt happy with that I don't meet them, I just feel more comfy saying no thanks to someone if I don't like them in a public place

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I met in my home a lot a few years ago, not now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one comes to my house

nor mine, but I still meet in public first before getting a hotel or going to their's or a club, I wont even go into a club with someone till I have met them and had a drink, I don't want to be stuck all night with a guy I don't like

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex

Always prefer neutral territory

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

We always meet on neutral ground the first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always on neutral ground ...no one comes bto my home

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