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By *am123 OP   Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

Are the forums becoming a little sameish. .

Same old shit diff day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive not been as much recently so I don't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are the forums becoming a little sameish. .

Same old shit diff day "

It's you!

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By *am123 OP   Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Are the forums becoming a little sameish. .

Same old shit diff day

It's you! "
i thought it mite be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time to vary your diet if you're having the same shit every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same old same old.

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By *am123 OP   Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Time to vary your diet if you're having the same shit every day. "
i am considering it tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing new under the sun, why should forums be any different to the universal rule?

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By *am123 OP   Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Same old same old. "

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Are the forums becoming a little sameish. .

Same old shit diff day "

Wait til you've been here three years!

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By *randmrsfreakyCouple
over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield

Your not wrong, for years

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By *am123 OP   Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Are the forums becoming a little sameish. .

Same old shit diff day

Wait til you've been here three years!"
you should have a medal serving that long, not sure i'm gonna make it

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Any suggestions. I was thinking of an olive branch type thread. Anyone where swords have been croosed, you,ve bitten. Felt harshly treated. Would just be nice for something where apologies and hugs meant collectively it may create a bit more harmony. We don,t all need to get on,or meet. But as best as possible be civil.

Guess who's tired after a night shift.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Any suggestions. I was thinking of an olive branch type thread. Anyone where swords have been croosed, you,ve bitten. Felt harshly treated. Would just be nice for something where apologies and hugs meant collectively it may create a bit more harmony. We don,t all need to get on,or meet. But as best as possible be civil.

Guess who's tired after a night shift.

"

I think for some it's gone way past an olive branch...

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By *am123 OP   Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Any suggestions. I was thinking of an olive branch type thread. Anyone where swords have been croosed, you,ve bitten. Felt harshly treated. Would just be nice for something where apologies and hugs meant collectively it may create a bit more harmony. We don,t all need to get on,or meet. But as best as possible be civil.

Guess who's tired after a night shift.

"
thats a great idea but i fear it will be closed for contacting peep that have pos blocked you but that would be nice to try

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By *am123 OP   Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Any suggestions. I was thinking of an olive branch type thread. Anyone where swords have been croosed, you,ve bitten. Felt harshly treated. Would just be nice for something where apologies and hugs meant collectively it may create a bit more harmony. We don,t all need to get on,or meet. But as best as possible be civil.

Guess who's tired after a night shift.

I think for some it's gone way past an olive branch..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There have been a number of 'Olive Branch' threads in the last few months: several 'newbies and lurkers' threads, the 'show us yer mug shot' ones.. which got as far as thread no. 80+ if I remember correctly.. and so on..

Over the four or five years I have been on here (on and off!) the forums have tended to be cyclical as there is a 'churn' of membership interested in commenting and posting. As long standing members fade away, newbies appear and they often have the same questions, discussion topics etc that other newbies had a year or so earlier.

It's no different in other forums in completely different special interest areas across the internet to be honest. But like all forums, on occasion it takes some of the established members to spot that a malaise has settled and to pep things up a bit...

ted.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I think they have become more confrontational and more serious with increasing political threads.

But the only way to change that is for note people to post more fun threads. So let's get going!!!! (and not just kiss fuck avoid ones or any other variation of)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just done something about it instead of sitting back. Opened a new Newbies and Lurkers thread..

ted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit I find the amount of kiss, snog, avoid threads boring and there are lots of them but I just avoid them. If its not something I find interesting to read then I dont. Its s forum and people can post what they want to (within reason). Also, there are always new people so just because you or I have seen the same thread, they may not have.

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By *am123 OP   Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Just done something about it instead of sitting back. Opened a new Newbies and Lurkers thread..

ted. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it can be rather cyclic...however its best to think about who's posting..try catching their eye..then fuck them

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By *am123 OP   Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"I must admit I find the amount of kiss, snog, avoid threads boring and there are lots of them but I just avoid them. If its not something I find interesting to read then I dont. Its s forum and people can post what they want to (within reason). Also, there are always new people so just because you or I have seen the same thread, they may not have. "
i realise that, and yes i can skip over those repetitive threads and often do, but i'm just not finding many interesting threads at all. i know we should step up and think of something maybe i'm just getting bored of it all ,maybe its time....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

The thing is, reading the forum here is not mandatory. And surely most people here are members of other message boards and forums, and see the cyclical posts on those too.

There are two solutions (well probably more but I'm hungover): post some unusual and different posts, or give the forum a bit of a rest. There is no need to leave the site to do so - just go on other websites, get involved in something else, go outside and get some fresh air, etc etc.

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By *randmrsfreakyCouple
over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield


"I must admit I find the amount of kiss, snog, avoid threads boring and there are lots of them but I just avoid them. If its not something I find interesting to read then I dont. Its s forum and people can post what they want to (within reason). Also, there are always new people so just because you or I have seen the same thread, they may not have. i realise that, and yes i can skip over those repetitive threads and often do, but i'm just not finding many interesting threads at all. i know we should step up and think of something maybe i'm just getting bored of it all ,maybe its time.... "

What about an amnesty thread , where all the singles posing as couples, the straights that want cock, the pic hunters all out themselves.

Maybe not, it would be a short thread

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By *am123 OP   Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"The thing is, reading the forum here is not mandatory. And surely most people here are members of other message boards and forums, and see the cyclical posts on those too.

There are two solutions (well probably more but I'm hungover): post some unusual and different posts, or give the forum a bit of a rest. There is no need to leave the site to do so - just go on other websites, get involved in something else, go outside and get some fresh air, etc etc."
that is really good advise thanks hun xx i was expecting a load of seeeeee yaaaas and byeeeeeee and the odd piss off then lol from the forumites its early days yet tho thanks again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing is, reading the forum here is not mandatory. And surely most people here are members of other message boards and forums, and see the cyclical posts on those too.

There are two solutions (well probably more but I'm hungover): post some unusual and different posts, or give the forum a bit of a rest. There is no need to leave the site to do so - just go on other websites, get involved in something else, go outside and get some fresh air, etc etc. that is really good advise thanks hun xx i was expecting a load of seeeeee yaaaas and byeeeeeee and the odd piss off then lol from the forumites its early days yet tho thanks again "

Oh we can do that too..... as you well know.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing is, reading the forum here is not mandatory. And surely most people here are members of other message boards and forums, and see the cyclical posts on those too.

There are two solutions (well probably more but I'm hungover): post some unusual and different posts, or give the forum a bit of a rest. There is no need to leave the site to do so - just go on other websites, get involved in something else, go outside and get some fresh air, etc etc."

... have a life, go to work...

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By *am123 OP   Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"The thing is, reading the forum here is not mandatory. And surely most people here are members of other message boards and forums, and see the cyclical posts on those too.

There are two solutions (well probably more but I'm hungover): post some unusual and different posts, or give the forum a bit of a rest. There is no need to leave the site to do so - just go on other websites, get involved in something else, go outside and get some fresh air, etc etc. that is really good advise thanks hun xx i was expecting a load of seeeeee yaaaas and byeeeeeee and the odd piss off then lol from the forumites its early days yet tho thanks again

Oh we can do that too..... as you well know....."
lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"The thing is, reading the forum here is not mandatory. And surely most people here are members of other message boards and forums, and see the cyclical posts on those too.

There are two solutions (well probably more but I'm hungover): post some unusual and different posts, or give the forum a bit of a rest. There is no need to leave the site to do so - just go on other websites, get involved in something else, go outside and get some fresh air, etc etc. that is really good advise thanks hun xx i was expecting a load of seeeeee yaaaas and byeeeeeee and the odd piss off then lol from the forumites its early days yet tho thanks again

Oh we can do that too..... as you well know....."

Yes, wouldn't want to disappoint!

*Ahem* Don't let the door hit you on the way out.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Any suggestions. I was thinking of an olive branch type thread. Anyone where swords have been croosed, you,ve bitten. Felt harshly treated. Would just be nice for something where apologies and hugs meant collectively it may create a bit more harmony. We don,t all need to get on,or meet. But as best as possible be civil.

Guess who's tired after a night shift.

I think for some it's gone way past an olive branch..."

Indeed.

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By *am123 OP   Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"The thing is, reading the forum here is not mandatory. And surely most people here are members of other message boards and forums, and see the cyclical posts on those too.

There are two solutions (well probably more but I'm hungover): post some unusual and different posts, or give the forum a bit of a rest. There is no need to leave the site to do so - just go on other websites, get involved in something else, go outside and get some fresh air, etc etc. that is really good advise thanks hun xx i was expecting a load of seeeeee yaaaas and byeeeeeee and the odd piss off then lol from the forumites its early days yet tho thanks again

Oh we can do that too..... as you well know.....

Yes, wouldn't want to disappoint!

*Ahem* Don't let the door hit you on the way out. "
lol don't let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe someone should post a " Look at my profile " just to see something different

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By *am123 OP   Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

seen it better, seen it worse.

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By *am123 OP   Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"seen it better, seen it worse.

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maybe i'm just getting very bored with it all

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