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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey everyone, recently when we had a couple of meets the guys Eve had fun with were shagging for ages this kind of put me to shame lol, im not one for shagging for ever and ever i understand many guys do their utmost to perform for as long as possible to impress the females but no way could i last that long.

it does not help that im unfit but there comes a point when i just cannot hold on to my ejaculation any longer, its even harder when i have had loadsa horny foreplay i then find its hard to last long during the shag.

how does everyone else manage lol

i find if i can hold on to ejaculating i run out of breath lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought this was a post about birds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can give females the best 2 mins of their life!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I can give females the best 2 mins of their life!

"

honest???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reckon theres a happy medium,if Trace gets hooked up with a "marathon man",despite being able to orgasm from penetration,she can find it tedious.

It sometimes makes her feel that she's not turning the guy on,or that,instead of enjoying himself,he's just trying to prove something.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can give females the best 2 mins of their life!

honest??? "

You better believe it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes get the opposite reaction. I can't cum, no matter what the lady does. It's just as frustrating.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I can give females the best 2 mins of their life!

honest???

You better believe it "

well now - they say seeing is believeng......

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By *hemadcoupleCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

I'm one of those long stayers, and let me tell you that while it seems a great idea, it's actually a pain in the arse. If you feel embarrassed, it's nothing compared with my embarrassment when I am still shagging a girl when her hubby finished with my missus ages before, he can't do it again, and they have been sat watching us shafting for the last half hour or more. It usually ends up in me just giving up without cumming to be honest. (She does though, several times, and this is the most important thing for me anyway.) This giving up is either from embarrassment as above, she has had enough, or me just running out of energy, hot and thirsty. I just wish I could get one off in ten minutes sometimes, but half an hour with the missus is as quick as it ever gets when very turned on, and the above scenarios can be two hours or so. It really is a pain, and the girl feels lacking in not being able to get you off, but it isn't that, it's me and I say it again; it's a pain in the arse and frustrating as hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know where you're cumming from mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i am d*unk i go for ages and can't cum its a nightmare to keep going. No matter what i do i just can't seem to finish myself off!

I just deal with it in the morning as then i can come quicker than it takes the kettle to boil.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can give females the best 2 mins of their life!

"

that will be you doing it twice then ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

jings i never thought about the problem of not being able to cum and taking so long being just as fustrating, if i were struggling to cum i would not mind whipping it out and being made to cum by another horny means.

i guess going for a longer period gives you the feeling of giving a woman a good/better shag.

it would be good to hear from women as to what length of time they like shagged for

sometimes when we have been having lots of horny foreplay, eve sits on my cock and i come within 2 min whether i want to or not, there is something about her sitting on me makes me cum so quick, i can feel the sensation on the end of my cock and as i cant control the stroke etc i cum quickly, i can shag her doggy style for alonger time as im in control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what makes you think the guys who last for hours are only doing it to show off ?

Personally I do it because I enjoy long sessions which last anything up to 8 hours.

I have pointed out to some couples in the past that I am not what they are looking for because some women like it to be over in 5-10 minutes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what makes you think the guys who last for hours are only doing it to show off ?

Personally I do it because I enjoy long sessions which last anything up to 8 hours.

I have pointed out to some couples in the past that I am not what they are looking for because some women like it to be over in 5-10 minutes.

"

and is this 8 hours with breaks

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

i do like a long session - but it can get a bit much after 3 hours straight shagging and he still hasn't cum...or the lockjaw sets in waiting on it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" i do like a long session - but it can get a bit much after 3 hours straight shagging and he still hasn't cum...or the lockjaw sets in waiting on it "

a wee cheeky finger up the bum works wonders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what makes you think the guys who last for hours are only doing it to show off ?

Personally I do it because I enjoy long sessions which last anything up to 8 hours.

I have pointed out to some couples in the past that I am not what they are looking for because some women like it to be over in 5-10 minutes.

and is this 8 hours with breaks "

Someone's had their Weetibix!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

oh and thats the guys bum lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10-15 minutes is about my norm once I've actually penetrated. Nobody has ever made me cum through oral sex and prolonged masturbation just causes friction burns after too long. I do sometimes feel, however, that I'm giving Siren short-shrift as it feels like she's just about ready just as I am about to explode but could do with a few minutes more, but alas, once I've locked on there's no stopping it.

As for going 8 hours... man, my knees would cave in long before that lol but I did take viagra once on a first meet and lasted for 7 hours with breaks, although it did help that she was a totally filthy bitch lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what makes you think the guys who last for hours are only doing it to show off ?

Personally I do it because I enjoy long sessions which last anything up to 8 hours.

I have pointed out to some couples in the past that I am not what they are looking for because some women like it to be over in 5-10 minutes.

"

an 8 hour shag??? i can barely do an 8 hour shift at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm one of those long stayers, and let me tell you that while it seems a great idea, it's actually a pain in the arse. If you feel embarrassed, it's nothing compared with my embarrassment when I am still shagging a girl when her hubby finished with my missus ages before, he can't do it again, and they have been sat watching us shafting for the last half hour or more. It usually ends up in me just giving up without cumming to be honest. (She does though, several times, and this is the most important thing for me anyway.) This giving up is either from embarrassment as above, she has had enough, or me just running out of energy, hot and thirsty. I just wish I could get one off in ten minutes sometimes, but half an hour with the missus is as quick as it ever gets when very turned on, and the above scenarios can be two hours or so. It really is a pain, and the girl feels lacking in not being able to get you off, but it isn't that, it's me and I say it again; it's a pain in the arse and frustrating as hell."

im exactly the same !! thank god someone else is like that , your spot on i know for a lot of guys they think it would be great but its def not , i wish sometimes i could swap with another guy and just cum in 10 mins or so , it does become very frustrating after half an hour or so and i do the exact same , stop for a drink , wipe myself down etc get all sweaty and begin to wonder whats going on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes of course with breaks, a sip of a drink a while you just fondle each other or go from sex to oral to massage etc, penetrative sex would only go on for around an hour at a time before a break

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy


" i do like a long session - but it can get a bit much after 3 hours straight shagging and he still hasn't cum...or the lockjaw sets in waiting on it

a wee cheeky finger up the bum works wonders. "

sometimes even a fist wouldnae work and know where the guys who last forever are coming from it gets frustrating for them and us too - we want our ultimate reward too

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I find that condoms make a huge difference, obviously we use them all the time to play with others, and I can sometimes last all night whilst wearing them. It can get a little frustrating, so a bout of oral, or sex with Jayne, helps to "pop" things off, and then we start again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have a friend that does the same, goes on forever without coming and he's not fit either so i reckon you either can or cant, thats not to say he doesnt go soft as he does, but we shag like rabbits so it doesnt last soft for long lol

you can train yourself to stay hard ive heard but ive no idea how and women can also train themselves to come when they are told too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to go for hours and still have to finish off with a wank. I think it does make some women wonder if you have enjoyed it or really been there in your head.

These days I think I would be more of a 15-20 mins man although I have not really had much opportunity to find out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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it does not help that im unfit "

get your arse down the gym then and get fit lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to go for hours and still have to finish off with a wank. I think it does make some women wonder if you have enjoyed it or really been there in your head."

yeah i have to admit i have found this a few times, i do find it a bit insulting when ive spent ages on a guy and he has a wank to finish himself off, makes you feel like a make do shag, you know not really good enough but better than nothing, id sooner a guy just say, sorry your not my type lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to go for hours and still have to finish off with a wank. I think it does make some women wonder if you have enjoyed it or really been there in your head.

yeah i have to admit i have found this a few times, i do find it a bit insulting when ive spent ages on a guy and he has a wank to finish himself off, makes you feel like a make do shag, you know not really good enough but better than nothing, id sooner a guy just say, sorry your not my type lol "

Many women are the same too. Siren finds it extremely difficult to orgasm through penetrative sex and often 'finishes herself off' with her rabbit. It used to bother me and make me feel like I wasn't satisfying her but with plenty of reassurance from her I now know that it's just the way she is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh come on here folks......

8 Hours for one shag.....Please....that would just be purgotry! and not a little bit sore!

There is a fine line between a Hair Trigger.....which at times is nice...and the " Im superman and can shag all day" guys....

A session can last varying tomes...depends on the situation really.

But the guys who go on for ever Grinding Away.....Boring!!!!!!

It would make me sore and think I wasnt doing it for him!

Mr Average for me

J xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah i have to admit i have found this a few times, i do find it a bit insulting when ive spent ages on a guy and he has a wank to finish himself off, makes you feel like a make do shag, you know not really good enough but better than nothing, id sooner a guy just say, sorry your not my type lol "

The thing is (or more accurately, was) I was actually really enjoying every second of the sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Many women are the same too. Siren finds it extremely difficult to orgasm through penetrative sex and often 'finishes herself off' with her rabbit. It used to bother me and make me feel like I wasn't satisfying her but with plenty of reassurance from her I now know that it's just the way she is."

Eve is the same, she cannot cum thru penatrive sex, so someone shagging for hours isnt giving her orgasms although she does still enjoy it a lot. She finishes herself off with a magic wand, the daddy of vibrators

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm one of those long stayers, and let me tell you that while it seems a great idea, it's actually a pain in the arse. If you feel embarrassed, it's nothing compared with my embarrassment when I am still shagging a girl when her hubby finished with my missus ages before, he can't do it again, and they have been sat watching us shafting for the last half hour or more. It usually ends up in me just giving up without cumming to be honest. (She does though, several times, and this is the most important thing for me anyway.) This giving up is either from embarrassment as above, she has had enough, or me just running out of energy, hot and thirsty. I just wish I could get one off in ten minutes sometimes, but half an hour with the missus is as quick as it ever gets when very turned on, and the above scenarios can be two hours or so. It really is a pain, and the girl feels lacking in not being able to get you off, but it isn't that, it's me and I say it again; it's a pain in the arse and frustrating as hell.

im exactly the same !! thank god someone else is like that , your spot on i know for a lot of guys they think it would be great but its def not , i wish sometimes i could swap with another guy and just cum in 10 mins or so , it does become very frustrating after half an hour or so and i do the exact same , stop for a drink , wipe myself down etc get all sweaty and begin to wonder whats going on lol "

I thought I was the only one with this problem! lol Didn't know whether it was a blessing or a curse, still not sure?

Finding a compatible partner helps, someone who can fook for long periods of time and wont get bored.

And yeh I find condoms don't help, Its like eating sweet with the wrapper on! But I'm all for safe sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

guys who struggle to cum, can i ask you, do you have the same problem without a condom and what do you think is the problem, is it a mental block or do you not get enough stimulation from sex.

im not boasting here (honest) but my cock is a decent size and quite thick and (i may be wrong) but i think being a bit on the bigger side i get more stimulation during sex and thats why i find at certain times i dont last too long. When eve sits on my cock the feeling i get i cant hold onto so i cum, as i cant witdraw im trapped and have no option but to cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes get the opposite reaction. I can't cum, no matter what the lady does. It's just as frustrating. "

Oh i met a guy like that once...

he were,t half a liar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's all this about ladies not cumming via penetrative sex, and having to finish themselves off with toys??

So you cum and then leave her to finish herself? Charming!!

There's a saying, "there's more than 1 way to skin a cat". It has parallels with sex and satisfying ladies, so she doesn't cum via normal penetrative sex, well have you never tried anything else??

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"oh come on here folks......

8 Hours for one shag.....Please....that would just be purgotry! and not a little bit sore!

There is a fine line between a Hair Trigger.....which at times is nice...and the " Im superman and can shag all day" guys....

A session can last varying tomes...depends on the situation really.

But the guys who go on for ever Grinding Away.....Boring!!!!!!

It would make me sore and think I wasnt doing it for him!

Mr Average for me

J xxxx "

I always knew there were advantages to being average.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm getting all these mental images of missionary sex which lasts for hours and hours and hours I'm sure that's not what we're meaning here, or at least I hope it's not

For those who struggle, does changing position help? varying activity... penetration, oral, hand action etc?

Do you communicate what works for you to the partner you're with?

It's not unusual for a session with my swing partner to last 4 or 5 hours, without a real break however we both cum a few times during that and get up to a variety of different things. I think I'd get bored real quick if we just fucked for all that time and nothing else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's all this about ladies not cumming via penetrative sex, and having to finish themselves off with toys??

So you cum and then leave her to finish herself? Charming!!

There's a saying, "there's more than 1 way to skin a cat". It has parallels with sex and satisfying ladies, so she doesn't cum via normal penetrative sex, well have you never tried anything else??"

dooh thanks for the great advice but dont you think we may have thought of other means

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes get the opposite reaction. I can't cum, no matter what the lady does. It's just as frustrating.

Oh i met a guy like that once...

he were,t half a liar "

when this happens, it's always in a swinging situation. Don't know if it's nerves, but it has happened even when I've played with Kate It doesn't happen everytime, and I've been ok the last 3 meets, but once went 6 meets without cumming . Dont think it's condoms to blame because I don't use them with Kate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's all this about ladies not cumming via penetrative sex, and having to finish themselves off with toys??

So you cum and then leave her to finish herself? Charming!!

There's a saying, "there's more than 1 way to skin a cat". It has parallels with sex and satisfying ladies, so she doesn't cum via normal penetrative sex, well have you never tried anything else??

dooh thanks for the great advice but dont you think we may have thought of other means "

Pardon me for speaking!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried the herbal root its very good and you last for ages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Pardon me for speaking!!"

i thought you were implying that some guy has the special touch that some of us are not capable of. My partner can only orgasm via a vibe of some sort on her clit, this can be combined with other things so its part of our love making. I wish someone could make her cum then i know there is light at the end of the tunnel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm one of those guys that has to hold back during intercourse.

After holding back once or twice though,I sometimes get to the point were it either takes me ages to orgasm or my cock goes numb and I don't come at all.

I read up on it and apparently if you keep holding back it cause whats called "retarded ejeculation" making it either difficult or impossible to orgasm. R

XXXX

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"

Pardon me for speaking!!

i thought you were implying that some guy has the special touch that some of us are not capable of. My partner can only orgasm via a vibe of some sort on her clit, this can be combined with other things so its part of our love making. I wish someone could make her cum then i know there is light at the end of the tunnel "

Gillette fusion power, eject the blade first though

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By *hemadcoupleCouple
over a year ago

cardiff


"guys who struggle to cum, can i ask you, do you have the same problem without a condom and what do you think is the problem, is it a mental block or do you not get enough stimulation from sex.

im not boasting here (honest) but my cock is a decent size and quite thick and (i may be wrong) but i think being a bit on the bigger side i get more stimulation during sex and thats why i find at certain times i dont last too long. When eve sits on my cock the feeling i get i cant hold onto so i cum, as i cant witdraw im trapped and have no option but to cum."

Well without a condom, the sensations are far more intense, and to be fair, the missus' muscles are exceptionally well developed so it feels tight and fantastic, but it still doesn't make it cum quickly. I always think it is more likely to come quickly due to some very intense feelings, but still it blocks. At first it's like you have to hang on a bit longer, and this hanging on is subconscious rather than an effort. This might lead onto what Ric was saying though. Half an hour would be about right, but often by this time, she is so wet that the feelings aren't so intense any more and so it is possible to just lose it, or at least get to a stage where further stimulation does nothing. Having said that, with the missus we can usually time it to work in about half to three quarters of an hour, and then I usually do manage to cum okay, but of course this is not with a condom.

With a condom, i.e. in swing situations, it is ten time worse as there is virtually no sensation anyway from the start, so one doesn't even get the initial highs. I have even had the girl pull the condom off and deepthroat it, and wank it, but by then, as I said, further stimulation is useless, even if it does stay hard, and it doesn't always, due to the anxiety brought on thinking that she might be thinking she isn't pleasing me, which she was, very much. I have considered giving up swinging as a consequence of this happening a few times, and just doing the MMF thing, with some mates, which she loves. It isn't a question as someone said, about 2 hours of missionaries. It doesn't matter how varied you are. You could go right through the Karma Sutra and still it would be there, not relieving you. I've had to go to sleep sometimes just trying to think about something else other than my cock which is still as itchy as hell, but which just won't come, and I'm knackered out and totally frustrated, swearing at it, thinking how nice it must be to be able to knock one out it five minutes just for a change.

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