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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey just wandering what sex feels like after child birth?This is open to male and female side. Did you find your partner felt looser after it? Or ladies did your partner not fill you up as much?

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city


"Hey just wandering what sex feels like after child birth?This is open to male and female side. Did you find your partner felt looser after it? Or ladies did your partner not fill you up as much? "

It's fifteen years since I was in that position, so I dont remember much... But I remember something about waiting a couple of weeks as the woman has a very high chance of getting pregnant again. But then again i suppose if u use a condom that won't happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey just wandering what sex feels like after child birth?This is open to male and female side. Did you find your partner felt looser after it? Or ladies did your partner not fill you up as much? "

You have sex after having babies?

Truth be known I cannot remember the sex side of it. I simply remember being exhausted most of the time due to being a baby feeding machine and the fact the little darling took months before she even settled into a six hour night sleep.

If you or your partner are pregnant or just had a baby, I'd advise concentrating on the sensual side of intimacy. Of course your sexual relationship as a couple is still very important, but only a woman knows just how demanding babies can be from a physical perspective (even if Dad is helping at night). The body takes time to recover from labour (so-called cos it is "hard labour"), add to that breast-feeding and sleepless nights.

Anyway I'm sure you've read the baby books so I'll shush now

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Lost my virginity at 18 do don't know such An easy pun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey just wandering what sex feels like after child birth?This is open to male and female side. Did you find your partner felt looser after it? Or ladies did your partner not fill you up as much?

You have sex after having babies?

Truth be known I cannot remember the sex side of it. I simply remember being exhausted most of the time due to being a baby feeding machine and the fact the little darling took months before she even settled into a six hour night sleep.

If you or your partner are pregnant or just had a baby, I'd advise concentrating on the sensual side of intimacy. Of course your sexual relationship as a couple is still very important, but only a woman knows just how demanding babies can be from a physical perspective (even if Dad is helping at night). The body takes time to recover from labour (so-called cos it is "hard labour"), add to that breast-feeding and sleepless nights.

Anyway I'm sure you've read the baby books so I'll shush now "

Sensual side of intimacy after the birth. During pregnancy she may well be one horny devil

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The waiting part doesn't worry me haha, and I understand the sensual side of it, there's a little person who need looking after and a cwtch with your wife when you got 5 mins is amazing, but I'm wandering what the physical side of it will be like.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It takes a bit of time to settle down and the nature of the birth may affect the feel.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I guess what you're really asking is, will you still be able to touch the sides ?

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Pelvic floor excercises!!! Lol I still do them now and my youngest is 11 years

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"I guess what you're really asking is, will you still be able to touch the sides ? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pelvic floors work...i waited a few weeks after the boys about 4 as i was exhausted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never stayed around for 9 months to find out!

Heading to hills to hide from my awful joke!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use her other hole instead

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire


"Use her other hole instead "

Only a man would say that lol all muscles that end are used in childbirth!!!! They need time to go back to normal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Opt for a c section, apparently that keeps everything tight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not experienced child Birth but still do my pelvic floor to keep me right and to stop me weeing myself when I laugh ! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

such a temptation to say something about waiting for an age of consent here lol.

is there not something that says you have to wait a certain amount if time after childbirth before its comfortable, or is it purely down to the ladies discretion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not experienced child Birth but still do my pelvic floor to keep me right and to stop me weeing myself when I laugh ! X"

Opps keep me tight !

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

Huddersfield, centralish

Once the bleeding has stopped no need to wait if you are both up for it... but do use protection! A woman can get pregnant before her first post birth period.

As for the feeling that will depend on how the birth goes I guess. I didn't notice a difference and was a horny bitch as soon as I was able.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you r advised not 2 have sex 4 awhile and given pelvic exercise list to do. It depends on if you do them or not......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess what you're really asking is, will you still be able to touch the sides ? "

Fucking looollll!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey just wandering what sex feels like after child birth?This is open to male and female side. Did you find your partner felt looser after it? Or ladies did your partner not fill you up as much? "

I had sections with all my kids so felt the same to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey just wandering what sex feels like after child birth?This is open to male and female side. Did you find your partner felt looser after it? Or ladies did your partner not fill you up as much? "

I was tighter after I gave birth, mostly because I didn't have sex for a while being pregnant, it felt fine after each birth and I had sex from a few days to a few weeks after birth. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never stayed around for 9 months to find out!

Heading to hills to hide from my awful joke!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pelvic floor excercises!!! Lol I still do them now and my youngest is 11 years"

This.. I've had 6 kids and so far not had anyone tying a plank to their feet to stop them falling in.

I don't know if there is much difference for a guy but certainly wasn't for me.

Cali

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By *ockybigMan
2 weeks ago

Westcliff

Well i must admit me and Helen were having sex multiple times a day and night after the birth of mark we waited till she had her first period after birth then continued having sex no condom i was taking all milk mark didn't want i mean who can resist lactating nipples well she new the risks of pregnancy by. not using condoms but she wants another baby asap so they are near enough same age so we keep making love many times daily and night .before her pregnancy her periods were very regular within a couple of days either way so 30 days after her period I whent and bought 2 pregnancy tests different makes she went to toilet 🚻 for a pee while she was in midstream I put both pregnancy test in her pee and whent back to the lounge waited for Helen to come back and gave her acuddle and kiss .Helen said what that for darling and I told her you are pregnant darling showed her both tests she was over the moon .I went and fetched mark as it was time for his feed from her swollen nipples when mark had finished i put him back in his cot went back to Helen and had my feed then had the most amazing fuck. She orgasmed 3 times before I emptying more seed up her and agreed to do another pregnancy test in 14 days if that's positive we will see her GP for official confirmation .now ladies how long will her breasts keep lactating and we are going to continue having sex throughout her pregnancy happy days more to enjoy as well

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By *sWyldWoman
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

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By *sWyldWoman
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Reading threads like this makes me so sad.

Your partners just grown a baby and given birth.

It's completely life changing and body altering.

Her emotions and hormones are all over the place, she's exhausted and trying to adjust to this new reality.

She needs her partner to remind her how much she's loved, to be there for all she and the baby needs and to help her.

If and when she feels ready you should be less worried on how tight or otherwise she is and far more concerned on how you make her feel.

No matter how great your relationship is ,I can assure you she's likely never felt more vulnerable.

And if she is super horny and desperate for more, remind her how amazing she is .

And remember how lucky you are!

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By *ockybigMan
1 week ago

Westcliff

This was her choice she wants her children to grow up together i tried telling her to wait 6 months she n

Knew exactly what could happen and I respect her wish and I will stand by her throughout the pregnancy and after we are getting married. In August

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By *ickD80Man
1 week ago

Wolverhampton

You asked ‘how long will her breasts keep lactating’?

Do you think women have a limited amount of milk they can produce?

Or do you think there’s a time limit to how long they can produce milk for?

If you really are living this scenario where you’re drinking your parent’s milk and wondering how long it will last for then it’s weird that you haven’t either asked her about it or googled it. I’m guessing but i reckon 90% of people will go to google to find out the answer to something they don’t know but you’ve decided to ask on the forum of a swingers website.

So, either you have never heard of google, or the internet generally, as a place to find the answer to any question….or you thought that you would get a more accurate and honest answer by asking on this forum than you would from asking google, or you thought that Google wouldn’t be able to answer your question and the only way you could get an answer is by asking here….

Which one of those is it? Or is there another reason why you asked here rather than google?

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By *ifeTimeCouple
1 week ago

Grays

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By *parkle1974Woman
1 week ago

Leeds


"This was her choice she wants her children to grow up together i tried telling her to wait 6 months she n

Knew exactly what could happen and I respect her wish and I will stand by her throughout the pregnancy and after we are getting married. In August "

What age is your wife??

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By *amierebelMan
1 week ago

My own little world

I didn’t notice any difference obviously waited a while after my kids was born c-section so may be how never noticed. But having fucked girls that have kids I’d say there’s no difference

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By *he Flat CapsCouple
1 week ago

Pontypool


"Well i must admit me and Helen were having sex multiple times a day and night after the birth of mark we waited till she had her first period after birth then continued having sex no condom i was taking all milk mark didn't want i mean who can resist lactating nipples well she new the risks of pregnancy by. not using condoms but she wants another baby asap so they are near enough same age so we keep making love many times daily and night .before her pregnancy her periods were very regular within a couple of days either way so 30 days after her period I whent and bought 2 pregnancy tests different makes she went to toilet 🚻 for a pee while she was in midstream I put both pregnancy test in her pee and whent back to the lounge waited for Helen to come back and gave her acuddle and kiss .Helen said what that for darling and I told her you are pregnant darling showed her both tests she was over the moon .I went and fetched mark as it was time for his feed from her swollen nipples when mark had finished i put him back in his cot went back to Helen and had my feed then had the most amazing fuck. She orgasmed 3 times before I emptying more seed up her and agreed to do another pregnancy test in 14 days if that's positive we will see her GP for official confirmation .now ladies how long will her breasts keep lactating and we are going to continue having sex throughout her pregnancy happy days more to enjoy as well"

I'm sorry, I looked at the green arrow and now I'm confused.

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