FabSwingers.com forum: whats it like being popular

By *ark Gr8 Teddy Bear OP Man
over a year ago

Wigan

I love how people complain about the number of messages and winks they get. I can understand they may not be from who you would desire but how is it not nice too feel wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any hole on this site is popular and I would not take it as a compliment the content of my inbox.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

You don't feel wanted by having lots of inappropriate, basically 1-3 word or one line messages.

Do you feel wanted when you get junk mail through your door?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any hole on this site is popular and I would not take it as a compliment the content of my inbox. "

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By *ugartitsandhimCouple
over a year ago

North West

"You don't feel wanted by having lots of inappropriate, basically 1-3 word or one line messages.

Do you feel wanted when you get junk mail through your door?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a load of messages over last couple of months from single men wanting to take my innocence

I don't feel complimented or popular....it makes me feel cheap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a load of messages over last couple of months from single men wanting to take my innocence

I don't feel complimented or popular....it makes me feel cheap

Block them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love how people complain about the number of messages and winks they get. I can understand they may not be from who you would desire but how is it not nice too feel wanted. "

Buddy, we're all in the same boat. Don't sweat.. you'll be grand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say I don't take 98% of my inbox, winks or friend requests as a compliment... I wouldn't say getting them makes me popular either!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any hole on this site is popular and I would not take it as a compliment the content of my inbox. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't feel wanted by having lots of inappropriate, basically 1-3 word or one line messages.

Do you feel wanted when you get junk mail through your door?

Would you prefer no mail??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a load of messages over last couple of months from single men wanting to take my innocence

I don't feel complimented or popular....it makes me feel cheap

Block them!

I would but I get messages from single men in the forums who just want to chat about what subject the thread was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to skull fuck you.

Do you fancy sitting on my cock.

Nice pussy, can I spunk on it.

Can I suck your toes.

These 100s off messages do nothing for me. I'd rather read junk mail in the post about stairlifts to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to skull fuck you.

Do you fancy sitting on my cock.

Nice pussy, can I spunk on it.

Can I suck your toes.

These 100s off messages do nothing for me. I'd rather read junk mail in the post about stairlifts to be honest.

If I send you all them in 1 message, would that be ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But the more thought out, appealing messages are certainly complimentary x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I love how people complain about the number of messages and winks they get. I can understand they may not be from who you would desire but how is it not nice too feel wanted. "

Being "wanted" for sex means nothing to me. Being wanted and needed by people who enhance my life and/or I gave birth to is another matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to skull fuck you.

Do you fancy sitting on my cock.

Nice pussy, can I spunk on it.

Can I suck your toes.

These 100s off messages do nothing for me. I'd rather read junk mail in the post about stairlifts to be honest.

If I send you all them in 1 message, would that be ok?

Try it haha

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Any hole on this site is popular and I would not take it as a compliment the content of my inbox. "

You've put it better than I, but yes: this!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I want to skull fuck you.

Do you fancy sitting on my cock.

Nice pussy, can I spunk on it.

Can I suck your toes.

These 100s off messages do nothing for me. I'd rather read junk mail in the post about stairlifts to be honest.

*Giggles*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to skull fuck you.

Do you fancy sitting on my cock.

Nice pussy, can I spunk on it.

Can I suck your toes.

These 100s off messages do nothing for me. I'd rather read junk mail in the post about stairlifts to be honest.

*Giggles*"

There is a very simple solution, block all single men, then you can chat to the people you want to

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy Bear OP Man
over a year ago

Wigan

I've not sent a message like that too anyone. Every one has been decent and polite. Yet very few responses. Makes me think I should send impolite sexual advances instead.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"You don't feel wanted by having lots of inappropriate, basically 1-3 word or one line messages.

Do you feel wanted when you get junk mail through your door?

Would you prefer no mail?? "

I like males and mail. I don't get that much either physical mail or virtual mail on here and not that many physical or virtual males either.

If you put up a no junk mail sign it's annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't block all single men, I want some of them to suck my toes and skull fuck me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've not sent a message like that too anyone. Every one has been decent and polite. Yet very few responses. Makes me think I should send impolite sexual advances instead."

Why lower yourself to other people's standards?

Be yourself, no reply take it as a no thanks and move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont complain, depends what they say though. most men who want to meet me arent my type though, for one reason or another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the men on this site just after sex and they dont care how they get it yes its a sex site BUT that doesn't mean it don't need to feel special we are not all sluts here we are people who don't want to get into the complex and sometimes unhappy relationships but still want to have an intimate time now and then AND we like to do it at our own pace not the lets meet and fk now crap that really does my head in shows how selfish a person really is and also says to meet the sex wont be that great bc it will be all about the other person x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't block all single men, I want some of them to suck my toes and skull fuck me

Clearly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't feel wanted by having lots of inappropriate, basically 1-3 word or one line messages.

Do you feel wanted when you get junk mail through your door?

Would you prefer no mail??

I like males and mail. I don't get that much either physical mail or virtual mail on here and not that many physical or virtual males either.

If you put up a no junk mail sign it's annoying.

You have lost me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slightly off topic, but I very rarely send the first message, If I'm working away I will.

Most of the people I speak to have come from the forums

Mr potato pants help as well (strange but true)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot potato

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hot potato

Or aggressive pepperami's. You women are a weird bunch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of the men on this site just after sex and they dont care how they get it yes its a sex site BUT that doesn't mean it don't need to feel special we are not all sluts here we are people who don't want to get into the complex and sometimes unhappy relationships but still want to have an intimate time now and then AND we like to do it at our own pace not the lets meet and fk now crap that really does my head in shows how selfish a person really is and also says to meet the sex wont be that great bc it will be all about the other person x"

couldn't have put it better myself

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I've not sent a message like that too anyone. Every one has been decent and polite. Yet very few responses. Makes me think I should send impolite sexual advances instead."

You are competing with 1.000s of other men. It takes time and patience.

Women can have the opposite problem of wading through 1,000s of competing men to find just one suitable with whom to have fun. It takes time and patience.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"You don't feel wanted by having lots of inappropriate, basically 1-3 word or one line messages.

Do you feel wanted when you get junk mail through your door?

Would you prefer no mail??

I like males and mail. I don't get that much either physical mail or virtual mail on here and not that many physical or virtual males either.

If you put up a no junk mail sign it's annoying.

You have lost me

A sign on your door saying "no junk mail" for the physical mail one gets. A line on your profile saying "no one liners or I wanna fuck u hunni" messages is the same.

Plus I no longer get many of either as I have set my filters and I'm so fussy that most don't bother.

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over a year ago

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy Bear OP Man
over a year ago

Wigan

"I've not sent a message like that too anyone. Every one has been decent and polite. Yet very few responses. Makes me think I should send impolite sexual advances instead.

Why lower yourself to other people's standards?

Be yourself, no reply take it as a no thanks and move on!"

sorry but a no reply to me is just being ignorant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not ignorant.

But if I answered every single inbox I'd be ignoring work, my hubby, my kids.

Its just not practical at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've not sent a message like that too anyone. Every one has been decent and polite. Yet very few responses. Makes me think I should send impolite sexual advances instead.

Why lower yourself to other people's standards?

Be yourself, no reply take it as a no thanks and move on!

sorry but a no reply to me is just being ignorant. "

You obviously haven't read the site FAQ's then?

And am I to assume you reply to every piece of junk mail you receive on your doormat or inbox with a no thanks then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not as much fun as expected

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy Bear OP Man
over a year ago

Wigan

"I've not sent a message like that too anyone. Every one has been decent and polite. Yet very few responses. Makes me think I should send impolite sexual advances instead.

Why lower yourself to other people's standards?

Be yourself, no reply take it as a no thanks and move on!

sorry but a no reply to me is just being ignorant.

You obviously haven't read the site FAQ's then?

And am I to assume you reply to every piece of junk mail you receive on your doormat or inbox with a no thanks then? "

I reply to every message I'm sent In a polite and decent manner. Unless the message requires different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have to employ someone to reply to every message we get. I kind of feel bad some times as i'm sure some of the messages are from nice people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to skull fuck you.

Do you fancy sitting on my cock.

Nice pussy, can I spunk on it.

Can I suck your toes.

These 100s off messages do nothing for me. I'd rather read junk mail in the post about stairlifts to be honest.

Fancy a 'Stanner' with me then?

(That's where you sit on me and I take you up the stairs, slowly)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've not sent a message like that too anyone. Every one has been decent and polite. Yet very few responses. Makes me think I should send impolite sexual advances instead.

Why lower yourself to other people's standards?

Be yourself, no reply take it as a no thanks and move on!

sorry but a no reply to me is just being ignorant.

You obviously haven't read the site FAQ's then?

And am I to assume you reply to every piece of junk mail you receive on your doormat or inbox with a no thanks then?

I reply to every message I'm sent In a polite and decent manner. Unless the message requires different. "

So all your junk mail you personally call up or reply via email, thank you but no thanks!!!

As I said read the FAQ's of this site.

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy Bear OP Man
over a year ago

Wigan

I'm talking about messages on here. Not random emails offering me 10% off a new kitchen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've not sent a message like that too anyone. Every one has been decent and polite. Yet very few responses. Makes me think I should send impolite sexual advances instead.

Why lower yourself to other people's standards?

Be yourself, no reply take it as a no thanks and move on!

sorry but a no reply to me is just being ignorant.

You obviously haven't read the site FAQ's then?

And am I to assume you reply to every piece of junk mail you receive on your doormat or inbox with a no thanks then?

I reply to every message I'm sent In a polite and decent manner. Unless the message requires different.

So all your junk mail you personally call up or reply via email, thank you but no thanks!!!

As I said read the FAQ's of this site."

oral genius likes this

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I'm talking about messages on here. Not random emails offering me 10% off a new kitchen. "

Bro do you have that email still? Sounds like a good deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've not sent a message like that too anyone. Every one has been decent and polite. Yet very few responses. Makes me think I should send impolite sexual advances instead.

Why lower yourself to other people's standards?

Be yourself, no reply take it as a no thanks and move on!

sorry but a no reply to me is just being ignorant.

You obviously haven't read the site FAQ's then?

And am I to assume you reply to every piece of junk mail you receive on your doormat or inbox with a no thanks then?

I reply to every message I'm sent In a polite and decent manner. Unless the message requires different.

So all your junk mail you personally call up or reply via email, thank you but no thanks!!!

As I said read the FAQ's of this site."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm talking about messages on here. Not random emails offering me 10% off a new kitchen.

Bro do you have that email still? Sounds like a good deal.

Use the time machine, get to the January sales!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

So all your junk mail you personally call up or reply via email, thank you but no thanks!!!

As I said read the FAQ's of this site."

Why do you think all mail is junk mail? We have a profile on here, we hope to get mail from it....if we didn't want mails for whaetevr reason we just hide the profile and we don't get any.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"You don't feel wanted by having lots of inappropriate, basically 1-3 word or one line messages.

Do you feel wanted when you get junk mail through your door?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone stopped to think about the marketing opportunity that exists here.

Sending marketing emails to single guys, thereby improving the economy and stopping the complaints about never getting any messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The number of males received aren't as important as who they're from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The number of males received aren't as important as who they're from."

MAILS I mean - Freudian slip.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I'm talking about messages on here. Not random emails offering me 10% off a new kitchen.

Bro do you have that email still? Sounds like a good deal.

Use the time machine, get to the January sales!"

It's in for repair Prof. Glitter in the tubes again.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I love how people complain about the number of messages and winks they get. I can understand they may not be from who you would desire but how is it not nice too feel wanted. "

We never complain as we have put up a profile hoping to get mails.

It isn't about feeling " wanted" though, no stranger could make me feel that...it is about finding a playmate to us who wants the same as we want

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy Bear OP Man
over a year ago

Wigan

"I'm talking about messages on here. Not random emails offering me 10% off a new kitchen.

Bro do you have that email still? Sounds like a good deal.

No sorry I emailed them back saying no thank you and that as nice as the offer was it just wasn't what I was looking for at the this time

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I'm talking about messages on here. Not random emails offering me 10% off a new kitchen.

Bro do you have that email still? Sounds like a good deal.

No sorry I emailed them back saying no thank you and that as nice as the offer was it just wasn't what I was looking for at the this time"

lol I bet you did.

Either way, you won't always get replies, no matter how nice the message.

You can either accept that is what happens or get frustrated and let it spoil your enjoyment of the site.

I know what we would do

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"I'm talking about messages on here. Not random emails offering me 10% off a new kitchen.

Bro do you have that email still? Sounds like a good deal.

No sorry I emailed them back saying no thank you and that as nice as the offer was it just wasn't what I was looking for at the this time"

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

In response to the OP...

Its freakin' awesome!

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy Bear OP Man
over a year ago

Wigan

"I'm talking about messages on here. Not random emails offering me 10% off a new kitchen.

Bro do you have that email still? Sounds like a good deal.

No sorry I emailed them back saying no thank you and that as nice as the offer was it just wasn't what I was looking for at the this time

lol I bet you did.

Either way, you won't always get replies, no matter how nice the message.

You can either accept that is what happens or get frustrated and let it spoil your enjoyment of the site.

I know what we would do

same thing goes. People can either accept I feel its just ignorant or they can keep telling me read the FAQ's which having read hasn't changed my opinion.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I'm talking about messages on here. Not random emails offering me 10% off a new kitchen.

Bro do you have that email still? Sounds like a good deal.

No sorry I emailed them back saying no thank you and that as nice as the offer was it just wasn't what I was looking for at the this time"

Well I think all of these popular people should take a leaf out this stout fellow's book!

Shame on you all!

P.S. I can do a 25% kitchen if you're interested???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love how people complain about the number of messages and winks they get. I can understand they may not be from who you would desire but how is it not nice too feel wanted. "

I can understand your point of view its better to have mail than none granted some is not really the type and from people you are interested in but its so easy to delete there isn't any real need for anyone to get frustrated over it.

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy Bear OP Man
over a year ago

Wigan

"In response to the OP...

Its freakin' awesome!

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy Bear OP Man
over a year ago

Wigan

"I'm talking about messages on here. Not random emails offering me 10% off a new kitchen.

Bro do you have that email still? Sounds like a good deal.

No sorry I emailed them back saying no thank you and that as nice as the offer was it just wasn't what I was looking for at the this time

Well I think all of these popular people should take a leaf out this stout fellow's book!

Shame on you all!

P.S. I can do a 25% kitchen if you're interested???"

can you message me privately about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've not sent a message like that too anyone. Every one has been decent and polite. Yet very few responses. Makes me think I should send impolite sexual advances instead.

You are competing with 1.000s of other men. It takes time and patience.

Women can have the opposite problem of wading through 1,000s of competing men to find just one suitable with whom to have fun. It takes time and patience."

I agree, but how many women actually make the first move on here?? I don't think it's many tbh, I would rather get 100s of unwanted emails rather than 100s of my messages being ignored or deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people say the most stupid of things!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've not sent a message like that too anyone. Every one has been decent and polite. Yet very few responses. Makes me think I should send impolite sexual advances instead.

You are competing with 1.000s of other men. It takes time and patience.

Women can have the opposite problem of wading through 1,000s of competing men to find just one suitable with whom to have fun. It takes time and patience.

I agree, but how many women actually make the first move on here?? I don't think it's many tbh, I would rather get 100s of unwanted emails rather than 100s of my messages being ignored or deleted

I think quite a lot do in reality ok you may not be experiencing it but there are a lot of women who know what they want and have no problem in finding it.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I'm talking about messages on here. Not random emails offering me 10% off a new kitchen.

Bro do you have that email still? Sounds like a good deal.

No sorry I emailed them back saying no thank you and that as nice as the offer was it just wasn't what I was looking for at the this time

Well I think all of these popular people should take a leaf out this stout fellow's book!

Shame on you all!

P.S. I can do a 25% kitchen if you're interested???

can you message me privately about that.

I just mean I get 25% there and then give up. But I'll submit my rates.

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy Bear OP Man
over a year ago

Wigan

"I'm talking about messages on here. Not random emails offering me 10% off a new kitchen.

Bro do you have that email still? Sounds like a good deal.

No sorry I emailed them back saying no thank you and that as nice as the offer was it just wasn't what I was looking for at the this time

Well I think all of these popular people should take a leaf out this stout fellow's book!

Shame on you all!

P.S. I can do a 25% kitchen if you're interested???

can you message me privately about that.

I just mean I get 25% there and then give up. But I'll submit my rates.

thats ok as my kitchen in 75% finished so get round here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love how people complain about the number of messages and winks they get. I can understand they may not be from who you would desire but how is it not nice too feel wanted. "
I don't complain just cant mail everyone back and say Thank you on my profile . And think its sweet they wish to fab me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg as a result of this thread I have been in boxing about potatoes, pepperamis and farts.... That wasn't my intention!!

But it caught my attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some put that to gain messages i reckon tbh

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy Bear OP Man
over a year ago

Wigan

"I love how people complain about the number of messages and winks they get. I can understand they may not be from who you would desire but how is it not nice too feel wanted. I don't complain just cant mail everyone back and say Thank you on my profile . And think its sweet they wish to fab me .

that I accept as I do read profiles and would know.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I'm talking about messages on here. Not random emails offering me 10% off a new kitchen.

Bro do you have that email still? Sounds like a good deal.

No sorry I emailed them back saying no thank you and that as nice as the offer was it just wasn't what I was looking for at the this time

lol I bet you did.

Either way, you won't always get replies, no matter how nice the message.

You can either accept that is what happens or get frustrated and let it spoil your enjoyment of the site.

I know what we would do

same thing goes. People can either accept I feel its just ignorant or they can keep telling me read the FAQ's which having read hasn't changed my opinion.

I didn't tell you to read the FAQ's

Sounds to me like you want to let it frustrate you....fill your boots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread has tickled my funny bone.

I need a new bathroom, can anyone help? :D

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"This thread has tickled my funny bone.

I need a new bathroom, can anyone help? :D"

25%?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've not sent a message like that too anyone. Every one has been decent and polite. Yet very few responses. Makes me think I should send impolite sexual advances instead.

You are competing with 1.000s of other men. It takes time and patience.

Women can have the opposite problem of wading through 1,000s of competing men to find just one suitable with whom to have fun. It takes time and patience.

I agree, but how many women actually make the first move on here?? I don't think it's many tbh, I would rather get 100s of unwanted emails rather than 100s of my messages being ignored or deleted

I think quite a lot do in reality ok you may not be experiencing it but there are a lot of women who know what they want and have no problem in finding it. "

Maybe, I just think its very easy to stop the majority of unwanted emails from men, you change your filters to not looking for single men,

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy Bear OP Man
over a year ago

Wigan

"I'm talking about messages on here. Not random emails offering me 10% off a new kitchen.

Bro do you have that email still? Sounds like a good deal.

No sorry I emailed them back saying no thank you and that as nice as the offer was it just wasn't what I was looking for at the this time

lol I bet you did.

Either way, you won't always get replies, no matter how nice the message.

You can either accept that is what happens or get frustrated and let it spoil your enjoyment of the site.

I know what we would do

same thing goes. People can either accept I feel its just ignorant or they can keep telling me read the FAQ's which having read hasn't changed my opinion.

I didn't tell you to read the FAQ's

Sounds to me like you want to let it frustrate you....fill your boots

Not really. Frustration has been vented.

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy Bear OP Man
over a year ago

Wigan

"This thread has tickled my funny bone.

I need a new bathroom, can anyone help? :D

25%?"

I'll offer -6.4%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry if I've missed any important posts ... Could not read it all ! It was to long !!!!! And I'm a lazy cow ! ..... Anyway .... I do think us ladies are a bit ungrateful sometimes ... Me included ! We would not want to trade places with the single men on here ! I for one would not be here if I got ignored time after time !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sorry op but reading what you have posted on this thread, by your reckoning because i like to come on this site, browse and contribute to the forums, check my messages and actively seek out potential meets to chat to, the fact that i go through my inbox and dont have a spare 3 hours to reply to people that havent bothered to read my profile, dont match what im looking for, dont appeal to me or a mix of all 3, so i choose not to reply to those messages so i can spend my time enjoying the site, that makes me ignorant in your book.

I dont ring every takeaway up that posts a menu through my door and say no thanks but that doesnt make me ignorant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not change my profile to block single men from messaging as I often look for single men.

Yes some of the messages get tedious and some days a deleting spree is in order.

BUT....I would be an unhappy Mrs.F if I got no messages at all so I put up with them and ignore the one liners.

Plus I've had some very nice in boxes over the years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But the more thought out, appealing messages are certainly complimentary x"
what are they!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So all your junk mail you personally call up or reply via email, thank you but no thanks!!!

As I said read the FAQ's of this site.

Why do you think all mail is junk mail? We have a profile on here, we hope to get mail from it....if we didn't want mails for whaetevr reason we just hide the profile and we don't get any."

I don't personally think all mail is junk mail, eg messages on this site.

I was talking in reference to the OP saying he thought it was not polite to reply to every single message with a no thanks.

So the analogy is yes you reply to messages on here you want to and in "real life" eg a flyer or poster you might like the look of.

But on this site it is considered not rude to not reply much the same as in "real life" every company not receiving interest from their marketing would not be offended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I just say that on the occasions where I have said a polite "sorry your not my type", 9 times out of 10 you get another message asking why or what they can change.

Its never ending.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I just say that on the occasions where I have said a polite "sorry your not my type", 9 times out of 10 you get another message asking why or what they can change.

Its never ending."

Block straight away.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

So all your junk mail you personally call up or reply via email, thank you but no thanks!!!

As I said read the FAQ's of this site.

Why do you think all mail is junk mail? We have a profile on here, we hope to get mail from it....if we didn't want mails for whaetevr reason we just hide the profile and we don't get any.

I don't personally think all mail is junk mail, eg messages on this site.

I was talking in reference to the OP saying he thought it was not polite to reply to every single message with a no thanks.

So the analogy is yes you reply to messages on here you want to and in "real life" eg a flyer or poster you might like the look of.

But on this site it is considered not rude to not reply much the same as in "real life" every company not receiving interest from their marketing would not be offended."

I am a bit confused then, as people are calling mail junk mailon here....and as far as I see it...if people have an active profile on here then they are inviting mails.

The site FAQ may well say that it isn't rude not to answer but we personally think that if someone has taken the trouble to mail us we think it is polite to answer back and we do try to....but, it seems we may be in the minority on that one

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"Im sorry op but reading what you have posted on this thread, by your reckoning because i like to come on this site, browse and contribute to the forums, check my messages and actively seek out potential meets to chat to, the fact that i go through my inbox and dont have a spare 3 hours to reply to people that havent bothered to read my profile, dont match what im looking for, dont appeal to me or a mix of all 3, so i choose not to reply to those messages so i can spend my time enjoying the site, that makes me ignorant in your book.

I dont ring every takeaway up that posts a menu through my door and say no thanks but that doesnt make me ignorant."
This

And, you are getting meets so there's no issue. Leave people to conduct their business on here as they wish too

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

PS...today I answered 56 mails, up to now we have had 9 mails back saying thanks for your reply

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh

To be honest its a pain in the arse 90 % haven't read what we are looking for 5% we don't want to meet but the last 5% make it all worth while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"PS...today I answered 56 mails, up to now we have had 9 mails back saying thanks for your reply

Its great you have the time.

I have had a very rare day to myself today but in general I just don't have the time to answer even if I want to. That's not me being ignorant, its me being practical.

If I answer some then it will be the people who have bothered to attach a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although it's not always possible to answer every bit of mail. I do however reply to the mail I feel the user has made an effort. The hi, how are you, fancy a shag mail goes straight into delete. I have mailed guys on here to get no response, I didn't take offence, I took it as they weren't interested. The same way I don't message back if I am not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So all your junk mail you personally call up or reply via email, thank you but no thanks!!!

As I said read the FAQ's of this site.

Why do you think all mail is junk mail? We have a profile on here, we hope to get mail from it....if we didn't want mails for whaetevr reason we just hide the profile and we don't get any.

I don't personally think all mail is junk mail, eg messages on this site.

I was talking in reference to the OP saying he thought it was not polite to reply to every single message with a no thanks.

So the analogy is yes you reply to messages on here you want to and in "real life" eg a flyer or poster you might like the look of.

But on this site it is considered not rude to not reply much the same as in "real life" every company not receiving interest from their marketing would not be offended.

I am a bit confused then, as people are calling mail junk mailon here....and as far as I see it...if people have an active profile on here then they are inviting mails.

Yes I see your point of view re an active profile however the analogy of it being junk mail implies the sender hasn't read your profile, not deemed a nice message, doesn't fit requirements etc etc the list is endless

The word junk equating to - not for me.

Like no I don't need any new double glazing.

And as per site FAQ's I suppose it is then deemed ok to not reply to every message as it is not deemed to be impolite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"PS...today I answered 56 mails, up to now we have had 9 mails back saying thanks for your reply

I have been too busy *cough, cough*

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"PS...today I answered 56 mails, up to now we have had 9 mails back saying thanks for your reply

Its great you have the time.

I have had a very rare day to myself today but in general I just don't have the time to answer even if I want to. That's not me being ignorant, its me being practical.

If I answer some then it will be the people who have bothered to attach a face pic

It didn't take me long, I did it while eating my sandwich and drinking my tea.I had a cut and paste ready knowing that everyone of them was getting the same mail as we don't need anymore playmates right now.

I am not telling anyone to do the same,what you do is up to you

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"PS...today I answered 56 mails, up to now we have had 9 mails back saying thanks for your reply

I have been too busy *cough, cough*

A day off for me ....ironing took the back seat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"PS...today I answered 56 mails, up to now we have had 9 mails back saying thanks for your reply

I have been too busy *cough, cough*

A day off for me ....ironing took the back seat

I was busy on the forums

But still think going back to the OP, receiving messages does not make you feel popular or a compliment per-say.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I agree with you there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love how people complain about the number of messages and winks they get. "

I get 3-5 per day.

Ya I'm flooded!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I just say that on the occasions where I have said a polite "sorry your not my type", 9 times out of 10 you get another message asking why or what they can change.

Its never ending."

you are so right there hence why most of us don't do it and to the guy complaining about not getting a response make a female profile and put a sexy pic on there and then see if you can send a polite no thanks to 2834783274832 emails ever thought no reply or a delete is that persons way of saying no thanks ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"PS...today I answered 56 mails, up to now we have had 9 mails back saying thanks for your reply

I have been too busy *cough, cough*

A day off for me ....ironing took the back seat

I say a rare day off....I worked from 5pm last night until 8am this morning....maybe I should have gone to bed.

Damn forums!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion a non-response is nicer for someone with a fragile ego than a polite no thanks. With these types you get an abusive retort.

Also, my opinion, a non-response is the opposite to what some guys feel a polite no thanks is: an invitation to chat and work around the "no thanks".

I do not have the energy to deal with either of the above.

Also I have put in my profile what a non-response means :D.

If people think I am ignorant (common usage of the word as opposed to dictionary definition)... I simply do not care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my opinion a non-response is nicer for someone with a fragile ego than a polite no thanks. With these types you get an abusive retort.

Also, my opinion, a non-response is the opposite to what some guys feel a polite no thanks is: an invitation to chat and work around the "no thanks".

I do not have the energy to deal with either of the above.

Also I have put in my profile what a non-response means :D.

If people think I am ignorant (common usage of the word as opposed to dictionary definition)... I simply do not care

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy Bear OP Man
over a year ago

Wigan

I'm not responding anymore as I'm not interested so its ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a very rare day to myself today but in general I just don't have the time to answer even if I want to. That's not me being ignorant, its me being practical.

If I answer some then it will be the people who have bothered to attach a face pic

I am not telling anyone to do the same,what you do is up to you

Cut and paste?? You lazy bugger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not responding anymore as I'm not interested so its ok

I have to ask, and since you put it out there in another thread as your worst message - did you feel wanted/complimented by the emailer who wanted your spunk on her tits?

Apologies if I'm not remembering accurately

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy Bear OP Man
over a year ago

Wigan

"I'm not responding anymore as I'm not interested so its ok

I have to ask, and since you put it out there in another thread as your worst message - did you feel wanted/complimented by the emailer who wanted your spunk on her tits?

Apologies if I'm not remembering accurately

complimented. .. no. Did I take the time to respond in a polite manner yes.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I have had a very rare day to myself today but in general I just don't have the time to answer even if I want to. That's not me being ignorant, its me being practical.

If I answer some then it will be the people who have bothered to attach a face pic

I am not telling anyone to do the same,what you do is up to you

Cut and paste?? You lazy bugger

...holds my hands up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not responding anymore as I'm not interested so its ok

I have to ask, and since you put it out there in another thread as your worst message - did you feel wanted/complimented by the emailer who wanted your spunk on her tits?

Apologies if I'm not remembering accurately

complimented. .. no. Did I take the time to respond in a polite manner yes."

But your OP is not about responses!

So come on, do a little reflection... all good stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love how people complain about the number of messages and winks they get. I can understand they may not be from who you would desire but how is it not nice too feel wanted. "

Wanted because you have a fanny and tits is not great id rather be wanted for being the person i am.

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy Bear OP Man
over a year ago

Wigan

Its also not about compliments. Its basically would you rather have no mail or something. And why can't people respond to the decent messages in a decent way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you are not their thing...id rather have no mail than twat mail if im honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe you are not their thing...id rather have no mail than twat mail if im honest."

Is the twat mail from men??

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy Bear OP Man
over a year ago

Wigan

"I love how people complain about the number of messages and winks they get. I can understand they may not be from who you would desire but how is it not nice too feel wanted.

Wanted because you have a fanny and tits is not great id rather be wanted for being the person i am."

Seize the day then and don't show pics of your tits etc. You can't show sexy pics and get upset that people like them.

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy Bear OP Man
over a year ago

Wigan

"Maybe you are not their thing...id rather have no mail than twat mail if im honest."

so decent mail you'd respond too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love how people complain about the number of messages and winks they get. I can understand they may not be from who you would desire but how is it not nice too feel wanted.

Wanted because you have a fanny and tits is not great id rather be wanted for being the person i am.

Seize the day then and don't show pics of your tits etc. You can't show sexy pics and get upset that people like them. "

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

i like it,

it can be a drain deleting all the messages and offers, but i set aside a few hours a week and just go through them all

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I think this is going round in circles now.

Some people reply, some don't...it is something that people have to accept.

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