FabSwingers.com forum: oh! that sorta discreet!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I could bust!

Chatted by mail to a young chappy yesterday which led to a meet on his way home from work

His firm instructions were - 'it's I wank u off then u wank me off'

Normally I decline those type meets but I've not had time lately for a 'proper' session

It all went surprisingly well n after I said 'do you do verifications? '

No - he responded - 'I only meet males discreetly so only do veri's with women'

GOBSMACKED was I - I always assumed 'discreet' meant not telling world n wife you've met but on here it would b ok!

Ah well each to their own I guess

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Is he one of those straight blokes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I could bust!

Chatted by mail to a young chappy yesterday which led to a meet on his way home from work

His firm instructions were - 'it's I wank u off then u wank me off'

Normally I decline those type meets but I've not had time lately for a 'proper' session

It all went surprisingly well n after I said 'do you do verifications? '

No - he responded - 'I only meet males discreetly so only do veri's with women'

GOBSMACKED was I - I always assumed 'discreet' meant not telling world n wife you've met but on here it would b ok!

Ah well each to their own I guess"

At least he was honest, with you.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"Is he one of those straight blokes? "

Just what I was thinking!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is he one of those straight blokes? "

Yeeeees

So I could expect nothing else really could I? Lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

drop your standards then get upset wen they don't live up to your expectations??

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Proof positive that ladies who are dead set against bi guys can never tell.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Ha ha! You've got enough veris to prove you're real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Irony?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is he one of those straight blokes? "

must be sheezzz

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I did tell meself ' oh it doesn't matter don't bother about it '

But then again MAYBE I am bothered

I still haven't decided

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By *ungle-FeverCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Bristol/Gloucester

"Is he one of those straight blokes? "

Lots of those "straight" blokes around

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"drop your standards then get upset wen they don't live up to your expectations??

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I did tell meself ' oh it doesn't matter don't bother about it '

But then again MAYBE I am bothered

I still haven't decided

opt for not bothered

you met and got what you wanted

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

After reading your impressive current list of verifiers..you've clearly nowt to prove. And if anything the other guy has. Not you!

Just do Catherine Tate voice and exclaim ..."Me? Bothered? Face. Bothered? "

Nice profile too by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I could bust!

Chatted by mail to a young chappy yesterday which led to a meet on his way home from work

His firm instructions were - 'it's I wank u off then u wank me off'

Normally I decline those type meets but I've not had time lately for a 'proper' session

It all went surprisingly well n after I said 'do you do verifications? '

No - he responded - 'I only meet males discreetly so only do veri's with women'

GOBSMACKED was I - I always assumed 'discreet' meant not telling world n wife you've met but on here it would b ok!

Ah well each to their own I guess"

Drop him one in anyway just for devilment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well I could bust!

Chatted by mail to a young chappy yesterday which led to a meet on his way home from work

His firm instructions were - 'it's I wank u off then u wank me off'

Normally I decline those type meets but I've not had time lately for a 'proper' session

It all went surprisingly well n after I said 'do you do verifications? '

No - he responded - 'I only meet males discreetly so only do veri's with women'

GOBSMACKED was I - I always assumed 'discreet' meant not telling world n wife you've met but on here it would b ok!

Ah well each to their own I guess

Drop him one in anyway just for devilment.

Hahahahahaha I did lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Proof positive that ladies who are dead set against bi guys can never tell. "

I can. A couple of times it's been when naked admittedly, but I simply told them to get dressed and go!

I've yet to meet a straight man that didn't blush, feel uncomfortable being probed etc, bi men I've inadvertently met embraced and loved it: spoiling my fun.

It's not scientific, but it's worked for me.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I did tell meself ' oh it doesn't matter don't bother about it '

But then again MAYBE I am bothered

I still haven't decided

Lower your standards THEN get bothered?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met several guys on here that are either not comfortable with being known as anything other than straight or are simply experimenting....

I don't mind whether they wish to veri or not... Everyone has the right to privacy....

Yes of course it's nice to get a verification but I also respect people's wishes for privacy... I hid my bisexuality for a long time so I understand the feelings of guilt etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I did tell meself ' oh it doesn't matter don't bother about it '

But then again MAYBE I am bothered

I still haven't decided

Lower your standards THEN get bothered?!!

Oh I defo won't b lowering my standards! I know I may b a difficult bugger much of the time n folks have to do a fair bit of the dreaded e mail ping pong with me to close a meet but I'd rather keep meeting the right sort of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I could bust!

Chatted by mail to a young chappy yesterday which led to a meet on his way home from work

His firm instructions were - 'it's I wank u off then u wank me off'

Normally I decline those type meets but I've not had time lately for a 'proper' session

It all went surprisingly well n after I said 'do you do verifications? '

No - he responded - 'I only meet males discreetly so only do veri's with women'

GOBSMACKED was I - I always assumed 'discreet' meant not telling world n wife you've met but on here it would b ok!

Ah well each to their own I guess

Drop him one in anyway just for devilment.

Hahahahahaha I did lol

That means it will show on his verification summary wether he shows the verification it not. That's a bit mean if he specifically asked you not to verify him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I could bust!

Chatted by mail to a young chappy yesterday which led to a meet on his way home from work

His firm instructions were - 'it's I wank u off then u wank me off'

Normally I decline those type meets but I've not had time lately for a 'proper' session

It all went surprisingly well n after I said 'do you do verifications? '

No - he responded - 'I only meet males discreetly so only do veri's with women'

GOBSMACKED was I - I always assumed 'discreet' meant not telling world n wife you've met but on here it would b ok!

Ah well each to their own I guess

Drop him one in anyway just for devilment.

Hahahahahaha I did lol

That means it will show on his verification summary wether he shows the verification it not. That's a bit mean if he specifically asked you not to verify him. "

Not if he doesn't show his verification summary which I suspect he would not bearing in mind it probably won't be a first time.

Also even if displaying veri summary meeting a bloke could be a social thing doesn't just mean a sexual meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Proof positive that ladies who are dead set against bi guys can never tell. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well I could bust!

Chatted by mail to a young chappy yesterday which led to a meet on his way home from work

His firm instructions were - 'it's I wank u off then u wank me off'

Normally I decline those type meets but I've not had time lately for a 'proper' session

It all went surprisingly well n after I said 'do you do verifications? '

No - he responded - 'I only meet males discreetly so only do veri's with women'

GOBSMACKED was I - I always assumed 'discreet' meant not telling world n wife you've met but on here it would b ok!

Ah well each to their own I guess

Drop him one in anyway just for devilment.

Hahahahahaha I did lol

That means it will show on his verification summary wether he shows the verification it not. That's a bit mean if he specifically asked you not to verify him.

Not if he doesn't show his verification summary which I suspect he would not bearing in mind it probably won't be a first time.

Also even if displaying veri summary meeting a bloke could be a social thing doesn't just mean a sexual meet."

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I've said many a time on here, my hubby is bi, his profile is very honest, yet most of his in boxes come from straight guys with profiles dead against bi guys....

He doesn't meet these guys but if he did he wouldn't expect a veri for obvious reasons.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

What I want to know is...was it good for you??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drop him one in anyway just for devilment.

Hahahahahaha I did lol

That means it will show on his verification summary wether he shows the verification it not. That's a bit mean if he specifically asked you not to verify him.

Not if he doesn't show his verification summary which I suspect he would not bearing in mind it probably won't be a first time.

Also even if displaying veri summary meeting a bloke could be a social thing doesn't just mean a sexual meet.

Exactly

Yes because everyone on here would assume it was a social meet wouldn't they?

I just think, why cause issues for no reason, you met the guy, had a nice time, he asked you not to verify him....you ignored that request. That days more about you not him.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Forgive me if i have missed the point but......

All signs pointed to the nature of the guy you were meeting, by the looks of things. So what's the issue, if you went into the meet armed with such knowledge?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What I want to know is...was it good for you??

Ola froggydisneyfawn - well trust YOU to wanna know the ins n outs of a seamstresses needle lol

YES, for what it was, it was most pleasant n he hada CRACKING pair of thighs on him Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drop him one in anyway just for devilment.

Hahahahahaha I did lol

That means it will show on his verification summary wether he shows the verification it not. That's a bit mean if he specifically asked you not to verify him.

Not if he doesn't show his verification summary which I suspect he would not bearing in mind it probably won't be a first time.

Also even if displaying veri summary meeting a bloke could be a social thing doesn't just mean a sexual meet.

Exactly

Yes because everyone on here would assume it was a social meet wouldn't they?

I just think, why cause issues for no reason, you met the guy, had a nice time, he asked you not to verify him....you ignored that request. That days more about you not him.

Ok and what does it say about the bloke? That he deceives others on here!!!

And I know plenty of guys who have veri's from other guys and it causes them no problem!

I would not automatically assume a bloke being verified by another bloke meant they have sex! I would ask!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Drop him one in anyway just for devilment.

Hahahahahaha I did lol

That means it will show on his verification summary wether he shows the verification it not. That's a bit mean if he specifically asked you not to verify him.

Not if he doesn't show his verification summary which I suspect he would not bearing in mind it probably won't be a first time.

Also even if displaying veri summary meeting a bloke could be a social thing doesn't just mean a sexual meet.

Exactly

Yes because everyone on here would assume it was a social meet wouldn't they?

I just think, why cause issues for no reason, you met the guy, had a nice time, he asked you not to verify him....you ignored that request. That days more about you not him.

Er actually NO - he didn't say don't verify HIM he said he didn't send verifications for guys but he didn't mind being verified n he could use it if necessary when meeting someone else (I prob didn't make that bit clear in my original post soz)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, you didn't make that clear, my comments are no longer relevant.....and fair play.

Enjoy the site

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No, you didn't make that clear, my comments are no longer relevant.....and fair play.

Enjoy the site "

Yeah my apologies I shoulda clarified all that at the beginning! D'oh dozy me lol (it's me age - poor sod! )

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