FabSwingers.com forum: Looked at me...?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Were getting paranoid now lol..

We did the decent thing.. Paid up and had a supporter thing, very nice too.

Now we have that looked at me thing and we keep peeping lol.. and we have loads, some people seem to look, then look again, then again and again etc etc .. you get the drift. But.. don't mail us lol..

Whats wrong with us then I say...

Means we either seem up our bums.. or worse just plain ugly (Shurrup and be nice)

Advice.. Please!!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Now im addicted to this and I believe I should be the only person on this site that should be allowed to opt out of showing that ive looked at people profiles lol

I wanna know who else has looked that has opted out of showing hahahahaha

There is nothing to stop you sending those that you like the look of a wink or a message

Some people are shy you know!

And would you really want mesages from everyone thats had a peek?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmmmm find this strange too a couple looked six times the other day lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So for a couple of quid a month you can develop full blown paranoia, think we will save our money for something worth spending it on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its only Full Blown paranoia when they ignore ALL our begging letters...

Not just some... but all lol.

Ya tight wad ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There could be lots of reasons why people do make the initial contact, but certainly not because you are ugly (far from it) nor because up are 'up yourselves'.

Perhaps they are just shy and fear rejection, which is surely going to happen sooner or later.

Distance is also a factor, especially those to find it difficult to travel for whatever reason (no transport, kids,work)

Or perhaps they are just perusing the site to look for potential contacts later when time and circumstance allow it.

Having said all that, take a look at our profile and if you like what you see, well you know the rest

(ps, we have not paid up and cannot view the 'lookers', so it will be done in private lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Woo Hoo get your coats Notts you've pulled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL ahhh Notts, just think about all the people who have looked at you but are hidden.....now that can boggle your mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reference look and look again I do that, when in the forum and reading what people have written, I look at the profile has well to learn that little bit more of the person writing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am hidden so no one knows when i perv lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i am hidden so no one knows when i perv lol"

me too...stealth mode

lol

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

And me!...but I do love to be able to see at least some of who are looking....does my head in not knowing who's having a sneaky peak though...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i look all the time ,,, morning cheryl xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmmmm i need to try that stealth thingy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reference look and look again I do that, when in the forum and reading what people have written, I look at the profile has well to learn that little bit more of the person writing it.

Yep - That applies to us too.

And of course, there's the "Swiss cheese brained, numpty factor"

I'll see a post in the a forum, see the avatar/profile pic and username and struggle to remember "Is that the pretty one from Barnsley ?" so I'll look at the profile again - and again, later in the day.

Or couples that don't spend a great deal of time together. I'll (dammie) be trawling and pervin, and come across "something of interest" so I'll put that profile into the hotlist thing so I can easily find it to show HLB at the weekend because I'd forget if I left it to memory (See Swiss cheese brain) That is of course, if I click the correct button *blush* and not the feckin Wink button, or worse still - the bluddy "Invite Friend" button as I did yesterday *doubleblush* (See numpty factor)

But then again, sometimes I just like to look at the pretty ladies. Cos I is a perv.

dammie

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

"i look all the time ,,, morning cheryl xxx"

morning Dave...hey you've only looked once this morning...have you gone off me...pmsl

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

"i look all the time ,,, morning cheryl xxx"

morning Dave...hey you've only looked once this morning...have you gone off me...pmsl

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

"i look all the time ,,, morning cheryl xxx"

morning Dave...hey you've only looked once this morning...have you gone off me...pmsl

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

ooops...sticky finger syndrome..sorry for the stutter...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

"i am hidden so no one knows when i perv lol

me too...stealth mode

lol"

i wonder if more women than men go onto stealth mode ...please say there is as 57% of people looking at me recently were ..."straight men"

why they looking at me grrrrrr ???

get lost i am a women or couple zone only

please say you reckon more women lurk privately.

MR X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh - and . . . . . . .

It can actually lead to (at least) prospecting messages.

For instance - I'm 48 so wouldn't send a "Wanna fuck" to a profile where the ages were 30-45. But if a pretty lady sees that we've looked at her, or couple, and think they might want to know more about us, they may message, or wink.

But . . . . . . Here's another question.

Does anyone get fucked off by it ? Would it annoy you if for instance I (usually just dammie) looked at your profile - and therefore public pics almost every day ?

*I dress up the "Wanna fuck" prospecting messages much betterer than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks to everyone who posted in this Forum....I didn't even KNOW you could 'hide'.....doh !!!! That will teach me to read the instructions properly in future....lol !!!!

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

"Thanks to everyone who posted in this Forum....I didn't even KNOW you could 'hide'.....doh !!!! That will teach me to read the instructions properly in future....lol !!!!"

you just couldnt keep quiet could you ...now everyone will turn off and make it irrelevant ,,,,,,

leave it on ...you get more winks etr ...

promise ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i am hidden so no one knows when i perv lol

me too...stealth mode

lol

i wonder if more women than men go onto stealth mode ...please say there is as 57% of people looking at me recently were ..."straight men"

why they looking at me grrrrrr ???

get lost i am a women or couple zone only

please say you reckon more women lurk privately.

MR X

I tend to look at posters profiles, purely because they posted a message.

I also looked at the Audi showroom this morning, but didn't buy anything. It's free to look, worry if your getting hello's from people who don't read your profile.

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By *lirty14uMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Bout 50% of my veiwers were also men. If they get somethiong out of it, then good luck to them, doesn't bother me.

This is more than compensated for by a contact I made with someone local and the prospect of a drink out in the near future!

I saw they looked at me and I sent a message sayiong hello...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love the "whos looked at me" and i havent hid myself,

wink wink notts lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw they looked at me and I sent a message sayiong hello...

Hope you don't work in a shop.

Hate being pounced on as soon as I walk into a shop, then when you do want some help, no one around, lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh - and . . . . . . .

It can actually lead to (at least) prospecting messages.

But . . . . . . Here's another question.

Does anyone get fucked off by it ? Would it annoy you if for instance I (usually just dammie) looked at your profile - and therefore public pics almost every day ?

*I dress up the "Wanna fuck" prospecting messages much betterer than that."

Its funny you should say.. and yes, there is one obsessed twonk who even after years of problems and i do mean years lol.. we noticed still looks about 6 times a day. this is someone who fits so many reasons why not to swing lol..

He's straight but meets Bi blokes alone behind his wifes back.. Tries to meet couples wives behind his wifes back.. Mails texts begs for meets.. we even had the police involved, so yeah it does piss us off lol. But we can't stop one person can we.. Sadly!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i love the "whos looked at me" and i havent hid myself,

wink wink notts lol"

Oooo Hello gorgeous... Mwah x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"LOL ahhh Notts, just think about all the people who have looked at you but are hidden.....now that can boggle your mind

Lol.. true, true.. but what I can't see I can't miss lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see, now i got tempted, looked at notts' pics, and then realised i wasn't meant to be!

soz!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"see, now i got tempted, looked at notts' pics, and then realised i wasn't meant to be!

soz!

That's ok, we look several times a day, but as we hide, Notts will never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm.. We havnt subscribed to the new bit yet, but we get paranoid perfectly well without it! Lol... We too write emails and hope for ones in return but we are beginning to believe we are mingers!!!

Lol... Oh well back to the keyboard..

j&N X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm.. We havnt subscribed to the new bit yet, but we get paranoid perfectly well without it! Lol... We too write emails and hope for ones in return but we are beginning to believe we are mingers!!!

Lol... Oh well back to the keyboard..

j&N X"

Well, I'm a minger, nobody finds me attractive, but I'm lucky as my partner is sexy. :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm.. We havnt subscribed to the new bit yet, but we get paranoid perfectly well without it! Lol... We too write emails and hope for ones in return but we are beginning to believe we are mingers!!!

Lol... Oh well back to the keyboard..

j&N X

too true wayne, change the pic would ya

Well, I'm a minger, nobody finds me attractive, but I'm lucky as my partner is sexy. :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm.. We havnt subscribed to the new bit yet, but we get paranoid perfectly well without it! Lol... We too write emails and hope for ones in return but we are beginning to believe we are mingers!!!

Lol... Oh well back to the keyboard..

j&N X

Well, I'm a minger, nobody finds me attractive, but I'm lucky as my partner is sexy. :D

Too true wayne, change the pic would ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm.. We havnt subscribed to the new bit yet, but we get paranoid perfectly well without it! Lol... We too write emails and hope for ones in return but we are beginning to believe we are mingers!!!

Lol... Oh well back to the keyboard..

j&N X

Well, I'm a minger, nobody finds me attractive, but I'm lucky as my partner is sexy. :D

Too true wayne, change the pic would ya"

You saw through me fishing for compliments didn't you? tut at you.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Haha we look at it as the "Who rejected us list"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm hidden too, i dont wanna accidently click on some guys profile who has a face like a bag of spanners for him to start asking why i never mailed him, lol ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'm hidden too, i dont wanna accidently click on some guys profile who has a face like a bag of spanners for him to start asking why i never mailed him, lol ..."

Which reminds me, why did you not message us when you viewed our profile?, before you hid yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol, i look at most profiles, im a nosy bitch, and i actually looked cuz i got a tad confused wen u changed yr name, was just making sure it was still u 2 lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol, i look at most profiles, im a nosy bitch, and i actually looked cuz i got a tad confused wen u changed yr name, was just making sure it was still u 2 lol xx"

Tut at you, your loss, don't bother looking again.

Wayne runs off crying, distressed with paranoia, screaming I'm gonna hide our profile, people look but don't want to touch, I'm not a ferkin shop window, argh, boo hoo.

ah it's ok now, Colleen says she loves me, so there, har de har to you. :D

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By *eedsmustMan
over a year ago

Wigan-Gtr/Manchester

"i love the "whos looked at me" and i havent hid myself,

wink wink notts lol"

Just being devils advovate now ok!

So try to be honest?

What if u went into hide mode so peeps cant see that u peeped on them? That u shouldn't be able to see whos peeped on u?

Seeing that all parties have paid up for "the offer of" seeing whos peeped on them yeah?

Would the hidden ones, stay hidden if they had to forfeit the right to look at whos peeped on them? Or would they come out of the closit so to speak hehee

Thats the dilema?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You lot are truly nuts lol...

Thank God for that

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Its been a quiet day today only 374 have looked

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

One of them was the oldest ive ever known to look lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We think its funny just how many times some people look....

Yeah we like to change our pics round but not 'that' often lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Its cos your pics are bloody gorgeous!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

28 people on my looked at me list are black shadows

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its cos your pics are bloody gorgeous! "

Not so bad yourself hun....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we look and look and look maybe we hoping they get the hint and notice us lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We find it strange still that people who you have already said a no thank you to still need to look 15 times a day lol...

If I was pervin that much i'd make sure no one could see pmsl..

(Already have done too pmsl)

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I agree with that....Ive just seen someone who we said no to still looking and id love to be able to block them from viewing the profile if im honest.....I know it should be taken as a compliment but it gets on my nerves in a way too

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

"I agree with that....Ive just seen someone who we said no to still looking and id love to be able to block them from viewing the profile if im honest.....I know it should be taken as a compliment but it gets on my nerves in a way too "

it could be they are just interested in what sort of people your looking for a moment and waiting for your next verification ...some people cant handle a knockback and have to try and rationalise it i reckon

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

verifications are hidden now...Ive decided that they have nothing to do with anyone else so don't want them on show

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

verifications are hidden now...Ive decided that they have nothing to do with anyone else so don't want them on show"

well thats nailed my hypothesis then .,..well done ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah i think there shud be an option to stop peeps looking at your profile, them that ya dont wont too for very good reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah i think there shud be an option to stop peeps looking at your profile, them that ya dont wont too for very good reasons. "

ffs block people....still no bludy edit button

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

"Yeah i think there shud be an option to stop peeps looking at your profile, them that ya dont wont too for very good reasons. "

well you can turn your profile off until you go looking for fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah i think there shud be an option to stop peeps looking at your profile, them that ya dont wont too for very good reasons. "

I'd pay double for that one feature xx

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

For the first time ever since we have been on sites someone has looked at our profile that I know from normal life!

Ooooooh it feels a bit weird

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You havn't done anything to be ashamed of.....

Not yet Mmmmmmmm

Mike and Ju x

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

LOL I know that but I feel like I know a secret about someone

To be honest it has tickled me more than anything xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'd tickle you... and its not even sunny.

We see a few we know from round here on site... We have our customers come in, even one who does a TV show for the BBC lol.. We know cause i'm nosy lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe that shows more pps are trying swinging? Could be useful info to know about them if they are your manager

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Iv'e never had a manager lol..

Besides.. wwe'd never mention we'd seen them on err.. sites.

Their business...

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I will be watching the progress of this person with interest though hehehe being a nosy bugger myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

omg how can you know who has looked at you? i want to be nosey now and yes notts i can't resist the odd peek lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you have to pay to upgrade to site supporter then you get to see who has looked at you lol

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"you have to pay to upgrade to site supporter then you get to see who has looked at you lol"

Can I look down your top again Sar, without paying this time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeh is that before or after i dip them in the curry again? lol

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"yeh is that before or after i dip them in the curry again? lol"

After............

I think we might get that little waiter all hot under the collar again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol he was scared shitless...he'd have a panic attack if we walked in again lol..he was a bit cute though lol

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"lol he was scared shitless...he'd have a panic attack if we walked in again lol..he was a bit cute though lol"

Welllllllllllll.....

We did stand their discussing his bum and wondering (very loudly) what size his todger might be.

Bless, he was only about 18.

Do ya think if we covered ya tits in Madras, he might lick it all of?

Orf to work now.......before I get into too much trouble!

Cya peeps and specially you Sar you sexy woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great invention! I actually got my 1st meet here using that very tool. A lady viewed my profile 7 times in 24 hrs, I liked the look of her profile etc and you know the rest.

So yes privacy settings have there place but can also rule out a fantastic night. Though personally I hate the cpls who look and on there profile in big bold letters it says no single males!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol he was scared shitless...he'd have a panic attack if we walked in again lol..he was a bit cute though lol

Welllllllllllll.....

We did stand their discussing his bum and wondering (very loudly) what size his todger might be.

Bless, he was only about 18.

Do ya think if we covered ya tits in Madras, he might lick it all of?

Orf to work now.......before I get into too much trouble!

Cya peeps and specially you Sar you sexy woman!"

right madras it is for me then lol

and as for the licking off bit..im sure you could gently persuede him!

or we could just send j and j to go get more beers and jump on the poor unsuspecting lad??

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"lol he was scared shitless...he'd have a panic attack if we walked in again lol..he was a bit cute though lol

Welllllllllllll.....

We did stand their discussing his bum and wondering (very loudly) what size his todger might be.

Bless, he was only about 18.

Do ya think if we covered ya tits in Madras, he might lick it all of?

Orf to work now.......before I get into too much trouble!

Cya peeps and specially you Sar you sexy woman!

right madras it is for me then lol

and as for the licking off bit..im sure you could gently persuede him!

or we could just send j and j to go get more beers and jump on the poor unsuspecting lad??"

Oohhh, now there's a thought!

They can hold him down, we'll abuse him and ...........

Aaawww bless, we'd probably put him in therapy for the next 20 years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he's probably already there after last time lol

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"he's probably already there after last time lol"

That had nothing at all to do with me!

I'm innocent

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