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Do people turn up?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very intrigued to know on average when you arrange a meet with someone do they actually turn up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never had a no-show.......had plenty of timewasters message us but so far have managed to spot them before we got too far

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

All my meets have turned up. Had a few guys who said they would turn up to a greedy girls event but then didn't. Par for the course.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I've had those who have cancelled on the day - sometimes at the very last minute. And some who went silent and ignored all messages after arranging a meet - so, although they didn't show, it was hardly a surprise.

But mostly, people show up, in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had 2 guys not show. One was psychologically unhinged when I finally met him after a 2nd chance and the other was a time waster/ living in fantasy world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It be nice if i had a message from people asking to meet me lol.

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

Out of all the meets we have had only one did not turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a no show yet but then i aint met anyone for about two years....

But before then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It must just be me . I take the time to talk to guys and they act very forward about meeting and talking then nothing.

It's a shame because it's a good site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Early communication and make sure both parties know where and what time/arrangements etc..etc

Not had a no show yet..but its early days.

I think everyone gets one eventually.

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

Never had a no-show. Had a couple of cancellations but usually a reasonable amount of time before the meet so not really a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a no show ... But won't leave my house till I get a text to say they are on their way .... Had some cancel at short notice though ! Never really know if their reasons are genuine !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 no show in 6years

if its a repeated occurrence I think u have problems in ur selection process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very intrigued to know on average when you arrange a meet with someone do they actually turn up? "

Yes every single one has turned up altho I did turn one down when we met!

I think u have a better chance of meets turning up if u have exchanged a fair few mails together cos it starts to build up a rapport between u. Yet u can read a myriad of profile's (invariably men's I'm sorry to say) that state 'not into ping pong e mails '

To quote the phrase :- Time spent in reconnaissance is seldom wasted '

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I totally agree with you on that one

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By *artinichilled1TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Havent had any no shows yet.But have had cancellations on the day of the meet.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Never had a no show ... But won't leave my house till I get a text to say they are on their way .... Had some cancel at short notice though ! Never really know if their reasons are genuine ! "

When I get a cancellation, regardless of their reasons, I never give a second chance and that is on my profile. I wouldn't expect a second chance - but then I don't cancel.

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Had the last minute lame excuses. That's why we prefer to meet at the club now. What you see is what you get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very intrigued to know on average when you arrange a meet with someone do they actually turn up? "
so far yes they have. unless you are counting cancellations too? then 2 cancellations that I can remember

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for the input really appreciated

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

I have had 1 no show in 5 or 6 years. A couple f cancellations but with reasonable notice.

If you are having multiple no shows, I am sorry to say, I suspect it has more to do with your vetting process.

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