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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think it will make any difference whether I put my age at 48 or 52? I wonder if people won't want to meet me if I put that I am over 50 but I look much younger than my age ( even younger than 48 I've been told).

I know I'll get honest feedback on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put down 55, then you will get people amazed at how good you look for 55, I am really 25 I just say I'm 41 for the compliments lol

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Doesn't make any difference now because if they check your profile posts they will see this.

If it is bothering you and you look 48, put 48. Some people's searches are based on whole numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would put your real age and maybe say you've been told you look younger. Even a little lie like that could feel like you may have even bigger secrets to some people.

If you put 48 people probably won't say anything, but if you say your real age then you'll get all those lovely "wow you look really good for your age/you're never that old!" comments!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

A guy put a thread up like this not long ago and it got pulled due to all the nasty comments on there about him. Wonder if the same will happen here now that a female has posted it

Personally I don't see any reason to lie. If you are 50 whatever say you are 50 whatever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would it be a good time to say "Hellen mirren" way over 50 but good god

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh. It probably doesn't matter WHAT age you put. You could put down 99 and STILL get mail asking for meets. Why? Because your a female. But, to answer your question, i'd like to be able to decide for myself if i wanted to meet a 50something lass, so would like to know her real age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why lie? Just be honest....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou everyone for your comments X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be honest, okay so you might not be able to message some people because of age filters but as previously said on here you're female, you will be messaged!

Make sure your profile has some well taken photos on it and I'm sure you'll find what you are looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd be honest, okay so you might not be able to message some people because of age filters but as previously said on here you're female, you will be messaged!

Make sure your profile has some well taken photos on it and I'm sure you'll find what you are looking for "

Thankyou

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Lie.

It's makes no odds unless it's a whopper.

Like if you say you are 25 or say you are 9 stone when you're really jabba the hutt or say you are always fun and smiley when you are a miserable git ...... but four years off your age ? Who'd know...lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think it will make any difference whether I put my age at 48 or 52? I wonder if people won't want to meet me if I put that I am over 50 but I look much younger than my age ( even younger than 48 I've been told).

I know I'll get honest feedback on here"

why would you consider lying about your age. There is too much fakery around here at the best of times

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Why lie? Just be honest.... "

^^^^ this...

If someone lies about one thing... I always wonder what else they've been lying about..

Also, if you're honest there's no chance of slipping up.... and you never have to try and remember what you said.

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By *lueDevylMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

I put my age 53. But I'm thinking of changing it to 65 which is how old I feel at times

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If you're going to do it, do it fast. Admin said they're going to lock birthdates on the profiles so you won't be able to change it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Doesn't make any difference now because if they check your profile posts they will see this.

If it is bothering you and you look 48, put 48. Some people's searches are based on whole numbers."

Do people do that ? I don't

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why lie? Just be honest....

^^^^ this...

If someone lies about one thing... I always wonder what else they've been lying about..

Also, if you're honest there's no chance of slipping up.... and you never have to try and remember what you said. "

To be honest I always tell the truth when I meet anyway but I understand about the other lies bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you're going to do it, do it fast. Admin said they're going to lock birthdates on the profiles so you won't be able to change it anyway."

Changed

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Do you think it will make any difference whether I put my age at 48 or 52? I wonder if people won't want to meet me if I put that I am over 50 but I look much younger than my age ( even younger than 48 I've been told).

I know I'll get honest feedback on here"

I joined when I was 48 - am now 50 and will be 51 this year. It has never been an issue in terms of getting meets. Personally, I prefer to be honest about my age.

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

I'm 32 and 120 months ......

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Truth or fiction you are likely to be told you look younger. It is one of the truths of Fab that women are all beautiful, look gorgeous and always look good for their age.

Tell the truth and enjoy the compliments.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I've changed my age, not shown my photos, put very little in the profile text ..... and getting fed up of all the messages, I may need to hide it soon

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Truth or fiction you are likely to be told you look younger. It is one of the truths of Fab that women are all beautiful, look gorgeous and always look good for their age."

Until they say no

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i hope admin see this and change it back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i hope admin see this and change it back "

Why? The lass put her proper age!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"i hope admin see this and change it back

Why? The lass put her proper age!"

oh....haha i thought she changed it to younger....in that case, as you were

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i hope admin see this and change it back

Why? The lass put her proper age!

oh....haha i thought she changed it to younger....in that case, as you were "

Ooh it's a conspiracy. Obviously need to be careful what we discuss here

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"i hope admin see this and change it back

Why? The lass put her proper age!

oh....haha i thought she changed it to younger....in that case, as you were

Ooh it's a conspiracy. Obviously need to be careful what we discuss here "

who said that then???

i just find it funny that massive discrepancy between the reaction to a guy posting this topic and a female

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"i hope admin see this and change it back

Why? The lass put her proper age!

oh....haha i thought she changed it to younger....in that case, as you were

Ooh it's a conspiracy. Obviously need to be careful what we discuss here

who said that then???

i just find it funny that massive discrepancy between the reaction to a guy posting this topic and a female"
There are a lot of those!

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By *icoupleforfunz27Couple
over a year ago

liverpool


"A guy put a thread up like this not long ago and it got pulled due to all the nasty comments on there about him. Wonder if the same will happen here now that a female has posted it

Personally I don't see any reason to lie. If you are 50 whatever say you are 50 whatever. "

Wow in word of meatloaf you took the words right out my mouth, was just going to say same thing x

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Why lie? I'd rather someone fucked me for who I am, not who I pretend to be.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"A guy put a thread up like this not long ago and it got pulled due to all the nasty comments on there about him. Wonder if the same will happen here now that a female has posted it

Personally I don't see any reason to lie. If you are 50 whatever say you are 50 whatever.

Wow in word of meatloaf you took the words right out my mouth, was just going to say same thing x"

Not me - I don't see the point of lying about your age. Doesn't make you any younger - whatever your gender. I've met a number of men who have lied - mainly so they could message/meet me. One, admittedly, did not look his age - but all the others very much did - and some! I bet it must be the same the other way round.

My advice? Be what you are.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"i hope admin see this and change it back

Why? The lass put her proper age!

oh....haha i thought she changed it to younger....in that case, as you were

Ooh it's a conspiracy. Obviously need to be careful what we discuss here

who said that then???

i just find it funny that massive discrepancy between the reaction to a guy posting this topic and a femaleThere are a lot of those!"

i know and i say the same thing on those that i see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave my 7 year old son some moisturising lotion as an experiment as it said it would take ten years off you... Imagine my dissapointment when it did not make him look minus 3 !

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you are female, truth is unlikely to make any difference to your success on here.

it should make a difference to you,

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

52 is the new 48 anyway and it wouldn't make any difference to me anyway. Flexible if anything, me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't make any difference now because if they check your profile posts they will see this.

If it is bothering you and you look 48, put 48. Some people's searches are based on whole numbers."

Only a small percentage of the site use the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think it will make any difference whether I put my age at 48 or 52? I wonder if people won't want to meet me if I put that I am over 50 but I look much younger than my age ( even younger than 48 I've been told).

I know I'll get honest feedback on here"

The usual reply to such a question is tell the truth.

Personally,I say do as you see fit, I doubt four year will make much difference here.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Lol I was told yesterday if i was 63 he was 108..

another said I shouldnt look like i do at my age I should look like mary berry and bake cakes .. both made me giggle.

Cant see the point in lying really.

Some one mailed me saying they were 44/profile 43 message looked 53 plus. spose it boosts some peoples morals to lie.

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