FabSwingers.com forum: Single females turning into couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it just me (bull) or do other people find it annoying when you search on fab for a single female, and when you read some profile, they say things like, "I've got a fb who would like to join" or "my husband/bf will be present either watching or joing in". Is it me or does that make her part of a couple? I don't think anyone would like it if they found a couple they liked then read their profile and it said " my partner will only be there to watch and not take part, unless that's what you looking for ofcourse. Just seems to me that they do it just to get people interested as most are looking for single females. What do you guys think about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see a profile like that then I report

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

There are quite a few like that. Just report. I'm a single fem on here. I do have a partner, but he's not part of my fab life and I play with his blessing but would never expect him to join in

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it that bad for a report tho? I mean sure it pee's me off but don't know if its enough to report someone over, I suppose if we meet up with someone who was "single" and they brought their fb or partner with them then yeh it would be a instant report and good bye.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Is it against site rules?

If so an awful lot of profiles are going to get banned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it against site rules?

If so an awful lot of profiles are going to get banned"
yes your right if against the rules loads have a man in the wings , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes this annoys the hell out of me too. i have this account to meet one on one and a couples account to (surprisingly enough) meet couples with my husband. The amount of mail i get from single fem accounts that suddenly have a partner is unbelievable

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By *obbygggMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

So is it or isn't it against site rules?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes this annoys the hell out of me too. i have this account to meet one on one and a couples account to (surprisingly enough) meet couples with my husband. The amount of mail i get from single fem accounts that suddenly have a partner is unbelievable

We're the same. I have a single profile for the same reason and this one to meet couples.

That said, there are an awful lot of couples who contact single females having not read what they're looking for. My single profile clearly says that I'm not looking for men, and yet I get a lot of 'we're looking for a bi girl to join us' mail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're the same. I have a single profile for the same reason and this one to meet couples.

Yep i get alot of them too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm glad its not just me then, it just seems like they are lying to get a female involved with them, or could just be the way I see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is a false profile if the single person 'only meets with a partner' as it is then a couple.

report and the profile SHOULD be deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have thought that if the profile clearly states 'only meets with husband / boyfriend / FB' then its a case for reporting the profile.

Ifm in discussions, it is referenced that they only meet with the above present, that would be grounds for reporting.

If it's all negotiable and the single female meets without the above being present, then probably not.

It is then down to Admin to take any further action.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

One did state that they only meet if the partner was there, wether to joining in or watching, now to me that's isn't a single account,

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

i have a playmate on here, it is mentioned on hers and my profile that we are playmates. We play together and we play seperately, mainly with single guys when together. Where is the problem?

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By *obbygggMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"i have a playmate on here, it is mentioned on hers and my profile that we are playmates. We play together and we play seperately, mainly with single guys when together. Where is the problem? "
Problem is that your profile re playing together is ambiguous.Maybe "plays as a single or part of a couple" would remedy that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have a playmate on here, it is mentioned on hers and my profile that we are playmates. We play together and we play seperately, mainly with single guys when together. Where is the problem? "

there is no problem because you are singles that 'sometimes' play together.

however, if your profiles say you will only meet with the other in tow, its a couples profile.

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

i've had messages from a guy who gets round my no males ban by having profile name as a couple ,but then if you read it its only got his info on , so thats wrong too .

someone has said we should be honest on here, i dont tell lies. cos i not like liars x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have this profile for posting as it was easier than "sharing" the couple account.

3 accounts - three site memberships.

Good for the site!

I see no problem with having my own profile, if people can't read my profile and see I do not meet alone then that is their lookout.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I have this profile for posting as it was easier than "sharing" the couple account.

3 accounts - three site memberships.

Good for the site!

I see no problem with having my own profile, if people can't read my profile and see I do not meet alone then that is their lookout. "

Didn't say that when I was bashing your back doors the other day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i've had messages from a guy who gets round my no males ban by having profile name as a couple ,but then if you read it its only got his info on , so thats wrong too .

someone has said we should be honest on here, i dont tell lies. cos i not like liars x"

Did you report the profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have this profile for posting as it was easier than "sharing" the couple account.

3 accounts - three site memberships.

Good for the site!

I see no problem with having my own profile, if people can't read my profile and see I do not meet alone then that is their lookout.

Didn't say that when I was bashing your back doors the other day

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy BearMan
over a year ago

Wigan

Wouldn't it be simpler to put "Married / involved playing alone" if you're part of a couple? Can't that just be added to the status part?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have this profile for posting as it was easier than "sharing" the couple account.

3 accounts - three site memberships.

Good for the site!

I see no problem with having my own profile, if people can't read my profile and see I do not meet alone then that is their lookout. "

So we're not allowed to have our own profile to chat to our own individual friends??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have this profile for posting as it was easier than "sharing" the couple account.

3 accounts - three site memberships.

Good for the site!

I see no problem with having my own profile, if people can't read my profile and see I do not meet alone then that is their lookout.

So we're not allowed to have our own profile to chat to our own individual friends??

do you meet on your own or ONLY with your partner?

having just read yours, its not a meeting profile anyway, by all accounts, so why would it be a problem?

i dont understand why you would be concerned. its not the subject of this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit thoughtful about what to do with my profile at the moment .. I used to as my verifications show meet by myself... I do still meet socially alone..

However after a recent play alone I have found currently it doesn't suit me and I want to only want to play with my partner on here... But I like to be active on the forums and chat and speak to people so don't really want to give up my account...

So I think I will write it to clearly say not meeting on my own currently, just here for the chat and organising events etc..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a bit thoughtful about what to do with my profile at the moment .. I used to as my verifications show meet by myself... I do still meet socially alone..

So I think I will write it to clearly say not meeting on my own currently, just here for the chat and organising events etc..

That's what I've done.

I'm keeping my profile for chatting to buddies and forum posting. I don't show up on searches so people don't waste time looking at me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The profiles that are used for chatting to others isn't the problem as most say so, the ones that I think are the problems are the ones that say single bi fems, all the way, only got pics of the female, only give discription of the female and the such then add at the end will only meet with my partner being there, or have a fb who like to join in, no to me that's not being "single" to meet, if your part of a couple and can play alone then that's fine, but its seems a bit odd saying your single and then oh by the way this guys coming along as well if you want to meet up? Just seems to be false info

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The profiles that are used for chatting to others isn't the problem as most say so, the ones that I think are the problems are the ones that say single bi fems, all the way, only got pics of the female, only give discription of the female and the such then add at the end will only meet with my partner being there, or have a fb who like to join in, no to me that's not being "single" to meet, if your part of a couple and can play alone then that's fine, but its seems a bit odd saying your single and then oh by the way this guys coming along as well if you want to meet up? Just seems to be false info "

I always report them.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

If they are reported have you noticed anything happen to them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they are reported have you noticed anything happen to them?"

Yep! They are often (assuming there's mention of only playing with a partner in the text) converted to a couples profile.

Report - and let admin decide. And if it puts you off enough to not want to meet - just block and move on - there's plenty of genuine singles out there!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I'm a bit thoughtful about what to do with my profile at the moment .. I used to as my verifications show meet by myself... I do still meet socially alone..

So I think I will write it to clearly say not meeting on my own currently, just here for the chat and organising events etc..

That's what I've done.

I'm keeping my profile for chatting to buddies and forum posting. I don't show up on searches so people don't waste time looking at me. "

I do between 7 and 8 every day apart from Sundays.

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