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why do you always put sad songs on when sad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm having one of those days I can't wait to see the back of....

And I put my mp3 player on to love songs... Why..?

Do you... Or do you try to listen to cheer up songs..I have Phil Collins on currently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put on Ssudio and think of Patrick Bateman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try mad world by tears for fears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't as I know will make things bad ...... I don't listen at all to music if sad now ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use to think that when me and my wife split up . Every song seemed to be my life . I think its because when your happy and listening to songs you dont really take the words in .when you are sad you listen to every word of a sad song xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its one of those things we do unintentionally ithink

th most happiest of songs can make me cry when im feeling sad

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

I can get my feelings out better through music! Sad or happy, whatever works for u xx

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By *ibbyhunterCouple
over a year ago

keighley


"I'm having one of those days I can't wait to see the back of....

And I put my mp3 player on to love songs... Why..?

Do you... Or do you try to listen to cheer up songs..I have Phil Collins on currently."

listening to phil collins is enough to make anyone feel sad.

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

I never put sad songs on if I'm feeling down, I always put on cheer me up music and really loud too!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not necessarily when I'm sad but definetly when I'm in a deep thoughtful mood. Sometimes certain song words can express how we are feeling better than us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might put one or two on, then I kick myself in the arse and put on some decent music or a good film

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was happy now I've. Read these I'm sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only if im a bit sad, not if im very sad.

like phil collins his songs remind me of when my son was a baby, he made some good ones, think he was underated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm having one of those days I can't wait to see the back of....

And I put my mp3 player on to love songs... Why..?

Do you... Or do you try to listen to cheer up songs..I have Phil Collins on currently.

listening to phil collins is enough to make anyone feel sad."

It would make me suicidal!

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

I hear you sister...its a "The Smiths" and "The Cure" kinda day for me today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear you sister...its a "The Smiths" and "The Cure" kinda day for me today "

Contrary to what non-smiths fan might think, their music always makes me feel happy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear you sister...its a "The Smiths" and "The Cure" kinda day for me today "
I had a sad time here once, used to play adele because it meant something, would end up in floods of tears, but it was a release for me, then I could carry on

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford


"I hear you sister...its a "The Smiths" and "The Cure" kinda day for me today

Contrary to what non-smiths fan might think, their music always makes me feel happy!"

it is soothing in a melancholy sort of way but doesn't make me happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you should listen to sad songs if that gives you the release you need, if you bottle things up, it will only makes things worse.

So it is good for the soul because you will then bounce back up.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I hear you sister...its a "The Smiths" and "The Cure" kinda day for me today "

Try some Leonard Cohen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear you sister...its a "The Smiths" and "The Cure" kinda day for me today

Try some Leonard Cohen "

Lol i used to think of Leonhard Cohen as music to commit suicide to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have what I call a safe song.... Daft I know. When I'm nervous about anything, or worried, or uptight I play a certain song and it relaxes me.

Songs/music hold so many memories for everyone. I do sometimes think that dependant on our mood, can dictate his we interpret the song xx

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I'm having one of those days I can't wait to see the back of....

And I put my mp3 player on to love songs... Why..?

Do you... Or do you try to listen to cheer up songs..I have Phil Collins on currently."

Always put on songs that have good memories as I think sad songs would bring me down which cant be a good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm having one of those days I can't wait to see the back of....

And I put my mp3 player on to love songs... Why..?

Do you... Or do you try to listen to cheer up songs..I have Phil Collins on currently.

listening to phil collins is enough to make anyone feel sad."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes think song lyrics can express what I feel better than I can say. And if im feeling sad, a sad song can make me cry, but I always feel better after a cry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me, without it being cheesy,music needs to say something about the human condition. And all my music's pure class, of course. For instance i find stuff like: 'i raised a family in times of austerity with sweet from the foundry' much more uplifting than: 'we're all going on a summer holiday. No more working for a week or 2'. You could say i like to keep it real.

I subsequently listen to meloncholy music. And playing such songs when I'm having a tinny and cooking the kids dinner makes the world alright with me. Ftr Mr Cohen also puts me on a high.

And when I'm truly peed off it's the sound of silence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm having one of those days I can't wait to see the back of....

And I put my mp3 player on to love songs... Why..?

Do you... Or do you try to listen to cheer up songs..I have Phil Collins on currently."

I don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm having one of those days I can't wait to see the back of....

And I put my mp3 player on to love songs... Why..?

Do you... Or do you try to listen to cheer up songs..I have Phil Collins on currently.

I don't!"
Me neither! I don't do wallowing in self pity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of Billy Oceans other songs are quite uplifting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I talk to people about it when I'm not happy, or just talk in general to feel better. Otherwise Jazz/Funk Fusion is generally a good uplifting and soothing genre.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm having one of those days I can't wait to see the back of....

And I put my mp3 player on to love songs... Why..?

Do you... Or do you try to listen to cheer up songs..I have Phil Collins on currently."

I do this, it gives a feeling that someone else understands what you going through, sympathy.....

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By *ibanditMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I put on a comedy DVD. Laughter is the best medicine.

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By *atcherofmyballsMan
over a year ago

hereford

Coz sad songs say so much?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If I'm really sad I put peter Kay on, I'm not sad for long then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm having one of those days I can't wait to see the back of....

And I put my mp3 player on to love songs... Why..?

Do you... Or do you try to listen to cheer up songs..I have Phil Collins on currently."

Ah well chuckles -' ya can't hurry love' innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm having one of those days I can't wait to see the back of....

And I put my mp3 player on to love songs... Why..?

Do you... Or do you try to listen to cheer up songs..I have Phil Collins on currently."

Ah well chuckles -' ya can't hurry love' innit

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Coz sad songs say so much?"

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